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Ohio bride goes viral for pre-wedding pump session, receives body shame, consequential 'cyberbullying'

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Ohio bride goes viral for pre-wedding pump session, receives body shame, consequential 'cyberbullying'

An Ohio bride who is a fitness enthusiast went viral on social media platforms for her pre-wedding pump session ahead of taking her walk down the aisle.

While honeymooning on the Amalfi Coast with her new husband, the newlyweds received word from their wedding content creator that one of the videos posted to TikTok had already received over 100,000 views in less than half of a day of being live.

“I thought it was hilarious, and it was very me,” Alexa Udelson, a salesperson from Cleveland, told Fox News Digital over the phone.

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The video, originally posted on @TheBrunetteChick social media accounts and amassing over 5 million views, shows Udelson in her wedding gown in a private area lifting five pound dumbbells, which she did to release nervous energy ahead of her nuptials. (See the video at the top of this article.)

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“In the course of my day, the weights were such a minimal part of it that I kind of had forgotten that she [the content creator] filmed that,” Udelson said of her June 22, 2024, wedding.

Alexa Udelson went viral on social media for lifting light weights ahead of walking down the aisle on her big day. (Karoline Maria Photography)

“If you know me personally, you know working out is one of the most important things to me, so it felt very natural.”

Udelson said the content creator was one of the final vendors she hired ahead of her intimate ceremony, which included immediate family members and later, close friends for a reception.

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“She shot everything in clips and before the night was over, I just got back to the hotel,” Udelson said. “She sent me 640-something clips of the day and night.”

While the bride was uninterested in creating trendy or posed videos with transitions, she gave the professional photographer and videographer creative freedom to explore content ideas with little guidance or direction.

In turn, she received internet fame from the video — and then was met with body-shaming and trolling comments.

Ohio bride goes viral on social media

Udelson received backlash in the comments section of social media posts for wanting to release nervous energy through weight lifting ahead of her wedding.  (Karoline Maria Photography)

“I noticed the comments, and I wasn’t really super phased by them,” Udelson said. 

“When [the topics] became medical, it changed in terms of emotion. I went from not really caring to being more angry.”

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Some social media users wrote body-shameful comments and even “diagnosed” Udelson from a distance with a slew of disorders, including body dysmorphia, bulimia and anorexia. 

At one point, there were over 100 comments in a thread of people debating whether her dress even fit her. 

“The consequences of cyberbullying are so severe because we don’t know what someone else is going through. We don’t know their story,” Alexis Abate, licensed professional counselor and holistic mindset coach based in New Jersey, told Fox News Digital in a phone interview. 

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Abate added that she treats patients, often adolescents, in many cases due to cyberbullying.

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“Even if it aggravates us, what benefit do we get from putting someone else down?” she said. “Someone should consider to themselves, ‘Maybe social media isn’t good for me and I need to remove myself if I’m getting triggered over someone being healthy and happy.’”

Udelson said that at one point, there were over 100 comments in a thread of people debating whether her dress even fit her. 

Ohio bride body shamed online

The bride told Fox News Digital her new husband, Connor Udelson, helped her ignore many of the negative comments she received. (Karoline Maria Photography)

“I felt like I had to respond to some of the initial ones,” Udelson said. “At some point, you have to remove yourself because I do have a full-time job.”

Udelson laughed that she was enjoying cake and ice cream the night before her wedding.

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She also said she adored the uplifting comments from other gym-going young women who expressed their support and compliments.

“I definitely responded to the supportive ones,” she said.

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Some social media users were concerned that, after working out with weights, Udelson would smell bad for her walk down the aisle. She told Fox News Digital she smelled great with her Marc Jacobs perfume. (Karoline Maria Photography)

As for the morale boosting from her new husband, Connor Udelson, the new bride said he played a critical role in her letting go of the negativity.

“He’s someone who’s very, very sure of himself and very authentic to himself, and so for anyone to say something about what he’s doing or what I’m doing, it totally doesn’t phase him at all,” she said. 

“We’ll be going out to dinner, and I’ll say, ‘Are you sure you want to wear Crocs and socks?’ and he’s like, ‘I don’t care. We’re going to eat.’”

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All in all, Udelson said she’s beaming with pride over both her wedding day and her dedication to a healthy lifestyle, which includes regular gym activity led by a personal trainer.

