Finance
What is money dysmorphia? How this financial feeling hurts your wallet
Whether it’s the bachelorette trips that have become dream vacations, the cross-country flights that end in front-row seats for Taylor Swift or just the social media users who keep up with every weekly fashion trend (looking at you, “mob-wife” aesthetic), it can seem like everyone online these days has loads of expendable money to spend on whatever they please … but do they?
Enter “money dysmorphia”: a phenomenon that occurs when someone has a distorted or insecure view of their financial standing no matter what it truly is, leading them to make poor monetary decisions.
A recent study from Qualtrics and Intuit Credit Karma found 29% of Americans experience money dysmorphia, and although a form of it has been around since the Great Depression, the current era is hitting some people particularly hard.
So what do we do about it? Here’s what we know.
Who’s most affected by money dysmorphia?
To put it plainly, per Credit Karma: “Gen Z and millennials are obsessed with the idea of being rich,” and that obsession is precisely what can lead a younger person to make worse financial decisions — a symptom of money dysmorphia.
The Qualtrics study found 43% of Gen Z and 41% of millennials said they experience money dysmorphia, compared to 25% of Gen X and just 14% aged 59 or above.
It’s no surprise these younger age groups are most affected by it, as the trend really started to emerge with social media use.
But Ted Jenkins, the owner and CEO of oXYGen Financial, told Scripps News what you’re viewing is likely not a full, honest picture of someone’s finances, but it’s still pushing some to change their habits and ideals to match what they see.
“What they see in front of them, it feels like everybody is leading the life of Riley — going on vacations to Italy, sitting front row for a Taylor Swift concert, having a brand new Rolex watch — and this is just not reality,” Jenkins said. “It’s just not reality, but people think it is, and this causes this money dysmorphia.”
And the money dysmorphia runs deep, becoming further distorted by the study’s other responses.
For example, of the people who said they did experience money dysmorphia, 82% said they felt behind on their finances, but just 29% said they don’t struggle with financial insecurity. Going further, 48% of Gen Z and 59% of millennial participants said they felt behind money-wise, but 59% also reported feeling financially stable.
The uneven perception versus reality is also more prominent for those who might not understand how much the average person has in savings.
Of those who reported experiencing money dysmorphia, 37% said they had more than $10,000 in savings and 23% of those had more than $30,000. Compared to the median savings balance for Americans, which is around $5,300, that seems like a pretty good number!
Those who didn’t report experiencing money dysmorphia did average more in savings though, with 52% having more than $10,000 and 32% of those having more than $50,000 saved.
But still, it’s likely the money dysphorics aren’t comparing themselves to the average; instead, they compare themselves to those who aren’t anywhere close — or, at least, to those online who pretend they’re not.
“No matter what [a person with money dysphoria’s] money situation is, they feel like they don’t have enough,” Jenkins said. “It’s like somebody with body dysmorphia looking in the mirror and saying, ‘I should be thinner,’ even though they may be thin already … What it makes them do is have behaviors like spending money that they don’t have, creating more credit card debt, not saving enough really, so to speak, to try to keep up with the Joneses in today’s world.”
How can you avoid money dysmorphia?
The bottom line to avoiding this phenomenon is to be realistic and to stop comparing.
The study pointed out that although nearly half of Gen Z and millennial respondents are obsessed with the idea of being rich, most don’t think they ever will be.
While it’s important to have financial goals, it’s also important to have a plan to get there; anyone can want to be rich, but it would take some big steps to truly build that wealth. One of those steps is overcoming money dysmorphia.
The study found that 95% of Americans with money dysmorphia say it negatively impacts their finances, either by holding them back from building savings or leading them to overspend and increase their debt.
Getting past that feeling can’t work without taking an honest look at your finances. Courtney Alev, a consumer financial advocate at Credit Karma, recommends setting clear goals and making a plan after taking that look.
“If your goal is to build up your savings, start by doing an audit of your finances to see where in your budget you can make room for savings,” Alev said. “From there, you can schedule automatic payments from each paycheck to help hold you accountable and incrementally increase your savings.”
Jenkins, who has more than 22 years of experience as a financial adviser, echoes that sentiment, saying the top three things a person can do to avoid or get over money dysmorphia are to have your own personal finance plan, never get into credit card debt and — most importantly — “don’t believe all the hype” you compare yourself to on social media.
