Detroit, MI
Crack ‘blew up’ Detroit 40 years ago. Families, justice system still dealing with fallout
Detroit — Crack cocaine hit Detroit like a bomb 40 years ago, destroying families, straining law enforcement and causing paradigm shifts in the criminal justice system and popular culture.
The crack explosion in the mid-1980s spawned millionaire kingpins who waged violent turf wars, along with countless small-time dealers and addicts. The epidemic led to strict laws that swelled the prison population in Michigan and nationwide, while music industry and Hollywood icons built careers rapping about the dope game and the violence surrounding it.
While crack remains easily available, it’s not the drug of choice for most users now, according to law enforcement and survey data. Pills, heroin and other “downers” — often laced with fentanyl — have supplanted crack as the top-selling drug nationwide and locally, with methamphetamine entering the Detroit market in large quantities for the first time this year, according to Detroit police officials.
On Jan. 5, 1986, The Detroit News published a front-page article headlined, “Addictive new ‘crack’ cocaine sweeps Detroit.” Federal authorities said they had heard reports of the drug surfacing in Detroit sometime in 1984 or early 1985, with its popularity spreading rapidly during the summer of 1985.
In 1987, with turf wars raging as gangs jockeyed for position in the lucrative new drug market, Detroit recorded its highest-ever homicide rate of 63.5 per 100,000 residents. A 1989 report by the U.S. Attorney’s Office found Detroit, which at the time was the nation’s sixth-largest city in population, ranked first in the United States in crack cocaine abuse.
The 1991 movie “New Jack City,” in which a band of crack dealers commandeer an apartment complex called “The Carter,” was based on the real-life takeover of the 52-unit Broadmoor Apartments on Detroit’s east side by the Chambers Brothers gang, the organization that’s credited with introducing crack to Detroit.
The era known as the crack epidemic, which lasted from the late 1980s to the early 1990s, was the result of multiple economic and social factors, according to Wayne State University sociology professor Khari Brown, who said the drug had a particularly devastating impact on Detroit.
“Crack hit cities like Detroit just as deindustrialization was happening across America,” Brown said. “The factories all shut down just as Black people were starting to benefit from the Civil Rights Movement. Just when the Black community was starting to get a foothold, and starting to get those good factory jobs they’d previously been shut out of, companies started shipping jobs to other countries or mechanizing.
“While this is happening, crack enters the community, and it’s highly addictive, creating a lot of addicts, and giving people who have no jobs an opportunity to make a lot of money fast,” Brown said. “At the same time, culturally, you have rap music that’s encouraging young African American males to sell drugs, telling them that it’s cool to join gangs, and shoot people up and go to jail. At the peak period when crack was in the streets, you had gangsta rap, which was a matter of art imitating life, and life imitating art.”
The crack problem wasn’t confined to Detroit or African Americans, said Steve Dolunt, a former Detroit police assistant chief who began his career in 1985.
“We’d arrest a ton of people from the suburbs,” said Dolunt, who retired in 2017. “White males, White females. A lot of truck drivers would stop for hookers and smoke rocks with them. We had doctors from St. John’s Hospital (on Detroit’s east side); they’d get off work and stop for a quick rock. The crack epidemic hit everyone; it wasn’t just Detroit, although that’s where most people came to get it.
“It was like a factory — a lot of the crack houses had slots in the door; people would just go up, put their money in and get their rock.”
Dolunt said when he was a young officer patrolling the city’s west side, the Chambers Brothers gang controlled the Jeffries Projects.
“It was just like ‘New Jack City’ — maybe the movie was exaggerated a little, but the Chambers Brothers did take over whole floors of those high-rises,” he said. “I felt sorry for the old people who had to live there, or the people who were just trying to raise families. But they were scared to say anything to us, so if we didn’t catch these guys actually selling dope, there wasn’t much we could do.”
‘Like nothing before’
Illegal narcotics still flood Detroit and other communities, urban and rural.
Fentanyl overdoses have resulted in thousands of deaths, while addiction to heroin and other drugs continues to cause heartache and destroy lives — but crack created a unique set of problems, said Ray Winans, a former member of the Head Bangers Seven Mile Bloods gang who sold crack for years, starting as a child.
“There were drugs on the street before crack, but when crack hit, it blew up like nothing before,” said Winans, who at age 14 killed a crack addict by bludgeoning him on the head with a hammer.
