Tennessee
Tennessee high school sweethearts spent last moments holding hands after 69 years of marriage
Virginia and Tommy Stevens spent one day shy of 69 years together. The Tennessee couple’s last days before that were spent in the hospital, holding hands.
Tommy Stevens died on Sept. 8 at the age of 91 — just before what would have been the couple’s 69th anniversary, per his obituary. Nine days later Virginia, also 91, died. Even though the last time they were together was at Vanderbilt University Medical Center, their days were still filled with smiles and family.
The couple’s daughter Karen Kreager told Vanderbilt University Medical Center’s VUMC Voice that her parents “both lit up” when they saw each other after both Tommy and Virginia ended up in the hospital. The hospital staff played a role in making sure the two were able to spend as much time together before Tommy’s death.
“He was awake when she came in,” Kreager to VUMC Voice. “His eyes were open. He wasn’t communicating a lot — just in small whispers. But he knew that she was there and that she was going to be right beside him. They haven’t stopped holding hands the whole time. She won’t let go of him.”
A love story born and nurtured in Tennessee
Obituaries condense a person’s life story to the highlights, and Virginia and Tommy’s love story had quite a few spread across Tennessee.
Doyle Thomas “Tommy“ Stevens Jr. was born on Christmas Day in 1931 in Kingsport. Just a few short months later in March and 71 miles south of Kingsport, Virginia McKarem was born in Jefferson City. It wouldn’t be long before the two would meet.
While the two were born miles apart, their paths would cross when Virginia’s family moved to Kingsport.
The two went to Dobyns-Bennett High School where they met and became childhood sweethearts, according to both of the obituaries. From then on, Tommy and Virginia were together. After high school, they both attended the University of Tennessee in Knoxville before getting married in 1954
Like many at that time, Tommy joined the U.S. Army where he and Virginia would live in multiple different locations across the eastern United States. But Tennessee was always home.
After serving in the Army, the couple settled in Memphis where they had and raised a son and daughter, Greg and Karen, according to Tommy’s obituary.
During their time in Memphis, they founded and built Distribution and Transportation Services, Inc. (DTS) into a large independent transportation and logistics family of companies throughout the southeastern U.S.
Retirement in Franklin, surrounded by family
The children grew up, started their own lives and soon enough grandkids were on the way. Tommy and Virginia decided that one more move was in order.
After 50 years of business with DTS the couple decided to retire and moved to Franklin, just outside of Nashville, to be active in their grandkids’ lives, Virginia’s obituary read. Their later years were spent going to school activities and sporting events with the grandchildren, beach vacations with the family and just being with one another until Tommy’s health began declining.
He was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and soon was moved to Brighton Gardens in Brentwood. Virginia was by his side as always.
Together until the very end
Tommy began having issues with breathing while at the memory care unit at the Brentwood assisted living facility and was brought to Vanderbilt where he was soon moved to the Medical Center’s Palliative Care Unit when treatment for his condition stopped being effective.
Unfortunately, Virginia also made an appearance in the hospital after falling the morning Tommy was taken in.
“Really, we think that you just needed to check on Dad, and that was your ride,” teased Kreager during the VUMC interview.
Virginia had six broken ribs, a spinal fracture and a hip injury which earned her admission to VUMC’s Trauma ICU. According to VUMC, the family was caught playing an awful game of tag as they tried to visit both Tommy and Virginia in the different units. The staff soon stepped in to help reunite the couple so the whole family could be together.
“It reminds me of why we do this work,” said Mohana Karlekar, MD, medical director of VUMC’s adult Palliative Care Program. “We take care of people — husbands, wives, mothers, fathers — not patients. We brought this family together during one of their most difficult times with little effort on our part. It involved a call, seeing an extra patient that day and some conversations.
“From the time we brought Mrs. Stevens over, she held her husband’s hand and fussed in a very loving way with him,” Karlekar said. “She was able to tell me Monday that she was at peace with what was going on, and she wanted to be there until the end.”
The couple’s last days together were just that. Together.
Tennessee
Injury Report: Tennessee's Cade Phillips 'getting his chippiness back' despite shoulder injury
Tennessee Basketball’s injury report on Tuesday night once again listed only sophomore forward JP Estrella, who had season-ending foot surgery in November, as out for Wednesday’s game against Georgia.
