JACKSON, Miss. (WLBT) – For 172 days, Bettersten Wade left no stone unturned in searching for her 37-year-old son, Dexter.
She asked neighbors, searched abandoned houses, called detectives, and posted messages on social media begging him to come home.
Dexter would never see those messages.
He was killed on the night of March 5, after being struck by an off-duty police officer driving along I-55 South.
Advertisement
Wade questions why it took so long for the Jackson Police Department to tell her about her son’s death.
She found out in late August, months after she filed her initial missing person’s report.
She also questions what happened to the officer involved.
“An officer comes to tell me he killed somebody on the freeway, and I’m just going to sign off on it?” she asked. “I don’t have [any] information on what happened, what you did or nothing.”
“Every job I worked at, if I [had] an incident on a job, I had to explain why.”
Advertisement
Wade says she filed her missing person’s report on March 14, days after the Hinds County Coroner’s Office was able to officially identify Dexter’s remains.
“When police stop you, the first thing they do is go run your name,” she said. “They tell you your address, everywhere you lived, everything.”
“Why didn’t they run his name [or] take his handprints to know who he [was]?”
Wade previously filed a wrongful death suit against JPD in connection with the death of another family member, her brother George Robinson. That suit is still pending in Hinds County Circuit Court. In July, Judge Debra Gibbs recused herself.
Meanwhile, criminal charges against two of the officers involved in Robinson’s death were dismissed. Another officer, Anthony Fox, was sentenced to five years in prison in August 2022 after being found guilty of culpable negligence manslaughter.
Advertisement
Several agencies, including the Mississippi Attorney General’s Office, the FBI, the U.S. Attorney’s Office, the Mississippi Bureau of Investigation, the Clinton Police Department, and JPD, say Fox’s conviction should be reversed.
As for Dexter, he had no identification at the time he was hit but did have a prescription drug bottle with his name on it.
According to an NBC News investigation, an investigator with the coroner was able to officially confirm Dexter’s identity and determine his next of kin by March 8.
For her part, Wade says coroner’s office officials told her they knew who Dexter was on the night his body was brought in.
“All the time, I was calling and wondering where he was. He was down in the morgue, had a name on him,” she said. “I know they just couldn’t miss that.”
Prescription bottle aside, she believes that because Dexter was a convicted felon, his fingerprints should have been on file.
Advertisement
Dexter did multiple stints behind bars, getting out of prison the last time back in 2017. After that, Wade said she noticed a change in her son, who was eventually diagnosed with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder.
“When he got on his medication, he stopped, like, going places and doing things,” she said. “He was basically at home all the time… selling little knickknacks… selling little freeze cups and little potato chips…”
“And then he would give kids stuff. He would give homeless people stuff. I would be on him, saying, ‘You[’re] giving all my food away,” she continued. “He was really a kind-hearted person.”
Jackson Police Chief Joseph Wade declined to comment for this story, referring all questions to Jackson Director of Communications Melissa Faith Payne.
In a statement, Payne said officers working missing person cases were unaware the March 5 victim was Dexter and that the lead detective continued to investigate Wade’s case until he retired.
Advertisement
Payne said a second officer took up the case after that officer retired, and the investigation eventually led back to the coroner’s office.
“Through collaborative efforts, they were able to close the missing person’s case, by identifying Dexter Wade as the pedestrian who was killed,” she said. “While this is a very tragic and unfortunate accident, our investigation found no malicious intent by any Jackson police staff.”
Coroner Sharon Grisham-Stewart was unavailable for comment.
Wade now hopes to give her son a proper burial. She recently visited the county’s paupers’ burial ground, where NBC News says she was able to see her son’s grave for the first time.
She recently paid $250 to claim her son’s body, which is currently resting under grave marker No. 672.
Advertisement
“To put your child and to bury him like that, and they knew that one of their officers had hit him,” she said. “I could have understood if somebody shot him on the street… It’s just so much.”
