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Dear Abby: Love me, but leave me alone, say parents

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July 12, 2024

Dear Abby: Love me, but leave me alone, say parents

Dear Abby: My parents are in their 70s. They live in a retirement community. As they have gotten older, they have become more private. They no longer want their children or grandkids around. Recently, I received a call telling me that they would not be answering phone calls anymore. I have stopped by their house, but they do not answer the door. What little relationship I had with them no longer exists. Advice? — Wanting to Connect

Dear Wanting: You cannot force your parents into unwelcome contact. If you are concerned about their welfare, contact the police and ask them to do a wellness check because their behavior has changed.

However, if everything checks out, you will have to accept that this is what your parents want and abide by their choice, as difficult as that may be.

Dear Abby: I recently watched a video of the founder of Overeaters Anonymous, Rozanne S., telling the story of founding the program and her own struggles with food. In it, she mentioned that your mother had been instrumental in getting OA information out to the public and was responsible for its growth.

Abby, OA saved my life, and I’m grateful to Rozanne and to your mother. After 39 years in the program, I have released 120 pounds from my top weight. I’m now at a healthy weight and have been for most of 39 years. Beyond the weight loss, I have sanity, freedom and healthy relationships in my life. I came in only to lose weight, but the clarity I derived from working the 12 steps is the most important thing I have ever done in my life.

I’m glad I didn’t have to rely on a drug to help me lose weight, and I found that working on what’s inside helped to make the outside a normal weight. My only regret is that more people aren’t aware of the program and still believe the solution is to “just lose the weight.”

In the introduction to my first OA book, it said, “Thin will not make you well, but well will make you thin.” Today, I love myself as I am — something I never thought would be possible. — Joe A. in Houston, TX

Dear Joe: Thank you for your sweet letter. I remember my mother’s interest in Overeaters Anonymous and her respect for its founder. I once had the pleasure of meeting Rozanne, a lovely woman, as well. As I’m sure most of us know, people have been known to eat for reasons that have nothing to do with physical hunger.

The introduction of weight loss drugs has hit like a tidal wave and, for some, it has been like a miracle (so far). However, for those wanting a more conservative approach, or who cannot tolerate the side effects of these drugs or afford the cost, Overeaters Anonymous may provide a successful path to weight loss.

There are more than 6,500 OA meetings worldwide, in 77 countries. This includes 2,500 virtual meetings taking place almost any time of the day from other locations around the world. Readers, if you’re interested, you will find more information about Overeaters Anonymous at OA.org. Like any 12-step program, there’s no membership fee, but donations are welcome.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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Celtics Injury Report: Boston May Face Timberwolves Down Two Stars

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January 2, 2025

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Celtics Injury Report: Boston May Face Timberwolves Down Two Stars

Ahead of Thursday night’s matchup against the Minnesota Timberwolves, the Boston Celtics could be without a pair of ailing starters.

Per the NBA’s most recent injury report, three-time Celtics All-Star small forward Jaylen Brown and one-time All-Star Boston center Kristaps Porzingis are both considered questionable to suit up.

Brown is dealing with a strained right shoulder. The 6-foot-6 wing out of the University of California at Berkeley was seen with several ice packs strapped to his shoulder at the end of Boston’s masterful 125-71 blowout victory over the lowly Toronto Raptors on New Year’s Eve.

Read More: Celtics Make Franchise History with Dominant New Year’s Eve Victory Over Raptors

In that game, Brown had to play just 25 minutes, scoring 12 points on 6-of-13 shooting from the floor, grabbing nine rebounds, dishing out three assists, and swiping one steal. On the year, Brown is averaging 24.4 points while slashing .461/.332/.734 shooting splits, 6.0 rebounds, 4.6 assists and 1.4 steals in 28 healthy games.

Porzingis has been struggling with a left ankle sprain since his team’s 118-114 Christmas Day defeat to the Philadelphia 76ers.

The 7-foot-2 big man has been healthy for just 11 games this season, but in those contests has looked like his typical two-way self. Porzingis is averaging 18.3 points on .453/.328/.849 shooting splits, 6.4 rebounds, 1.6 assists, 1.5 blocks and 0.7 blocks a night.

Two-way Celtics players JD Davison and Anton Watson are on assignment with Boston’s G League affiliate, the Maine Celtics, as is rookie guard Baylor Scheierman.

