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This Guy First Lost 100 Pounds in 11 Months. He Never Stepped Foot in a Gym.

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This Guy First Lost 100 Pounds in 11 Months. He Never Stepped Foot in a Gym.

Ray Bertka, 35, of Hartville, Ohio, knows what it means to put in the work. He’s a self-made success in business, along with his other big roles: being a husband and dad. Ray has led a busy life taking care of everyone but himself. So after years of neglect, Ray got the wake-up call of his life when he saw how much weight he put on. It also gave Ray the push he needed to find discipline in his diet and exercise habits. Once weighing over 300 pounds, Ray is now prepping for his first physique show. Here’s how he did it.

FOR MOST OF my life, I’ve been the big guy. But as an adult, my weight got really out of hand.

The weight gain started gradually in my mid-20s and early 30s. I founded an insurtech (insurance combined with technology) software company called Helixco. At 28, I started serving as both president and CEO. I was 240 pounds. As the business grew, my focus shifted almost entirely to work. Long hours, constant travel, entertaining, and a lot of time behind a desk became the norm. My health simply wasn’t a priority. Adding to my never-ending list of responsibilities was figuring out how to support my family while building the company from the ground up.

I didn’t realize my weight crept up when I ate whatever was available. I didn’t pay attention to how my physical activity was very inconsistent. I didn’t focus on managing my stress. I was miserable, even though I didn’t fully admit it at the time. And soon enough, it all caught up with me.

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Ray with his family

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For two to three years I hovered around 285 pounds. During that period, I dealt with frequent panic attacks, anxiety, and heart palpitations. At the time, I was also dealing with major life changes. I had just lost my mother, and I had a newborn daughter. My emotions were all over the place. I was grieving, exhausted, but still trying to show up as a husband, a father, and a leader at work. I had really convinced myself I could handle it all.

Day-to-day activities became uncomfortable in ways I tried hard to normalize. Traveling was getting more difficult. Airplane seats felt tight and restrictive. My clothes stopped fitting. I was buying new clothes all the time and telling myself they had shrunk in the dryer. I wasn’t willing to admit that I was getting bigger.

It was hard being in denial. I saw the big guy staring back in the mirror. I heard the comments from friends or family. Still, somehow I kept telling myself it wasn’t that bad. Then came my New Year’s Day reality check.

I Couldn’t Believe the Number on the Scale

The real turning point came on New Year’s Eve 2023. We had friends and business partners over, which meant a full night of food, drinks, and staying up late. I woke up the next morning feeling awful: Hungover with a pounding headache. When I went into the bathroom, I impulsively stepped on the scale. I told myself I was maintaining my weight at around 285 to 290 pounds. For some reason those numbers felt acceptable to me. Except that’s not what I saw. The scale read 303 pounds.

I remember the moment. I looked down at the number, then up at myself in the mirror, then back down at the scale. I felt embarrassed and disappointed, and for the first time the thought hit me very clearly. I was slowly killing myself. That thought had never crossed my mind before, but it was loud and it was undeniable.

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Photo of Ray Bertka before his weight loss transformation

I thought about my daughter, my wife, my business, and the people who depended on me. I asked myself how I was supposed to take care of them if I couldn’t take care of myself. It was the moment I knew something had to change.

I went downstairs and told my wife that I was ready to do something about my health and my weight. She has loved me at my worst and my heaviest. She never pressured me or judged me, She gave me the support I needed with seven simple words. “Okay, where do you want to start?” And that’s when things finally shifted.

I Focused on Macros, Not Portion Size

I wanted a plan sustainable to my lifestyle and one that would help me truly understand how my body responded to food.

Now I honestly didn’t know where to begin. As a registered and licensed dietitian, my wife recommended Whole30. Whole30 is a 30-day nutrition reset that focuses on eating real, whole foods while temporarily removing things like added sugar, alcohol, grains, dairy, and heavily processed foods.