Winans was convicted of second-degree murder and sentenced to prison until his 18th birthday. Upon his release, he continued selling crack, which landed him in and out of jail and prison until he quit in 2009.
“Crack is the drug that took the backbone of the Black community, the Black woman, out of the home,” said Winans, who mentors gang members and drug dealers as part of his Detroit Friends and Family Community Violence Intervention program. “When a woman would be hooked on heroin, that was a physical high, and a lot of them when they had kids, or had something else happen to wake them up, they’d get themselves together and get clean.
“But crack is a psychological drug; you get that first high that’s better than anything you ever felt in your life, and you keep trying to chase that,” Winans said. “When I sold crack, I’d see women selling their bodies — willing to sell their children — for a rock. People sold their souls for crack. It destroyed the Black community.”
Hot new product
Crack cocaine first turned up in 1981 in Los Angeles, San Diego and Houston, and by 1985 it was widely available in Detroit and other cities across the United States, according to the U.S. Office of Justice Programs 1985-86 National Narcotics Intelligence Report.
By July 1986, crack had permeated Detroit’s neighborhoods, prompting federal authorities in the city to launch a telephone line, 800-NO-CRACK, for tipsters to turn in crack dealers for reward money. In 1987, the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration seized 1,260 pounds of cocaine in Detroit, up from 55 pounds two years earlier, according to The Detroit News archives.
Before crack was introduced, freebasing cocaine had been a habit attributed to the rich and famous, with comedian Richard Pryor making headlines after burning himself while freebasing in 1980. But while freebasing is a dangerous, expensive process that usually involves using highly flammable and expensive ether, crack is usually cut with safe, inexpensive baking soda. It’s an affordable, easily made product that reportedly gives users an initial euphoric high they often spend years trying to recapture.
Drugs had caused problems in Detroit for decades, with The News devoting a full page of its Sept. 20, 1873, edition to a story about the city’s opium scourge. Throughout the 1970s and ’80s, heroin and other drugs ravaged many Detroit families and neighborhoods.
But no illegal drug has ever had such an immediate and widespread impact, said Scott Burnstein, a Detroit crime historian and founder of the website The Gangster Report.
“There’s never been a narcotic that went from zero to a thousand like crack did — it was a total game-changer,” Burnstein said. “A lot of it was the low price and the nature of the high. … There was a huge demand for it, and it opened the floodgates for the era when anyone could become a drug kingpin.”
Burnstein said gangs like the Chambers Brothers and Young Boys Incorporated recruited children to sell drugs for them.
“There’d be kids selling drugs on school playgrounds; people would walk right up and buy,” Bernstein said. “The gangs figured the police weren’t going to look on the playgrounds.”
Lighter penalties for minors also made them attractive as foot soldiers for drug dealers, said Dolunt, the former Detroit assistant police chief.
“You’d arrest some kid, and he’d be back on the street in a few hours,” he said.
Winans said he often raked in $2,000 or more per day selling crack as a kid. While he said he was allowed to keep only a small fraction of the proceeds, he felt rich.
“I’m 14 years old making $300 a day — that’s a lot of money for a 14-year-old,” Winans said.
The Rev. W.J. Rideout of All God’s People Church in Detroit, said crack had a “devastating” effect on his family.
“I had several siblings who were addicted to crack, and one sibling who sold it,” said Rideout, a community activist who grew up in Detroit. “It caused me to want to become a drug counselor and try to help people whose lives were being destroyed by crack. Thank God my family all made it out. Crack took a lot of people from us, though.”
Tough laws
With crack destroying urban communities, legislators began calling for harsher drug penalties.
In 1994, with support from the Congressional Black Caucus, Congress passed the Violent Crime Control and Law Enforcement Act, known as “the Crime Bill,” which is the largest federal crime legislation ever enacted. The law expanded the federal death penalty to include drug offenses and added the “Three Strikes, You’re Out” rule, which meant a third conviction for a serious or violent felony often led to life in prison.
The U.S. prison population soared from 330,000 inmates in 1980 to 773,000 in 1990 to 1.4 million in 2000, with a peak of 1.6 million in 2006. Michigan, which had about 15,0000 inmates in 1980, saw its prison population jump to about 34,000 by 1990, with a high of 51,554 prisoners in March 2007.