For the Timberwolves, rookie lottery pick Rob Dillingham is sidelined with a right ankle sprain and veteran big man Luka Garza remains on the shelf with a sprained left ankle. Two-way players Jaylen Clark and Jesse Edwards are away from the team, working with the club’s NBAGL squad, the Iowa Wolves.

The two clubs, who both made the league’s final four last season (Minnesota was eliminated from the Western Conference by the Dallas Mavericks, while Boston beat Dallas in the NBA Finals), took wildly different approaches to their respective offseasons. The Celtics brought back all of their important players, while the Timberwolves traded away a pricey All-Star, power forward/center Karl-Anthony Towns, in exchange for cheaper ex-New York Knicks All-Star power forward Julius Randle and shooting guard Donte DiVincenzo. Boston has thrived in its title defense so far, going 24-9 on the year and earning the East’s No. 2 overall seed so far. Minnesota, meanwhile, is just 17-15 in the loaded West, good for just the No. 8 seed.

The action tips off at 7:30 p.m. ET at the Target Center.

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The Boston Wine & Food fest, California dreaming, and travel gear for pets – The Boston Globe

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12 hours ago

January 2, 2025

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The Boston Wine & Food fest, California dreaming, and travel gear for pets – The Boston Globe

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SIP AND SAVOR AT BOSTON WINE & FOOD FEST

Join other wine lovers this winter at the Boston Harbor Hotel for the 36th annual Boston Wine & Food Festival (Jan. 31-March 27). Led by executive chef David Daniels and festival director Nick Daddona, the schedule features a series of wine dinners paired with curated courses, tastings, galas, and master classes, presided over by world-renowned winemakers and culinary artists. An opening night walk-around reception in the Wharf Room offers stunning harbor views and tastings of more than 100 global wines, as well as culinary treats prepared by Chef Daniels. Thematic events are returning, such as the Battle of the Cabs Dinner with blind tastings of Napa’s top Cabernets, and the Judgement of Paris Dinner, a showdown between French and California wines. Two romance events encourage lovers to toast each other in February: Valentines on the French Riviera, an intimate evening focusing on the South of France; and the Romeo and Juliet Amarone Dinner, a journey through Verona, the backdrop of the ill-fated lovers’ tale. New this year, Hollywood & Vine, a four-course dinner with wine pairings that draw inspiration from cinematic masterpieces. Check the website for more events and featured wineries. Tickets from $95. Attendees are encouraged to take advantage of an exclusive Boston Harbor Hotel room rate starting at $305, based upon availability. 617-748-1878, www.boswineandfoodfestival.com

Fall asleep to the soothing sound of waves lapping the shore when you stay at the Monterey Beach Hotel, a Marriott Tribute Portfolio hotel nestled along the Monterey Peninsula. Monterey Beach Hotel

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CALIFORNIA DREAMING

Fall asleep to the soothing sound of waves lapping the shore when you stay at the Monterey Beach Hotel, a Marriott Tribute Portfolio hotel nestled along the Monterey Peninsula. The only beachfront hotel in Monterey, originally built in 1967, the newly transformed property boasts 600 feet of exclusive shoreline, and is steps away from cliffside hikes and the Monterey Recreation Trail, 18 miles of a paved path around the bay. The 188 guest rooms and four suites, with ocean or garden views, are all designed in a sleek modern style that feature plush mattresses, luxury bedding, towels and bath amenities, refillable aluminum water bottles, Lavazza coffee and tea brewer, and more. Ocean view rooms offer NOCS Provisions binoculars, perfect for scouting shorebirds and sea life. Additional amenities include outdoor pool, fitness center open 24/7, e-bike rentals, and three distinct culinary and cocktail venues with chef-driven interpretations of fresh coastal and central California flavors. Rates from $350. 831-394-3321, www.montereybeach.com

CALIFORNIA DREAMING, TAKE 2

Soak up the California sun at the Hotel Joaquin, a 22-room, adults-only seaside sanctuary tucked above Shaw’s Cove, a residential beach secluded from Laguna’s mega beach resorts. Formerly The Motor Inn at Laguna Beach, the property’s extensive renovations reimagine the glory days of 1940s California Riviera with playful, chic décor in bright, airy rooms with ocean and garden views. Amenities include complimentary arrival cocktail; morning coffee delivered to your room; daily complimentary breakfast; heated outdoor pool; beach umbrella and chair set-up; and the Adventure Collection of bicycles, bodyboards, and beach games. Watch the sunset with handcrafted cocktails, beers, and wines at Saline Bar. Seasonal experiences may include weekly morning yoga, outdoor movie nights with popcorn and (if needed) blankets, and meditative sound baths to balance the mental, physical, and spiritual mind. Winter rates from $280. 949-494-5294, https://hoteljoaquin.com

Take your four-legged family members along on your next camping trip with durable adventure-ready gear by P.L.A.Y. P.L.A.Y.

