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To marry in a Catholic church, you must meet these requirements ahead of time, according to RCIA director

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To marry in a Catholic church, you must meet these requirements ahead of time, according to RCIA director

For couples who wish to be wed in a Catholic church, there are certain requirements that must be met first. 

Weddings of all sorts take proper planning, and a sacred ceremony is no different.

If you and your future spouse choose to get married in a Catholic church, give yourselves at least six months to prepare, Kevin Pesek, director of RCIA and marriage preparation at St. Mary’s Catholic Center in College Station, Texas, told Fox News Digital in a phone interview.

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Although that is the bare minimum time you need, Pesek said nine months to a year is the ideal time frame to aim for. 

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While guidelines from church to church may differ, it’s important to understand the specific requirements at the church where you wish to hold your ceremony. 

For a marriage ceremony in a Catholic church, both people don’t need to share the same faith, but there are certain commitments that must be made. (iStock)

That said, there are certain steps you can expect.

  1. Interview with couple
  2. Key documentation
  3. Marriage preparation
  4. Ceremony components

1. Interview with couple

Before all else, the couple need to have an interview with the priest or marriage coordinator at the church. 

During this initial meeting, the couple will be asked a series of questions to make sure there aren’t any pre-existing conditions that will prevent them from getting married in the church, such as having been married before.

Pesek told Fox News Digital that this initial interview really serves two main purposes. 

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This first one is to make sure that the couple is able to get married in the Catholic Church. The second is to verify that the couple knows what they’re signing up for when they opt for a religious ceremony by gaining an understanding of what the Catholic Church teaches about marriage.

2. Key documentation

While the requirements can vary from church to church, documentation such as proof of baptism is something likely to be asked of you no matter which parish your ceremony is held.   

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You will also likely need to turn in something called a “witness affidavit,” according to Pesek, which is a questionnaire verifying information about the couple to make sure that they can get married in the Catholic Church. 

Adequate time is needed to prepare for a marriage ceremony performed in a Catholic church, not only to ensure the space is available but also for the couple to complete marriage preparation courses. (iStock)

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“They have to have someone that has known them 10 years actually fill it out,” Pesek said. Opinions given in the affidavit, such as that a couple is too young, won’t prevent them from getting married. 

3. Marriage preparation

Marriage preparation, or Pre-Cana, is a series of courses or consultations that couples must complete before getting married in the Catholic Church. These courses are designed to help the couple grow their relationship with each other and with God. 

Not all marriage preparation courses are going to look identical from couple to couple. 

“We do ask for a willingness and an openness to grow throughout the process,” Pesek said. “For some couples, that’s work[ing] on communication with each other, or other couples, working on communication with God, with prayer, with going to church.”

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If there is a difference in religion between the couple, that does not prevent them from being married in a Catholic church, but that is a discussion that will be had during marriage preparation. 

“The difference of religion is something that’s going to be talked about, additionally, as part of their premarital counseling,” Pesek said.

For example, during premarital counseling, discussions will be had about how the difference in religion will affect children in the future.

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“In the presence of the non-Catholic, the Catholic spouse will make a solemn promise to do all in his/her power to baptize and raise the children in the Catholic faith,” Pesek explained on St. Mary’s website. “This does not mean that the non-Catholic spouse has to convert, or that they have no role to play in the religious upbringing of their own children.”

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4. Ceremony components

As far as the ceremony itself goes, many churches will give the couple certain personalization options. 

“Couples are always able to choose their music and they can choose the different readings. They can choose which priest they have,” Pesek noted. 

There are certain options that couples can choose from in a Catholic marriage ceremony, such as the number of people in their wedding party and the different readings spoken during the ceremony. (iStock)

The couple can also choose how many people are part of their wedding party and what they are going to wear to the ceremony, although more modest attire is the typical dress code, Brides.com notes.

If the bride and groom are both of the Catholic faith, there is usually a wedding Mass, Pesek said, which includes Communion. 

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If one of them is not Catholic, ceremony components change slightly. 

 

“If one of them is not Catholic, it’s normal for them to have [what’s] called the Liturgy of the Word service,” Pesek said. 

“They have the readings, and they have the homily. They exchange the vows, and the priest gives the blessing, but there’s no Communion, it’s not Mass, because one of them wouldn’t be able to receive Communion.”

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Long Beach to hold new pride festival after previous one canceled

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Long Beach to hold new pride festival after previous one canceled

Long Beach will hold a pride festival this weekend after the one they originally had scheduled was canceled.

Long Beach city officials said the celebration was nixed after the nonprofit that organizes it, Long Beach Pride, failed to submit the required information for an event permit. 

It was supposed to start on Friday and last through Sunday.

“Despite continued collaboration and multiple deadline notices, the City did not receive the required documentation needed to complete safety reviews, inspect critical event infrastructure, such as the stage, electrical systems and tent, and emergency exiting plans to ensure compliance with public safety standards,” the city of Long Beach said in a statement. “With event programming scheduled to begin on May 15 at 5 p.m. with Teen Pride and essential information still outstanding, there is no longer sufficient time to safely permit the festival this year.” 

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Officials noted that they were working to see if a “shortened event” could be held this weekend, and indeed, an agreement was reached to stage a one-day gathering on Sunday. 

Billed as “Canceled? Never Heard of Her!” and emceed by comedian and drag queen Jewels, it will still bring the city’s LGBTQ community together after Sunday morning’s Long Beach Pride Parade, which was not canceled.

