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Vile school bullies drove vulnerable Vermont girl, 14, to suicide by making fun of her mother

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A teenager from Vermont was harassed by school bullies relentlessly to the point where she took her own life. 

Isabelle Vezina-Dykema, 14, from Winooski near Burlington had been attending Mill School, an alternative high school for students with complex needs but was the victim of constant bullying.

The teen was in her first year at the school and was tormented both in person and over text with cruel taunts that made fun both of her appearance and her mother’s.

Heather Miller, her mom, had recently been dealing with complex health problems, including recovering from recent brain surgery that had left her with a shuttered eyelid.

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She recounted how on the day of Isabelle’s suicide, Isabelle came home extremely distressed from school. Heather gave Isabelle some time to work through her feelings, but unbeknownst to her, the abuse had driven her to breaking point.

Isabelle Vezina-Dykema, 14, right, from Winooski near Burlington is seen alongside her mother Heather Miller before taking her own life on September 15

The 14-year-old from Winooski near Burlington had been attending Mill School, an alternative high school for students with complex needs but she was the victim of constant bullying

The 14-year-old from Winooski near Burlington had been attending Mill School, an alternative high school for students with complex needs but she was the victim of constant bullying

‘I thought I was doing the right thing, but in 35 minutes our whole lives changed,’ Heather said through tears to WCAX, describing her as ‘spunky, so outgoing [and someone who] loved to dance. 

‘She was excited about the school year, excited about being a freshman. “I’m finally in high school, I’m not going to let things bother me, I’m going to succeed,”‘ she recalls her daughter saying. 

On September 15th, the day of her death, Heather shared her devastating news with friends and family.

‘My world stopped today. We lost our precious Isabelle Vezina. I am forever changed. I can not and will not ever be the same without my baby girl. None of us will,’ Heather wrote.

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‘Fourteen years with you wasn’t even close to enough. I’ve always thought of myself as strong. Never have I felt so weak. I am consumed with a pain too immense to measure and too deep to heal,’ she added.

Isabelle was known as an outgoing, bubbly energetic girl reads an obituary to the teen.

Heather was in tears as she told of the struggles her daughter faced to a local TV station

Heather was in tears as she told of the struggles her daughter faced to a local TV station

Her mom Heather said Isabelle's bullies made fun of her mother's appearance

Her mom Heather said Isabelle’s bullies made fun of her mother’s appearance 

She enjoyed sports, ice skating, baking and cooking, dancing, and making TikTok videos with family and friends. 

‘Isabelle was a bright spark and destined to be a huge personality,’ the obituary reads. 

Her mother went to state how she takes comfort from the fact her daughter’s organs were able to be transplanted.

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‘She saved 7 lives and gave a child sight. Her brain was received by autism research which is a near and dear cause to us,’ Heather wrote.

In a another posting, a photo of an urn containing Isabelle’s ashes can be seen sitting atop a cabinet in the family’s living room.

‘This isn’t how you were supposed to come home,’ Heather wrote in a heartbreaking post. 

‘I miss you so much baby. I miss everything about you. The pain is unbearable but we are doing everything we can to honor you and help others .’

The teen was in her first year at the school and was bullied both in person and over text

The teen was in her first year at the school and was bullied both in person and over text

Isabelle's ashes now sit in an urn atop a cabinet in the living room of the family home

Isabelle’s ashes now sit in an urn atop a cabinet in the living room of the family home

Meanwhile, The Mill School are investigating the claims of bullying but have not elaborated on the allegations.

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‘We, at the Mill School, have been devastated by the loss of one of our students. We are working with the appropriate agencies and continue to provide counseling support,’ officials said in a statement.

Teen suicides appear to be a growing problem in Vermont with at least one death every year since 2019 in 14 to 14-year-old.  

‘Very much our adolescents not only feel things in extremes, they also feel like now will be forever. They may have this really strong emotion and feel trapped,’ said Matt Wolf, an experienced Community Organizer with the nonprofit Vermont Afterschool to CBS3.

The Mill School are investigating the claims of bullying and have not elaborated on the claims

The Mill School are investigating the claims of bullying and have not elaborated on the claims

Christ Allen  of Vermont Department of Mental Health says at least one third of high school students experience poor mental health. Matt Wolf, right, an experienced Community Organizer, says teens experience very strong emotions

Matt Wolf an experienced Community Organizer, says teens experience very strong emotions

Christ Allen, left,  of Vermont Department of Mental Health says at least one third of high school students experience poor mental health. Matt Wolf, right, an experienced Community Organizer, says teens experience very strong emotions

The Vermont Department of Mental Health says at least one third  of high school students experience poor mental health.

‘That is a cause of alarm for me because that means that close to half of high school students feel like they don’t matter,’ said Chris Allen from VDMH. 