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TRAVEL GEAR FOR PETS

Take your four-legged family members along on your next camping trip with durable adventure-ready gear by P.L.A.Y. Featured Scout & About products include an outdoor dog tent with simple pop-up assembly, fully-enclosed floor, mesh sides for ventilation, and water-resistant roof; multi-functional pouch to hold treats, poop bags, and zip pocket for your keys and cash; collapsible travel bowls; water-resistant chill pad; outdoor bed made of high performance 600-Denier PE fabrics; and toys. The new fleece-lined Trailblazing Coat is designed with a split tail hem for increased mobility, adjustable leg straps for a secure fit, and harness slot for easy attachment. All products are available in a stylish array of colors that are sure to make your fellow campers jealous. Tents: $125; coats: $59. www.petplay.com/collections/outdoor-gear

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Passengers say they were put on the streets ‘like animals’ after JetBlue flight to Boston delayed

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January 2, 2025

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Passengers say they were put on the streets ‘like animals’ after JetBlue flight to Boston delayed

A travel nightmare for some JetBlue passengers trying to get home to Boston after a holiday vacation in the Turks and Caicos.

In all, their flight was delayed about 24 hours and they had nowhere to go.

They say they were even kicked out of the airport on the island.

“To put people out on the streets like animals was definitely something I will never forget for the rest of my life,” said Marty, who was on that flight from Turks and Caicos to Boston.

Marty says hundreds of JetBlue passengers like himself were told they couldn’t stay at the airport in Turks and Caicos when their flight home to Boston was delayed until the next day.

His children were exhausted after their flight was already delayed several hours on Saturday, and he says there were no hotel rooms available on the island that night.

“Just very unsettling, traumatizing experience you have three young kids all looking to you for an answer, a wife looking at you for an answer, for the first time as a husband and as a father and as a man I had no idea how I was going to shelter my family for a night in a third world country with no cash,” said Marty.

Brett was on this flight too and says the JetBlue employees at the airport forced them to leave when their flight was delayed.

“We just kept saying where do you want us to go? What are we supposed to do? How are you kicking us to the street like dogs in a foreign country?” said Brett.

Eventually, Marty’s travel agent found a small hotel room for his family.

Brett found an Airbnb for about a thousand dollars to squeeze in ten people.

“It was in a horrible, sketchy area, the actual Airbnb itself was okay, but the area was like something out of a horror movie, wild dogs were chasing the cab as we were driving by like very sketchy neighborhood and kids are freaking out like ‘What are we gonna do?’” said Brett.

The next morning when they got back to the airport, they saw dozens of cots had been brought in for the passengers who couldn’t find a place to stay.

Their new flight was also delayed another four hours.

Jet Blue sent Boston 25 News the following statement:

“On Saturday, December 28, JetBlue flight 754, with scheduled service from Turks and Caicos to Boston, experienced a significant delay after the inbound aircraft had to divert to Fort Lauderdale, due to heavy Air Traffic Control (ATC) congestion and extended holding in the area. The flight was delayed until the following day, safely arriving in Turks and Caicos to pick up our customers before completing its flight to Boston.

We sincerely apologize for the inconvenience this delay caused and understand this was a frustrating situation. While the delay was created by circumstances beyond JetBlue’s control, we understand the impact this disruption had on our customers’ plans. Given that, we’ve provided instructions for affected customers to submit reimbursement requests for eligible out-of-pocket expenses in line with our Customer Service Plan. Additionally, as a gesture of goodwill, we’ve issued $200 in travel credit for future JetBlue flights.”

“This was far beyond a delay, this was sending people to the streets in a third-world country in the wee hours of the night and asking them to fend for themselves with no solutions,” said Marty.

Many of these passengers hope airlines find a better solution to provide shelter for customers during significant overnight delays.

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