“During the 1980s and ’90s, all the wheels of criminal justice and politics were focused on crack,” Michigan State University criminal justice professor Steven Chermak said. “What usually drives criminal justice policy is, something bad will come along that captures the imagination of the public, whether it’s a new drug or a high-profile case, and there’s an urgency to do something about it. We saw in the 1980s and ’90s where drugs became the focal point, and it contributed to the extraordinary growth in the prison population.”
The recent trend in the criminal justice system has been toward lighter penalties for nonviolent drug offenders, with Detroit’s 36th District Court among the agencies that have overhauled their bond and sentencing policies. Michigan’s prison population has declined since March 2007 to 32,778 inmates by the end of 2024, according to the state Department of Corrections.
But Chermak said the pendulum could swing back toward harsher punishment.
“Absolutely, it could happen again,” he said. “We’ve always had social problems that get constructed into something more significant, and the system is forced to respond.”
‘The residue’
Crack is still being bought and sold in Detroit, but it’s not the problem it once was, said Detroit Police Cmdr. Anthony O’Rourke, the commanding officer of the department’s Organized Crime Bureau.
“Crack is still around, but we’ve mainly been dealing with the opioid crisis for the past few years and the deaths associated with fentanyl,” O’Rourke said.
O’Rourke said police are monitoring a recent unusual trend: Methamphetamine seizures by weight as of April 15 were up 1,000% over the same period in 2024. While individual raids have netted large quantities of the drug, there hasn’t been a noticeable uptick in user arrests, he said.
“So far 2025, we’ve seized over 98 kilos of meth, 6.5 kilos of cocaine and over 6.5 of fentanyl — that tells you where the supply is headed,” O’Rourke said. “Meth hasn’t been in Detroit in large numbers before, but I think we’re going to see a transition where meth takes over as the predominant drug.”
The problems police encounter dealing with crack and meth users are different than with opioid addicts, he said.
“The opioid users usually only harm themselves; they usually just want to lay down and take a nap,” O’Rourke said. “But crack makes people really high — and it’s even worse with meth.”
Winans said while crack is still the same addictive drug it was when it was the scourge of Detroit, rappers and tougher laws for selling the drug are partially responsible for the change in habits.
“You have big artists who make it sound cool to be popping Percocets; cool to pop (Xanax),” Winans said. “You listen to some of these rappers, and drill music (a rap subgenre), and they all talk about it, doing drugs. It’s the same thing as gangsta rap back in the day, only they’re pushing this crap on the younger generation.
“Plus, they have those federal laws that are tougher on crack dealers,” Winans said. “A lot of people don’t think it’s worth the risk selling crack. … A lot of these kids look at crack as something old people smoke.”
Wayne State’s Brown said the end of the Cold War in the early 1990s could have contributed to cocaine being replaced as the drug of choice in American inner cities.
“There were allegations made that the CIA had worked with right-wing groups that sold cocaine in the United States to fund their wars against communists,” Brown said. “The CIA investigated themselves, and their findings were that the allegations weren’t true.
“But I can only see patterns, and I see America in the 1980s fighting a Cold War in Latin America, and during this period when they were working with right-wing groups like the Contras to destabilize leftist governments, some of these groups were using cocaine sales to subsidize their wars against the communists,” he added. “And during this time, cocaine suddenly starts flooding American inner cities.
“Then, after the USSR falls (in 1991), and there’s no reason for the U.S. to subsidize these right-wing groups, cocaine starts to slow down,” Brown said. “There were congressional hearings, and a lot of questions were asked about the possible connection between the Cold War and the crack epidemic, although nothing was ever proven. Still, that is the pattern I see.”
Whatever forces drove the crack epidemic, Winans said Detroiters are still reeling from the impact the drug made when it was introduced to the city 40 years ago.
“There were so many crackhead moms, so many Black kids raised by their grandparents, no fathers in the home … and now, those kids grew up,” Winans said. “And they’re having their own kids.
“We haven’t been able to recover from the crack epidemic. We’re still dealing with the residue.”
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Detroit’s coolest new bars of 2025
Orange wine, smoked old fashioned, freezer martinis, oysters, olives and more were covering bar tops across Motown over the past 12 months or so as Detroit welcomed the debut of many new splashy lounges and neighborhood watering holes.
From the east side to the west — and of course downtown as well — new places offered unique wine lists, mocktails, throwback drinks and other fun for adults, including books and games.
