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‘We cannot celebrate their suffering’ — Utah rabbi sees hope for peace in the Middle East

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Jewish adherents across the globe have begun the annual 10-day examination of their lives and deeds. It started with Rosh Hashana (Jewish New Year) on the evening of Oct. 2 and concludes with Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement) on the evening of Oct. 11.

It is a time to reflect, remember, recommit, repent and forgive.

This year’s High Holy Days are especially fraught for the world’s Jewry with so many eyes on Israel and its ongoing battles against Hamas in Gaza, Hezbollah in Lebanon and now against Iran. War is also raging in Ukraine, and deep divisions are polarizing Americans during this election season.

Here are excerpts from The Salt Lake Tribune’s “Mormon Land” podcast with Rabbi Samuel Spector, who leads Salt Lake City’s Congregation Kol Ami, and explored questions of repentance and atonement during troubled times.

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What is the meaning of Rosh Hashana?

Rosh Hashana commemorates the creation of the world and humankind. I like to think of it as an opportunity for us to start to re-create ourselves. On Rosh Hashana, God makes a list of who is going to have a place in the world and who is not going to be written into the book of life. But over those 10 days between the two holidays, we have the opportunity to change God’s mind, and, once Yom Kippur is over, that list is sealed. So there’s a little bit at stake. I prefer to think of it less literally and more like if my life were to end in the next year, would I be remembered as a good person?

What about Yom Kippur?

Yom Kippur is a very solemn day. We have 25 hours of fasting — if you’re medically able to — no food, no water. We have five prayer services. It is a day where we are really thinking about what we have done individually and communally that we could be doing a better job of, and also how we can seek forgiveness from others, how we can improve ourselves over the next year, and make our lives worth living. And also perhaps how we can forgive others, or, even if we aren’t in a place to forgive others, how we don’t let anger hold us captive for the next year.

(Trent Nelson | The Salt Lake Tribune) Cantor Wendy Bat-Sarah and Rabbi Samuel Spector at Congregation Kol Ami in Salt Lake City in 2019.

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Do more people come to services on the High Holy Days?

Yes. Typically at a Shabbat service on Saturday morning, we’ll have about 70 to 80 people. I would guess that on the evening of Yom Kippur, we get about 700 people that come to our synagogue. It’s like the Super Bowl sometimes.

With the rise of antisemitism in America and increasing violence on the world stage, what steps have you taken to protect your congregation?

Sadly, since 2015 and up to the past year, we’ve seen antisemitism growing annually to record numbers. In 2022, there were nearly 3,000 antisemitic incidents in the United States recorded by the ADL [Anti-Defamation League] which estimates that they only record 1 out of every 40 events. Last year, that number reached close to 9,000 and most of that was toward the end of 2023. So I don’t know what the 2024 numbers are, but after this horrible thing that happened on Oct. 7, we received our first of four bomb threats on Oct. 8. We’ve sadly had to file numerous police reports because of harassment, threats, intimidation. We had to do some construction projects to make our synagogue safer. If you go to the synagogue right now, you will see two police cars in our parking lot, because whenever our building is open, we have a police presence, or try to at least, and we have to pay for those off-duty officers. We’ve been looking at somewhere around a half-million dollars for security.

(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) Kaylee Gordon waves a flag as she and her family gather with members of Congregation Kol Ami to mourn those slain in Hamas attacks.

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Those threats aside, how do you and your congregation feel about living in Utah?

I feel immensely loved and accepted here. For every bad thing that’s happened, we’ve had 100 amazing things.…When people heard about our financial issues due to security, we had people call in who donated $10 and others who donated $10,000 just to make us feel loved. One of our local Latter-day Saint stakes, the East Millcreek Stake [a group of congregations], called us the last week of October and said, “We don’t know how to help, but we want to send our young people to your houses to do a leaf cleanup so you have one less thing to worry about.” The amount of love and support we’ve received has been beyond anything I could ever imagine.

When you see the suffering, especially of innocents, in Israel, Gaza and Lebanon, what thoughts run through your mind?