“Long Beach Pride weekend is a culmination of celebrations put on by our community, including our many vibrant restaurants, bars and businesses, and that will never change,” Long Beach Mayor Rex Richardson said in a press release issued late Saturday night. “Along with the Pride Parade, we are proud to join the party with this new event that reaffirms what this City has always stood for: that every person belongs here.”

“The festival may have been canceled, but Long Beach drag artists don’t cancel joy,” added Jewels Long Beach.

The one-day “Canceled? Never Heard of Her!” festival will take place at Bixby Park from noon to 7 p.m. Sunday. A free event, it will include music by several performers and a drag show. 

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More information can be found here.  

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L.A. Jewish institution among targets of foiled terrorist attack, U.S. officials say

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L.A. Jewish institution among targets of foiled terrorist attack, U.S. officials say

A Jewish institution in Los Angeles was among the locations targeted in a recently foiled terrorism plot, U.S. Attorney for the Southern District of New York Jay Clayton announced this week.

The thwarted terrorist attacks were the result of the recent arrest of Mohammad Baqer Saad Dawood Al-Saadi, an Iraqi national and senior member of Kata’ib Hizballah, U.S. officials said.

“Mohammad Baqer Saad Dawood Al-Saadi, a commander for the terrorist organization, Kata’ib Hizballah, faces serious charges for his role in numerous attacks against U.S. interests across the globe, including his efforts to kill on U.S. soil,” Clayton said. “As alleged, for years, Al-Saadi committed himself to furthering the terrorist goals of Kata’ib Hizballah and the IRGC, two terrorist organizations dedicated to harming the United States and its allies.”

Al-Saadi recently attempted to carry out attacks in the U.S., officials said, including attacks at Jewish cultural places of interest in New York, Los Angeles and Scottsdale, Ariz.

“Al-Saadi attempted to disrupt American society through intimidation and violence,” a press release from the U.S. Attorney’s Office reads. “… Those who engage in or support terrorism against Americans and on U.S. soil should take note:  the whole of the federal government is committed to dismantling terrorist organizations and bringing their members to justice.”

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In a three-month period, Al-Saadi allegedly directed 18 terrorist attacks throughout Europe, including bombings, arson, and assaults targeting American citizens and points of interest. Prior to his arrest, national security officials say he was planning similar attacks on U.S. soil. Assistant Attorney General for National Security John A. Eisenberg said that  Al-Saadi “presented a serious threat to our national security.”

The European attacks included the bombing of the Bank of New York Mellon, an American bank, in Amsterdam on March 15. On April 29, two Jewish men, one of whom was a dual U.S.-British citizen, were stabbed and seriously injured in London.

In 2020, Al-Saadi took to social media, calling for others to attack and kill Americans in retribution for the deaths of Iranian military officer Qasem Soleimani and Iraqi military commander Abu Mahdi al-Muhandis, U.S. officials said. In more recent months, Al-Saadi allegedly used social media to encourage the killing of Americans and Jews to further the terrorist goals of Kata’ib Hizballah and the Islamic Revolutionary Guard Corps.

“In or about February 2026, for example, AL-SAADI posted on one of his social media accounts a message in Arabic, which read in part, ‘Do not abandon the blood of your Imam of the time, oh Shiites of Iraq. Kill everyone who supports America and Israel. Do not leave any of them remaining. Civil and military targets, as well as voices of discord, kill them everywhere.’” U.S. officials said.

NYPD Commissioner Jessica S. Tisch confirmed that one of the U.S. targets was a Manhattan synagogue. On April 3, Al-Saadi allegedly spoke to an undercover law enforcement officer whom Al-Saadi believed could carry out attacks in the U.S. That same day, Al-Saadi allegedly texted the undercover officers photographs and maps showing the exact location of a prominent Jewish synagogue in New York City. 

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Officials have not said what specific locations in L.A. and Arizona were targeted by the terrorist group.

Al-Saadi now faces numerous charges for these crimes in U.S. court. If convicted, he could be sentenced to life in prison.

The case is under investigation by the FBI’s New York Joint Terrorism Task Force, which is comprised of investigators and analysts from the FBI, the NYPD, the FBI Washington Field Office, Counterterrorism Division, and more than 50 other federal, state, and local agencies. Investigators also received help from the Department of Justice’s National Security Division, Counterterrorism Section, the Office of International Affairs of the Justice Department’s Criminal Division, and U.S. Customs and Border Protection.

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L.A. police shoot knife-wielding man during response to assault call 

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L.A. police shoot knife-wielding man during response to assault call 

A man armed with a knife was shot by L.A. police officers responding to an assault with a deadly weapon call overnight, authorities said. 

According to the Los Angeles Police Department, officers with the Hollenbeck Division responded to an apartment complex in the 3000 block of Glenn Avenue in Boyle Heights at 1:45 a.m. Saturday after callers reported a male suspect was armed with a knife and had just assaulted someone in the complex. 

Arriving officers found the suspect in front of the residence, but he did not comply with officers’ commands to drop the weapon. He then advanced toward the officers and an officer-involved shooting occurred, LAPD confirmed.

A man armed with a knife was shot by L.A. police officers responding to an assault with a deadly weapon call overnight, authorities said. Video obtained by KTLA shows the man being loaded into an ambulance. May 2026. (ANG)

“The suspect was struck by gunfire and remained non-compliant,” the LAPD Public Information Officer said on X early Saturday morning. “Officers deployed a 40mm foam round and ultimately took the suspect into custody.”

Video obtained by KTLA shows the man being loaded into an ambulance and taken to a hospital; officials said he was transported in stable condition, adding that his knife was recovered at the scene and booked as evidence. 

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No officers or community members were injured during the incident. The man’s name was not released. 

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