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A New Jersey dad reflects on his sobriety journey and getting through the holidays
The holiday season brings a lot of celebration and joy, but it can also be triggering for people in recovery from alcohol and drug addiction. Experts say there are steps you can take to ease the pressure, not just for those in recovery but for family and friends who want to be supportive.
Jared Dotts, a South Jersey native, said he spent a decade in and out of rehab for his drug and alcohol addictions. He said the birth of his son three years ago was his ultimate wake-up call, and now he’s two-and-a-half years sober.
“I just believed in myself for once and gave it a shot, and here I am,” Dotts said.
Dotts says his recovery is a never-ending journey and the holiday season can feel like an uphill battle. Everything from social gatherings to stress can be overwhelming.
“Coming into recovery early on and trying to mend those relationships that we’ve caused so much damage to and you know be around family and just try to show up now, it becomes a little difficult because not only are we trying to maintain our own recovery and our own sobriety, but we’re just trying to learn how to live a normal life too,” Dotts said.
Colleen Snow, the Alcohol and Drug Director with the Camden County Health Department, encourages her staff to do extra check-ins and follow-ups this time of year. Snow says mentally preparing for the holidays and setting realistic expectations can help people, no matter what stage of recovery.
“Be open and really do some mindfulness and self-reflection to see where you’re at and what you can really handle and not handle,” Snow said.
Loved ones can also help by being understanding if someone can’t attend an event or leaves early from a gathering, she said.
“It’s about them and their safety and how they’re handling their life situation right now,” Snow said.
For Dotts, it’s all about connecting with others in the recovery community and being self-aware in social situations.
The National Institutes of Health estimates that roughly 29 million Americans had what they call “alcohol use disorder” in 2023. Some addiction counselors say reaching out to your county health department is a great option to find local, affordable treatment.
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Newsweek names New Jersey’s best hospitals for 2026 – NJBIZ
Newsweek is recognizing the top health care facilities in the U.S. in its America’s Best-in-State Hospitals 2026, released Oct. 22.
Of the more than 6,000 hospitals across all 50 states and the District of Columbia, 800 made this year’s ranking. Of those, 11 are in New Jersey.
In partnership with data firm Statista, Newsweek evaluated hospitals based on:
- Peer recommendations from medical professionals
- Hospital quality metrics from the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services and other public data sources
- Patient experience scores
- Accreditations and certifications from recognized organizations
Those that made the ranking “consistently demonstrate excellence across medical specialties, safety, and patient satisfaction,” according to the publication.
“Health care decisions are deeply personal, and patients deserve reliable information when choosing where to seek care,” said Alexis Kayser, Newsweek health care editor. “The hospitals recognized on this list represent the very best in patient-centered care, combining medical expertise with compassion and innovation to improve lives in their communities.”
Care close to home
According to Newsweek, New Jersey’s Best-in-State Hospitals for 2026 are:
- No. 1: Morristown Medical Center, Morristown | Atlantic Health System
- No. 2: Englewood Hospital and Medical Center, Englewood | Englewood Health
- No. 3: Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital, New Brunswick | RWJBarnabas Health
- No. 4: Hackensack University Medical Center, Hackensack | Hackensack Meridian Health
- No. 5: Overlook Medical Center, Summit | Atlantic Health System
- No. 6: Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick | Saint Peter’s Healthcare System
- No. 7: Cooper University Hospital, Camden | Cooper University Health Care
- No. 8: Penn Medicine Princeton Medical Center, Plainsboro
- No. 9: Monmouth Medical Center, Long Branch | RWJBarnabas Health
- No. 10: The Valley Hospital, Paramus | Valley Health System
- No. 11: Holy Name Medical Center, Teaneck
Last year, 10 hospitals in New Jersey made the list. Holy Name was the addition to the 2026 ranking. U.S. News & World Report released its own list of best hospitals in July, with some repeat honorees to Newsweek’s.
Health care kudos
Englewood Health shared its hospital’s results in an Oct. 23 announcement, noting its No. 2 ranking in the state and highest in Bergen County.