Even if she is able to relocate her son, Wade says she’ll never have the closure she and her son deserve.
“No matter what they tell me, do you think I’m going to believe them? Right now, if they come up today and give me an explanation, do you think I’m going to believe them?” she asked. “The way they treated me, do they deserve for me to believe them?”
“All of this could have been avoided. None of this had to happen.”
WLBT Chief Investigative Reporter C.J. LeMaster contributed to this report.
Want more WLBT news in your inbox? Click here to subscribe to our newsletter.
Advertisement
See a spelling or grammar error in our story? Please click here to report it and include the headline of the story in your email.
The No. 21 Ole Miss Rebels (15-2, 4-0 SEC) aim to continue a four-game winning stretch when visiting the No. 18 Mississippi State Bulldogs (14-3, 2-2 SEC) at 6:00 PM ET on Saturday, January 18, 2025 at Humphrey Coliseum. The game airs on ESPN2.
Mississippi State fell on the road to Auburn 88-66 last time out, and was led by Josh Hubbard (17 PTS, 16.67 FG%, 2-10 from 3PT) and RJ Melendez (15 PTS, 10 REB, 41.67 FG%).
In its previous game, Ole Miss defeated Alabama 74-64 on the road, with Malik Dia (23 PTS, 19 REB, 2 BLK, 52.38 FG%) and Jaemyn Brakefield (13 PTS, 42.86 FG%) leading the way.
Here’s everything you need to get ready for Saturday’s college hoops action.
Advertisement
Check out: USA TODAY Sports Coaches Poll
Watch college basketball on Fubo!
Mississippi State Bulldogs vs. Ole Miss Rebels
Game day: Saturday, January 18, 2025
Game time: 6:00 PM ET
TV: ESPN2
Live stream: Fubo (Regional restrictions may apply)
NCAA Basketball Odds and Betting Lines
Spread: Mississippi State -6
Total: 146.5
College basketball odds courtesy of BetMGM Sportsbook. Odds updated Saturday at 1:59 AM ET. For a full list of sports betting odds, access USA TODAY Sports Betting Scores Odds Hub.
Watch college basketball on Fubo!
Follow the latest college sports coverage at College Sports Wire.
Gannett may earn revenue from sports betting operators for audience referrals to betting services. Sports betting operators have no influence over nor are any such revenues in any way dependent on or linked to the newsrooms or news coverage. Terms apply, see operator site for Terms and Conditions. If you or someone you know has a gambling problem, help is available. Call the National Council on Problem Gambling 24/7 at 1-800-GAMBLER (NJ, OH), 1-800-522-4700 (CO), 1-800-BETS-OFF (IA), 1-800-9-WITH-IT (IN). Must be 21 or older to gamble. Sports betting and gambling are not legal in all locations. Be sure to comply with laws applicable where you reside.
Advertisement
We occasionally recommend interesting products and services. If you make a purchase by clicking one of the links, we may earn an affiliate fee. FTW operates independently, though, and this doesn’t influence our coverage.
Stars & Stripes: Basic etiquette for the American flag
There are tons of rules and regulations for properly displaying The Flag of the United States of America. Here are just a few.
USA TODAY
Advertisement
Flags have been a hot-topic issue around the country and in Mississippi over the last the week, but the real question is this: have you noticed the flags waving — or attempting to — at Jackson City Hall?
The American and Jackson flags at the top of City Hall’s flagpole have surely seen better days. The tattered American flag is partially ripped, looking as if it was raised after a long battle.
Below the American flag, the City of Jackson’s flag, or what’s left of it, is shredded so much you wouldn’t be able to tell what kind of flag it is. The city’s flag — which is supposed to show a gold star, a blue center, a white cross and a green field — looks as if someone stuffed it through a paper shredder.
Then take a walk just down Pascagoula Street to Thalia Mara Hall. While the American flag appears to be in good condition, the state of Mississippi flag is ripped in half, showing only the red end. The state flag’s white magnolia on a navy background is nowhere to be found. The Jackson flag located at Thalia Mara is slightly frayed.
