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One of the biggest stories coming out of the Golden Globes, the first official red carpet event of the year, was not about an award snub or surprise, but rather an accessory on Zendaya’s left ring finger.

A week before, on Dec. 31, the pop star Dua Lipa posted a carousel on Instagram that included a photo of her holding a drink with a round cut diamond set on a chunky gold band on her left hand. (Her previous post was a rare pic of her canoodling with the actor Callum Turner. They first sparked romance rumors in January 2024.)

And on Jan. 1, the actress Chloë Grace Moretz posted a photo of what seemed to be her hand interlocked with that of her partner, the model Kate Harrison, both wearing diamond rings. Ms. Moretz has been very private about her relationship with Ms. Harrison, though the two fueled dating rumors in December 2018, when TMZ photographed them in Malibu.

None of these women have spoken publicly about an engagement — there was no flashy announcement nor confirmation. But that has not stopped the internet from going wild. Fan-made compilations and headlines citing confirmation from “anonymous sources close to the couple” swirled on the internet.

Can a celebrity ever just wear a ring on her ring finger without being hounded?

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“Absolutely not,” said Moya Luckett, a media historian and professor of celebrity culture at N.Y.U. “We’ve gotten to a point now where everyone is so good at analyzing all these clues, including lots of red herrings. That’s something that just comes with the territory in a digital media age.”

From a public relations perspective, the speculation is not only expected, but desired. “If you’re a celebrity, the press should be talking about you,” said Anita Chatterjee, the founder of A-Game Public Relations, a firm based in New York. “I’d be worried if one of my clients wore something like that and there was no speculation.”

Zendaya, who was nominated for a Golden Globe Award for her role in “Challengers,” met her partner, Tom Holland, on the set of “Spider-Man: Homecoming” in 2016 as he was playing the superhero and she was co-starring as his love interest. They denied dating rumors for years, until paparazzi photos published by Page Six in July 2021 showed the two kissing in a car. The couple rarely share details about their relationship save for a few comments and social media posts.

Some have speculated that the ring was the work of the jewelry designer Jessica McCormack, who also designed an engagement ring for the actress Zoë Kravitz. On her website, Ms. McCormack has a ring similar to the one Zendaya flashed at the Golden Globes. Ann Grimmett, the vice president of merchandising at Jared Jeweler, said that the ring Zendaya wore appeared to be a five-karat old mine cut that costs around $120,000.

In the past year, Dr. Luckett said she had noticed that now, for many celebrities, “the luxury is to withhold yourself — you don’t want to be too available, and information shouldn’t be available.” It’s a way for celebrities to build mystique and differentiate themselves from quotidian influencers, she added.

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“The key figure, in some ways, is Kylie Jenner,” Dr. Luckett said, “who has gone from being ubiquitous to sort of having this relationship with Timothée Chalamet that started off as, ‘Is it or isn’t it?’”

It is on trend for a celebrity couple to try to live their personal lives out of the public eye until they decide to throw their fans a bone — a tactic to control the narrative of their lives in the age of digital media.

“Today we have much more of this sort of citizen journalist ethos — everyone’s free to comment,” Dr. Luckett said, whereas before, “there was much more of an institutional structure where studios, management and the press all work together to control what information came out.”

Take, for example, Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s engagements. For their first engagement in 2002, Ms. Lopez revealed the news in a television interview with Diane Sawyer in a media ecosystem where information came from the top. The second time around, Ms. Lopez made the reveal in a newsletter that she shared on social media.

According to Ms. Chatterjee, celebrities are careful about what they say when they do open up about their personal lives, and there’s a strategy behind each message.

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“We want to control the messaging, and there’s a time for saying everything,” Ms. Chatterjee said. “You want to stay in the press. This could be a good way of hinting at it until she’s ready to talk about it, if she is really engaged.”

Representatives for Zendaya, Ms. Lipa and Ms. Moretz did not immediately respond to requests for comments. People magazine reported confirmation of Zendaya’s engagement from an undisclosed family source.

Not every celebrity is as reticent. A month ago, Selena Gomez took the route of the dramatic social media reveal, kicking off engagement season with an Instagram post flaunting her marquise diamond ring and a caption about her engagement to Benny Blanco, the record producer and songwriter.