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The goal wasn’t weight loss at first. It was about learning how food actually affects your body. That said, weight loss is a common side effect of Whole30 since you’re eating nutrient-dense meals. It’s genuinely hard to overeat when those meals are built around protein, vegetables, and other whole foods.

I learned about macros, or the three main macronutrients your body needs to function and perform. Protein supports muscle repair, recovery, and satiety. Carbohydrates are your body’s primary energy source and fuel both workouts and daily activity. Fats support hormones, brain function, and overall health. The understanding helped me to balance my meals better.

As I progressed with Whole30, my approach became much more macro-focused rather than portion size focused. Instead of thinking in terms of how big my plate was, I focused on making sure I was hitting my macros and spreading them out evenly throughout the day. I usually ate between 1,850 and 2,100 calories a day.

The results paid off. In 11 months, I lost 100 pounds—all without ever stepping foot in a gym! I maintained that weight loss for about six to seven months.

I Dealt With Another Health Challenge

Despite the weight loss, I continued to feel off. I still dealt with what I thought were anxiety and panic episodes, and continued to write them off as stress. So I went to get bloodwork done at my next doctor visit.

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I was diagnosed with Hashimoto’s disease, an autoimmune condition which affects the thyroid and blood sugar levels. My doctor walked me through my options, explaining that even though my thyroid antibodies were elevated, I didn’t necessarily need medication immediately. Instead, I could first try to improve my health through exercise, probiotics, and targeted vitamins and minerals. The diagnosis was a big motivator to start exercising.

I Eventually Forced Myself to Go Into a Gym

I started off simple. I focused on walking and being more active throughout the day. I also played a lot of golf and made a point to walk the course whenever I could. This gave me steady movement without it feeling like formal exercise.

Eventually, I forced myself to show up at the gym. I used a fitness app to structure my workouts and track my progress. I started with light cardio and basic weight training for four days a week. As I became more consistent, I applied progressive overload over time.

I wanted to go through a body recomposition and rebuild the muscle I likely lost during the 100-pound weight loss journey. Most importantly, I wanted to support my thyroid health and feel confident in my body. I wanted to look fit for my wife and set a strong example for my daughter. It felt like taking everything I had already accomplished and applying it to a new goal.

Staying motivated came down to the same principles that helped me lose the weight in the first place: consistency, structure, and tracking. I avoided obsessing over the mirror or the scale. Instead, I focused on getting regular blood tests where I could see in real time how my training, nutrition, supplements, and recovery were improving my health.

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To manage my Hashimoto’s, I made dietary tweaks. I started to follow a reverse diet—the process of slowly increasing calories over time after being in a deficit. The goal was to restore metabolism, improve hormone balance, and find true maintenance without rapid fat gain. For me, it allowed me to fuel workouts properly, support muscle growth, stabilize blood sugar, and align my nutrition with my new goals. Over time, my thyroid markers improved significantly. I was able to put my Hashimoto’s into a state of remission, and I gained better control over hypoglycemic episodes.

As a result of training consistently and applying a reverse diet, I lost another additional 21 pounds in roughly over about six months. As an added benefit, I saw improvements in my energy and performance.

How I Look Now

I went from 303 pounds to 181.8, which is a loss of 121.2 pounds. I feel fundamentally different.

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Physically, I’m stronger and have more energy than ever before. My body fat dropped and my Hashimoto’s went into a state of remission. It completely changed how my body functions day to day.

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Mentally, I’m stable and clear-headed. The anxiety and panic symptoms I once dealt with eased as my health improved. I no longer felt like my body was constantly in a stressed state. Overall, I felt more resilient and far more in control of my body than I ever was before.

I still eat very much in line with Whole30 principles. I prioritize whole foods and minimize processed ones. Though I still allow for flexibility. A typical meal now is built intentionally around protein, carbohydrates, and then fats. Breakfast might be egg whites with fruit and potatoes, or Greek yogurt with a banana and peanut butter. Lunch and dinner are usually lean protein like chicken, steak, or fish paired with a carb source such as rice, potatoes, and vegetables. I aim to spread my protein and carbs evenly across meals so my energy stays stable, and my recovery stays consistent.

