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You can’t wear political clothing at the polls, so this woman voted in her bra

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You can’t wear political clothing at the polls, so this woman voted in her bra

It seemed like a simple request.

Election workers asked a voter in Hamilton Township to take off her MAGA hat and cover up her shirt expressing support for former President Donald Trump.

Enraged, the woman took off her hat and shirt, spinning it like a lasso. She then proceeded to vote, wearing her bra, after hurling vulgar epithets at the workers before a crowd of as many as 100 voters, several people told NJ Advance Media.

In Gloucester Township, a voter waltzed into the polling location wearing a red cloak and white bonnet, inspired by The Handmaid’s Tale, the dystopian book and television series about a patriarchal society where women are forced into sexual slavery to bear children for their masters.

She complied with the request to remove her cloak and bonnet before voting, and then she walked out quietly while putting her outfit back on.

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Early voting began in New Jersey last Saturday and turnout has been heavy so far. In addition to long lines, poll workers around the state have had to contend with, and sometimes confront, belligerent people who insist on showing their candidate preferences at the polls. Many may not realize that wearing political messaging while voting is not allowed, election officials said, but some simply don’t seem to care.

Indeed, ”electioneering” is against the law in the Garden State.

People cannot “distribute or display any circular or printed matter or offer any suggestion or solicit any support for any candidate, party or public question within the polling place or room or within a distance of 100 feet of the outside entrance to such polling place or room, or within 100 feet of a ballot drop box in use during the conduct of an election.”

That includes wearing T-shirts, hats or buttons, for example, that support a candidate or can be interpreted as trying to sway a voter’s opinion, election officials said. Bumper stickers and flags on vehicles within 100 feet of polling places are also prohibited.

When the “handmaid” voter arrived at the Gloucester Township polling location for early voting on Saturday, at first, poll workers thought she was wearing a Little Red Riding Hood costume, perhaps for a Halloween party.

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She was dressed in a flowing red cloak with a white bonnet.

Then workers saw the bloody red handprints on the bonnet.

“When the board worker asked, she said it was Handmaid’s Tale,” said Sarah Napper, one of Camden County’s election administrators, who said the costume was a political statement. “We asked her to remove it. She did, but she proudly put it back on when she walked out of here.”

The woman who ultimately voted in her bra in Mercer County took offense when she was asked to remove a MAGA hat and T-shirt.

It happened at the Colonial Fire House in Hamilton Township, where voters waited on a long line for their turn to cast a ballot, said Jill Moyer, chair of the Mercer County Board of Elections.

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“I asked her to remove her hat and said if you want to go get a jacket from your car, I will hold your place in line or you could go into the bathroom to turn the shirt inside out,” Moyer said of the Saturday encounter. “Before I could get it all out, she took off her shirt and flung it around.”

The woman started to curse at election workers and call them “nasty” names, Moyer said.

Moyer said she went to call the police but the woman quickly voted and left the building.

But before the voter left, one witness told NJ Advance Media, they captured a photo of the woman as she voted in her bra.

The witness said before the voter left, she put her shirt back on, inside out this time, and she also donned her hat, but not before she had another message for poll workers. “She gave the finger and said ‘Suck my ****,’” a witness said.

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“I felt so bad for (the poll workers). They’re just trying to do their jobs and people are saying this god-awful stuff,” the witness said.

But it didn’t end there. The photo vent viral on social media, getting the attention of vice presidential candidate JD Vance. He retweeted the photo and called the voter a “patriot.” Vance later removed the post.

It’s not just about apparel. At the Galaxy Mall in Guttenberg in Hudson County on Saturday, Ben Applegate was standing in line with several dozen people, all waiting for their turn to vote. He said he heard someone start clapping for the crowd, as if they were happy to see so many people had come to cast their ballots. It was a man leaning over the second floor railing, he said.

