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MDs Reveal the Home Cures That Soothe Hemorrhoid Itch & Discomfort In Minutes

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MDs Reveal the Home Cures That Soothe Hemorrhoid Itch & Discomfort In Minutes

If you’ve ever had a hemorrhoid flare-up, you know that it can be hard to think of anything other than the intense discomfort that comes with it. One of the most common symptoms of hemorrhoids, along with irritation, bleeding, and soreness is itching. And while the itching is uncomfortable during the day, it can feel even more intense at night. Here, top experts weigh in on why hemorrhoids itch at night — and the simple home cures that work even better than some over-the-counter creams.

What are hemorrhoids?

“Hemorrhoids are a natural part of our body,” says Lynn M. O’Connor, MD, a colorectal surgeon and chief of colorectal surgery at both Mercy Hospital and St. Joseph Hospital in New York.  “They’re vascular cushions in our anus and everyone has them.” These anal cushions, aka hemorrhoids or piles, are made up of connective tissue, blood vessels, and a small amount of muscle. Hemorrhoids actually serve an important purpose by helping to shield the skin around the anus from passing stool.

“Normal hemorrhoidal tissue is there to maintain continence. It keeps the rectum closed so that stool doesn’t leak out,” explains gastroenterologist Eric Dinesh Shah, MD, a clinical associate professor of medicine at the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor and a spokesperson for the American Gastroenterological Association.

But problems occur when excess pressure is put on these cushions. This can make the veins and blood vessels in your lower rectum or around your anus painfully swollen and inflamed — what most of us consider “hemorrhoids”. It’s not uncommon. According to the National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases, hemorrhoid flares affect 1 in 20 Americans. And the the issue worsens with age, impacting about half of people over 50.

The two main types of hemorrhoids

There are two types of hemorrhoids: internal, which form in the lining of your anus and lower rectum, and external, which form under the skin around the anus. External hemorrhoids are the more uncomfortable of the two because they’re outside of the anus. There, they can rub against clothing or play host to mucus or stool particles, which can cause irritation and itching.

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Internal hemorrhoids tend to be painless, though they can bleed. You’ll likely notice blood on toilet paper or in the toilet after using the bathroom. But if you see blood after wiping or in your stool for a prolonged period of time, it’s time to schedule a visit with your doctor.  “With bleeding we can’t always assume it’s hemorrhoids,” Dr. Shah says. “It could be sign of something else, such as inflammatory bowel disease, ulcers, or possibly a sign of cancer. It can be hard to tell without an evaluation, including a colonoscopy, to take a look as to what’s really going on.”

External hemorrhoids are typically the ones that cause the most pain and itchingvisona29/Shutterstock

What causes hemorrhoids?

Some of the more common causes of hemorrhoid flare ups include overexerting yourself when having a bowel movement (such as passing too-hard stool or straining due to constipation), lifting heavy things, prolonged sitting (especially on the toilet), pregnancy and being overweight. This puts pressure on your hemorrhoidal tissue, weakening and stretching the veins there.

An under-the-radar trigger? Pelvic floor dysfunction, says Dr. Shah. Your pelvic floor consists of the muscles and the connective tissue that support organs in your pelvis including your bladder, bowel, and reproductive organs. “Pelvic floor dysfunction is caused by poor coordination or weakness of the pelvic floor when straining, which in turn is a common cause of hemorrhoids,” he explains. The condition affects approximately 25% of women in the US. (Click through to see the telltale signs a pelvic floor problem,)

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Who is most at risk for hemorrhoids?

More people over 50 experience hemorrhoids because as we age, the connective tissue between the anus and rectum gets weaker, explains Dr. Shah. “Increased pressure, especially if you’re straining to have a bowel movement, can make it easier for an external hemorrhoid to break through.”

What’s more, “older adults are more likely to experience constipation from lack of adequate physical activity, a low-fiber diet or taking certain medications, such as those for high blood pressure and depression,” Dr. Shah explains.

You may also have your family to thank for your hemorrhoids. When researchers reporting in the journal Gut examined cells of nearly one million people, they identified genes in 102 regions of the human genome that increase the risk of hemorrhoids. And the American Academy of Family Physicians says people whose parents had hemorrhoids may be more likely to have the painful, itchy condition, too.

Why do hemorrhoids itch at night?

Let’s start with why hemorrhoids itch in the first place. “If hemorrhoids are inflamed, that can cause itchiness,” says Dr. O’Connor. “You also can experience itchiness from the friction of the toilet paper if you’re wiping excessively. And if hemorrhoids are swollen and hang down, they can rub against clothing.”