“I had the best day ever, and I felt the best ever,” Udelson said. “I haven’t put the weights down.”

 

For other brides, Udelson’s message is to prepare for the walk down the aisle whichever way is most desired and comfortable.

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“If that means working out, swimming laps or running a triathlon, more power to you,” she said.

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Detroit, MI

Tigers cough up lead in ninth, fall to Royals in series finale

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Detroit — In baseball, victory can always be given or taken away with one swing. During a season, a team can go through being on both sides of this situation multiple times.

For the Tigers, they found themselves on both sides within 24 hours. After snatching victory Saturday night with a walk-off hit, they watched as one swing turned the tides against them.

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The Tigers allowed a two-out three-run homer in the top of the ninth, leaving Comerica Park on Sunday with a 3-2 loss to the Royals in their last game before a six-game road trip.

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It was MJ Melendez who left a hero for Kansas City, as his 362-foot home run to right field off reliever Shelby Miller gave the Royals the lead. Now the Tigers (53-60) leave home going 2-7 on the homestand, heading out to Seattle on Tuesday.

“We got to get on the plane, we’re going to head as far as you can go, get away and go to Seattle and we have a tough matchup there with elite pitching after the off-day,” Tigers manager AJ Hinch said.

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Miller was kept in the game even as Jason Foley was warming up in the bullpen, but Hinch said he wanted Miller to go through one more batter before bringing in Foley because he liked the matchup Miller had against the lefty Melendez. But the strategy doesn’t always goes as planned.

“Today’s emotion is obviously disappointment because if he pops that ball up, if he rolls over to first, if he swings and misses and the at-bat continues and we get him out,” Hinch said, “this is a completely different outcome, we’re getting on the plane with completely different happiness. It’s part of the game.”

Today wasn’t just about how the game ended for the Tigers. It was the major-league debut for Brant Hurter, who pitched three shutout innings with three strikeouts while allowing only two hits. Hurter pitched the longest out of any reliever Sunday, as the Tigers went to the bullpen, giving their starters an extra day of rest before the long road trip.

Hurter, combined with starter Alex Faedo and relievers Brenan Hanifee and Will Vest, pitched eight innings of shutout baseball against the Royals, allowing five hits with eight total strikeouts.

The final frame wasn’t the only opportunity for Kansas City (63-50), as it had a chance in the top of the sixth with two outs as Hunter Renfroe and Vinnie Pasquantino sat on first and second, respectively. But Hurter kept his cool, and left Paul DeJong striking out in just three pitches to keep the Royals scoreless.

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Hurter’s fellow rookie teammates, such as Dillon Dingler and Justyn-Henry Malloy, knew what this moment meant for him.

“Brant was great. He was controlling the zone really well with pretty much every shape that he had, so I was super happy for him,” said Dingler, his catcher. “He had some great innings out of the ‘pen, and I know he’s probably floating right now, so I’m really looking forward to what he can do moving forward.”

Hurter and Henry-Malloy were teammates at Georgia Tech, so the young outfielder had more to say about his former and now current teammate, with both of them making the big leagues within two months of each other.

“I’m so happy that he’s here; he’s worked so hard and overcoming the injuries that he’s had in college, and for him to just be the same bulldog that I got to see in the ACC,” Henry-Malloy said. “It’s a true testament to him and him just being a bulldog, taking the ball and doing what he’s loved to do his entire life, and just doing what he’s always been good at.”

“I thought he handled the emotions of today extremely well; there’s only one first day and making him wait was probably emotional for him, but the minute he started to warm up, I heard his family yelling behind home plate,” Hinch said.  “All that is really awesome, the loss is gonna overshadow the joy that kid should feel about being a big leaguer.”

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Although the score doesn’t show it, this ended up being a difficult start for Royals pitcher Michael Wacha, who gave up seven hits and two earned runs in six innings of work. More damage could’ve been done from the Tiger bats, like when the bases were loaded with two outs in the bottom of the fifth, but Zack McKinstry grounded out and couldn’t extend the lead.

“It shouldn’t have been 2-0; we had opportunities,” Hinch said. “Whether the two-out hit, you can never bank on, but we had ’em with the bases loaded and couldn’t quite find that outfield grass, and the first-and-third double plays. (Wacha) came up with big pitches, and it looked like he was right on the edge both in the strike zone but just in the game of it turning our way and us separating a little bit.”