But the left shoulder injury for sophomore forward Cade Phillips isn’t going away. Phillips continues to wear a brace on the shoulder in practice and games, playing through pain while hesitating to the left arm he injured in the second half against Arkansas on January 4.
“Cade is tough as nails, that’s a good thing,” Tennessee assistant coach Lucas Campbell said before practice on Tuesday. “In the games he’s told me adrenaline takes over and he starts to just go.”
No. 6 Tennessee (15-1, 2-1 SEC) and No. 23 Georgia (14-2, 2-1) on Wednesday are scheduled for an 8 p.m. Eastern Time start (TV: SEC Network) at Food City Center. The Bulldogs listed all players as available on Tuesday’s injury report.
Phillips scored four points in 10 minutes off the bench in the 74-70 win at Texas on Saturday night, going 2-for-3 from the field with four rebounds. He played just three minutes in the loss at Florida last Tuesday.
“He missed a bunny there (at Texas),” Campbell said. “I don’t know if that had to do with his shoulder or not, but he did a great job. He had a nice put-back dunk.
“He’s getting his chippiness back. We need that. He’s probably the most physical big we have as far as hitting people.”
Cade Phillips suffered dislocated shoulder injury vs. Arkansas
Head coach Rick Barnes said Phillips “battled” through the injury at Texas.
“Really proud of Cade Phillips tonight,” Barnes said after the win at Texas. “Really proud. He went in the game and he battled. And his shoulder is not what it needs to be.”
The ESPN2 broadcast of the Tennessee-Florida game described the injury as a dislocated shoulder. He has worn a brace on his left shoulder since suffering the injury.
Barnes said after the Arkansas game that Phillips could have played more in the second half after getting hurt, but the score didn’t make it necessary.
Cade Phillips averaging 15.9 minutes per game off the bench
Phillips is averaging 5.9 points and 4.1 rebounds in 15.9 minutes per game this season.
He was injured while chasing a loose ball in the second half against Arkansas, going to the Tennessee locker room briefly before returning to the floor. He finished the Arkansas game 11 minutes played.
The three minutes he played at Florida was a season low.
“He wasn’t the same in terms of like the one lob he went up for,” Barnes said last week, “he didn’t even raise his left arm. He went up and tried to get it one-handed, which that’s one reason he didn’t play more.”
“Cade’s tough,” Barnes added. “He’s never going to complain. He’s just … I could tell he wasn’t normally what he is.”
Tennessee
Tennessee General Assembly convenes for session expected to focus on voucher issue
Tennessee legislature: 3 key issues to watch
The 114th Tennessee General Assembly convenes on Jan. 14 for a new two-year term.
The 114th General Assembly gaveled in at the Tennessee state Capitol Tuesday for a legislative session expected to largely focus on education issues as Gov. Bill Lee seeks to push through a private school voucher proposal.
With few election shake-ups last fall, lawmakers returned to a legislature with little change in the status quo. Republicans still hold a strong supermajority, and prexisting leadership will preside over both chambers.
Senate Republicans on Tuesday reelected Lt. Gov. Randy McNally, R-Oak Ridge, as Speaker of the Senate. Senate Democrats all abstained from the vote.
“Each General Assembly I’ve gaveled in seems to be better than the last,” McNally said.
In the House, Speaker Cameron Sexton, R-Crossville, also easily won reelection to lead the chamber. Democrats nominated House Minority Leader Karen Camper, D-Memphis, and unanimously voted for her.
“The people of District 52 will not vote for an authoritarian!” Rep. Justin Jones, D-Nashville, yelled from his seat before casting his vote for Camper.
As Republican members called their votes for Sexton, a spectator yelled out “boo!” and “gross!” from the west gallery – prompting a chuckle from the sitting speaker, who stood to one side as the election was held.
“I greatly appreciate all that voted for me today, and for those of you who didn’t, I do know some of you wanted to, and I understand that,” Sexton said. “Over the last five years, we’ve all learned a lot. My goal is to be more efficient, empower Tennesseans over the government and uphold our constitutional duty of public oversight.”
Notably, some desks were rearranged on the House floor since last year. Jones and Rep. Justin Pearson, D-Memphis, who had previously been seated near each other and have frequently clashed with their Republican colleagues, were both moved. Pearson is now seated next to Rep. Vincent Dixie, D-Nashville, in a sea of Republican desks across the chamber from the Democratic caucus. Jones has been moved to the front, near the speaker’s dais.
