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Jennifer Lopez Celebrates Twins Turning 18 With Emotional Post
Jennifer Lopez
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Jennifer Lopez‘s twins Emme and Max are all grown up, and JLo couldn’t be prouder! The singer commemorated their 18th birthday with a moving, heartfelt post that was absolutely busting with love for her babies.
JLo welcomed Emme and Max on February 22, 2008 with her then-husband Marc Anthony … a day Jen remembers well.
She wrote on Instagram … âYou were born in the middle of the night, in the midst of the biggest, most beautiful snowstorm NY had seen in years.”
She added … “I remember riding in the car and looking out the window, where everything was twinkling and covered in white that night, as I held you both in my belly for the last few moments before I gave birth to you. It was as if God was making sure you would enter a world full of pure magic!! In my heart, I knew thatâs how your life would always be!!â
According to JLo, holding them felt like holding 2 angels “sent straight from heaven above.”
âI cannot believe you are now adultsâŠ18 years old,â Jen continued. âYou are both so kind-hearted, generous, and loving. How lucky the world was on this day 18 years ago when God decided to send you here with all of your talents and spirit and heart to make this world a better place, because that is what you do for me and anyone who is lucky enough to know you both every day.â
“Love Don’t Cost a Thing” but JLo’s last 18 years of memories mean everything!
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Why Everyone Was So Mad About the Met Gala
There are, as Iâm writing this, just shy of 500 reader comments on our recap of our 15 favorite looks from the Met Gala on Monday. The top comments are almost all negative.
âIâm sorry. I find this display of âfashionâ disgusting and I wish the NYT wouldnât celebrate it,â reads the most recommended comment. âIâm struck by how out of touch and unrelatable this feels for the average American,â is the one just below that. A few down we get the first of many comparisons to the elitist incongruity captured in âThe Hunger Games.â
The uneasy state of the American economy watered the soil for this sentiment to grow. Gas prices have soared since the onset of the war in Iran. The cost of groceries remains stubbornly high. The word âinequalityâ came up five times in the comments section of our story. It seems that the gala, to some, landed as a financially frivolous, Marie Antoinette-like affair.
For a few years, the Met Gala has ignited these âHunger Gamesâ comparisons, as the event has mutated into a competition of which attendee can wear the most baroque, procession-halting dress. I lost count of the celebrities who proudly shared how many hours it took to make their ensembles.
This, more than anything, seemed like the point where they were misjudging the simmering animus toward them.
If the intention was to laud the work and elevate the craftsmanship involved in making garments like these, it was ringing hollow in this forum, where tickets cost upward of hundreds of thousands of dollars for a table. The opulence of the clothes became another example of billionaire class entitlement for a cause most people donât benefit from.
Itâs not an entirely new conversation, even if the critiques were louder this year. Five years ago, when Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez wore a dress splayed with âTax the Rich,â she sprayed lighter fluid onto a hot conversation about the class politics of this particular charity event. (At this yearâs gala, Sarah Paulson arrived with a dollar bill stretched over her eyes, an intended critique on the influence of money that many viewers saw as a hollow gesture.)
The discourse roared with a particular fervor in the lead-up to Monday for the marquee presence of Jeff Bezos and his wife, Lauren SĂĄnchez Bezos, one of the worldâs wealthiest couples.
Placing the Bezoses at the apex of the gala ratcheted up the sense that something already well outside the reaches of the average person had been taken to a new tier of exclusivity. There were protests centered around Bezos, and at the event Christian Smalls, a former Amazon union leader, attempted to storm the carpet. He was arrested and charged with two misdemeanors.
âIt shouldnât be that way when you have all of this money and wealth,â Smalls said of Bezos in an interview with The Times on Wednesday. âHe should pay his workers a fair share.â
In responding to cries of elitism, the Met Galaâs organizers have long pointed to the money that the event raises. They did so again this year. At a news conference on Monday introducing the Metâs new fashion exhibition, Anna Wintour, the eventâs longtime chair (and the global editorial director of Vogue magazine), shared that this was the most successful Met Gala ever, having raised $42 million.
âThat money could feed and clothe many hundreds of less fortunate people,â read the top comment on our Met Gala story.
Weâve come to expect anti-celebrity comments when we cover cultural events. âWho cares!â is a common, if slightly disingenuous, refrain given how many readers clamor to see and vote on their favorite looks from awards shows.