“Then he yelled ‘Go Trump,’ and a man in a MAGA hat in line behind us said, ‘F*** it, I’m not afraid,’ and also started chanting ‘Trump,’” Applegate said. “I told him it was a polling place and they couldn’t do that here, and told him to shut up.”

Ben Applegate is photographed wearing his “I voted” sticker. He said someone shouted support for former president Donald Trump at a polling site.Courtesy Ben Applegate

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The man who was upstairs came down and started walking through the line, shouting, “Trump! Where were you all in 2020?” Applegate said. “The poll workers were mostly older ladies, and I felt so bad for them. They were conferring with each other about what to do.”

Maryanne Kelleher, Hudson County’s Superintendent of Elections and Commissioner of Registration, said the man was “quickly shooed away by onlookers.”

“What we were advised is that Saturday’s incident was a momentary event that ended quickly, and was beyond 100 feet of the polling entrance,” she said.

Election officials across the state noted several dozen reports of electioneering, mostly people who were asked to remove hats or to cover T-shirts, and most complied without incident. But when voters don’t cooperate, poll workers call police for backup.

It happened at the Lower Township Library voting site in Villas, Cape May County, on Saturday, when a voter grew defiant.

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“A gentleman had a Trump hat on. He was asked to remove it but he refused,” said Michael Kennedy, registrar and department head of the county Board of Elections. “One of the poll workers called the police. He told them he was being harassed by one of the other voters.”

The man removed the hat when police asked, Kennedy said. At least, he temporarily removed it.

“I was told right before he went in to vote that he put the hat on after the police left,” he said.

With Halloween on Thursday, some election officials said they are expecting more mischief.

“We are waiting for Halloween when someone comes dressed at a candidate,” said Beth Thompson, administrator for the Hunterdon County Board of Elections.

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Back in Camden County, at the site of the Handmaid’s Tale incident, Napper, a Republican, said there are times when voters test the limits of the electioneering rules while accusing election workers of partisanship.

“When you talk to a voter and the first thing they say is, ‘Oh, you must be a certain party,’ that’s when I introduce my counterpart,” she said, giving a nod to Nellie McFadden, who serves as the county’s Democratic elections administrator.

“They are testing us,” McFadden said.

They shared the story of another voter who came to cast her ballot wearing a “Make Halloween Great Again” T-shirt. It included a picture of someone wearing a hockey mask like the one made famous by the Mike Meyers character in the Halloween movie franchise.

“It also had Trump hair, so you’re pushing it there,” Napper said.

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“The voter said she was being discriminated against when she was asked to cover it up. She said it was a Halloween shirt but it’s a political statement as well,” Napper said.

“We do get pushback, but we try to explain to them we just want to run everything smoothly,” McFadden said. “We want everybody to vote and to be fair and kind to one another. We want this to be a pleasant experience for everyone.”

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Karin Price Mueller may be reached at KPriceMueller@NJAdvanceMedia.com. Follow her on X at @KPMueller.

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Mara is a single mother of two in Minnesota. She and her family have depended on SNAP benefits to make ends meet.

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Although Mara is unemployed, she is busier than ever.

When she is not taking care of her two children, Mara is at her desk applying for jobs. She is surveying her belongings to see what she can pawn off to buy toiletries. Or she is sifting through bills, calculating which ones can wait and which need to be paid right away.

Soon, Mara, a single mom in Minnesota, may have another task on her busy schedule: figuring out how to afford food for her and her family.

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That’s because of new work requirements for people receiving aid from the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program, also known as SNAP or food stamps.

“It would be so beyond hard” to lose SNAP benefits, Mara said. “Without SNAP, there’s no funds for food.” Mara asked for her last name to be withheld given the stigma tied to receiving government assistance. She is also worried that speaking publicly will affect her chances of getting a job.

Previously, SNAP recipients with children under 18 were exempt from work requirements mandating that recipients work, volunteer or participate in job training at least 80 hours a month. But now, under President Trump’s One Big Beautiful Bill Act, that exemption only applies to those with children under 14 — which is how old Mara’s youngest child turned in December.

