GRAND FORKS – Like so many who returned from serving in the U.S. military, Elton Woodrow Ringsak never spoke about his service or the numerous medals he received, family members say.

“Everything I’ve learned about that, I learned from other people – and history books,” said his son, Elton “Mick” Ringsak of Butte, Montana.

The Ringsak family, and countless others in the region, will no doubt pause on

Memorial Day, Monday, May 29

, to remember those who committed years of their lives – or sacrificed their lives – to defend our nation’s principles and values.

Ringsak, a highly decorated WWII hero from Grafton, North Dakota, was wounded five times in two years while serving with the U.S. Army in Europe and North Africa. A display commemorating his service was ensconced in the former UND Memorial Union, which was razed a few years ago to make way for construction of the new Union on the same site. The display, titled “The Price of Freedom,” was not reinstated in the new facility, UND officials told the family, because the university intended to create a memorial installation that was more inclusive of all veterans associated with UND.

Many remember the display, especially for the war-worn, green helmet with a hole, evidence of enemy shrapnel, that recalls the Battle of Monte Porchia in 1944 that ended Ringsak’s Army career.

“I think that’s how he got it; he stood up and urged his soldiers on,” said grandson Beau Bateman of rural Grand Forks.

Ringsak is the most decorated North Dakota military veteran, Bateman said. He received the Distinguished Service Cross, five Purple Hearts, and numerous other honors, including the Silver Medal, the Bronze Star, the Presidential Citation, the White Legion of Honor, the French Croix de Guerre with Leaf Cluster, and the Italian Military Valor Cross.

At the Veterans Memorial Museum in Branson, Missouri, a sculpture of life-size bronze figures, lined up two abreast in a squadron on the move, includes one man from each state. In that 15-ton artwork, Ringsak represents North Dakota, Bateman said.

An image of Ringsak is also etched into the Wall of Honor at Veterans Memorial Park in Grand Forks. The full-length image shows him standing in military uniform, wearing jodhpurs.

Shrapnel from enemy fire – as evidenced by that green helmet – injured the temporal lobe in the left side of his brain. The injury temporarily paralyzed him, said Mick, the fourth of Elton and Ruth Ringsak’s five children. “He could only blink his eyes.”

Doctors removed bone fragments from his brain, but they were not optimistic about his survival. They did not expect him to live more than five or six months, Mick said. At one point, when nurses discovered that he had crawled out of bed, rehabilitation efforts began.

While hospitalized, Ringsak overheard doctors talking about amputating some of his fingers — one had already been shot off in combat, Bateman said.

“He convinced them that they shouldn’t amputate because he was a piano-player. He was not. They didn’t amputate; they thought that he wouldn’t live anyway.”

Ringsak defied the doctors’ grim prognosis and returned to North Dakota to lead a civilian life dedicated, again, to serving others, Bateman said.

As a result of his injury, throughout his life, he coped with Jacksonian seizures, which, if they advanced beyond his shoulder, he was stricken with grand mal seizure, Mick said.

Such seizures could be triggered if he got riled up, and he worked to maintain a sense of calm, Bateman said. “His self-control was always equal to whatever situation came up.”

Because of the brain injury, he had to learn to write with his left hand, instead of his right, Mick said.

In the 1940s, the era that brought WWII, the commitment to service was something that “you had to do,” Bateman said. After enlisting in the U.S. Army, Ringsak left a wife and children “who didn’t know if they’d see him again. And he came back half the human he was when he left – but he never felt bad about himself; there was no ‘woe is me.’ ”

Mick said his grandfather “never ever talked to me about the war.” Instead, he returned from the military to recover, raise his family, and build a life of service to others.

At the dinner table each evening, “he’d ask each of us, what did you do in school today,” Mick remembered. “He’d say something like, ‘If you did something to make the world better today than it was yesterday, you’ve earned your keep.’ ”

Very active in the school board, VFW, American Legion and other groups, Ringsak taught by example the importance of getting involved in the community.

“He had a strong sense of community and country,” Mick said. “We’ve lost that today.”

Ringsak, who had earned a bachelor’s degree and was involved in the ROTC program at UND before WWII began, returned to his family in Grafton after the war. Because of the effects of his injuries, he was permitted to study for a law license under the mentorship of the Walsh County state’s attorney. He was the last North Dakota to be granted that accommodation, Mick said.

Ringsak, who practiced law for 30 years, served as Walsh County state’s attorney from 1949 to 1956. He served in the North Dakota Legislature for 17 years, from 1957 to 1974.

His ability to remain calm probably contributed to his successful legislative career, Bateman said. “In politics, that was necessary to reach a compromise. He was diplomatic and bipartisan. He was so tactful; he could say things without offending people. We need more of that.”

While serving in the North Dakota Senate, Ringsak created legislation to provide for dedicated handicapped parking spots throughout the state. That legislation was the first of its kind in the country, Mick said. “The most compelling irony about that is, he never ever used a handicapped space.”

In 1974, Elton Ringsak Sr. was awarded the President’s Trophy as “Handicapped Person of the Year” by President Gerald Ford.

Ringsak, who died May 17, 1982, at age 66, is buried in Arlington National Cemetery in Washington, D.C., Bateman said. Ruth Ringsak died in 1988 at age 70.

“He was a very kind guy, a humble guy,” Bateman said of his grandfather, “always kind and always upbeat. He was a gentleman in the finest sense of the word.”

His legacy – and what his family and others will remember him for – is “service, without question,” Bateman said.

Men like his grandfather and others “truly were the ‘greatest generation,’ ” he said.

The Distinguished Service Cross, the nation’s second highest award for military valor, behind only the Medal of Honor, was awarded to Lt. Col. Elton Woodrow Ringsak “for extraordinary heroism in connection with military operations against an armed enemy while Commanding the 2nd Battalion, 6th Armored Infantry Regiment,” the award reads.

“Shortly after midnight, 25 March 1943, Lieutenant Colonel Ringsak led his battalion in an assault on a German position on Dj Naemia, which was defended in depth by well dug-in concrete pill boxes behind fields of personnel mines, the approaches to which were covered from every possible angle with heavy machine gun and 99-mm fire. Throughout the entire attack Lieutenant Colonel Ringsak moved among his companies through lines of heavy enemy machine gun fixed fire, giving orders as to the enemy position, reorganizing his companies for further effort.

“His coolness under fire, his superior knowledge and outstanding ability as a leader instilled confidence in his men and was a constant inspiration to them. The action of Lieutenant Colonel Ringsak showed utter fearlessness and determined courage, and, as an example of great leadership, reflects the finest traditions of the Army of the United States.”

Ringsak also received a Bronze Oak Leaf Cluster, in lieu of a Second Award of the Distinguished Service Cross, for extraordinary heroism in a January 4, 1944, battle near Mount Porchia, Italy.

“When his battalion was pinned down as a result of accurate enemy fire, he personally visited the units of his command, inspiring the officers and leaders, reorganizing the battalion, and directing their operation to a successful conclusion. Painfully wounded, he refused to be evacuated and conducted the reorganization of the battalion until the objective was reached.”

In this battle, Ringsak was “gravely wounded” and evacuated, the award states. “By his gallant leadership and heroic disregard for danger, Colonel Ringsak was a source of inspiration to the officers and men of his battalion and his personal conduct of the operations assured the success of the attack. (His) intrepid leadership, personal bravery and zealous devotion to duty exemplify the highest traditions of the military forces of the United States and reflect great credit upon himself, his unit, and the United States Army.”