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This Guy First Lost 100 Pounds in 11 Months. He Never Stepped Foot in a Gym.

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This Guy First Lost 100 Pounds in 11 Months. He Never Stepped Foot in a Gym.

Ray Bertka, 35, of Hartville, Ohio, knows what it means to put in the work. He’s a self-made success in business, along with his other big roles: being a husband and dad. Ray has led a busy life taking care of everyone but himself. So after years of neglect, Ray got the wake-up call of his life when he saw how much weight he put on. It also gave Ray the push he needed to find discipline in his diet and exercise habits. Once weighing over 300 pounds, Ray is now prepping for his first physique show. Here’s how he did it.

FOR MOST OF my life, I’ve been the big guy. But as an adult, my weight got really out of hand.

The weight gain started gradually in my mid-20s and early 30s. I founded an insurtech (insurance combined with technology) software company called Helixco. At 28, I started serving as both president and CEO. I was 240 pounds. As the business grew, my focus shifted almost entirely to work. Long hours, constant travel, entertaining, and a lot of time behind a desk became the norm. My health simply wasn’t a priority. Adding to my never-ending list of responsibilities was figuring out how to support my family while building the company from the ground up.

I didn’t realize my weight crept up when I ate whatever was available. I didn’t pay attention to how my physical activity was very inconsistent. I didn’t focus on managing my stress. I was miserable, even though I didn’t fully admit it at the time. And soon enough, it all caught up with me.

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Ray with his family

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For two to three years I hovered around 285 pounds. During that period, I dealt with frequent panic attacks, anxiety, and heart palpitations. At the time, I was also dealing with major life changes. I had just lost my mother, and I had a newborn daughter. My emotions were all over the place. I was grieving, exhausted, but still trying to show up as a husband, a father, and a leader at work. I had really convinced myself I could handle it all.

Day-to-day activities became uncomfortable in ways I tried hard to normalize. Traveling was getting more difficult. Airplane seats felt tight and restrictive. My clothes stopped fitting. I was buying new clothes all the time and telling myself they had shrunk in the dryer. I wasn’t willing to admit that I was getting bigger.

It was hard being in denial. I saw the big guy staring back in the mirror. I heard the comments from friends or family. Still, somehow I kept telling myself it wasn’t that bad. Then came my New Year’s Day reality check.

I Couldn’t Believe the Number on the Scale

The real turning point came on New Year’s Eve 2023. We had friends and business partners over, which meant a full night of food, drinks, and staying up late. I woke up the next morning feeling awful: Hungover with a pounding headache. When I went into the bathroom, I impulsively stepped on the scale. I told myself I was maintaining my weight at around 285 to 290 pounds. For some reason those numbers felt acceptable to me. Except that’s not what I saw. The scale read 303 pounds.

I remember the moment. I looked down at the number, then up at myself in the mirror, then back down at the scale. I felt embarrassed and disappointed, and for the first time the thought hit me very clearly. I was slowly killing myself. That thought had never crossed my mind before, but it was loud and it was undeniable.

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Photo of Ray Bertka before his weight loss transformation

I thought about my daughter, my wife, my business, and the people who depended on me. I asked myself how I was supposed to take care of them if I couldn’t take care of myself. It was the moment I knew something had to change.

I went downstairs and told my wife that I was ready to do something about my health and my weight. She has loved me at my worst and my heaviest. She never pressured me or judged me, She gave me the support I needed with seven simple words. “Okay, where do you want to start?” And that’s when things finally shifted.

I Focused on Macros, Not Portion Size

I wanted a plan sustainable to my lifestyle and one that would help me truly understand how my body responded to food.

Now I honestly didn’t know where to begin. As a registered and licensed dietitian, my wife recommended Whole30. Whole30 is a 30-day nutrition reset that focuses on eating real, whole foods while temporarily removing things like added sugar, alcohol, grains, dairy, and heavily processed foods.

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The goal wasn’t weight loss at first. It was about learning how food actually affects your body. That said, weight loss is a common side effect of Whole30 since you’re eating nutrient-dense meals. It’s genuinely hard to overeat when those meals are built around protein, vegetables, and other whole foods.

I learned about macros, or the three main macronutrients your body needs to function and perform. Protein supports muscle repair, recovery, and satiety. Carbohydrates are your body’s primary energy source and fuel both workouts and daily activity. Fats support hormones, brain function, and overall health. The understanding helped me to balance my meals better.

