She carried a easy bouquet of white lilacs as explosions reverberated by way of the intense spring air. Tears streaked her weathered face, which was framed by a blue head scarf.

Nina Mikhailovna got here on Monday, as she does yearly on Could 9, to the everlasting flame in a metropolis park that commemorates the allied victory in World Warfare II. She got here to honor the reminiscence of her father, who was killed in 1943, and to recollect those that died liberating her native Kramatorsk in jap Ukraine from the Nazis, whom she remembers forcing her into the fields as a toddler to chop and collect wheat.

At practically 89, Ms. Mikhailovna thought she would by no means witness something as unhealthy as that battle with the Germans. However the present battle with the Russians is worse, she mentioned.

At the least the Germans have been enemies.

“These are our folks,” she mentioned of the Russian forces, invoking the intertwined historical past, and the household ties, that hyperlink Russia and Ukraine. As she spoke, Russian rockets landed shut sufficient to rumble the bottom the place she stood.

“My niece lives in Moscow however was born in Slovyansk,” she mentioned, referring to a Ukrainian metropolis a number of miles away from Kramatorsk. “And now they’re sending her husband to battle. What’s he imagined to do, kill his mother-in-law?”

“That’s what’s so laborious to endure,” she mentioned.

For many years, Ukrainians and Russians have been sure by their shared expertise in World Warfare II. Collectively they died by the thousands and thousands beneath German hearth, and collectively they drove the Nazis from their lands. And annually on Could 9, when the Soviet Union marked Victory Day, they marched in parades and laid flowers at monuments, at all times collectively.

However this 12 months, as President Vladimir V. Putin of Russia used the vacation to defend his invasion, praising Russian troops for “combating for the Motherland,” Ukrainians hid in bomb shelters and fought in trenches and died in air raids, the best way their grandparents did so a few years go.

The jap area of Donbas, which the Kremlin is attempting to grab on this battle, has historically appeared to Moscow as a middle of political and cultural gravity, and lots of residents have shut household ties to Russia. The battle has difficult this relationship. After Mr. Putin annexed the Crimean Peninsula from Ukraine and instigated a separatist battle in Donbas in 2014, the federal government in Kyiv stripped away the Soviet symbolism from Victory Day. Ukraine celebrates it merely as a victory over fascism, which some Ukrainians now affiliate with Mr. Putin’s authorities as nicely.

“Now we have beat fascism and we’ll defeat Ruscism,” mentioned Pavel Kirilenko, the governor of the Donetsk Area, who arrived with closely armed guards to put flowers on the monument.

Mr. Kirilenko spoke Ukrainian, however most individuals arriving on the monument spoke Russian, and expressed discomfort with the modifications the Ukrainians made to what they known as “our vacation,” at the same time as they criticized the battle and hoped for its finish.

“Would you deny the reminiscence of your grandfather?” mentioned Sergei Porokhnya, 60, when requested why he had come to the monument to mark the vacation. “Why ought to I deny the reminiscence of my grandfather, who died after going lacking?”

All Monday morning in Kramatorsk, sirens wailed and the thump of bombs and rockets shook the town as Russian forces pushed nearer from the north and the east. They aren’t shifting as rapidly as Mr. Putin may need favored, however they’re now shut sufficient to Kramatorsk, a big industrial hub within the Donetsk area, to maintain all however probably the most intrepid, like Ms. Mikhailovna, away from the park that holds the World Warfare II monument.

At a hospital on Monday, ambulances arrived carrying civilians and troopers wounded from the day’s shelling. A 28-year-old soldier named Andriy, pale and shivering in a hospital cot, described a hellish spherical of bombing that morning, which culminated for him when shrapnel flayed open his higher thigh and shattered his femur.

“It was apparent that on the ninth of Could this might occur,” mentioned Andriy, who was engaged on a milk farm in Denmark when the battle began and got here again residence to battle. “We have been prepared for this.”

One other soldier on the hospital, a employees sergeant named Aleskandr, confirmed video on his telephone of intense combating within the metropolis of Rubizhne, about 50 miles away. In a single, he launches a rocket-propelled grenade at a Russian armored automobile, which bursts into flames. Like Andriy, he was comfy offering solely his first identify, for safety causes.

He mentioned he and his comrades have been practically overrun as they fired grenades and machine weapons out of the home windows of an condo constructing. He escaped with a contusion and is able to return into the battle as quickly as docs log off.

“We’re now not brothers,” he mentioned of the 2 sides. “After all it’s painful. What did my grandfather battle for?”

Whereas some troopers insisted the break between Russia and Ukraine was now ultimate, there may be an ambivalence in regards to the battle amongst residents on this a part of Ukraine that may be tough for outsiders to grasp.

In Barvinkove, west of Kramatorsk, the rockets have rained down day and night time, destroying properties and forcing all however probably the most stalwart, or cussed, to flee. However some folks there are lower than enthusiastic in regards to the ubiquitous Ukrainian troops defending their city from Russian forces shifting in from the north, mentioned Bohdan Krynychnyi, a 20-year-old volunteer soldier.

“Right here now we have issues with locals,” mentioned Mr. Krynychnyi whereas taking a break from the combating to purchase groceries on the city’s one working market. His name signal is Monk as a result of he left his coaching at a Ukrainian monastery to hitch the battle. “They’re ready for the Russians right here,” he added.

He described coming into a home that morning that had been bombed by Russian forces. Inside, he mentioned, he discovered a Soviet flag and an orange-and-black St. George ribbon, which has been became a nationalist image by Mr. Putin’s authorities and is worn by many troopers now combating towards Ukraine.

Exterior of city the troopers of Ukraine’s 93rd Mechanized Brigade have been having a victory celebration of their very own. That they had just lately acquired a virtually new self-propelled artillery piece with fashionable Russian firing and focusing on expertise and have been studying the best way to use it. The big armored automobile, which might shoot rounds with excessive precision as much as 20 kilometers away, had been deserted by its Russian crew throughout a Ukrainian assault, mentioned Main Serhii Krutikov, the deputy commander.

“We’re utilizing their weapons towards them,” Main Krutikov mentioned. “We don’t have this type of gear in Ukraine.”

For Maria Mefodyevna, a 93-year-old Barvinkove resident who additionally remembers the Nazi arrival in World Warfare II, all that issues is that the capturing stops. Her residence on a residential road is pockmarked with shrapnel harm. Her husband and sons are useless, and she or he is alone.

“I simply need the battle to finish,” she mentioned, standing uneasily in her lounge wearing a blue flower costume and head scarf. “I solely have a short while left to stay, and naturally I wish to see who wins.”