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When it comes to nighttime itchiness, Dr. O’Connor says one reason it may feel worse is because you’re more fixated on it. “You might be more aware because there’s nothing to distract you from the itching,” she says. “During the day, you’re doing what you need to do and dealing with other things so you might not have time to focus on it that much.”

And while you’re sleeping, you may be unaware you’re scratching the area. That’s a problem, since scratching inflamed hemorrhoids can potentially make the problem worse. “Scratching can cause an itching and scratching cycle that doesn’t stop,” says Dr. Shah, increasing inflammation.

The best ways to soothe hemorrhoid itching

Whether itching and irritation strikes at night or flares up during the day, these simple, natural home remedies can quickly quell symptoms.

Dab on witch hazel

When symptoms flare, pat the problem area with a cotton ball dampened with witch hazel. This natural astringent has been a folk cure for hundreds of years to relieve itching, and research now proves it really is one of the best ways to calm symptoms in seconds. That’s because witch hazel brims with tannic acid. And research in ACS Applied Materials and Interfaces found this compound shrinks swelling on contact and dulls inflamed nerve endings that telegraph pain. (Click through to our sister site to see 8 surprising uses for witch hazel.) Need relief on the go? Reach for a pre-moistened, witch hazel-infused pad. One to try: Tucks Medicated Cooling Pads (Buy from Walmart.com, $7.68) 

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Relax with a warm sitz soak

A sitz bath, a shallow soak where water only covers your hips and bottom, can provide powerful relief from hemorrhoids. Research in the Women and Birth finds that taking a five-minute break three times a day to soak the affected area in warm, Epsom-infused water relieves pain and itching even better than topicals like Preparation H and Anusol. Not only does the warmth boost circulation to speed healing but the magnesium in Epsom salts also extinguishes pain-triggering inflammation. Tip: Try an Epsom salt blend formulated just for sitz baths. They’re dosed with anti-inflammatory ingredients like aloe, lavender and calendula. One to try: Lansinoh Sitz Bath Salts (Buy from Amazon.com, $12.03)

Tip: When washing and drying the anal area, be extra gentle. “Skin can break down if you’re washing too aggressively,” cautions Dr. O’Connor, which can worsen irritation. You also want to pat the area dry with a soft cloth instead of rubbing in a “flossing” motion. Or you can use a hair dryer on a low cool or warm setting, Dr. O’Connor adds.

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Try a citrus plant extract

Taking a potent citrus plant flavonoid called diosmin daily slashes hemorrhoid symptoms up to 67%, according to a review of 10 studies in the British Journal of Surgery. What’s more, it cuts your chances of a future flare up by 50% when taken daily. Diosimin improves blood flow, helping to constrict and heal the overly dilated blood vessels responsible for pain and swelling. Best of all, it begins working in as little as four days. 

The best ways to ward off future flare-ups

After experiencing the pain and discomfort of a hemorrhoid flare, odds are you’ll want to do whatever you can to block a future one. Here, the best ways to curb your risk.

Sip a tropical smoothie 

Starting each day with a frozen mango fruit smoothie blocks chronic constipation better than with the top MD-recommended treatments like psyllium fiber or laxatives, according to Texas A&M University. The reason? While fiber supplements and laxatives may aid in the treatment of constipation (the number-one underlying cause of hemorrhoids) they don’t fully address all the symptoms, such as intestinal inflammation.

But mangoes’ combination of soluble fiber and inflammation-fighting polyphenols heal the gut, preventing your system from backing up. Simply blend 1 cup fresh or frozen mango cubes with 1 ¼ cup plant or dairy milk. Enjoy! (Click through to our sister site to check out the genius hack for peeling a mango in seconds.)

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Top your burger with creamy avocado

The American Society of Colon and Rectal Surgeons (ASCRS) recommends eating between 20 to 35 grams of fiber each day, with for reason: Shoring up fiber intake reduces hemorrhoid symptoms by 50%, suggests a study in The World Journal of Gastroenterology. Fiber helps create softer stools that pass more easily, which reduces the straining that triggers hemorrhoid pain. Some good options: topping your burger with sliced avocado or snacking on a handful of nuts daily. 