As I progressed with Whole30, my approach became much more macro-focused rather than portion size focused. Instead of thinking in terms of how big my plate was, I focused on making sure I was hitting my macros and spreading them out evenly throughout the day. I usually ate between 1,850 and 2,100 calories a day.

The results paid off. In 11 months, I lost 100 pounds—all without ever stepping foot in a gym! I maintained that weight loss for about six to seven months.

I Dealt With Another Health Challenge

Despite the weight loss, I continued to feel off. I still dealt with what I thought were anxiety and panic episodes, and continued to write them off as stress. So I went to get bloodwork done at my next doctor visit.

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I was diagnosed with Hashimoto’s disease, an autoimmune condition which affects the thyroid and blood sugar levels. My doctor walked me through my options, explaining that even though my thyroid antibodies were elevated, I didn’t necessarily need medication immediately. Instead, I could first try to improve my health through exercise, probiotics, and targeted vitamins and minerals. The diagnosis was a big motivator to start exercising.

I Eventually Forced Myself to Go Into a Gym

I started off simple. I focused on walking and being more active throughout the day. I also played a lot of golf and made a point to walk the course whenever I could. This gave me steady movement without it feeling like formal exercise.

Eventually, I forced myself to show up at the gym. I used a fitness app to structure my workouts and track my progress. I started with light cardio and basic weight training for four days a week. As I became more consistent, I applied progressive overload over time.

I wanted to go through a body recomposition and rebuild the muscle I likely lost during the 100-pound weight loss journey. Most importantly, I wanted to support my thyroid health and feel confident in my body. I wanted to look fit for my wife and set a strong example for my daughter. It felt like taking everything I had already accomplished and applying it to a new goal.

Staying motivated came down to the same principles that helped me lose the weight in the first place: consistency, structure, and tracking. I avoided obsessing over the mirror or the scale. Instead, I focused on getting regular blood tests where I could see in real time how my training, nutrition, supplements, and recovery were improving my health.

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To manage my Hashimoto’s, I made dietary tweaks. I started to follow a reverse diet—the process of slowly increasing calories over time after being in a deficit. The goal was to restore metabolism, improve hormone balance, and find true maintenance without rapid fat gain. For me, it allowed me to fuel workouts properly, support muscle growth, stabilize blood sugar, and align my nutrition with my new goals. Over time, my thyroid markers improved significantly. I was able to put my Hashimoto’s into a state of remission, and I gained better control over hypoglycemic episodes.

As a result of training consistently and applying a reverse diet, I lost another additional 21 pounds in roughly over about six months. As an added benefit, I saw improvements in my energy and performance.

How I Look Now

I went from 303 pounds to 181.8, which is a loss of 121.2 pounds. I feel fundamentally different.

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After photo of Ray Bertka

Physically, I’m stronger and have more energy than ever before. My body fat dropped and my Hashimoto’s went into a state of remission. It completely changed how my body functions day to day.

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Mentally, I’m stable and clear-headed. The anxiety and panic symptoms I once dealt with eased as my health improved. I no longer felt like my body was constantly in a stressed state. Overall, I felt more resilient and far more in control of my body than I ever was before.

I still eat very much in line with Whole30 principles. I prioritize whole foods and minimize processed ones. Though I still allow for flexibility. A typical meal now is built intentionally around protein, carbohydrates, and then fats. Breakfast might be egg whites with fruit and potatoes, or Greek yogurt with a banana and peanut butter. Lunch and dinner are usually lean protein like chicken, steak, or fish paired with a carb source such as rice, potatoes, and vegetables. I aim to spread my protein and carbs evenly across meals so my energy stays stable, and my recovery stays consistent.

I track everything with MyFitnessPal, and weigh my food so there’s no guesswork involved. I know how much my body needs, and that allows me to eat enough to perform and recover without feeling overly full or deprived. That structure has been key for sustainability and long term success.

My Next Challenge: Become the Best Version of Me

I’ve genuinely fallen in love with the gym and now I’m curious to see how far I can push myself to become the best version of me. I recently hired a trainer and physique coach, Calysta Fulcher, and I’m working with her to prepare for my first physique show.

My first physique show is planned for May 2026. I know I have a long way to go to get ready, but I’m excited for the challenge. Stepping on stage won’t be about perfection– it will be about showing how far I’ve come and seeing what’s possible.

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My Advice to Other Guys

Through my weight loss transformation, I learned that real change doesn’t come from extremes or quick fixes. It comes from consistency and patience. This was a journey with different phases, and each phase taught me something new. My needs at the beginning weren’t the same as what I needed later. Being willing to adapt was critical.

