We live on a long, long dirt road. Cars go slow as the road can be a mess. Today I stopped as one of the neighbors drove by. We talked.
He is young, always lived here. One of the smartest people I know. Built his own house, runs an excavating business. Can fix anything. Our road is changing a bit – retirees moving in – like my wife and I. He commented – “Well, they don’t cost us anything.” I think he was referring to kids for the school system. But what I picked up on was the us/them orientation. “We” have lived here forever and “you/they” are the newcomers. Whenever I meet someone in Vermont they usually like to clarify that kind of distinction, “I have lived here for 90 years but I am not really a true Vermonter.” That kind of thing. You have to be born here to belong.
I do not mind being a “them.” But…
Be mindful – maybe we come see each other as part of us.