Mara poses for a portrait at CareerForce, a resource for job seekers in Minnesota.

“It would be so beyond hard” to lose SNAP benefits, Mara said.

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The Trump administration has argued that the mission of the nation’s largest anti-hunger program has failed.

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“SNAP was intended to be temporary help for those who encounter tough times. Now, it’s become so bloated that it is leaving fewer resources for those who truly need help,” the White House said in a statement in June.

But policy experts say the SNAP changes do not fully take into account the unique challenges faced by single parents like Mara or the sluggish job market in many parts of the country. They argue that losing food assistance will only create more barriers for recipients struggling to find work.

The timeline for implementing the new SNAP policy varies based on state and county. In Mara’s home state of Minnesota, recipients who don’t qualify for an exemption or meet work requirements will be at risk of losing assistance as early as April 1. Others may have more months depending on when they next need to certify they are eligible for benefits.

Over 100 job applications

Mara imagined she would have a job by now.

It was August when she was let go from her part-time administrative assistant role due to her workplace restructuring. Since then, Mara estimates that she has applied for over 100 positions. She has also attended job fairs and taken free workshops on resume writing.

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She has been working since high school, she said, but “ I’ve never been out of work for more than one month, so it’s very difficult.”

Mara spends time working at the computer at CareerForce, a resource for job seekers in Minnesota, on March 4.

Mara spends time working at the computer at CareerForce, a resource for job seekers in Minnesota, on March 4.

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Although she misses her old job, Mara said it didn’t pay enough to support her and her kids, so she relied on SNAP benefits.

Many recipients are part of the low-wage labor market, where job security is often unpredictable and turnover tends to be high, according to Lauren Bauer, a researcher at the Brookings Institution who has studied SNAP extensively.

“SNAP is supposed to be there to help people smooth that and not let the bottom fall out when they experience job loss,” she said. “And this policy doesn’t account for that at all.”

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Mara’s lowest point came in November when the government shutdown led to disruptions in SNAP benefits. Not only was she searching for a new job, but she was constantly figuring out where to get her family’s next meal.

“I might be looking for food stuff during the day when I should have been looking for a job,” she said. “Then, I’m trying to make up that time in the evening after my kids go to bed.”

During the pause, Mara turned to food banks, which revealed other challenges. First, food pantries do not always provide enough for an adult and two growing teenagers, she said. Second, they often lack gluten-free foods, which is essential for her daughter who has celiac disease, an autoimmune disorder that causes digestive problems if gluten is consumed. Gluten-free products tend to be more expensive.

If Mara loses access to SNAP again because of the new work requirements, she fears another stretch of long days spent looking for the right food and enough to feed her family.

“I would be so reliant on looking for food shelves or food banks,” she said. “There would not be time to even live.”

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“We’re going to see increases in poverty. We’re going to see increases in food insecurity”

The Congressional Budget Office estimates that roughly 2.4 million people will lose food benefits in a typical month over the next decade as a result of the new SNAP requirements — including 300,000 parents like Mara with children 14 or older.

Gina Plata-Nino, the SNAP director at the nonprofit Food Research & Action Center, says many of the affected recipients will be single mothers who make up a majority of single parent households in the U.S. She added that the changes target a group that often lacks or struggles to afford a support system to help care for their children.

“How can they have a full-time job when they need to pick up their children [for] various activities?” she said. “And they are working — just not enough hours because they need to be there present for their children.”

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The new law also imposes work requirements on veterans, homeless people, young adults aging out of foster care, and able-bodied adults without dependents from ages 55 to 64.

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It also toughened the criteria for waiving work requirements for recipients in areas with high unemployment. Previously, there were multiple ways to determine a weak labor market and secure a waiver. Now, it only applies to places with an unemployment rate above 10%. (Alaska and Hawaii have a different measure.)

For those who fail to meet the work requirement, SNAP provides assistance for up to three months within a three-year span. But Bauer from the Brookings Institution argues that it is not enough and the impact of SNAP changes will be widespread.