I track everything with MyFitnessPal, and weigh my food so there’s no guesswork involved. I know how much my body needs, and that allows me to eat enough to perform and recover without feeling overly full or deprived. That structure has been key for sustainability and long term success.

My Next Challenge: Become the Best Version of Me

I’ve genuinely fallen in love with the gym and now I’m curious to see how far I can push myself to become the best version of me. I recently hired a trainer and physique coach, Calysta Fulcher, and I’m working with her to prepare for my first physique show.

My first physique show is planned for May 2026. I know I have a long way to go to get ready, but I’m excited for the challenge. Stepping on stage won’t be about perfection– it will be about showing how far I’ve come and seeing what’s possible.

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My Advice to Other Guys

Through my weight loss transformation, I learned that real change doesn’t come from extremes or quick fixes. It comes from consistency and patience. This was a journey with different phases, and each phase taught me something new. My needs at the beginning weren’t the same as what I needed later. Being willing to adapt was critical.

Most importantly, I learned that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. It’s foundational. When my health improved, everything else improved too. My mental clarity, leadership, relationships, and ability to show up for the people who depend on me all got better once I fully committed to that process.

In the beginning, it may feel like nothing is happening, but those small, boring efforts compound in ways you can’t see yet. Patience is part of the work.

Expect uncomfortable moments. Cravings, low-energy days, plateaus, and dips in motivation are normal. They don’t mean you’re failing. Most of the time, they mean your body is adapting. Learning to stay the course during those phases is what separates short-term change from results that actually last.

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Lisa is an internationally established health writer whose credits include Good Housekeeping, Prevention, Men’s Health, Oprah Daily, Woman’s Day, Elle, Cosmopolitan, Harper’s Bazaar, Esquire, Glamour, The Washington Post, WebMD, Medscape, The Los Angeles Times, Parade, Health, Self, Family Circle and Seventeen. She is the author of eight best-selling books, including The Essentials of Theater.

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Hybrid training: is this the secret to getting fitter and stronger?

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Tough Mudder. CrossFit. Hyrox. Some of this century’s biggest fitness trends have one thing in common: they require feats of both strength and endurance. People used to pick a side: either you used weights and resistance machines to build your muscles or you did cardio for the sake of your heart and lungs. Now everyone wants to be a “hybrid athlete”. So is this the best way to get fit – and where do you start if you’re a complete beginner?

What exactly is hybrid training?

Matt Lee, a postdoctoral research fellow at the Deakin Institute for Physical Activity and Nutrition in Australia, says: “Hybrid training – also known as concurrent training – combines cardio and resistance exercises (eg weights) within the same programme, performed either within a single session, or across separate sessions during the week.”

Where does it come from?

Hybrid training is not a new concept – official physical activity guidelines have long recommended a combination of strength and cardio exercises. But among athletes it was believed that endurance training had a negative impact on strength development (known as the “interference effect”); recent research has shown that is not the case.

Phil Price, a senior lecturer in strength and conditioning science at St Mary’s University, Twickenham, is the author of The Science of Hybrid Training. He says the term itself was coined by Alex Viada in his influential 2015 book, The Hybrid Athlete (which was updated last year). “He was a powerlifter and then he started running, so he was actively chasing two goals that don’t necessarily support one another,” Price says. “Hybrid came to mean a very clear focus on two separate goals that come from two separate sports.”

The hybrid concept has evolved, making it appeal to anyone who wants to get fitter and stronger. “It has been used for anything that requires an endurance component and a strength component,” says Price. “The rise of CrossFit really developed it and it’s definitely been utilised by those who do Hyrox.” CrossFit is a high-intensity workout combining cardio with elements of weightlifting and gymnastics; Hyrox is a fitness competition mixing running with burpees, kettlebell carries, sled pushes and more.