Drink another glass of H2O

Another reason to chug more water: Adequate H2O blocks hemorrhoid-triggering constipation. Aim to drink about half your body weigh in ounces daily. “If you get 20 to 30 grams of fiber a day and drink plenty of water, you should be able to move your bowels with no problem,” notes Dr. O’Connor. (Click through to our sister site to check out the motivational water water bottle makes it easier to drink up.)

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And if you do get that “gotta go” urge, don’t wait to make a trip to the bathroom. Delaying a bowel movement and holding in stool can cause the colon to absorb more water from the stool, making it drier and harder to pass.

Put your feet up when you go

Propping your feet up on a 7″ to 9″ footstool when you have a bowel movement cuts down on straining and toilet time (a top hemorrhoid trigger), a study from The Ohio State University found. When folks used a footstool for two weeks, 71% reported experiencing faster bowel movements and 90% reported less straining. Researchers say propping your feet up mimics a natural squatting position that relaxes the pelvic floor and makes it easier to “go”. Sitting on a toilet on the other hand, creates a bend in the rectum, which makes it more difficult to have complete bowel movement. 

Read on for more ways to outsmart constipation, the top cause of hemorrhoid flares:

This content is not a substitute for professional medical advice or diagnosis. Always consult your physician before pursuing any treatment plan.

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A Skeptical G.O.P. Senator Makes His Peace With Kennedy

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Perhaps no vote was as agonizing for Senator Bill Cassidy, the Louisiana Republican and medical doctor, than his vote to confirm Robert F. Kennedy Jr. as President Trump’s health secretary. Mr. Cassidy wondered aloud for days how Mr. Kennedy, the nation’s most vocal and powerful critic of vaccinations, might handle an infectious disease crisis.

Now, as a measles outbreak rages in West Texas, Mr. Cassidy has found out. It all comes down, he said, to “the gestalt.”

On Monday, days after the Texas outbreak killed an unvaccinated child, Mr. Cassidy, the chairman of the Senate Health Committee, was clipping down a Capitol corridor when he was asked about Mr. Kennedy. He pointed to a Fox News Digital opinion piece in which Mr. Kennedy advised parents to consult their doctors about vaccination, while calling it a “personal” decision.

“That Fox editorial was very much encouraging people to get vaccinated,” he said.

Reminded that Mr. Kennedy had described it as a personal choice, Mr. Cassidy thought for a moment. “If you want to like, parse it down to the line, you can say, ‘Discuss with your doctor,’” Mr. Cassidy said. “He also said, ‘We’re making vaccinations available. We’re doing this for vaccination. We’re doing that for vaccination.’ So if you take the gestalt of it, the gestalt was, ‘Let’s get vaccinated!’”

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Mr. Cassidy’s assessment — that the whole of Mr. Kennedy’s message was more than the sum of its parts — reflects how the measles outbreak has put a spotlight on how Mr. Trump’s unorthodox choice to run the country’s top health agency has brought a once-fringe perspective into the political mainstream, creating discomfort for some Republicans.

As the founder and chairman of his nonprofit, Children’s Health Defense, and later as a presidential candidate, Mr. Kennedy has repeatedly downplayed the benefits of vaccination. He has also repeatedly suggested that the measles, mumps and rubella vaccine causes autism, despite extensive research that has found no link.

Since winning Trump’s nod to head the sprawling Department of Health and Human Services, Mr. Kennedy has walked a careful line on the issue. Some of his recent statements, in which he stops short of denouncing vaccines, have angered some of his supporters. But his less than full-throated endorsement of vaccination, and his promotion of alternative remedies to treat measles, have angered mainstream scientists who say the one proven way to prevent measles is the vaccine.

“This, I would say, is the barest of the bare minimum that one can do in the middle of a measles outbreak,” said Dr. Adam Ratner, a New York City pediatrician who just published a book, “Booster Shots,” that warns of a measles resurgence.

But Del Bigtree, Mr. Kennedy’s former communications director and one of his closest allies, said Mr. Kennedy was doing exactly what he said he would do: putting all options on the table and letting parents decide for themselves.

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He used the word “balance” to describe Mr. Kennedy’s approach, and said the media was being “incredibly disingenuous and in some ways alarmist and dangerous by creating a panic over a death from measles.”

Asked about Mr. Cassidy’s “gestalt” remark, Andrew Nixon, a spokesman for the department, referred back to the Fox opinion piece. He said the health secretary’s comment could speak for itself: “Vaccines not only protect individual children from measles, but also contribute to community immunity, protecting those who are unable to be vaccinated due to medical reasons.”

