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Is Delaware No. 1 for dating mind games? Where we rank, plus where to find chivalrous men
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Dating has always been a source of drama and anxiety, both in real life and online. From reality TV shows with contestants dating multiple suitors to social media platforms where potential matches pop red balloons to show disinterest, the media often portrays dating as a game.
While these may be sensationalized versions of what takes place in the real world, dating remains challenging, particularly in the online realm. Dating apps have expanded the pool of potential partners but also have made forming genuine connections more difficult.
With the ability to conceal one’s identity or present an idealized version of oneself, mind games have become increasingly common, especially in the digital dating landscape. These manipulative tactics range from minor behaviors, like deliberately delaying responses to messages, to more serious actions such as ‘ghosting’ – abruptly cutting off all communication – or cyberstalking.
To gain a deeper insight into who is engaging in these behaviors, DatingNews.com polled over 2,000 Americans, exploring their experiences with mind games in romantic relationships.
Some of their key findings include:
- About 1 in every 5 respondents have created or used a fake social media account to cyber stalk someone they’re romantically interested in
- 56% of those surveyed have suddenly cut off communication or “ghosted” someone
- 30% of of those surveyed have canceled or moved plans to make the other person think they were busy when they, in fact, were not
- On average, 40% of survey participants have given a romantic partner an ultimatum
- 1 in every 3 Americans surveyed has intentionally sent a “wrong” message to someone to spark conversation
The survey also aimed to determine which states have the highest concentration of master manipulators.
According to the survey, The First State ranks first in the nation for having the biggest players.
Survey says Delaware residents are masters of romantic maneuvers
In the high-stakes game of love, it seems Delaware residents have emerged as the reigning champions of romantic gaslighters. According to survey responses, online daters in the First State were more frequently found to use mind games, such as canceling plans to appear busy, posting on social media for a specific person to see, and using the silent treatment in relationships.
The survey found these are the Top 10 states for online dating mind games:
- Delaware
- Alabama
- Mississippi
- Oklahoma
- Nevada
- Hawaii
- Illinois
- Maryland
- Georgia
- Texas
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This Delaware city has the most chivalrous men
While Delaware tops the ranking for online dating mind games, it’s worth exploring how this translates to real-life interactions. Interestingly, a separate DatingNews.com survey focused on the charm and chivalry of men in various cities.
In the poll, 3,000 single women were asked where the most charming men could be found. It turns out, Delaware’s most charming and chivalrous men reside in Wilmington, the state’s largest city.
The survey asked women to identify traits that best represent a ‘mannered man,’ based on behaviors like opening doors, planning thoughtful dates, and engaging in respectful conversations.
The findings showed single women looked for:
- Patience and understanding: 32%
- Politeness and respect: 31%
- Thoughtfulness and consideration: 19%
- Good communication skills: 14%
- Humility and modesty: 4%
The importance of chivalry remains significant, with 56% of respondents considering it “very important,” 41% deeming it “moderately important,” and only 2% attaching little importance to it.
The poll also unveiled a glimpse into the expectations of modern women in the dating world, noting the most appreciated behaviors on a date include:
- Engaging in respectful conversations (43%)
- Planning thoughtful and creative dates (18%)
- Offering genuine compliments (14%)
- Opening doors (12%)
- Being punctual and considerate of time (12%)
These findings illustrate that while the dating landscape has evolved, traditional values still play a crucial role in face-to-face interactions where the right mix of attentiveness, creativity and respect can prove irresistible.
You can contact Anitra Johnson at ajohnson@delawareonline.com.
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Housing advocates urge Wilmington officials to do more to address homelessness
Mayor John Carney vowed to address homelessness in his first year in office. He is proposing allowing unhoused people to camp in one of the city’s parks. But all other encampments would be banned.
“As we attempt to provide support for the unhoused here in Wilmington, we have a responsibility on how, on behalf of the residents of neighborhoods, to ensure that Wilmington operates in an orderly and lawful way,” he said in October.
Raquel Cruz said she doesn’t think the mayor’s plan goes far enough.
“The mayor needs to do much, much more than just shuffle the unhoused around rather than try to pursue better outcomes for them,” she said.
Housing advocates argue a ban on sleeping outside criminalizes homelessness. They said Wilmington needs more shelter beds and affordable housing.