Read on for details on a dozen of the coolest new bars that opened in the city this year, in no particular order. For the sake of perimeters, I used the same criteria for the Best New Restaurants 2025 list, considering businesses that first opened between November of 2024 and October of this year. Hours listed are the regular business hours, which may be different this month due to the holidays.
The Dirty Shake — Midtown
Adding another cool and casual spot to the list of watering holes in the Cass Corridor, the Dirty Shake debuted in March in a brick building at Second and Forest. Like its elder statesman neighbor down the block the Bronx Bar, the drinks here are pretty cheap and the food is high quality and fun. That’s because it’s owned by the guys behind Chartreuse Kitchen + Cocktails and Freya, Sandy Levine and chef Doug Hewitt. You can have lunch or dinner here (cheeseburgers, smoked chicken wings, jerk chicken, vegan stuff) or just snack on Flamin’ Hot Cheetos, Reese’s Popcorn and other bagged treats. The fact that the Dirty Shake is open daily at 11:30 a.m. and has a big wrap-around porch for summertime makes it an instant classic.
Open 11:30 a.m.-midnight Sun.-Thurs. and 11:30 a.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. 4642 Second, Detroit. (313) 279-8500. dirtyshake.com.
Chenin — Downtown
Forget everything you think about wine bars because Chenin is totally different. I have never seen anyone older than 50 sitting at one of the few seats, standing around the slight drink rail or smoking a cigarette out the back door, which is one of the only three place you can really exist inside this teeny-tiny space without being in someone’s way (or lap). Formerly home to eight-seat tasting menu restaurant Albena, Chenin is attracting younger millennials and Gen Z Detroiters with their well-edited European wine menu (including skin-fermented wines), fluffy square pizza, gourmet ice cream and late-night burger grilling. They also serve a premade and pre-chilled martini and Budweiser. Go alone and make a new friend, or just eavesdrop on conversations you can’t help but overhear. Go with too many people and risk not being able to get everyone in the door.
Open 5 p.m.-midnight Sun.-Mon. and Thurs. and 5 p.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. 1509 Broadway, Suite A-1, Detroit. barchenin.com.
Roar Brewing Company — Midtown
Sip on one of Roar’s beers like the honey oat stout, raspberry wheat or amber lager. You can also order a mixed drink or choose one of the nonalcoholic beers and canned cocktails offered. Along with a full bar, this new spot with indoor and outdoor seating serves pub grub like burgers, veggie burgers, tots, wings and flavored popcorn. The community-driven space makes sure it’s open for Detroit Lions games, and in the warmer months offers outdoor lawn games and sometimes live music. Proudly promoting itself as the city’s first Black-owned brewery, Roar is a great addition to the dense area near Selden and Second where it’s easy to walk to many other of the city’s top bars and restaurants including SheWolf, Selden Standard, Honest John’s and Barcade.
Open 5-11 p.m. Mon.-Thurs., noon-midnight Fri.-Sat. and noon-11 p.m. Sun. 666 Selden, Suite B, Detroit. (313) 326-2680. www.roar.beer.
Me & You Kitchen and Cocktails — East English Village
This is the kind of laid-back hangout spot where you can really be yourself. Laugh out loud with friends, sing along to the R&B tunes and order an extra round of lemon drop shots, which are just $5 each during happy hour. Formerly Good Vibes Lounge, Me & You is owned by Courtney Sanders and Angela Wright. Wright is also the owner of Mix Bricktown, Lockeroom Sports Lounge and Sandbox Outdoor Bar & Lounge, so she knows what Detroiters want when it comes to mixed drinks and chill atmospheres. Specialties from the kitchen are the fried fish, bologna sandwich and the Big 3 burger. Brunch has its own drink menu with flavored mimosas and mimosa tower flights — not just mimosa towers, but mimosa tower flights — for $100. Brunch cuisine features grits, salmon croquettes, fried chicken and pancakes, T-bone steak and eggs and more. The inside seats 100 and there’s room for plenty more in the backyard during warmer weather. Like the fun sign on the wall says, this is a place for “me & you, yo momma and yo cousin, too.”
Open 11 a.m.-11 p.m. Wed.-Thurs., 11 a.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. and 11 a.m.-11 p.m. Sun. 16801 Harper, Detroit. (313) 909-0809. Meandyoueast.com.