“Not everybody that’s doing all this fun stuff is worth millions of dollars. In fact, in many cases, they are underwater in debt,” he told Scripps News.
Finance
Mega landlord warns some investors ‘will be wiped out’ in budget changes
Eddie Dilleen is one of Australia’s biggest residential landlords. He reckons he now has 200 properties in his portfolio.
But he just bought perhaps his favourite house yet. More than 25 years after his parents divorced and sold the family home for $97,000, he has purchased it back for a bit under $1 million.
“I just bought it sight unseen,” he told Yahoo Finance.
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Dilleen said he has spent the past decade periodically checking if the house had returned to market.
“You can set reminders and stuff like that, but when I was on my phone messing around, I would randomly check it literally every one or two weeks for the past 12 years.”
His parents first bought the home in the far western suburbs of Sydney in 1985 for $51,000. When he saw it listed, he felt “an overwhelming rush of excitement,” he said.
“This home holds some of my best memories… and some tough ones too. But today, it represents something completely different,” he wrote online, sharing a photo of himself next to the sold sign on Tuesday. “It’s proof that where you start doesn’t define where you finish.”
He ultimately bought it for 19 times what his parents paid for it 41 years ago.
“The affordable properties and suburbs, they usually grow at a higher percentage value. I’m all about percentages,” he told Yahoo Finance.
“Everyone talks about the best, blue chip locations, but I buy everywhere.”
Dilleen, who is in his mid 30s and also runs a buyers agency and writes books about real estate investing, estimates the properties he owns are now collectively worth about $150 million (he likes to buy blocks that contain multiple units) with about $60 million in debt against that.
According to ATO data, he is about one of 166 mega landlords who own 20 or more rental properties in their own name. Dilleen said he owns “about 30 or 40” in his own name, and others through trust and company structures.
Landlords overly reliant on negative gearing ‘will be wiped out’
With less than two weeks until the Labor government hand downs its promised “ambitious” budget, property investors are bracing for possible changes to the rules around tax deductions related to investments.
One of the most commonly used is negative gearing, which allows landlords to claim losses to reduce the amount of income tax they pay. But its days could be numbered with the federal government expected to cap, or possibly even scrap, the existing policy under certain circumstances. While no announcements have actually been made, most observers expect such a change to be grandfathered in for existing investors.
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First home buyer’s superannuation mistake exposes ‘widespread’ ATO problem
First home buyer Jessica Ricci was just trying to save a little extra money through her superannuation in a federal government scheme intended to help people like her. But an error from tax authorities has left her paying more tax than the top income bracket on some super contributions – ironically having the exact opposite of the intended effect of the policy.
As a result, she’s lost out on an extra $2,250 in savings that was supposed to go to her house deposit. While the ATO pushed back over who was at fault for the mix-up, her case has highlighted an increasingly problematic blindspot when it comes taxpayers getting the short end of the stick when dealing with tax authorities.
“I’m definitely feeling a little bit helpless,” she told Yahoo Finance. “There’s not a clear path to rectify this.”
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Jess was tipping extra money into her superannuation as part of the First Home Super Saver Scheme which has been running for years and allows eligible first home buyers to take advantage of the tax benefits of their retirement savings and then pull those extra contributions out to use for a house deposit.
As part of the scheme, individuals need to apply to the ATO, which in turn requests the related money from the person’s super fund.
Over four years, Jess contributed the maximum $50,000 amount, ensuring not to exceed the $15,000 yearly cap. She did so with the expectation of claiming the benefit at the time of her house purchase, as per the rules of the scheme.
When she went to make the claim, much of the information was auto-populated by the ATO website. And after receiving her funds, and the amount being less than expected, she soon discovered that her first contribution was wrongly classified as a concessional contribution, meaning $2,250 was, in the words of an ATO official, “retained by the ATO as withholding tax”.
She has spent months going back and forth with tax officials trying to get the money she believes should be owed to her.
“They’ve all taken the same stance, which is; ‘Well, yeah, we made a mistake, but you didn’t catch it. You said that what we provided you was fine, so it’s your fault’.
“I think it’s crazy to put the onus or the burden on the average person. I think most people would rightfully assume that pre-filled data provided by the ATO would be accurate,” she said.
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