Most importantly, I learned that taking care of yourself isn’t selfish. It’s foundational. When my health improved, everything else improved too. My mental clarity, leadership, relationships, and ability to show up for the people who depend on me all got better once I fully committed to that process.

In the beginning, it may feel like nothing is happening, but those small, boring efforts compound in ways you can’t see yet. Patience is part of the work.

Expect uncomfortable moments. Cravings, low-energy days, plateaus, and dips in motivation are normal. They don’t mean you’re failing. Most of the time, they mean your body is adapting. Learning to stay the course during those phases is what separates short-term change from results that actually last.

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Lisa is an internationally established health writer whose credits include Good Housekeeping, Prevention, Men’s Health, Oprah Daily, Woman’s Day, Elle, Cosmopolitan, Harper’s Bazaar, Esquire, Glamour, The Washington Post, WebMD, Medscape, The Los Angeles Times, Parade, Health, Self, Family Circle and Seventeen. She is the author of eight best-selling books, including The Essentials of Theater.

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A 3-Step Plan to Give Your Diet, Fitness Routine and Mindset a Reset for Spring

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To help you do this, we’ve tapped our Start TODAY experts for simple tips to lighten up meals, move in ways that boost metabolism and and refocus our mindset to get motivated to keep working toward your goals. Apply their strategies and finish the month feeling lighter, more energized and motivated to move forward. Here’s the plan to make it happen:

>>Download the 31-day calendar here

31-Day HIIT & Walking Challenge

This month’s workout plan is focused on short workouts that pack a punch. “HIIT workouts give you a bigger bang for your workout buck! They provide a more efficient workout because you’re alternating the pace and intensity rather than sticking to a steady, moderate pace,” says Mansour. “Changing things up with HIIT prevents boredom and keeps your muscles guessing. This is how we can get the body to change — whether that change is speeding up your metabolism, burning more calories, building muscle, losing weight, or just improving overall health — keeping your body guessing is the magic ticket to seeing results!”

Active recovery days include stretching to improve flexibility and walking for a cardiovascular workout that aids muscle recovery. When weather permits, Mansour encourages people to get outside on walking days. “Walking outdoors isn’t just a workout, it’s a chance to breathe in fresh air and get out of the house to change your environment,” she says. “Each time you go outside on a walk, even if you go on the same path, you’ll see or feel something different. Maybe it’s a change in weather, plants or flowers, people or things. Prioritizing taking your walk outside can hugely benefit your mental health. Getting out of your regular environment and into nature can be a form of meditation, too.”

Get the full 31-day workout plan with unique workouts sent to you daily — plus, walking podcasts, healthy spring recipes and mindfulness tools — in the Start TODAY app!

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Lighten up comfort food favorites by adding seasonal ingredients, like in this Spring Asparagus Pasta.

3 Simple Spring Diet Tips

In addition to mixing up your workout routine, use spring as an opportunity to start lightening up your meals by packing them with seasonal ingredients. Start TODAY dietitian Natalie Rizzo shares her top tips:

  1. Incorporate more seasonal foods. After a long winter of eating the same foods, your palate is ready for a change! Aim to add at least one spring fruit or vegetable to your meals each day, like asparagus, peas, spinach, radishes, citrus or strawberries. This Spring Asparagus Pasta is a simple weeknight dinner that feels both light and comforting. Seasonal produce is fresher, more flavorful, and an easy way to naturally boost vitamins and fiber. Plus, seasonal produce is more affordable than other items in the produce section.
  2. Use fresh herbs to brighten up your dishes. Fresh herbs like basil, cilantro, parsley, mint, or dill can instantly upgrade simple meals without extra salt or heavy sauces. Sprinkle them on salads, roasted veggies, eggs, soups, or grain bowls for a burst of spring flavor. Cilantro is the perfect finish to this Mexican Stuffed Sweet Potato, while herbs are blended into cottage cheese in this Herby Cottage Cheese Toast with Tomato recipe for a pop of fresh flavor.
  3. Shift from heavy comfort meals to balanced plates. As the weather warms up, it’s time to move away from heavy comfort foods and embrace lightened up spring dishes. Build plates with a mix of lean protein, whole grains or starchy veggies, and plenty of colorful produce. Think roasted veggie grain bowls, hearty salads like this BBQ Chicken Quinoa Salad, or simple stir-fries instead of creamy casseroles or heavy stews.
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A sprinkle of fresh cilantro is the perfect finish to this Mexican Stuffed Sweet Potato.