Advertisement
On Friday, after the Clarion Ledger asked if the city was aware of the conditions of the flags, Jackson Spokesperson Melissa Payne said replacements should take place this year. She attributed the flags’ current beat-up conditions to the weather and couldn’t recall the last time they were replaced.
Changes of the Mississippi flag: Timeline: What were the key moments that led up to Mississippi flag change vote?
“We are in the process of replacing those flags,” Payne said, adding that Jackson Mayor Chokwe Antar Lumumba personally brought up the issue “at the end of last year.”
Advertisement
According to Annin Flagmakers, which bills itself as “the largest and oldest flag manufacturer in the United States,” a nylon American flag can cost between $23 to $10,270, depending on the size. The smallest American flag available is 3-feet in length and 5-feet in width; the biggest American flag available are 50-feet in length and 80-feet in width. A polyester American flag is a bit more expensive, costing between $42 and $13,160.
The old Mississippi flag, which showed a confederate emblem in the left-hand corner, was replaced in 2020, after years of public debate. Gov. Tate Reeves, who refused to take a position on the flag for years, signed a law that mandates the removal of the old state flag and bans future use of the Confederate emblem.
Flags are flying at half-staff this month in honor of former President Jimmy Carter, who at 100 was the nation’s oldest president. The state flag had been flying at half-staff in recent days to honor the two from Mississippi who died in the New Orleans terror attack. Reeves ordered the flags to fly at full height on Monday to honor the second inauguration of President Donald Trump.
5 winterization tips to prevent frozen pipes in your home
Frozen pipes can burst and lead to costly repairs. Follow these tips to prevent your pipes from freezing this winter.
Many areas in Mississippi could get snow early next week, paired with days of subfreezing temperatures and some overnight lows in the teens, according to National Weather Service forecasts. Here’s what we know.
A system will bring rain and snow to many parts of the U.S. through the weekend, and it will push a blast of Artic air into the South that’s expected to stay for a few days into the middle of next week.
Advertisement
The NWS is calling for a major Arctic air outbreak that will affect the Great Plains to east of the Appalachian mountains and as far south as the Gulf of Mexico. Areas to the north can expect subzero temps. AccuWeather meteorologists said the air from Siberia will cause some of the coldest lows seen so far this winter.
Current predictions also call for rain Saturday. According to NWS forecasts, several parts of the state have a chance of snow on Monday and/or Tuesday. Some areas can expect the extended cold snap to bring overnight lows in the teens and daytime highs below freezing.
Are you ready for brutal cold in Mississippi? Prep your family, pets, house and vehicle ahead of time to stay warm and safe. AccuWeather warns that strong breezes, paired with the deep chill can cause drafts to get into crawl spaces and elevate the chance of pipes bursting.
When could it snow in Mississippi?
The National Weather Service is showing a chance of snow around the state in the next seven days, as of around 8 a.m. Friday.
Advertisement
Jackson: A 20% chance Monday night, followed by a 40% chance of snow on Tuesday and a 20% chance of snow Tuesday night.
Hattiesburg: A 20% chance of snow showers after midnight on Monday, a 50% chance of snow on Tuesday and a 20% chance of snow Tuesday night before midnight.
Greenwood: A 20% chance of snow showers Tuesday.
Columbus/West Point/Starkville: A 30% chance of snow after noon on Tuesday.
Gulfport: A chance of 20% chance of snow after midnight on Monday night, likely snow showers after noon on Tuesday and a chance of snow and freezing rain Tuesday night before midnight.
Oxford: No snow in current forecast.
What’s the weather forecast in Mississippi?
Most of Mississippi can expect temperatures below normal, leading to subfreezing but not subzero weather overnight in the coming week. Temps will stay lower than average through Jan. 30. Currently, precipitation chances are above average from Jan. 22-30.