“It’s going to happen against us, and it’s going to happen for us,” Henry-Malloy said about losing the close game. “Just taking it with a grain of salt, going into the next day and just being positive and coming back in and trying to win another ball game the next day.”

Kameron Goodwill is a freelance writer.



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Milwaukee, WI

D'Vontaye Mitchell death: What comes next?

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The Milwaukee County Medical Examiner’s Office found employees responsible for the June 30 death of D’vontaye Mitchell at the Hyatt Regency hotel downtown.

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Now, prosecutors will decide where the case goes from here.

The Milwaukee Police Department recommended four people be charged with felony murder on July 5, but prosecutors stated they needed Mitchell’s autopsy results before making a decision.

A widow’s wait for justice could soon be over.

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“They could’ve just waited on the police,” Mitchell’s widow, DeAsia Harmon, said on Friday. “You beat him to death. That’s horrible. For 15 minutes.”

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Friday, the Milwaukee County Medical Examiner’s Office ruled the 43-year-old’s death a homicide by restraint asphyxia and the toxic effects of cocaine and methamphetamine. It means Mitchell couldn’t breathe because of the way his body was positioned.

Now, University of Wisconsin law professor John Gross said he thinks prosecutors will act quickly.

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“You have somebody who’s resisting, but they’re resisting in a passive way,” Gross said. “When he’s prone on the ground, and what we see doesn’t indicate any type of active physical violence toward any of the other people who are trying to drag him out of the hotel […] the repeated punching in his face is very difficult, I think, to justify as necessary to achieve some other objective.”

But Gross pointed out the felony murder charge police recommended against four people is interesting in Wisconsin, because state law essentially defines it as a sentence enhancer.

“So, even if they had no intention of causing the death of someone, if a death resulted during the course of the commission of another felony, then they can charge felony murder,” he said.

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Prosecutors would have to charge the defendants with one of 13 other crimes, like misdemeanor battery, to then tack on felony murder.

That would allow the judge to add up to 15 years to a sentence.

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Though Gross said it puts the judge in a precarious position.

“How will that signal to the victim’s family, to the community, to everybody involved, the seriousness of the behavior and the result?” he asked.

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As part of plans for a protest outside the district attorney’s office on Monday, Aug. 5, the Mitchell family said it wants prosecutors to bring first-degree intentional homicide charges against the now-former Hyatt employees.



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Mother of shooting victim looks to move family out of Minneapolis

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MINNEAPOLIS — It was just after 7 p.m. at East 26th Street and Cedar Avenue last Saturday when Cristina Sobotta said her 20-year-old son was approached by a group attempting to rob him. Her son ran.

“That’s when they started shooting at him,” said Sobotta.

Two bullets struck her son.

“There were 24 rounds that were shot at him,” said Sobotta.

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Employees at a nearby convenience store did a tourniquet to stop the bleeding.    

Sobotta said one of the shots went through her son’s left elbow, another grazed his sternum and went through his right arm, shattering the bone and requiring a blood transfusion.

“I was just really praying that he survived something like that,” said Cristina Sobotta. “I’m just grateful that he’s still alive.”    

While Sobotta’s son’s injuries are healing, the mental damage from the attack still lingers.

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Injuries Cristina Sobotta’s son suffered during an attempted robbery in Minneapolis.

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“He’s doing OK, I just think that it’s going to be a long journey for him physically and emotionally,” said Sobotta.

The attack in East Phillips was one of 10 violent incidents that Minneapolis police said left three men dead and seven others injured over a period of three days in July.

After enlisting the help of the Hennepin County Sheriff’s Office and Minnesota BCA to assist with patrols and investigations, police said Sunday that all ten of those incidents remain open and active.

The mother of one of those victims said she is now raising money to move.

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“I didn’t really have it in the means to move out of the city,” said Sobotta.
    
She has started an online fundraiser to make it happen.

“I just want change, you know, just like any other mother would, especially going through something like this,” said Sobotta.

While the mental health worker with the American Indian Community is planning to leave the area, she said her work in East Phillips will continue.

“Just to spread change and awareness to our community and to do whatever we can to make it safer,” said Sobotta.  

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