Spring Clean Your Mindset with This Mental Health Exercise

Yes, we are working to propel ourselves forward toward our health goals, but an important part of that process is slowing down and reflecting.

Getting permission not to rush in a world that feels like it’s moving faster than we can keep up is a reminder that most of us need.

Yasmine Cheyenne, start TODAY mindfulness expert

“Getting permission not to rush in a world that feels like it’s moving faster than we can keep up is a reminder that most of us need, but how often would we admit that?” says Cheyenne. “ When the to-do list feels long, and we’re trying to get everything done, we often say the opposite, disregarding how we feel, and push ourselves. Yes, we all have deadlines and things that need to be done. But we also need the reminder to take care while handling our responsibilities.”

This can be easier said than done. So Cheyenne offers up a simple exercise to help: Write down the words you need to hear each day to make yourself a priority and work toward your goals. Put them somewhere you see often, like your fridge or bathroom mirror, and recite them out loud daily.

“This is a perfect example of a reminder that seems small, but can come at the perfect time and help us care for ourselves,” she explains. “One of my favorite examples is: Take it slow and don’t rush, your nervous system deserves peace.”

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“When you tell yourself the thing you’ve been needing to hear, it allows you to admit the quiet rumbling within you and take the steps you need. It might be admitting ‘I’m tired and will give myself an early night this week.’ Or you’re saying ‘I’m so proud of the way I’ve committed to moving my body everyday.’ Whether you’re cheering yourself on or reminding yourself of what you need, we don’t always slow down enough to hear what we need from ourselves, and this practice is a great way to start.”

Talking out loud to yourself may feel strange at first, but Cheyenne says over time it will help shift your mindset and translate those words into action. “When we hear ourselves recite these words, it’s like we’re planting positive seeds within us. The more we say what we need, the more we remember it, and we’re more likely to follow through and care for ourselves,” she says. “Our actions really start with the words we say to ourselves. Reading them out loud helps us rewire the way we talk to ourselves and that inner shift is exactly what opens the door to transformation.”

Join our live “Spring Reset Workshop” on March 22 to get one-on-one coaching from Yasmine Cheyenne and connect with other Start TODAY members. Sign up here!

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Exercise scientist says ‘eating more’ is key to losing weight in perimenopause – here’s why

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Exercise scientist says ‘eating more’ is key to losing weight in perimenopause – here’s why

If you’ve ever wanted to lose weight, you’ve probably heard the phrase ‘calories in versus calories out’. While it’s true to a degree, losing weight in menopause isn’t about eating less, but rather eating differently.

Speaking to fitness coach Loretta Hogg, Dr Stacy Sims says: “One of the first things that women often do, because we grew up in an era of calories in, calories out, less calories means fat loss. That is not true because if you are not eating enough, your body holds on to fat.”

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Building the No Neck Army: The Army’s Holistic Health and Fitness Program – Modern War Institute

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Building the No Neck Army: The Army’s Holistic Health and Fitness Program – Modern War Institute

Editor’s note: This article is the seventh in an eight-part series led by retired General James Mingus, the thirty-ninth vice chief of staff of the Army, on transforming the Army to meet the challenges of tomorrow’s battlefield. You can read other articles in the series here.


The battlefield in America’s next war will offer no sanctuary. The war won’t be fought from forward operating bases equipped with elaborate gyms, contractor-provided dining facilities, or coffee shops. The battlefield will be austere, harsh, and unrelentingly violent, with victory only possible by combining physical strength, endurance, and a will to prepare.

The Army’s Holistic Health and Fitness (H2F) program is the bedrock upon which this preparation begins. Winning America’s next war requires an Army that can get to the fight, win the fight, and get home from the fight—a mission profile that demands not just fit soldiers built for endurance, but warrior athletes built for endurance and able to leverage strength, speed, and power, and grounded in sound sleep and nutrition.

Culture Shift Begins with Mindset Shift

For the last several decades, the Army took pride in fielding formations rooted in a physical fitness culture relying heavily on push-ups, sit-ups, and miles of running and ruck marching. Physical training began predictably after saluting the flag at 0630 and ended promptly when the basic exercises, calisthenics, and formation run were complete. It was one-dimensional, unimaginative, boring, and, ironically, lazy. Army fitness during this period was solely focused on physical endurance.

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In the early 2000s, however, Army fitness began to change, led by special operations units like the 75th Ranger Regiment, which began experimenting with trending fitness regimens like Gym Jones, CrossFit, and Mountain Athlete. By combining emerging principles from several of these programs, special operations units began designing their own programs, such as the Ranger Athlete Warrior program. The rest of the active Army quickly started to model these programs, and the first H2F pilot kicked off in 2018.