In Southaven, AccuWeather forecasts call for a 40% chance of rain Saturday, when the high is expected to be 48, and the low is 27. Highs are expected to stay near or below freezing Sunday through Tuesday. Lows will dip into the teens on Sunday and Tuesday, and the high Monday is 28 degrees. Temps are set to climb into the 40s again, starting Thursday. Lows could stay subfreezing through Jan. 26. (The NWS forecast also does not call for snow at this time.)
According to AccuWeather, as of Jan. 17, the Jackson area can expect:
Jan. 17: High 61°F, low 52°F.
Jan. 18: High 65°F, low 31°F, 70% chance of rain in the morning.
Jan. 19: High 39°F, low 20°F.
Jan. 20: High 36°F, low 23°F.
Jan. 21: High 32°F, low 17°F, 30% chance of precipitation, including a bit of snow or flurries.
Jan. 22: High 41°F, low 23°F.
Jan. 23: High 45°F, low 31°F, 55% chance of rain in the afternoon.
Jan. 24: High 44°F, low 26°F, 81% chance of rain in the morning and afternoon.
Jan. 25: High 51°F, low 32°F, 75% chance of precipitation, including rain and sleet in the morning with rain in the afternoon.
Jan. 26: High 58°F, low 37°F.
Jan. 27: High 59°F, low 39°F.
Jan. 28: High 49°F, low 39°F, 70% chance of precipitation with rain in the afternoon.
Weather Channel forecasts for Jackson also calls for snow Tuesday.
In Hattiesburg, the 10-day AccuWeather forecast shows about a 70% chance of rain Saturday with a high of 73 degrees. For Sunday through Friday, highs will mostly drop into the 40s with a dip to 34 on Tuesday. There a low chance of snow or flurries on Monday. There’s a 35% chance of precipitation with snow and sleet Tuesday. Thursday has a 64% chance of precipitation and could have some icy mix in the rain. Lows will be in the 20s through at least Saturday, Jan. 25, with a possible dip to 19 degrees on Sunday and 17 Tuesday. Highs are expected to climb back in the 50s on Jan. 25; they day also has a 74% chance of rain and sleet. The high Sunday, Jan. 26, in the 60s.
Around Gulfport, AccuWeather forecasts call for about a 94% chance of rain and a thunderstorm with a high of 68 degrees on Saturday. Lows will be in the 20s Sunday through Wednesday. There’s a 35% chance of precipitation including snow, sleet and rain on Tuesday with a high of 36. Saturday, Jan. 25, has a 72% chance of rain, and the high is 55.
Advertisement
Why does it keep getting so cold?
According to the University Corporation for Atmospheric Research, which manages the U.S. National Science Foundation National Center for Atmospheric Research, polar air comes south sometimes where the polar jet stream wanders.
As they describe it, the polar vortex circles the north pole counterclockwise. the polar jet stream circles at a lower level of the atmosphere, which usually keeps Arctic air corralled in the middle.
When the polar vortex is weak, the jet stream pattern wanders around a bit instead of staying in place “like a toupee that goes askew.”
The scientists that make up UCAR say predicting the pattern is getting harder because the Arctic is warming at a rapid rate.
Advertisement
How can I prepare for extreme cold?
The National Weather Service has tips to protect your family, pets, home and more in extreme cold.
Family
Know your weather forecasts, be ready in case of power outages.
Limit time outside in the cold. Early morning is the coldest, and kids might need to wait for the school bus somewhere warmer than usual.
Dress for winter weather, including layers to keep out the wind and wet. Wear waterproof boots, a hat and gloves.
Get a kit together for your home and/or vehicle.
Don’t stay in wet clothes, stay warm and dry.
Check on elderly relatives, friends and neighbors.
Story continues below video.
How to stay warm in cold weather
Stay warm in the cold weather with this simple trick.
ProblemSolved, Reviewed
Advertisement
House
Insulate pipes.
Drip water and open cabinet doors to let pipes get warm air circulation.
Turn off sprinklers, and disconnect hoses. Insulate outside taps and pipes.