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Thomas Jones, an associate professor of sport, exercise and rehabilitation at Northumbria University, says: “Hyrox, which is super-popular at the moment, is almost the definition of hybrid. Those events are aerobic-based, so there’s a running element, and then there’s also a strength element and a power element.” Organisers say more than 1 million people entered a Hyrox race during the 2025/26 season, which culminates with the world championships in Stockholm this month.

Hyrox is almost the definition of hybrid training, with a running element, as well as power and strength elements. Photograph: HYROX

A hybrid scene has also developed through social media, says Price. “More and more people have created these hybrid goals of, for example, doing a 500lb [227kg] squat and on the same day running a sub-five-minute mile. People are online competing with each other and through that, the culture has really boomed.”

What are the benefits?

Lee says hybrid training has numerous benefits for overall health and wellbeing, as well as sports performance. “Research has shown hybrid training can improve strength, muscle mass, power, endurance, speed and agility,” he says. “Beyond physical gains, studies of people who do hybrid training such as CrossFit report perceived improvements in quality of life, reduced stress, increased self-esteem and social benefits.” A previous study found this sense of belonging was significantly higher at CrossFit gyms than at traditional ones.

And hybrid training is a boon for busy schedules. “For many people, lack of time is a major barrier to exercise,” says Lee. “Combining cardio and resistance exercises within a single session is a time-efficient way to meet training goals.” I can relate to that – the “warrior” class at my local gym combines treadmill or rowing intervals with free-weight sets, for a full-body workout in just 45 minutes.

Hybrid training is perfect for those who are time poor. Photograph: Posed by models; Pekic/Getty Images

Alexios Batrakoulis, an assistant professor of applied and clinical exercise physiology at European University Cyprus, has conducted extensive research into hybrid training. He has seen great results from participants completing a 30-minute circuit-style hybrid programme up to three times a week. After 10 to 12 months, he reports: “Previously inactive middle-aged adults with overweight/obesity have significant body mass and fat reduction, as well as improvements in performance, cardiometabolic and psychological health.” He found that people enjoyed these “moderate to vigorous” circuits more than “traditional moderate-intensity continuous training”.

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Is it suitable for beginners?

Absolutely – with the caveat that you check with your GP if you have any existing injuries or health conditions (and pay no attention to social media challenges). Kim Way, a senior lecturer at the Deakin Institute and an exercise physiologist with Exercise and Sports Science Australia, says beginners should do a combination of aerobic and resistance training two or three times a week.

“Start with low- to moderate-intensity exercise to help the body get used to the different exercises and get used to a routine. Use intervals to help break up aerobic activity to get used to moderate intensity with some recovery as well,” she says. “The talk test is a great way to gauge if you are going too hard with aerobic exercise. Moderate-intensity does make you a bit breathless, but you’d still be able to maintain a conversation with someone or be able to sing.” Build a foundation with four to six weeks of consistent training before adding another day or a high-intensity session, she adds.

What sort of aerobic exercise should I do?

This depends on your goals, says Lee. If you want to build up to a Hyrox event, running is essential – each race includes eight 1km runs – as is training on skiing and rowing machines. If you just want to get fitter, running is one option, but you may enjoy others more. “Substituting other cardio options such as swimming or cycling can still improve cardiovascular fitness while reducing the risk of overuse injuries that may occur from high volumes of running,” says Lee.

And what sort of strength training?

Again, if you’re training with Hyrox in mind, it make sense to focus on the strength-based events in the races: sled push and pull, farmer’s carry, sandbag lunges, wall balls … If you’re new to these exercises, says Way, scale back the weights, reps and sets. But if you just want to improve your general strength, she recommends “whole-body, compound movements such as squats, deadlifts and bench presses, which will provide immense benefit”.

Body-weight exercises, such as press ups, are a good alternative to using weights. Photograph: Posed by model; Organic Media/Getty Images

“Two of the biggest predictors of quality of life in old age are strength (one-rep max) and aerobic fitness (VO2 max),” says Jones. “Strength is what often gets neglected by those who are new to exercise – they just run.”

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Does the order I do them in matter?