Mr. Cassidy, a liver specialist, made his career in medicine treating uninsured patients as a doctor in Louisiana’s charity hospital system. He is a fierce proponent of vaccines.

But he is also facing a Republican primary challenger in 2026, and voting against Mr. Kennedy risked prompting Mr. Trump to endorse his opponent — and sparking a potential backlash among an increasingly vaccine-skeptical G.O.P. electorate.

Mr. Kennedy’s “medical freedom” movement, which he calls “Make America Healthy Again,” is now deeply entrenched in the Republican Party. The coronavirus pandemic turned many conservatives against vaccine mandates, even for children attending school. Around the country, nearly 1,000 candidates, nearly all Republican, ran for elective office in November with the backing of Stand for Health Freedom, a Florida nonprofit that has pushed to make it easier for parents to opt out of school vaccine requirements.

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For Mr. Cassidy and other Republicans who were uneasy about Mr. Kennedy, the situation in West Texas is forcing a reckoning, said Whit Ayres, a Republican strategist who is also a member of Rotary International, an organization that has set a goal of ending polio by promoting vaccination around the world.

“His position on vaccines was exceedingly well known when he was nominated, and when he was confirmed by the United States Senate,” Mr. Ayers said. “Everybody, with their eyes open, knew that his positions could lead to a resurgence of measles.”

As vaccination rates have dropped around the country, public health experts have warned that measles would be the first infectious disease to come back. But the Texas measles outbreak cannot be blamed on Mr. Kennedy. The disease began spreading within the Mennonite community, an insular Christian group that settled in West Texas in the 1970s; many Mennonites are unvaccinated and vulnerable to the virus.

Mr. Kennedy minimized the situation in Texas during a Cabinet meeting with Mr. Trump last week, saying measles outbreaks in the United States are “not unusual.” His Fox opinion piece promoted the use of vitamin A, which studies have shown is useful in treating measles in malnourished children.

He followed up with a prerecorded Fox News interview that aired on Tuesday, in which he said parents and doctors should consider alternative approaches, including cod liver oil, for the treatment of measles. He also acknowledged that vaccines “do prevent infection.” But once again, Mr. Kennedy did not urge Americans to get vaccinated.

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The Texas Department of Health issued a health alert on Jan. 23 reporting two cases of measles. Since then, nearly 160 people have contracted the illness and 22 have been hospitalized. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said Tuesday that it had sent some of its “disease detectives” to Texas to support local officials in the response.

By Wednesday, while Mr. Cassidy appeared satisfied with Mr. Kennedy’s handling of the matter, the senator was pushing another key health nominee on questions of measles, vaccines and autism.

He wanted to know whether Dr. Jay Bhattacharya, appearing before the Senate health committee for his confirmation hearing as Trump’s pick to lead the National Institutes of Health, intended to spend tax dollars on research into the discredited theory that vaccines cause autism. Mr. Cassidy had repeatedly, and unsuccessfully, tried to get Mr. Kennedy to reject that theory in his own confirmation hearing.

Dr. Bhattacharya told the senator he was “convinced” that there is no link between the measles vaccine and autism. But like Mr. Kennedy, he said he supported additional research, if only to assuage the fears of nervous parents.

Mr. Cassidy was incensed, saying the matter had already been settled by years of extensive research. New studies, he said, would waste taxpayer dollars and take away money from studies that might uncover the true causes of autism. He pounded his fist on the table.

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“If we’re pissing away money over here,” he said with a wave of his hand, “that’s less money that we have to actually go after the true reason.”

And in any event, Mr. Cassidy said, further research would not change minds. “There’s people who disagree that the world is round,” he said, adding, “People still think Elvis is alive.”

To secure Mr. Cassidy’s vote last month, Mr. Kennedy made a series of concessions, which Mr. Cassidy outlined in a Senate floor speech. They included a pledge not to disband the committee of experts that advises the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention on vaccines, and to leave intact statements on the C.D.C.’s website saying that vaccines do not cause autism.

Mr. Kennedy also promised to have an “unprecedentedly close collaborative working relationship” with Mr. Cassidy, and to meet or speak with him “multiple times a month,” and to give Congress advance notice of any vaccine policy changes.

“I will carefully watch for any effort to wrongfully sow public fear about vaccines between confusing references of coincidence and anecdote,” Mr. Cassidy said then.

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On his way into the Senate chamber on Monday, he said he thought Mr. Kennedy was doing a good job with the Texas response. “He’s handling it well,” the senator said. He was asked if he had spoken to Mr. Kennedy about the measles outbreak.