Carney said city officials would provide restroom facilities and clean water for Christina Park residents and will explore adding a shower facility there. On-site security is also part of the plan.
The city is also working with the Wilmington Housing Authority and the Ministry of Caring to open a dining hall for the homeless at the WHA site a block away from Christina Park.
The mayor has also argued that Philadelphia’s efforts to clean up Kensington, an area known for an open-air drug market and homeless encampments, is adding to Wilmington’s homeless population looking for shelter and services.
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Here’s which stores are open for Thanksgiving, Black Friday shopping in Delaware
Whether you need to grab some last-minute Thanksgiving ingredients or are planning to indulge in the doorbuster deals on Black Friday, you’ll need to know the store hours of your local grocery stores, malls and retailers.
This year, Thanksgiving falls on Nov. 27, and the annual Black Friday shopping rush falls on Nov. 28.
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Here’s which Delaware stores and malls are open during Thanksgiving and Black Friday.
What are Christiana Mall’s Thanksgiving, Black Friday hours?
Christiana Mall near Christiana will be closed for Thanksgiving, but will have special expanded hours on Black Friday from 8 a.m. to 9 p.m.
What are Concord Mall’s Thanksgiving, Black Friday hours?
Concord Mall in Brandywine Hundred is also closing its doors Thanksgiving, but will be open from 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. on Black Friday.
What major retailers are open on Thanksgiving, Black Friday?
Before racing off to find Black Friday deals, check when these major retailers are open.
- Target: Target stores will be closed on Thanksgiving and open at 6 a.m. on Black Friday.
- Walmart: All Walmart stores will be closed on Thanksgiving and open the following day at 6 a.m. for Black Friday deals.
- Boscov’s: Boscov’s will be closed on Thanksgiving and open on Black Friday.
- Macy’s: Macy’s will be closed on Thanksgiving and open on Black Friday.
- Best Buy: Best Buy stores will be closed on Thanksgiving and open on Black Friday.
- Kohl’s: Kohl’s will be closed on Thanksgiving and reopen at 5 a.m. on Black Friday.
- TJ Maxx: TJ Maxx stores will be closed on Thanksgiving and open at 7 a.m. on Black Friday.
- JCPenney: JCPenney locations will be closed on Thanksgiving and reopen Black Friday at 5 a.m.
- Nordstrom: Nordstrom stores will be closed on Thanksgiving and open on Black Friday.
What grocery stores are open on Thanksgiving?
If you’re looking to get supplies for your Thanksgiving dish or you forgot a key ingredient before the big meal, here are Delaware grocery stores’ hours on Thanksgiving.
- Wegmans: Wegmans will close early on Thanksgiving at 4 p.m.
- ShopRite: ShopRite will close early at 4 p.m.
- Acme: Acme markets are open until 4 p.m.
- Giant Food: Giant stores are open until 5 p.m.
- Aldi: Aldi locations will be closed on Thanksgiving.
- Food Lion: Food Lion stores will be open until 3 p.m.
- Costco: Costco is closed on Thanksgiving.
Sophia Voight is a growth and development reporter. Reach her with feedback and story tips at svoight@delawareonline.com.
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AARP Delaware honors Bethany volunteer for community service
AARP Delaware recently announced Ted Spickler of Bethany Beach was honored with its 2025 Andrus Award for Community Service, the association’s most prestigious and visible state volunteer award.
A retired professor, Spickler was recognized for his extraordinary dedication to community service. As an AARP Delaware advocate, Spickler regularly traveled to attend volunteer meetings, committee hearings and legislator meetings, demonstrating his deep commitment to improving the lives of older Delawareans and strengthening the community. As the legislative committee chair of Delaware’s South Coastal AARP Chapter, he keeps the committee and chapter informed about a variety of issues that affect older Delawareans and their families.
Beyond his work with AARP, Spickler is active with Citizens Climate Lobby, advocating for policies to create a healthier environment for future generations.
“Ted embodies the spirit of volunteerism, sharing his skills, knowledge and enthusiasm to support his AARP chapter, our state office and his community,” said Wendell Alfred, AARP Delaware volunteer state president. “His curiosity, dedication and kindness have been a great example for other volunteers.”
Recipients across the nation were chosen for their ability to enhance the lives of AARP members and prospective members, improve the community in or for which the work was performed, and inspire others to volunteer.
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