“Research, including my own, suggests the order of cardio and resistance exercise has little influence on improving cardio fitness,” says Lee. “However, if a person’s goal is to improve strength, some research suggests completing resistance exercise before cardio might lead to greater strength gains, and that greater recovery time between modes (more than three hours) may benefit explosive strength development (power) – but more research is needed on these.”

Do I need to join a gym?

“For people with limited exercise experience, gyms can be a great place to start, as they provide access to professionals who can help develop suitable training plans and guidance on techniques,” says Lee. If you want to get into CrossFit, for example, there are about 10,000 gyms in 150 countries.

You can do your own hybrid training on the gym floor, using the cardio and resistance machines and/or free weights, but another option is joining a hybrid-style class. “Group classes can provide a sense of community and social support, which may also help with motivation and consistency,” says Lee. Some gyms offer dedicated Hyrox classes; others to look out for include bootcamp, circuits, functional fitness, and strength and conditioning. “When joining a group class, always remember to listen to your body,” says Way. “It is OK to stop and have a break if your body is not used to what is happening.”

Going to the gym doesn’t necessarily mean committing to a year-long membership. Apps such as ClassPass enable you to buy credits to use at a variety of gyms, and there are no-contract, pay-monthly budget chains such as PureGym and the Gym Group (which also offer classes). Community centres often have low-cost hybrid-style workouts – my local one has an hour’s circuit training for £8 – and many parks have free sessions, such as the beginners’ bootcamps and other classes run by Our Parks across the UK.

Can’t I do hybrid training at home?

Absolutely – you can combine cardio with home strength training. For example, you could follow the NHS’s Couch to 5K running programme alongside Our Parks’ Couch to Fitness programme. Jones says: “Remember what Joe Wicks was doing during Covid? That would be hybrid training.” Wicks is still posting free videos on YouTube – a recent 20-minute “strength, cardio and abs” workout fits the hybrid bill.

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You don’t need any specialist equipment, at least initially. “For people just getting started, body weight exercises are enough,” says Jones. “If you can’t do 10 good push-ups, that’s a really good place to start.” Way suggests squats, lunges and pull-ups alongside your push-ups. When you’re ready to move on, “Filling up a backpack with cans or water bottles can add load,” she says.

Batrakoulis says you don’t need to invest in heavy weights to progress further, but some “functional training tools” can be useful: resistance bands, kettlebells, exercise balls and medicine balls; even suspension straps and battle ropes, if you have space.

Outdoors gyms make it easy to combine cardio and strength training … and they’re free! Photograph: Posed by model; coldsnowstorm/Getty Images

Jones is also a fan of outdoor gyms in parks: “They’re great because it gives you the opportunity to run and then jump in and do some pull-ups and body-weight exercises.”

How much training should I do?

Lee says: “For overall health, the World Health Organization recommends adults aged 18 to 64 engage in at least 150-300 minutes a week of moderate-intensity aerobic physical activity, or 75-150 minutes a week of vigorous-intensity aerobic physical activity (or an equivalent combination of the two), plus muscle-strengthening activities at moderate or greater intensity on two days a week.” But don’t try to go from zero to hero, says Way: “If you are not currently meeting these guidelines, a slow and gradual buildup in activity is recommended.”

This is especially important in hybrid training, says Price, because of the various demands it puts on the body. “The endurance exercise is going to fatigue things in different ways to the resistance exercise. The high-intensity stuff is going to fatigue your body in different ways to the long-duration, low-intensity stuff. All of a sudden you’ve got a mix of everything.” His advice is to “start off slowly and progress very slowly because you don’t know how well your body will respond to the different stimuli and how close they are together”. The good news? “The body is really adaptable and will start to deal with that type of mixed stress quite well.”

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Should I do cardio and strength training in the same session?

If you’re doing hybrid classes, clearly yes. Otherwise, says Jones, it’s down to preference and time. “I cycle some days and I lift weights other days. But some people wouldn’t like that approach. My wife, for instance, loves getting out in the garden and doing a circuit. So whatever works for you will be effective.”

Should I train every day?