Paris Bar — McNichols and Jos Campau
Long live the dive bar. Paris Bar debuted this year with DJs, live bands and cocktails from the same folks behind Outer Limits Lounge, which sits just outside Hamtramck in Detroit. The space, lit mostly by the warm glow of vintage neon signage, was formerly Simpson’s Record Shop. Before that, though, it was also a local bar called Paris Beer Garden. (“Amateurs wanted. Cash prizes.” reads a classified advertisement from Paris Beer Garden in a 1935 issue of The Detroit News seeking musicians.) Paris Bar has a lot of room to hang out. Drinkers gather near the bar and when bands are booked they’re in a back room. There’s also a small, fenced-in yard out back with modest patio furniture. Expect anything here: rock and roll, punk, metal, the avant-garde, art shows, films and more.
Open 8 p.m.-2 a.m. Mon.-Sat. and 6 p.m.-midnight Sun. 2961 E. McNichols, Detroit. instagram.com/parisbardetroit.
Father Forgive Me — English Village
One of the first buzzy openings of the summer was Father Forgive Me’s early June debut. Located on the grounds of the Shepherd — a former church that has been converted into a cultural center, part of an east side development — this hip, new and somewhat upscale indoor and outdoor bar has been a go-to spot since then. The menu has craft cocktails, wine by the glass or bottle and a few beers. There’s food, too, mostly small things and shareables like the very on-trend tinned fish, olives and a mortadella sandwich. They usually don’t take reservations here, but there’s an exception for the New Year’s Eve party on Dec. 31. There will be two seatings for $130 per person that includes all food and drinks. The menu is expected to feature shrimp cocktail, beef tartare and tater tot waffles with caviar.
Open 4-11 p.m. Mon., Wed.-Thurs., 4 p.m.-midnight Fri., noon-midnight Sat. and noon-11 p.m. Sun. Closed Tuesdays. 1265 Parkview, Detroit. fatherforgiveme.com.
Full Measure Brewing — Eastern Market
This is a great new hangout for craft beer lovers, of course, but the spacious and clean new Full Measure Brewing is an all-around great addition to Eastern Market. The food menu is no afterthought here, with many items that are vegetarian, vegan or gluten-free. There’s also food that’s none of those things, like the po’ boy with Creole remoulade and grilled jumbo shrimp or fried catfish (or fried green tomatoes to make it vegetarian). It comes with fries for just $15 and the menu recommends pairing it with a pint of their Bla Bla Ginger or Atmospherium Saison. The menu also does a good job at explaining the bitterness and alcohol content of all the beers. There’s a brunch menu, too, as Full Measure is an easygoing spot to fuel up before or after your weekend market shopping.
Open 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Mon.-Fri., 9 a.m.-10 p.m. Sat. and 10 a.m.-8 p.m. 2700 Orleans, Detroit. (313) 818-3977. fullmeasurebrewing.com.
Vesper Books & Wine — Core City
This new corner spot at Grand River an W. Warren is one of the most well-lit bars on this list because it’s also a bookstore. Vesper specializes in cookbooks and other food-adjacent literature, which are shelved around an interior that also features a mix of couches and tables that look thrifted right out of your cool aunt’s 1990s-era living room. They sell wines by the glass at the bar (or order at the counter and take a seat) and customers can also shop for a variety of interesting wines to take home. The menu has a few cocktails and beers (Budweiser, again). A short snack menu has wine-centric vittles like a cheese plate, olives or something more substantial like a beautiful soppressata sandwich or tinned fish served with bread, butter and pickled vegetables. This place has been abuzz since late 2022 and finally debuted in December 2024. Vesper is open early for a wine bar, so you can pop in and nurse your hangover after closing down Chenin the night before.
Open 2-11 p.m. Wed.-Thurs., 2 p.m.-midnight Fri., noon-midnight Sat. and noon-9 p.m. Sun. 5001 Grand River, Detroit. (313) 716-1708. vesperbooksandwine.com.
Arcenciel — Livernois and Fenkell
Named for the French word for “rainbow,” this new nightlife destination debuted in November 2024 as an LGBTQ+ dance club. Friday nights is geared toward women, and Saturday nights for men, but anyoe and everyone is welcome on either night at the 4,500-square-foot club with a state-of-the-art dance floor. A supper club-style Versailles Dining Room restaurant has been put on hold and is expected to reopen in Spring 2026.