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‘Our bullies are calling for help or crying out for help in the only way they know. I think if we address them in more of a therapeutic way, more of a concerning way instead of a punitive way, we might actually get somewhere to reduce bullying,’ Allen said.

Isabelle’s family are hosting a celebration of life event at Waterworks Park next to the skate park in Burlington on Saturday 28th September from 2-9pm.

For confidential help, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255.



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A portion of a Vermont highway has been shut down following a rock slide on Tuesday.

Vermont State Police said in an email around 1:22 p.m. that they had received a report of a rock slide on Route 5 in Fairlee, just south of the Bradford town line.

“Initial reports are of a substantial amount of rock & trees in the roadway, making travel through the area difficult or impassable,” they said. “Motorists should seek alternate routes or expect delays in the area.”

Route 5 is a nearly 200-mile, mostly two-lane highway running from the Massachusetts border to Canada.

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In an update shortly after 2 p.m., state police said Route 5 in Fairlee between Mountain Road and Sawyer Mountain Drive will remain closed while the Vermont Agency of Transportation assesses the stability of the roadway.

No further details were released.



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Maine Black Bears vs. Vermont Catamounts – Live Score – March 13, 2026

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Vermont meets Maine and Smith in America East Final, fresh off her 26 Pts, 12 Reb, 4 Ast game

TEAM STATS

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62.3 PPG 65.8

28.4 RPG 29.8

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13.4 APG 12.1

11.2 TPG 9.9

60.1 PPG Allowed 51.5

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COMMENTARY: Vermont: The Beckoning Country

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COMMENTARY: Vermont: The Beckoning Country


Vermont has some big problems that desperately need fixing! Many of them are connected, in a variety of ways to a symptom rarely discussed. The population of Vermont is falling while the population of the United States is growing. Vermont has been losing people for the last few years. The reasons include deaths in Vermont outpace births; between 2023 and 2024 there were 1,700 more deaths than births. More people left the state than moved into Vermont. In another worrying sign the birthrate in the United States is down 25 percent since 2007 when the decline began. Another symptom may be that weekly take home pay in Vermont is about $400.00 less than the national average. Taken together these problems should set off alarms about our future.

S, it should not be a surprise that our schools throughout the state have a diminishing number of students while simultaneously school budgets are skyrocketing upward. Yes, it is costing us more to educate fewer students, and Vermonters are rarely wealthy. Maintaining quality schools is expensive. The average pay for public school teachers in the United States is $72,030. The average pay for a public-school teacher in Vermont is only $52,559. A nearly $20,000 gap is hardly an incentive to attract the best of the best. Good teachers are a precious commodity.

Gov. Phil Scott has demanded the Legislature do something about education costs in the Green Mountain State. Legislators have been spending much more time on this problem than any other facing the state. There have been various proposals, one of the latest is from Sen. Seth Bongartz of Manchester that would create a two year “ramp period” for school districts to merge voluntarily. Two years is a long time to wait when the problem is financially urgent. School mergers are inevitable in many areas which will mean the eventual closing of several small elementary schools. The closing in many cases means long bus rides for little kids.

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One idea that has not been discussed is increasing, substantially, Vermont’s population over the next decade or so. We don’t have enough students to make financial sense for our small rural schools. We need more property-owning people whose taxes will help balance our cash-strapped education budgets. Why doesn’t the Legislature think about a campaign to entice people to move to the Green Mountain state?

In the 1960s Vermont’s economic development officials, under new Gov. Phil Hoff, launched a marketing campaign that was known as “Vermont the Beckoning Country.” The campaign was remarkably successful, bringing thousands of people to a place that at that time had largely skipped the Industrial Revolution. Vermont’s ski industry began growing by leaps and bounds then, bringing in large numbers of people new to the state. Entrepreneurs, many of them World War II veterans, began developing ski resorts in the Green Mountains. They attracted thousands of visitors and some of those visitors fell in love with Vermont. They stayed. These Flatlanders changed the state, making it more liberal, and more environmentally conscious. Gov. Hoff, the first Democrat elected governor since 1853, was followed by a wave of successful liberal politicians who turned Vermont from red to blue. People can differ about the whether the political transformation improved the state or destroyed it, but the state undoubtedly grew more prosperous.

Vermont has plenty of land that can be used to build new housing. New people can bring fresh ideas and the capital needed to create new businesses with good jobs. More families living in more houses means more property taxes going to schools. It should also lighten the load for the current financially stressed Vermonters.

A well-financed advertising campaign to entice new people to make Vermont their home will make us more prosperous. More taxpayers can be one of the many solutions needed to save our struggling education system.

Clear the cobwebs off the old slogan and invite a whole new crop of young, energetic families to Vermont the Beckoning Country!

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Eric Peterson lives in Bennington. Opinions expressed by columnists do not necessarily reflect the views of Vermont News & Media. 



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