I haven’t been to Gaza, but I’ve been to the West Bank plenty. I lived in Israel. I’ve been to southern Lebanon and met with Hezbollah militants, actually. Most people don’t want suffering. I have a bias. I’m not going to act like I don’t. But I try to always see other perspectives and understand other perspectives.… I’ve gotten to know the Lebanese people through my time in Lebanon and know the Palestinian people through my time in the Palestinian territories. I’ve certainly gotten to know the Israeli people. They’re all beautiful people. What’s happening is really, really, really tragic. …[My hope is] that folks in those three areas might be saying, “We need leadership that puts our needs first and puts our lives first.”

(David Guttenfelder | The New York Times) Residents on Tuesday, Oct. 1, 2024, retrieve salvageable items from the rubble of a building destroyed by an Israeli airstrike in Ain el-Delb, a Palestinian refugee camp on the outskirts of the coastal city of Sidon, Lebanon.

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What would be a theological response as opposed to a political response?

In the [biblical] Book of Jonah, Jonah badly wants the city of Nineveh to be destroyed. Yet the people of Nineveh listen to Jonah and change their ways, and God does not destroy the city. You’d think Jonah would be happy. He’s not happy. He wanted to see Nineveh be completely destroyed, and God chastises him for this. And we also read elsewhere in the Hebrew Bible that we’re not supposed to celebrate our enemies’ downfall and that we are supposed to take all measures to prevent the loss of innocent life. So for us, as Jews, we need to make sure that we maintain our humanity in this, that we don’t forget that the people over in Gaza or southern Lebanon are people, that they’re just like us and that we cannot celebrate their suffering.

Do you have hopes for peace anytime soon?

I do. Israel has been held in this political lock with only [Prime Minister Benjamin] Netanyahu being the main source of power for the last 15 years. I think that Israelis are ready to get rid of him and that we need fresh thinking over there.…Hopefully, with these Israeli operations in southern Lebanon and Gaza, it could set both Hamas and Hezbollah back far enough that there won’t be wars for a good while. That’s my hope and prayer.

With this new year, what’s your concluding message?

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Fred Rogers, a la “Mr. Rogers,” famously said after 9/11, to “look for the helpers” when things are scary and bad. This past year has been very lonely for many. There were a lot of people we thought would be there for us who were not, a lot of people who we thought were friends, who were not, and a lot of people who did step up for us. And so a message that I have for folks is that it’s not good for a person to be alone. So what can you do to step up and be part of the solution for somebody else, and, in doing so, also remove your own loneliness? …Part of the problem with the Yom Kippur sometimes is we sit and focus on those who have wronged us, and a lot of times, people are not thinking as much about who they have to apologize to. We need to spend as much, if not more, time thinking about those who have not let us down, those who have been our friends, those who have reached out, and also how we can follow in that example.

To hear the full podcast, go to sltrib.com/podcasts/mormonland. To receive full “Mormon Land” transcripts, along with our complete newsletter and exclusive access to all Tribune religion content, support us at Patreon.com/mormonland.

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From small-town Utah to NYC: Accomplished hairstylist reflects on journey to upscale SoHo salon

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NEW YORK — When Reagan Baker-Jaillet was a teenager, she moved from small-town Tennessee to small-town Utah. Now she’s rolling out the red carpet for the grand opening of her salon in what some may call the biggest city of them all — New York City.

Baker-Jaillet is the owner of House of Reagan in SoHo, a neighborhood in Lower Manhattan. Her salon is stationed in a 120-year-old loft space that she transformed into a “whimsical, funky and upscale” establishment where she specializes in cutting and styling. Her niche aesthetic is “bedroom hair,” which she is in the process of trademarking.

Prior to opening her salon, she styled hair and modeled at New York Fashion Week, worked on projects for Netflix, Comedy Central, and “Saturday Night Live.” She’s been featured in several magazines, including Rolling Stone, Cosmopolitan and Vogue. She was also cast on an HBO dating show in 2023. Her transformation over the years, she said, can be attributed to learning at a young age how to reinvent herself.

“I’m the fifth out of six children in my family, and the youngest daughter,” Baker-Jaillet told KSL. “We moved from East Tennessee to Cedar City when I was in the middle of eighth grade. Before moving to Utah, we were all homeschooled, so Cedar City was really my introduction to being around kids my age and socializing daily. It was jarringly intimidating at first, but I learned to embrace the challenge of being a fish out of water.