“We speak on a regular basis,” Mr. Cassidy said, adding: “Let’s leave it at that.”

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Obesity will affect over half of adults in 25 years, study predicts

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Obesity has long been classified as a global epidemic — and new data published in The Lancet journal spotlights how much worse it could get.

A team of researchers found that in 2021, one billion men and 1.11 billion women over 25 years of age worldwide qualified as overweight or obese — twice as many as in 1990.

In 2021, more than half of the world’s overweight and obese adults lived in eight countries: China (402 million), India (180 million), the U.S. (172 million), Brazil (88 million), Russia (71 million), Mexico (58 million), Indonesia (52 million), and Egypt (41 million), according to a press release.

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If the increase continues at this same pace, the study projects that more than half (57.4%) of men and 60.3% of women will be overweight or obese by 2050.

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In 2021, one billion men and 1.11 billion women over 25 years of age worldwide qualified as overweight or obese — twice as many as in 1990. (iStock)

The three countries expected to have the highest rates of overweight or obesity by 2050 are China (627 million people), India (450 million) and the U.S. (214 million).

The study also found that by 2050, nearly one-quarter of obese adults will be 65 or older.

The researchers analyzed data from the Global Burden of Diseases, Injuries, and Risk Factors Study, spanning 204 countries and territories.

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“The unprecedented global epidemic of overweight and obesity is a profound tragedy and a monumental societal failure,” said lead author Professor Emmanuela Gakidou from the Institute for Health Metrics and Evaluation (IHME), University of Washington, in the release.

“Governments and the public health community can use our country-specific estimates on the stage, timing and speed of current and forecasted transitions in weight to identify priority populations experiencing the greatest burdens of obesity who require immediate intervention and treatment, and those that remain predominantly overweight and should be primarily targeted with prevention strategies.”

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The three countries expected to have the highest rates of overweight or obesity by 2050 are China (627 million people), India (450 million) and the U.S. (214 million). (iStock)

Another finding was that “more recent generations are gaining weight faster than previous ones and obesity is occurring earlier.” 

This increases the risk of younger people developing obesity-related conditions like type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, cardiovascular diseases and multiple cancers.

“The world has two choices: Act aggressively now or pay an unfathomable price later.”

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There were some limitations to the study, the researchers acknowledged.

“Predictions are constrained by the quantity and quality of past data as well as systemic biases from self-reported data, which are likely to remain despite attempts to correct for bias,” they wrote. 

      

They also noted that the definition of overweight and obesity is based on BMI (body mass index), “which does not account for variations in body structure across ethnic groups and subpopulations.”

The study also did not take into account the effects of GLP-1 anti-obesity medications and other interventions.

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If cases rise to the study’s projections by 2050, a doctor warned that “obesity-related diseases will cripple healthcare systems worldwide.” (iStock)

Brett Osborn, a Florida neurosurgeon and longevity expert at Senolytix, called out obesity as the “single greatest modifiable threat to longevity, economic stability and national security.”

“Yet, instead of confronting the problem head-on, our culture continues to coddle bad habits, normalize obesity and abandon personal responsibility,” he said in a statement to Fox News Digital.

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“This crisis is not about food deserts genetics or corporate greed — it’s about choices. And we are making the wrong ones.”

The obesity crisis can be linked to sedentary lifestyles, ultraprocessed foods and an “entitlement mentality that demands a pill for every problem,” according to Osborn. 

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The obesity crisis can be linked to sedentary lifestyles, ultraprocessed foods and an “entitlement mentality that demands a pill for every problem,” according to one doctor. (iStock)

“The reality is simple: Obesity is caused by caloric surplus and a lack of movement,” he said. “When you consistently eat more calories than you burn, you gain weight. Period.”

If cases rise to the study’s projections by 2050, Osborn warned that “obesity-related diseases will cripple healthcare systems worldwide.”

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“The recent Lancet study projects over 1.3 billion global diabetes cases and more than two million obesity-driven cancers annually,” he said. “Cardiovascular disease will double in prevalence across multiple regions, and the economic burden will exceed $4 trillion per year. This is unsustainable.”

“Our healthcare system was never designed to support a world where over half the population has a preventable, self-inflicted disease.”

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“The time to fight obesity — relentlessly and unapologetically — is now.” (iStock)

The fight against obesity isn’t about aesthetics, Osborn said — “nor is this a personal affront to overweight or categorically obese people. This is about survival.”