Winterize the home, like checking your chimney, clearing gutters. Insulate windows and attics if possible. If there are gaps around blankets or doors you can’t fill, cover them with blankets or towels.
Install/check smoke alarms and carbon monoxide detectors.
If you have a generator or plan to use one, make sure it’s set up to run safely to avoid carbon monoxide poisoning. Don’t run it in the house or near air intake for the residence.
Use space heaters safely: don’t leave them unattended and be sure there’s a 3-foot space away from flammable objects like curtains or furniture.
Close unused rooms to keep from wasting heat.
Car
Make sure your vehicles have at least half a tank of gas so you can stay warm if stranded.
Have an emergency kit ready in your car if you have to travel in cold weather.
Pets
If pets can come into the home or another shelter, bring them in.
If animals, like livestock, can’t come inside, try to provide shelter and make sure their water isn’t frozen over regularly.
What should I have in my emergency kit?
According to the NWS, people should have the following in emergency kits for their homes and vehicles.
To be ready for emergencies have:
Flashlights with fresh batteries.
Spare batteries.
First aid kit and any medicines or medical supplies you need.
Backup clothes for winter weather.
Baby gear.
Food that’s non-perishable and/or will not have to be cooked if you lose power. If you pack canned good, be sure you have a manual can opener.
Water (plan 1 gallon per person for 3 days).
Pet supplies (food and water).
A basic toolkit, including pliers, a wrench, and a screwdriver.
A radio.
Warmers.
Car kits need a lot of the same items and few others, including:
Jumper cables.
Cat litter or sand for tire traction.
Shovel.
Ice scraper.
Roadside emergency kit.
Blankets/sleeping bag.
How low can I set my thermostat?
The World Health Organization recommends a minimum temperature of 68 degrees for children, people with health problems and the elderly. WHO advises a range between 64 and 75 degrees for healthy people.
Thinking of going without heat and powering through with warm winter layers?
According to the CDC, hypothermia, or a dangerously low body temperature, usually happens in extreme cold but can happen in temperatures over 40 degrees if a person gets chilled from rain, sweat or cold water. A person can lose body heat faster than they generate more, leading to confusion and affecting their ability to move.
Babies sleeping in cold bedrooms can get hypothermia, as can elderly adults who don’t have enough food, clothes or heating.
Advertisement
More: What does a La Niña winter mean for Mississippi? See 3-month NOAA forecast at season start
Can I use my oven to heat my house?
No. Ovens aren’t made for space heating, making them inefficient for the job, which leads to increased fire risk.
Electric ovens don’t post a risk for carbon monoxide poisoning, but gas ovens do, and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention advises against it.
Can I get help paying my power bill?
Mississippi Power has multiple programs to help people facing economic hardship, the elderly and people with disabilities pay their bills.
Call 228-701-0555 to talk to a Catholic Charities representative to find out if you’re eligible for Project SHARE. Or you can donate to help someone in your community.
Advertisement
Or you can call the Mississippi Power Customer Care Center at 800-532-1502 to find out about bill discounts for households that get Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Temporary Aid to Needy Families (TANF).
The Farmers’ Almanac forecast: When did winter start and what will the weather be in MS?
January average temperatures in Mississippi
These are the average temperatures for the Jackson, Hattiesburg, Tupelo and Gulfport areas for 2020-24, according to data from the National Weather Service.
Jackson
2020: 50.9.
2021: 48.
2022: 45.4.
2023: 53.8.
2024: 44.5.
Hattiesburg
2020: 52.6.
2021: 49.7.
2022: 47.5.
2023: 55.8.
2024: 48.2.
Tupelo
2020: 48.6.
2021: 45.1.
2022: 42.
2023: 50.6.
2024: 39.5.
Gulfport
2020: 55.3.
2021: 51.7.
2022: 49.4.
2023: 58.2.
Bonnie Bolden is the Deep South Connect reporter for Mississippi with Gannett/USA Today. Email her at bbolden@gannett.com.