Open 9 p.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. 14925 Livernois, Detroit. (313) 635-5080. arcencieldetroit.com.
Cannons — Morningside
Brightening up the space where beloved and dimly-lit tiki bar Lost River was, Cannons debuted this fall with oysters, barrel batched cocktails and nods to the United Kingdom like a perfect pour of Guinness, Welsh rarebit and bread pudding. Upstairs is a cozy techno haven that has already hosted sets by some of the greats: Juan Adkins, Derrick May and Kevin Saunderson. This summer there is sure to be plenty more fun on the rooftop deck that overlooks Mack Avenue at the Detroit and Grosse Pointe Park border. Stop in for a pint and a football game (either kind), and soak in all the small details of the refurbished barroom.
Open 4 p.m.-2 a.m. Mon.-Fri. And 11 a.m.-2 a.m. Fri.-Sat. 15421 Mack, Detroit. instagram.com/cannonsbar.
Sip N Read — Corktown
Another bar and bookstore in one! At Sip N Read, the name says it all. The 2,400-square-foot space is owned and operated by Tamela Todd, author of three nonfiction books and a winemaker. She proudly displayed her her Library of Rosé from the Sip-N-Read wine collection, which is available to enjoy in 5- or 8-ounce pours at the bar. All the wines here are Michigan-made. Sip-N-Read is a place to shop for books, visit with friends, sit and read, have a drink or a mix of all of these. Rather than store shelves, the displays are more like a living room, with cozy, plush chairs. The selection is a small, curated mix of current memoirs, nonfiction, novels and some classics. Todd and her team at Sip N Read are planning to lean into this year’s Dry January and offer guests a new menu of mocktails while they aim to create a space that makes alcohol-free socializing intentional and inviting.
Open 4-9 p.m. Thurs.-Sun. 1620 Michigan, Ste 122, Detroit. sipandread.net.
The Post Bar — Downtown
The sportiest watering hole on this list of new spots, the Post Bar turned on the old neon sign late last year. Longtime Detroiters will know the name, as there were once raucous Post Bar locations throughout the area, including on Congress by Joe Louis Arena and even one on Woodward in Ferndale (where Imperial is now). They’ve got every kind of beer, liquor and hard seltzer that’s currently trending, along with a hearty food menu. Choose from pub grub like a giant pretzel, turkey chili or Cajun chicken nachos, or try the more sophisticated prime rib French dip, strawberry salad or charcuterie board.
Open 11 a.m.-2 a.m. Daily. 1325 Broadway, Detroit. instagram.com/thepostbardetroit.
Melody Baetens is The Detroit News restaurant critic
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Red Wings photographer given special moment after tragic loss
Dave Reginek’s voice broke as he spoke about a letter he had just found from his daughter. In it, she spoke of never wanting to hurt him. He saw that part when he tried to mop up a tear that had fallen on the paper.
It is a letter that is almost heartbreaking now, as the Reginek family copes with the loss of Danielle “Reggie” Reginek, who passed away Dec. 8 due to heart failure. She was 41.
Reginek and Reggie used to bond over photography. His interest in the field began when he was 11 years old and got a Yashica camera from his mom, who got it from a bar patron in lieu of paying his tab. Reginek turned an early hobby into the job of a lifetime when in 2002-03, he was hired as the team photographer by the Detroit Red Wings. It was a passion he cherished sharing with his daughter.
“She was a huge, huge sports fan,” Reginek said. “She could go toe to toe with just about anybody. And it was just something that her and I always had together. Sports and taking pictures. She was great at taking pictures.”
From Thanksgiving to tragedy
Reginek is part of the photo team that shoots the Detroit Lions’ annual Thanksgiving Day game, which means celebrating the holiday with family − his wife, Colleen, Reggie, son David and his wife and their children − means postponing it a day or two. This year, they celebrated on Nov. 29.
“We were playing cards with her aunt and my daughter-in-law, some other games, laughing and having fun and it was all good,” Colleen said. “She was here for a couple, three hours.
“It was nice that we did get that.”
The next day, they got a phone call, the start of a nightmare.
“Sunday morning, my son called me and said that her boyfriend had called, something was wrong,” Reginek said. “They’re giving her CPR and taking her to Trinity Health in Livonia. We got over there as quick as we could. They were working on her for almost two hours. They finally got a pulse, but after four minutes of no oxygen to your brain, your brain starts to die.”