“We are honored to once again be recognized among the very best hospitals in New Jersey,” said Warren Geller, president and CEO of Englewood Health. “This award reflects the dedication of our entire team—physicians, nurses, and staff—who work tirelessly to provide exceptional care and an outstanding experience for every patient, every day.”
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The Best Romantic Dinner Spot in New Jersey Revealed
New Jersey is a great place to have a romantic dinner, and now a major food website has named one restaurant the Garden State’s most romantic.
The Most Romantic Restaurant In New Jersey
In New Jersey, the only thing we take more seriously than romance is the food we eat, and when you combine the two, you make us very happy.
We love food, and we love love, and one of the most well-known food websites has crowned one of New Jersey’s incredible restaurants the most romantic in the state.
Photo by Hermes Rivera on Unsplash
Lovefood took on the challenge of naming the most romantic restaurant in every state in America, and if you’ve never been to the one they chose for New Jersey, put it on your bucket list soon.
Where Is New Jersey’s Top Romantic Restaurant?
So, how far will you have to travel to experience romance and dining in a perfect combination?
Read More: New Jersey Restaurant Scene Gains National Attention
The place that earns the top spot for romance in New Jersey is a gorgeous restaurant with one of the best views in America.
Photo by Wedding Dreamz on Unsplash
Chart House in Weehawken overlooks the New York Skyline, and the only thing that rivals the breathtaking view is the amazing food.
New Jersey’s Most Romantic Restaurant
Many New Jersey residents have dined at this elegant restaurant, and the reviews, like the view, are exceptional.
If you have never been to Chart House, get to Weehawken soon. You and the love of your life will be glad you did.
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Behavior of some drivers in New Jersey raises pedestrian safety issues
You would think or hope this wouldn’t be an issue in New Jersey. But apparently, it is.
Unfortunately, New Jersey drivers feel the need to put themselves first and ahead of everybody else. And yes, that includes pedestrians.
ALSO READ: What young drivers fear is a very New Jersey thing
OK, maybe that’s a little too harsh. Perhaps it’s better if we say some New Jersey drivers. To be fair, I truly do believe the vast majority of us do pay attention on the roads and follow the law.
It’s that small minority that give us the bad name. It’s equivalent to the small few who are loud. Even though there are less of them, we notice them more because they make themselves stand out.
It’s the same with our drivers. Those of us who do the right thing don’t get noticed. It’s those very few that don’t know what they’re doing that really give us that bad reputation.
And when it comes to pedestrian over driver, this couldn’t be any truer for some of us.
Mike Brant TSM
No regard for the law
This particular instance occurred in downtown Toms River, right by the public library.
There’s a crosswalk there with a sign stating that vehicles must stop for pedestrians within the crosswalk. Seems pretty straightforward, especially with a sign right in the middle of the road.
But yet, multiple cars wouldn’t stop for people trying to cross. Now no, the cars weren’t speeding, but they also never bothered to hit their brakes and let the pedestrians cross the road.
I was one of those pedestrians who, despite standing on the side ready to cross, the cars wouldn’t stop. Not one. I had to wait until no cars were coming up the road.
Mike Brant TSM
Not a one-off
Curious, I decided to watch from one of the benches on the other side after I crossed. And you know what? The same thing happened with others trying to cross too. The cars weren’t speeding, but they weren’t stopping to allow pedestrians to cross either.
It’s a shame some New Jersey drivers are oblivious to the fact that they have to stop. Fortunately, this isn’t a regular occurrence at this spot. Still, you sometimes will come across multiple vehicles in a row that have no regard for the law or the safety for others.
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Gallery Credit: Kyle Clark
Exclusive look at Six Flags Great Adventure’s Fright Fest 2025
A sneak peak at this years Fright Fest, along with an exclusive look inside some of the attractions. Please note that some photos appear blurry due to the lighting and 3D effects of the attraction.
The final day for Fright Fest is Sunday, Nov. 2, 2025.
Gallery Credit: Mike Brant
The above post reflects the thoughts and observations of New Jersey 101.5 weekend host & content contributor Mike Brant. Any opinions expressed are his own.
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