Advances in exercise science and twenty years of war helped reframe the Army’s fitness mindset to encompass mental, physical, nutritional, and sleep dimensions. This mindset shift forms the basis of the H2F culture, changing how we train and care for soldiers. The focus is now on building strength and resilience like professional athletes—or more fittingly, warrior athletes. Where mission endurance was the goal before, tactical athleticism is now the goal, with an emphasis on strength, speed, power, and agility.

You Can’t Fake Results

A key part of any fitness program is the ability to measure its effectiveness, and in only a few short years, the return on investment for the H2F program has been profound. Currently sixty-six brigades have an H2F performance team, which consists of twenty-two professionals: a program director, dietitian, physical therapist, and occupational therapist; seven strength and conditioning coaches; four athletic trainers; one cognitive performance specialist; and six military personnel. By 2029, the program will expand to cover the entire active Army, as well as four states of Army National Guard and two Army Reserve commands.

According to analysis from the US Army Research Institute of Environmental Medicine, if H2F had been implemented across the entire Army, over a five-year period it would have added 1,080 deployable soldiers to the fighting force. If that’s not compelling enough, also consider these complementary H2F data points compiled by the Center for Initial Military Training Research and Analysis team after analyzing data from 2019 to 2023:

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  • 61 percent decrease in musculoskeletal injury referrals
  • 44 percent decrease in behavioral health profiles
  • 79 percent decrease in substance abuse cases
  • 22 percent decrease in fitness test failures
  • 33 percent increase in expert rifle marksmanship qualification

Expanding the Tools

As part of continuous transformation, the Army is looking for unique ways to leverage technology to enhance the H2F program. Several units are experimenting with wearables like rings and watches that measure sleep efficiency, heart rate variability, and blood oxygen saturation—providing rich data to inform approaches to physical, nutritional, and sleep aspects of fitness. Today, entire Army divisions are turning physiological data into leader decision-making information. A company commander who knows his or her soldiers’ sleep scores, for example, is equipped with data to combine with other information to help select the most well-rested platoon to lead a dangerous mission. Individual soldiers will also learn the correlations that exist between their fueling, recovery, and performance habits, which will help in multiple facets of their personal lives.

The Army is also continually working to improve facilities and services that support H2F. Most units now have access to twenty-four-hour functional fitness gyms on post and many units utilize fitness containers—effectively, gyms in a box. Plans are also in place to build additional facilities to ensure soldiers at every post have adequate equipment to train. To improve nutrition, the Army is experimenting with campus-style dining facilities that will supplement, and in some cases replace, traditional dining facilities—affording soldiers a myriad of quick, 24/7 accessible healthy food options. A no excuse not to work out and no excuse not to eat healthy mentality now abounds across the Army.

Soldiering has no offseason and no time-outs, and wars wait on no one. When America calls, the Army responds. Unlike professional athletes who can vary training volume, intensity, and specific exercises over planned cycles or offseasons, a practice known as performance periodization, soldiers have no such luxury. Tactical athleticism via compound periodization is the goal for soldiers—ensuring peak performance at all times by developing key physical attributes (e.g., strength, endurance, and power) year-round to maximize efficiency, prevent burnout, and improve overall warfighting readiness. The H2F tools highlighted above aid in measuring and maximizing this readiness.

What’s Next?

Imagine two Army squads ascending Colorado’s Pikes Peak carrying fifty-pound fighting loads. Squad A trained to get to the top through push-ups, sit-ups, and miles of running. The soldiers of Squad B are warrior athletes who took the H2F approach. When Squad A’s soldiers finally struggle to the top, they’re just happy to be mission complete and they flop on the ground. The soldiers of Squad B assault the mountain, and when they get to the top, they still have enough juice to rip the arms off their adversaries and steamroll into the next mission. In their post-hike squad photo, they’re all standing tall—straight backs, satisfied smiles, and trap muscles extending inches above their shoulders so they almost appear to have no necks. For them the mission is just getting started, and their smirks seem to say, “Is that it? What’s next?”

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Welcome to the No Neck Army.

Retired General James Mingus served as the thirty-ninth vice chief of staff of the Army.

Colonel Graham White is an infantry officer and the executive officer to the vice chief of staff of the Army.

The views expressed are those of the authors and do not reflect the official position of the United States Military Academy, Department of the Army, or Department of Defense.

Image credit: KCpl. GeonWoo Park, US Army

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