But thereâs a meaningful difference between the Met Gala and many other red carpet events. At the Oscars or the Emmys, the arrivals lead to a star-studded performance the public can watch, shows with a purpose â celebrating talent (subjective though that is) â that is self-evident. For the viewing public, the Met Gala ends at the doorstep of the museum. If youâre watching at home, the gala can be seen as nothing more than a bunch of grandiose clothes that lead nowhere.
In reading up on the life of Ted Turner, who died Wednesday at 87, I perked up at this five-word sentence in Malcolm Gladwellâs 2010 profile of the media mogul: âHe dressed like a cowboy.â It led me to scroll through photos of the Cincinnati-born businessman â especially in the 1970s, when he was sailing in a piquĂ© polo and an incongruous striped conductorâs cap or taking in his Atlanta Braves with his button-up shirt undone to mid-chest.
Turner, a college dropout, who was a prolific drinker (and philanderer), looked rugged â swashbuckling even. He was, it should be said, handsome. In some images, Turner, with his modest mustache, looks like Robert Redfordâs body double. But itâs remarkable to visit these images now, when all corporate titans â of media, tech and otherwise â dress so alike. Theyâre Sun Valley clones in their fleece vests, stretch chinos and dad caps that they theatrically pull low in front of cameras.
But Turner was indeed a telecom cowboy, upending how networks ran in his rugby shirts, knit ties and denim. He looked suave. How few media C.E.O.âs can we say that about now?
Everywhere I go I see young men in ribbed tank tops, sometimes with unbuttoned shirts on top, but often not. The tank tops can be black, white or gray, but theyâre worn with everything â not just as undershirts, as I was taught was correct. What is going on? â Richard, Philadelphia
The tank top may seem basic â just a sleeveless cotton top with a scooped neck â but as a garment it contains multitudes. It has roots in the working class and the professional class, the military and the farm, menâs wear and womenâs wear, sports and Hollywood, gay culture, rap culture, gym culture and indie sleaze. Read more âŠ
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Primm was a cheap, beloved Vegas alternative. Then new California casinos killed it
Once upon a time, Primm, Nev., had three bustling casino resorts, shiny gas stations, a roller coaster and Bonnie and Clydeâs âdeath car.â
It was a bit surreal, said former visitor John Honell of West Covina: âYou had this whole complex in the middle of the desert.â
Southern Californians traveling the arid stretches of the I-15 would see Primm pop up. As he drove to Sin City for bowling tournaments, Honell would stop and âdrop a few coinsâ into the slot machines. It was a gambling oasis â a little less flashy and a little more affordable than Vegas and 45 minutes closer.
âI guess it worked for a while,â said Honell, 85.
But it works no longer. The last of the three casino resorts will close on July 4, owner Affinity Gaming confirmed to The Times this week.
Honell, a regular in the 1970s, saw the growth of a desert gamble: the expansion of the Primm property, in the dusty town once known as State Line, from Whiskey Peteâs gas station, bar and slot machines into three busy resorts.
The Nevada gambling hub south of Las Vegas along the 15 Freeway appears finished, though. Southern Californians who appreciated that it was a shorter drive now can find gambling much closer, at tribal casinos.
Las Vegas insider publication Las Vegas Locally posted a termination letter from Affinity Gamingâs affiliate, Primadonna Co. LLC, to employees who worked at Primm Valley.
With the casino closing down July 4, all employment will end that day too.
Affinity Gaming declined to make an official comment.
The castle-shaped Whiskey Peteâs opened in 1977, followed by Primm Valley in 1990 and Buffalo Billâs in 1994. Whiskey Peteâs was the first casino to close, in December 2024. Buffalo Billâs Resort ended 24-7 operations on July 6, only opening when the casinoâs concert venue, the Star of the Desert Arena, hosted special events.
David G. Schwartz, a gaming historian and professor at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas, said Primmâs casinos were âbuilt for an entirely different world.â
âSouthern California is a huge market for Las Vegas and, in particular, it was once very attractive for those in the Inland Empire,â Schwartz said. âIt was a way to trim 45 minutes off the drive â it was a 2-hour drive. Itâs different math.â
Lights still glow on the Buffalo Billâs Resort and Casino sign on Sunday, July 6, 2025 in Primm, NV. (Bridget Bennett / For The Times)
(Bridget Bennett/For The Times)
Primm was once one of Nevadaâs more popular gambling resorts, a less expensive, slightly more kitschy alternative to Las Vegas that benefited from being closer than Sin City.
Primm Valley, Whiskey Peteâs and Buffalo Billâs all hosted at one time the famed Bonnie and Clyde V-8 Ford riddled with more than 100 bullets in 1934.