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“Most of the kids didn’t even know I hadn’t attended traditional school up until that point, or how deathly shy and socially inexperienced I was,” she continued. “By high school, I had mostly adapted and got involved in sports, after-school clubs, cheerleading, and was even voted into prom/homecoming court. I learned then how much I love the challenge of reinvention.”

The draw to glamour also came at a young age, as she watched her mom and older sisters put on makeup. She said that when she moved to Cedar City, she noticed that many of the girls in her class were “fearless” in the way they presented themselves, and she felt inspired.

“Growing up, I always loved watching my mom and sisters get ready and then going through their products when they weren’t home,” she said. “I practiced using their hot rollers and potions on myself and immediately noticed how elevated and great it made me feel. When I got to Utah, the girls were over-the-top and fearless with the way they did their hair, nails and makeup. I loved it.”

After high school, Baker-Jaillet attended Evan’s Hairstyling College in Cedar City and discovered that she not only loved cosmetology but also the diverse people she met on the job. This caused her to want to see more people and more of the world. To do that, she took a job as a nanny in New York and used that as a springboard to explore her new world.

“Cosmetology offered everything I loved — access to interesting conversations with a wide variety of people all day, and lots and lots of glamour,” she said. “I have to say, it was a fabulous choice.

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“When I moved to the city in 2005, I was in awe of the surprises and thrills I came across at every corner,” she added. “Whether it was seeing an elderly person covered head to toe in tattoos, walking down the street, or wandering into some random store and finding an eccentric shop owner selling completely unrelated items, there was so much edge and backstory wherever you went.”

As she immersed herself in her new environment, with a set of hair-styling skills she had no way to capitalize on, she drew on another love that came naturally — writing. In the new age of blogging, she launched Hairdresser on Fire, which she said was a “huge part” of her career journey.

“I was a junior stylist with no clients yet, and as an early beauty blogger, I was able to combine my love of writing with what I was building day-to-day in the salon,” she said. “It catapulted my credibility as a beauty expert and helped me grow my clientele significantly. There are so many talented artists out there; writing about beauty set me apart.”

Staying true to who she is at the moment has allowed Baker-Jaillet the chance to create new versions of herself and the spaces to match. House of Reagan, she said, is very representative of who she is today.

“Out of all my creative endeavors, building this space has been the most challenging, but the most rewarding of all,” she said. “I’ve dreamt it up, creative-directed, and paid for almost all of it entirely by myself.

“This project has conditioned my mind to think beyond one-hour haircut increments and toward the bigger picture. I’m not always sure of what the end goal is, but I’m brainstorming and dreaming about what’s next all the time, and having a physical space allows me to jump on and execute those ideas right away.”

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As a big-city girl with small-town roots, she is grateful for a family that has allowed for autonomy — with a little room for sibling teasing, of course.

“Being on the younger end of six children gave me a lot of independence and confidence to figure things out on my own,” she said. “I’m naturally adventurous and a big risk taker, which I think has been funny for my family to understand at times. When I shared the news that I was cast in a show on HBO, my eldest sibling pleaded that I pretend to be an only child. That big family style of teasing will put hair on your chest and prepare you for the real world like nothing else.”

The Key Takeaways for this article were generated with the assistance of large language models and reviewed by our editorial team. The article, itself, is solely human-written.





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Man guilty of crash that killed Utah CEO and his daughter gets maximum sentence – East Idaho News

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OGDEN, Utah (KSL) — The man convicted in the 2024 accident in the Ogden Canyon that killed two people after a bulldozer slid from the bed of his truck onto the victims’ vehicle has been handed the most severe sentence possible in the case.

Moreover, in sentencing Michael John Love on Friday, Judge Craig Hall ordered the incarceration terms on the five counts to run consecutively, making for a potential prison term of four to 23 years.

Utah sentencing parameters would point to probation in the case with jail time of zero to 270 days, but he is not required to follow them “and just cannot go along with those guidelines,” Hall said. “Simply put, probation is not an appropriate sentence in this case. Rather, I believe that the sentence should be the maximum sentence allowed by law as most appropriate.”