“The world has two choices: Act aggressively now or pay an unfathomable price later,” he went on. 

“The time to fight obesity — relentlessly and unapologetically — is now.”

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The study was funded by the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. It was conducted by the GBD 2021 Adolescent and Adult BMI Collaborators. Fox News Digital reached out to the researchers for comment.

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Therapy has been a part of Katerina Kelly’s weekly routine since elementary school, when a teacher suggested counseling for the 8-year-old.

At the time, Katerina’s autism was affecting their ability to manage time, make decisions and socialize. And for many years, the therapist seemed helpful. But once college rolled around, things changed.

“I always left counseling feeling either worse than I started — or numb,” said Mx. Kelly, 29, who lives in Natick, Mass, and uses they/them pronouns.

The skills that Mx. Kelly’s therapist had taught her in childhood weren’t translating as well now that she was older. In other words, they had hit a rut — the therapy, and the therapist, were not producing the desired results.

A therapy rut can feel disheartening, but it doesn’t have to end your pursuit of better mental health. We asked psychologists how to identify whether you’ve reached a sticking point and what to do about it.

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If you’ve hit a rut, you may feel as if your therapy sessions have stalled or become unhelpful, said Jameca Woody Cooper, president of the Missouri Psychological Association.

You may be emotionally disconnected from your therapist or less trusting of their plan. Perhaps you’re uncomfortable and tense during therapy, or you’ve started to dread or miss appointments, Dr. Woody Cooper added.

A rut can translate into “increased irritability while you’re in session, or a feeling of being misunderstood,” she said.

There are many reasons a rut can happen, the experts said:

  • You’ve made as much progress as you can in therapy at this time.

  • You would benefit from a different therapist or approach.

  • You need a new therapy goal.

  • You don’t need sessions as frequently as you did in the past.

  • Your expectations aren’t aligned with those of your therapist.

  • You’re not ready to explore past trauma or a difficult issue.

Mx. Kelly had experienced some of these roadblocks in her relationship with her childhood therapist.

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“When I did try to bring up new things I was told we could work on it in the ‘next session,’ but that never came to be,” they said. “I hit a point where I started feeling so low.”

So Mx. Kelly began searching for a new therapist — it took more than six months, but they found someone who took their insurance and was a better fit.

If you’re feeling stuck, your therapist will ideally sense it too, said Regine Galanti, a therapist in Long Island who specializes in treating anxiety with exposure therapy.

“When I’m having the same conversations for more than two weeks in a row — that makes my warning bells start to go off,” she said.

That’s when it’s time to re-evaluate a client’s therapy goals, she added.

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Don’t jump the gun by quitting therapy after one or two unproductive sessions, experts said.

“It’s unfortunately not uncommon to occasionally have a therapy session that feels like a dud,” said Alayna Park, an assistant professor of psychology at the University of Oregon.

But if after three or four sessions you feel like you haven’t learned any new coping skills or gained a better understanding of your problem, then it’s time to speak up, either during the session or in an email.

Dr. Park suggested a few ways to kick off the discussion: “I feel like my progress has stalled,” or “I would like to transition to learning new or different coping skills,” or simply: “I feel like I’m in a therapy rut.”

It’s also valuable to ask your therapist how many sessions you might need, what your progress ought to look like and how your therapist is measuring it, said Bethany A. Teachman, a professor of psychology and the director of clinical training at the University of Virginia.

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Although it can make some people feel uneasy to voice their concerns, the experts said, a good therapist will not get angry or annoyed.

“Good therapy empowers patients” to do hard things, Dr. Teachman said.

If you’ve talked with your therapist about your concerns and nothing has changed, you may want to consider taking a break.

Stepping away can offer “a sense of agency, and time to evaluate if the current therapeutic relationship is the correct one,” Dr. Woody Cooper said.

During this break, you can take time to think about your feelings and behavior, explore different types of therapy or try out another therapist, she added.

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Annie Herzig, an author and illustrator who lives in Fort Collins, Colo., decided to take a step back after a few months of seeing a new therapist, when she hadn’t noticed any improvement in her mood.

Ms. Herzig, 43, finally sent her therapist an email saying she wasn’t getting what she needed from their sessions.

Taking time away was helpful — Ms. Herzig found a different therapist who she has now been seeing for four years.

“I feel energized at the end,” Ms. Herzig said of their sessions together. “Even if I cry my eyes out.”

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