The couple made an appearance at the Golden Globes. Ms. Gomez followed that as a guest on “Jimmy Kimmel Live,” and her engagement came up several times. She seemed visibly uncomfortable, though, when Mr. Kimmel gave her a “daddy saddle” as an engagement gift.

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This Pride month, teen flicks are recasting familiar tropes with a queer sensibility

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Stacy Clausen and Joe Bird in Leviticus.

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Summer movies aimed at high-schoolers — comedies, romances, horror flicks — have been a tradition for ages. Think Fast Times at Ridgemont High, Dirty Dancing and the original Friday the 13th, which all drew hot-weather crowds back in the 1980s.

This summer, the movies are queer — not just in casting, but in method and purpose. These three teen flicks transform familiar movie styles by bringing them an LGBTQ sensibility.

A raunchy comedy: She’s the He

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You know the drill: a bonkers lose-my-virginity plan is hatched by inseparable high-school best buds who are so eager to get girls to notice them, they can hardly think straight.

So, they don’t think … straight. For reasons that could only make sense to horny 17-year-olds, Ethan and Alex decide the way to catch the attention of the school’s hottest girls is to pretend to be trans.

Filmmaker Siobhan McCarthy uses that premise to tell a sweet story about Ethan (who realizes mid-scam that she really is trans), while also mocking some of the more ridiculous transphobic notions — “bathroom scare,” anyone? — that have been politically weaponized recently.

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When the whole football team decides that donning women’s attire is a small price to pay to get access to the girls’ locker room, McCarthy prompts boisterous laughs while also establishing how idiotic and unlikely this scenario would be in real life. Casting trans men — say, team captain played by Emmett Preciado — as the cis male characters allows McCarthy to further poke at conservative anxieties.

As leads Alex and Ethan, Nico Carney (a sharp trans comic whose read on toxic masculinity proves hilarious), and Misha Osherovich (sweetly affecting as Ethan discovers her true self) head a terrific, mostly trans and non-binary cast. And a similarly queer team behind the camera helps make She’s the He a raucous, touching, seriously fun charmer — think Some Like It Hot meets American Pie with a Heartstopper vibe.

The romance: Girls Like Girls

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This gentle teen love story sprang from a hit song Hayley Kiyoko released in 2015. The music video that accompanied the song pictured a budding lesbian romance and has since racked up over 160 million YouTube views. In 2023, Kiyoko penned a young adult book version, which debuted at the top of bestseller lists. Now, she’s brought all of those elements together in a movie about Coley (Maya da Costa) and Sonya (Myra Molloy), two 17-year-old girls navigating a summer romance that takes both of them by surprise.

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L.A. Affairs: Would taking a trip with this new guy finally push us out of the ‘polite’ phase?

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Sometimes compatibility unfolds over long conversations at coffee shops or even on the dance floor. Mine and Fernando’s became apparent on our seventh date, standing on a dark corner in downtown L.A. After a short flight, a day at Venice Beach and the fastest glow-up ever for a mom of three, my date opened his hands, sighed and canceled the glorious evening I’d planned. It was supposed to start with a jazz club and end with a tour of late-night sushi bars, until Fernando said, “I feel like a bummer.”

I hooked my arm through the crook of his, turning back toward the empty streets and our stuffy Airbnb.

A few weeks before, on one of our first dates, I’d told Fernando I was presenting at a conference in L.A. “You should join me,” I said, half joking.

“Really?” he asked. “You don’t know me at all.”

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He was right. We were in the polite phase. We bonded over being transplants to Seattle — him from the Dominican Republic, me from Florida, but we were still figuring out the basics. I hadn’t learned yet that he never touches coffee but totally loves cake, my least favorite treat. And for me, espresso is a daily requirement.

Fernando didn’t say yes to my invitation right away. We continued to date, playing the questions game. “What’s your favorite snack?” he asked me.

“Mole tacos,” I said. “What’s your biggest flaw?”

“Follow through,” he said. “Yours?”

“I’m annoyingly persistent.”

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“Perfect match,” he said.

The more we talked, the more we realized that our shortcomings, which made us look like exact opposites, came from the same root. His father had been barely present during childhood, and my father had died when I was a teenager. We both wrestled with trying to find agency inside of moments in our adult lives that felt like abandonment. Although we’d each been in therapy for years before we met, we also struggled to deal with disappointment.

“Maybe we should go on this wild trip together,” he said.

“Make-it-or-break-it style,” I said.