Reginek describes that Sunday, Nov. 30, as the day “we lost her beautiful soul.”
Five days later, they took her off life support. They tried to honor Reggie’s generous spirit and wish to be an organ donor by working with the Gift of Life program. Having never gotten to walk Reggie down the aisle for a wedding, the Regineks instead walked her down two corridors at the hospital, to the operating room.
“He thought this was his last chance for him to walk with her,” Colleen said. “So as much as he doesn’t like wearing suits, he got all dressed up in a suit and I was in a dress and we were all dressed up to walk down that path. And he held her hand the whole way.”
Hundreds of people lined the hallways. The Regineks stopped to thank every one of them.
“That was very tough,” Reginek said. “They had two floors and we had to take an elevator down and both floors were lined up. It was very emotional. As I walked by every one of them, I looked at them and I said, thank you, and there had to be 150, 200 people. I told them, you are all living angels.“
There were complications with the internal organs, but her skin and her eyes were harvested.
Reginek describes Monday, Dec. 8, as the day “we lost her body.”
Unimaginable grief
The Regineks are determined to go forward with a pre-planned holiday party. It’s what Reggie would have wanted.
“We have grandchildren and this is Christmas time,” Colleen said. “We have our Christmas party at my son’s house, and he’s like, do we cancel? Should we not have it?
“And it’s like, no. Reggie taught us more than anything that family is what is important and we have to move on for the kids. She would have wanted us to have it.”
As they try to figure out how to move forward, the Regineks are dealing with the other pain that can come with losing a loved one: Sorting out their affairs. Reggie did not have a will, and they don’t have her passwords to her phone, credit cards, and other accounts. On top of the grief, there is so much paperwork.
And there is going through her belongings, which can bring both overpowering sadness − and gratitude.
It was while sorting through her desk that the family found a letter Reggie had written two years ago, after a disagreement with her dad over something she did that he didn’t like.
“My son found it and brought it to us the other day,” Reginek said, emotion breaking his voice. “It’s so sweet. It’s so touching. She felt like she needed to write it down and she did. It was hard to read. It was so heartfelt. And while I was reading it, a tear fell from my face and it hit a part, the part where she said, I don’t ever want to hurt you and mom.
“That’s where that tear landed. I didn’t even read down that far. I couldn’t. But that’s how I saw it. My tear.”
The Red Wings family
Reginek is used to having great access to the team, but he usually only gets called into the locker room after a game if a player is celebrating a milestone.
Tuesday was different. Early in the day, he received a phone call from a staff member asking him to come to the locker room after the game, regardless of outcome. The Wings were blasting music to celebrate their 3-2 victory over the New York Islanders, but as soon as Reginek entered, the music was turned off, and captain Dylan Larkin stood up.
“He made a comment about my daughter passing while they were on the road trip,” Reginek said. “He says, ‘you’re always taking our pictures. We want to do a team picture with you.’ So he gave me the game puck and I did the best I could, kind of thanked him and told him how grateful I was.
“The win was the biggest win of my life with the team. They dedicated it to her. That was overwhelming.”
Afterward, one by one, players hugged Reginek. Todd McLellan, the coach, offered his condolences. “He said if we need anything, to please reach out,” Reginek said. “They were all very sincere about it.”
In the hallway outside the locker room, general manager Steve Yzerman was waiting.
“I seen Stevie making a beeline towards me,” Reginek said. “We talked for like 10 minutes. He’s got three daughters and I know he felt my pain or could see it. I think he understands the devastation that we’re going through. Not that he could truly understand the pain, you can only imagine it, you can’t put it into words.”
Reggie’s legacy
As news spread of their loss, the Regineks were overwhelmed with messages of love and condolences. They knew Reggie was special, that her energy and smilie and infectious joy had touched so many. Now they saw it.
“My wife kind of made a list of things, bullet points of things, that people kept saying over and over again,” Reginek said.
There were so many.
“It was ‘her big, welcoming heart, her bright light, her big, beautiful smile,’” Colleen said. “‘A truly amazing person, loyal friend. What a kindhearted, beautiful person she was. How you could pick her laugh out of a hundred people in a room. A friend who would always be there for you. How genuine she was.’”
Now that joyful and loving person is gone from Reginek’s life, but never from their hearts. Never from their souls.
Contact Helene St. James at hstjames@freepress.com.
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