The House Select Committee on Rules convened later Tuesday afternoon to discuss proposed changes to the rules. Ahead of the meeting, proposed rules changes included a limit on the number of bills each member can propose, and a “three-strikes” rule proposing to permanently ban members of the public found to be disruptive from the gallery.
The initial weeks of a legislative session are often slow-moving as committees get settled and bills began to make their way through the legislative process. The Senate is expected to name committee assignments on Thursday. Many eyes will be on the appointment of the Senate Education Committee chair after former Sen. Jon Lundberg’s ouster last year in the GOP primary. The committee will prove pivotal in the voucher issue.
Advocates on both side of the issue mingled in the Capitol halls on Tuesday.
There are rumblings that Lee intends to call a special session in late January on his voucher bill.
The effort failed last year amid legislative gridlock. A special session call would allow lawmakers to narrow their focus on the issue, which could be tied to disaster relief funding for areas of East Tennessee.
Tennessee
Archibald: Let’s rename the world, but start with Tennessee
This is an opinion column.
Who knew it was an option to simply change the names of things that don’t belong to us?
The possibilities are endless. You don’t have to actually change anything. You just have to call it something else.
For personal reasons, I’d like to rename Tennessee “Dorkland.” No offense to actual dorks. For personal reasons, Tennesseans have called me worse.
I’ve never understood why Alabama, which presumably dares defend its rights of way, allows the Dorkland River to flow freely in and out of its borders. Maybe we should just call it the River Sticks. Because you cross it to get to hillbilly hell.
It’s freeing to rename things that annoy you. There’s a president, I mean precedent, for it. And bodies of water are a good start.
Lake Superior is in the state of Canada, for Pete’s sake. It should rightly be called Lake Inferior. And the Pacific Ocean sounds like some hippy dippy draft dodger with “bad feet.” Let’s call it the Ocean of American Might. That’ll make waves.
Most rivers in Alabama are named for Native American culture, and I like that, except in the case of the one mentioned above. Lakes, on the other hand, are generally named for Alabama Power execs or their mothers, lawyers, engineers or friends. I’d change them in a Reddy Kilowatt, to Atlantic, Ventnor and Marvin Gardens. Park Place and Boardwalk. You know. Monopoly properties.
I guess New Mexico has to change. But I’m sure smart people are already thinking that.
I’m curious, too, why we never bothered to name the moon. It’s there every night and it’s just … moon. It’s like calling your dog “Dog” or your kid “Kid.” We planted a flag in that thing, so give it a fitting name: Yankee Doodle Flashlight. Or is it a gaslight?
But before you can change the heavens you have to change the wrongs closer to home.
There’s an Alabama town called Cuba 11 miles west of Intercourse. Of course we can’t have that. Cuba, I mean. We’ll call it Foreplay instead.
An hour northeast of Needmore, a little less than an hour northwest of Smuteye, is the community of Little Texas. There are only about 1,200 people there, but they need to own it. Forget the Little, and just call them Texas. The state of Texas? We’ll call it West Smuteye.
Marshall County has an Egypt and an Arab (rhymes with Ahab). It’s probably why the county has the third-highest immigrant population rate in the state. Alabama has a Berlin, a Havana and a Rome — where all roads do not lead.
There’s the Abel community in Cleburne County, just across the Talladega National Forest from Waldo, if you know where to find Waldo. As the Bible tells us Abel was a loser, so that has to change. Just call it Cain.
For that matter, why don’t we change the names of names.
Alabama offensive coordinator Nick Sheridan has not earned the right to be Tuscaloosa’s Nick S. (or a paycheck 22 times the median household income in the state, but that’s another story). Let’s just call him Temp.
That singer from Alabama, India Ramey, is tearing up Nashville these days. She’s great. But I’m afraid we’re going to have to call her Indiana. For America’s sake.
Cuba Gooding Jr. must be Cuba Not-so-Gooding. And while I hate it for Tennessee Williams, he will now have to be Dorkland Williams. It’s not even fair.
But hey, I’m just calling ‘em what I see ‘em.
In a world where greed is godly, thought control is liberty and theocracy is religious freedom, a rose is whatever you want to call it.
John Archibald is a two-time Pulitzer winner who, in actuality, has nothing at all against the great state of Tennessee. Or Dorkland.
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