Whiskey Peteâs offered a quick and affordable 24-hour IHOP, in comparison to Vegasâ pricier buffets, and Californians and Nevadans visited Primm Valleyâs 100-store outlet mall, supported by shoppers who were brought by bus to the mall for free.
The three resorts enjoyed expansion and growth throughout the 2010s by utilizing low prices, gimmicks and attractions to lure guests.
Buffalo Billâs was the biggest of the trio, boasting a buffalo-shaped pool and 592 rooms at its opening (the Bellagio has nearly 4,000 rooms) and eventually expanding to 1,242 rooms.
Buffalo Billâs and its sister resorts closed in March 2020 when the pandemic hit, reopening between December 2022 and 2023. But they struggled to attract customers.
Although the COVID-19 pandemic hurt all Nevada casinos, that was only part of the reason for Primmâs decline. Schwartz said tribal casinos in Southern California saw their prospects soar as Primmâs hotels teeter-tottered.
California voters passed Proposition 1-A in 2000, which allowed tribal casinos to operate slot machines and erased limits on card games.
âMany of those people Primm was drawing from began to stay in Southern California, where the drives are just much shorter and the amenities much closer,â Schwartz said. âYou see the same issue playing out at Laughlin along the Arizona border and Reno and Tahoe in Northern California.â
Shortly after Proposition 1-Aâs passage, San Manuel was one of several tribal casinos in San Bernardino and Riverside counties that declared an arms race with Nevada.
Fantasy Springs Resort Casino in Indio, run by the Cabazon Band of Mission Indians, opened in December 2004. The tribe was the fourth between 2002 and 2004 to open or expand its operations, including Agua Caliente in Palm Springs, Morongo in Cabazon and the Pechanga Band of Luiseno Mission Indians in Temecula.
Most of these casinos have continued to build and expand their operations as revenue has continued to flow.
The Southern California tribal resorts are classified by the National Indian Gaming Commission, a gaming regulatory body, to be in the Sacramento region, which includes all resorts in California and Northern Nevada.
In 2014, the combined casinos contributed $7.9 billion in gross gaming revenue.
Ten years later, 87 tribal operations throughout two states combined for $12.1 billion, marking a modest 1.4% increase from 2023.
Yaamavaâ Resort & Casino, run by the San Manuel Band of Mission Indians, sits in Highland, about 200 miles from Primm but less than half that distance from downtown L.A.
Yaamavaâ completed a $760-million expansion in 2021, which added a 17-floor tower, three bars and about 1,700 new slots.
The 7,400 slot machines at Yaamavaâ make the casino the West Coastâs largest, with 4,000 more slots than its Vegas peers. By square footage of gaming space, Yaamava is No. 4 in the nation and still the biggest on the West Coast.
âThe decline has been part of a larger trend,â Schwartz said of Primm. âPeople are choosing options that most appeal to them.â
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Unmistakable Love of Austin, the Texas Longhorns and Each Other
Around July 4, Mena started the countdown to football season.
Stowell joined him at sports bars to watch Longhorns teams, and managed to stick it out at an early-season Texas Longhorns home football game in 105-degree heat until halftime, where he met Menaâs cousins, who had season tickets.
âIt showed me willingness,â Mena said, who didnât miss any football âaway gamesâ in November 2021 when they stayed in a Cancun villa with a satellite dish for five days with friends.
In January 2022, Mena hosted a 40th birthday party for Stowell at the Golden Goose bar in Austin, and by the end of the year, they bought a fixer-upper â a one-story bungalow just a 10-minute walk to the universityâs football stadium.
âHis love of sports knows no bounds,â said Stowell, with memorabilia, posters and jerseys everywhere in his house. âI had to then take the reins,â with a more subtle nod to the Longhorns. âThe front door is burnt orange.â
During the renovation, in August 2023, they took a trip to the Azores and Portugal, where Stowell proposed with a gray crushed diamond band as they sat on bar stools at PavilhĂŁo ChinĂȘs, a quirky, hidden bar in Lisbon where servers wear tuxedos.
âAfter the renovation is done, do you want to get married?â Stowell asked Mena pragmatically.
On April 24, Elana M. Schulman, a friend of the couple who became a Universal Life minister for the event, officiated the 25-minute ceremony at Assembly Hall, an events space in Austin. Their 180 guests got to choose Austin murals as backdrops for photo booth snapshots, enjoyed local Titoâs vodka and Lalo tequila margaritas, and Zedâs New Zealand-style ice cream and a taco truck.
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