“We’re going to see increases in poverty. We’re going to see increases in food insecurity. We’re going to see increasing strain on the charitable food sector,” she said.

Mara holds her favorite anchor ring, which carries the inscription, "God for me provide thee."

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As anxiety hangs over her head, Mara tries to put on a brave face for her children. She does not want them to worry, explaining that her recent struggles have reminded her how tough life can get as an adult.

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“I remind them it’s not their responsibility and they’re not accountable for me or for what’s happening,” she said. “I say, just know you get to be a kid.”

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Kevin Kline plays actor Richard Bean, and Laura Linney is his sister-in-law Kristen, in American Classic.

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American Classic is a hidden gem, in more ways than one. It’s hidden because it’s on MGM+, a stand-alone streaming service that, let’s face it, most people don’t have. But MGM+ is available without subscription for a seven-day free trial, on its website or through Prime Video and Roku. And you should find and watch American Classic, because it’s an absolutely charming and wonderful TV jewel.

Charming, in the way it brings small towns and ordinary people to life, as in Northern Exposure. Wonderful, in the way it reflects the joys of local theater productions, as in Slings & Arrows, and the American Playhouse production of Kurt Vonnegut’s Who Am I This Time?

The creators of American Classic are Michael Hoffman and Bob Martin. Martin co-wrote and co-created Slings & Arrows, so that comparison comes easily. And back in the early 1980s, Who Am I This Time? was about people who transformed onstage from ordinary citizens into extraordinary performers. It’s a conceit that works only if you have brilliant actors to bring it to life convincingly. That American Playhouse production had two young actors — Christopher Walken and Susan Sarandon — so yes, it worked. And American Classic, with its mix of veteran and young actors, does, too.

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American Classic begins with Kevin Kline, as Shakespearean actor Richard Bean, confronting a New York Times drama critic about his negative opening-night review of Richard’s King Lear. The next day, Richard’s agent, played by Tony Shalhoub, calls Richard in to tell him his tantrum was captured by cellphone and went viral, and that he has to lay low for a while.

Richard returns home to the small town of Millersburg, Pa., where his parents ran a local theater. Almost everyone we meet is a treasure. His father, who has bouts of dementia, is played by Len Cariou, who starred on Broadway in Sweeney Todd. Richard’s brother, Jon, is played by Jon Tenney of The Closer, and his wife, Kristen, is played by the great Laura Linney, from Ozark and John Adams.

Things get even more complicated because the old theater is now a dinner theater, filling its schedule with performances by touring regional companies. Its survival is at risk, so Richard decides to save the theater by mounting a new production of Thornton Wilder’s Our Town, casting the local small-town residents to play … local small-town residents.

Miranda, Richard’s college-bound niece, continues the family theatrical tradition — and Nell Verlaque, the young actress who plays her, has a breakout role here. She’s terrific — funny, touching, totally natural. And when she takes the stage as Emily in Our Town, she’s heart-wrenching. Playwright Wilder is served magnificently here — and so is William Shakespeare, whose works and words Kline tackles in more than one inspirational scene in this series.

I don’t want to reveal too much about the conflicts, and surprises, in American Classic, but please trust me: The more episodes you watch, the better it gets. The characters evolve, and go in unexpected directions and pairings. Kline’s Richard starts out thinking about only himself, but ends up just the opposite. And if, as Shakespeare wrote, the play’s the thing, the thing here is, the plays we see, and the soliloquies we hear, are spellbinding.

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And there’s plenty of fun to be had outside the classics in American Classic. The table reads are the most delightful since the ones in Only Murders in the Building. The dinner-table arguments are the most explosive since the ones in The Bear. Some scenes are take-your-breath-away dramatic. Others are infectiously silly, as when Richard works with a cast member forced upon him by the angel of this new Our Town production.

Take the effort to find, and watch, American Classic. It’ll remind you why, when it’s this good, it’s easy to love the theater. And television.

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