Preceding sentencing, family members fondly remembered the two fatality victims, Richard Hendrickson, 57, and his daughter Sally Hendrickson, 16. Love, for his part, apologized for the tragic turn of events. The elder Hendrickson had served as chief executive officer of Clearfield-based Lifetime Products.

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A jury last March found Love guilty of two counts of negligent homicide, a class A misdemeanor, in the deaths of the Hendricksons in the July 6, 2024, incident. That’s less than the convictions for manslaughter, a second-degree felony, sought by prosecutors. The jurors also found him guilty of aggravated assault, a second-degree felony, stemming from the injuries suffered by Mollie Hendrickson in the accident and two counts of obstruction of justice, one of them a third-degree felony, the other a class A misdemeanor.

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As for actual incarceration time, Hall sentenced Love to 364 days of jail on each of the negligent homicide counts, one to 15 years imprisonment on the aggravated assault count, zero to five years imprisonment on the felony obstruction count, and 364 days of jail on the misdemeanor obstruction count. Love received credit for time served, nearly 600 days.

Love was hauling a 31,000-pound bulldozer when the piece of machinery, improperly secured, slid off his tow truck as he negotiated a curve along Ogden Canyon Road, a narrowing, winding roadway east of Ogden, and fell onto the oncoming vehicle driven by Richard Hendrickson. The force of the bulldozer sheared off the top of the Hendrickson vehicle, causing the two deaths and injuring Mollie Hendrickson, another of Richard Hendrickson’s daughters.

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Hall scolded Love, an experienced tow-truck operator, for not properly securing the bulldozer. “There were simply no excuses for an individual, a licensed tow truck driver, to carry this bulldozer that was over 30,000 pounds on a metal track flatbed,” he said.

He also noted Love’s “extensive criminal history,” which includes prior convictions for theft, assault, impaired driving, burglary, driving on a suspended license, failure to secure a load and more. “You have been granted the privilege of probation and early interventions like drug court in the past, yet you have continued to engage in criminal, self-defeating behavior. Past leniency has clearly failed to deter this behavior, making the maximum sentence necessary today,” he said.

Furthermore, the judge said he was “troubled” by Love’s actions after the accident to cover up and obstruct the subsequent investigation, which led to the obstruction of justice convictions. He placed chains on the bed of his truck in the immediate aftermath of the crash as if to make it appear the bulldozer had been secured at several points, prompting the felony obstruction count. He misled law enforcement officials about how the bulldozer had been secured, leading to the misdemeanor obstruction count.

‘Bigger than life’

Richard Hendrickson had served as CEO of Clearfield-based Lifetime Products since 2013. He, his wife and three of the couple’s four children had spent the morning of July 6, 2024, boating at Pineview Reservoir and were on their way home when the tragedy occurred.

The man’s son, Sam Hendrickson, wife Julie Hendrickson and daughter Lyssa Hendrickson all addressed the court, expressing their grief over the deaths of Richard Hendrickson and Sally Hendrickson and pressing for prison time for Love. Mollie Hendrickson, severely injured, provided a pre-recorded statement.

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“Being the only boy in the family means that I didn’t just lose a father that day, but a brother as well. The kindest and nicest man I’ve ever known was my father, and for that I’ll always be grateful,” Sam Hendrickson said. “My 16-year-old sister was just as amazing. Sally had a light about her that was contagious. She could light up a room simply by walking into it.”

He also remembered the ride with sister Mollie to the hospital after the accident, having to inform her of the two deaths. “Watching her determination to continue to recover and get better (despite) intense pain and countless surgeries has been incredible,” he said.

Julie Hendrickson said her late husband and daughter “are bigger than life” and that she continues to struggle with the loss.

Her husband “was my best friend and confidant,” she said. “I miss him every day…We had so many plans to do so much together.”

Love, shackled and wearing Weber County Jail garb, offered an apology and said the incident wasn’t intentional.

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“If I could take it back, I would. I think about it every single day. I dream about it every single night. It’s something that I’m going to have to live with for the rest of my life. I screwed up. I admit it,” he said.

Love’s attorney, Greg Skordas, defended his client, saying he’s remorseful and would be in tears whenever he visited him in jail. “He’s not the monster that everyone makes him out to be, and he’s not the remorseless human being that everyone wants him to be,” Skordas said.

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