When we stepped through the door of our downtown L.A. Airbnb after a long, hot day walking the boardwalk, we had our first chance to manage a letdown, together.

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“I think people actually live here,” he said.

“Like it’s 2015,” I said.

We’d made a commitment before we flew out to keep things light. If one of us complained, the other was supposed to say something fun. But the apartment was muggy, the surfaces covered in dust. We made exaggerated, positive comments about the vintage decor as I waited for the water to warm in a huge, clawfoot tub.

Fernando said something about getting in while the shower was still cold, so we could preserve water for the good people of California. I noted the fatherly tone — and realized I probably seemed wasteful for resisting the chilly stream during a drought.

While I bathed, he shaved. Then we switched. “I feel shy but not shy,” Fernando said, and I agreed. I wondered if this would be the first of many small, sweet moments — or if it was the only time we’d ever share this kind of intimacy.

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We were finally ready for our night on the town, but we only walked six blocks before Fernando turned to me and told me that he was too tired to keep going.

“I owe you,” he said, as we walked back, but I was wiped too and relieved he said it first.

“What if we do something different and call it exciting?” I asked.

We talked about the absolute thrill of ordering takeout in a city that was 30 degrees warmer than the one where we both lived, listing every little thing that was totally amazing around us. All those closed-down garages that would open in the morning selling fabric? Gorgeous.

The dark streetlights on one side of the road that made the shadows look like a modern noir film? Fabulous.

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The fact that we were about to fall asleep in the same city as dozens of celebrities we both adored? Relatively meaningless but still badass.

As we ate our to-go sushi in downtown L.A., I realized I wasn’t disappointed at all. My drive to follow through was all about the mission, and our mission had changed. Instead of wooing my new date with a super swanky night on the town, I had the opportunity to connect with him in a real way.

Our trip to L.A. had become a kind of test, way more intense than agreeing on a sofa or building an IKEA shelf. We were stuck spending time with each other without performing, in a strange city, for days.

After I presented at the conference the next morning, Fernando and I moved to a new rental in the Hollywood Hills, where we found our way to endless taco stands and two speakeasies, Good Times at Davey Wayne’s and Adults Only. The only landmark we saw was Muscle Beach, and the only quintessential L.A. thing we did was accidentally find ourselves in front of the Last Bookstore an hour before we needed to head to the airport, so we spent that hour walking around inside.

“Let’s keep traveling,” we said to each other on the way home.

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Seven years and dozens of trips later, I engraved “I will travel with you” on the inside of our wedding rings. The night before our wedding, we stood together in a tiny bathroom in his sister’s house in the Dominican Republic, washing our faces. I looked at him in the mirror. He turned and looked at me. “I’m really glad you invited me to Los Angeles,” he said.

“It was a risk,” I said, “and the best trip ever.”

The city isn’t ours, but it made us who we are, together.

The author is a journalist and illustrator working on a memoir about Florida. She splits her time between her Seattle, L.A. and the Deep South. Her Instagram is @adjsbb and website is AshaDore.net.

L.A. Affairs chronicles the search for romantic love in all its glorious expressions in the L.A. area, and we want to hear your true story. We pay $400 for a published essay. Email LAAffairs@latimes.com. You can find submission guidelines here. You can find past columns here.

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What does freedom actually look like? : It’s Been a Minute

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What freedom looks like today.

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What does freedom mean today?

Happy Juneteenth! For those not in the know, today commemorates when U.S. federal troops arrived in Galveston, Texas in 1865 to take control of the state and ensure that all enslaved people were freed – a full two and a half years after the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation. Since then, Juneteenth has been celebrated all over the country, especially in Texas and across the South, where Juneteenth parades, cookouts, festivals and pageants happen every year. Two weeks from now, the country will celebrate the Fourth of July – and its 250th anniversary. For many Black Americans, there’s always been a tension between these holidays – and their two different ideals for what it means to be free. As voting rights protections are rolled back and Black history is being scrubbed from government websites, what does freedom look like for Black Americans today?

To get into it, Brittany is joined by Dr. Kellie Carter Jackson, chair of Africana Studies at Wellesley College.

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This episode was produced by Corey Antonio Rose and Liam McBain. It was edited by Neena Pathak. We had engineering support from Josephine Nyounai. Our Supervising Producer is Cher Vincent. Our Executive Producer is Barton Girdwood. Our VP of Programming is Yolanda Sangweni.

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