No – rest days are essential. “It’s important to allow enough recovery time between sessions, not only for adaptations to occur, but to also minimise the risks of overuse injuries and overtraining,” says Lee. Way says beginners need at least 24-48 hours of recovery between sessions to help the body adjust.

Prioritise sleep. “Sleep for all exercise is really quite important. I think people underestimate that,” says Price. “I see it like a triad. Quite often if people are struggling with their training or they have a niggling recurring injury, they think there must be something that they’re doing wrong in training. But they need to go and make sure that they’re getting enough water, their nutrition’s right and they’re getting enough sleep. Quite a lot of the time, it’s their everyday life that isn’t providing that support to recover for them.”

Do I need to change my diet?

Keep energy levels topped up with a good combination of protein and carbs, as well as lots of water. Photograph: filadendron/Getty Images

“As long as you’re getting good protein and carbs between sessions and lots of water, you should be good to go,” says Price. Specifically, he says, you need sufficient amounts of the amino acid leucine, which is found in most protein sources (meat, fish, cheese, beans, nuts, seeds, tofu etc). “Whenever the body tries to respond to the training stress from a strength point of view, the intake of protein is one of the signals to spark protein synthesis, which then improves muscle hypertrophy [growth]. So you’re trying to avoid that molecular process getting disrupted.”

Protein is often prioritised these days, but don’t overlook carbohydrates. “Carbohydrates broken down can get stored into muscle glycogen [fuel], and both strength and endurance training can reduce those stores. So if you’ve trained, you want to make sure that anything that was used from the previous session has been replenished,” says Price.

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And finally … where do I sign up for the Hyrox world championships?

Sadly, that is invite-only for the top 0.5% of athletes. How about a Hyrox cruise instead?

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Tight on Space? You Can Still Get a Great Workout With This Compact Home Gym Equipment

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Our team decided the TRX Home 2 System is the best multipurpose piece of compact home gym equipment you can invest in, thanks to its lightweight and multipurpose functions. I love that it supports both resistance training and cardio workouts while taking up zero surface area of my shoebox apartment.

All you do is hook the TRX Home 2 System onto the back of a door, beam, or pole with the included anchors. The hooks and suspension straps stay in place (which is essential for safety) while executing explosive movements like lunges and squats. In my apartment, I attached it to the back of my door and was able to install it properly on my first attempt. It’s never budged, no matter how much weight I put on it.

After using it a dozen times, I never lost balance or felt at risk of injury. It may look flimsy, but I attest it’s strong and mighty. For further stability, the straps feature grippy handles, which Sheridan recommends.

I know this product is top-notch because it has superior durability to withstand high-resistance, low-impact workouts. With weekly use, the anchors are not worn out and still feel good as new—you get what you pay for! Plus, the TRX Home 2 System was specifically designed by a Navy Seal over 20 years ago and has proven its effectiveness.

As a runner, it’s excellent for cross-training muscles I wouldn’t otherwise use, and stretching out my tired limbs. I plan on also using it on vacation for quick hotel room workouts because I need my daily endorphins.

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Stress and S$500 monthly gym fees. Is your fitness routine draining you?

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In addition to the psychological impact, there are physical risks associated with following online fitness trends.

The experts cautioned that some activities may not be suitable for all individuals, and may even result in over-exertion or injury for some people. 

This is often due to their high intensity and specificity in the muscle groups trained.

Ms Nur Amelina Azlan, a physiotherapist at Heal360 Physioclinic, said: “For example, pilates is very postural, very focused on the core muscles, whereas something like your spin class is more cardiovascular. 

“But what we need is both elements together, not just one over the other.” 

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MAKING FITNESS “FIT” YOU 

So, if what works for other people may not be the best for different people with different needs, how does one find what works for oneself?  

Mr Martin John, clinical director at Orchard Health Clinic, which offers physiotherapy among other services, said that the first step is to be honest about your starting point. 

How is your energy? How is your sleep? How stressed are you? How much do you sit? How well do you move? 

“Those are important questions because exercise should match the person, not the trend.”

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