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When This Professor Got Cancer, He Didn’t Quit. He Taught a Class About It.
Dr. Bryant Lin stood before his class at Stanford in September, likely one of the last he would ever teach.
Just 50 years old and a nonsmoker, he had been diagnosed with Stage 4 lung cancer four months earlier. The illness is terminal, and Dr. Lin estimated that he had roughly two years left before the drug he was taking stopped working. Instead of pulling back from work, he chose to spend the fall quarter teaching a course about his own illness.
Registration for the class had filled up almost immediately. Now the room was overflowing, with some students forced to sit on the floor and others turned away entirely.
“It’s quite an honor for me, honestly,” Dr. Lin said, his voice catching. “The fact that you would want to sign up for my class.”
He told his students he wanted to begin with a story that explained why he chose to pursue medicine. He picked up a letter he had received years earlier from a patient dying of chronic kidney disease. The man and his family had made the decision to withdraw from dialysis, knowing he would soon die.
Dr. Lin adjusted his glasses and read, choking up again.
“‘I wanted to thank you so much for taking such good care of me in my old age,’” he read, quoting his patient. “‘You treated me as you would treat your own father.’”
Dr. Lin said this final act of gratitude had left a lasting impact on him. He explained that he had created this 10-week medical school course — “From Diagnosis to Dialogue: A Doctor’s Real-Time Battle With Cancer” — with similar intentions.
“This class is part of my letter, part of what I’m doing to give back to my community as I go through this,” he said.
Later, an 18-year-old freshman in his first week at Stanford caught up on a recording of the class, which was also open to students outside the medical school. The course had filled up before he could enroll, but after emailing Dr. Lin, he received permission to follow along online. He had questions that needed answers.
From Doctor to Patient
Last spring, Dr. Lin developed a persistent and increasingly severe cough. A CT scan showed a large mass in his lungs, and a bronchoscopy confirmed the diagnosis: cancer. It had metastasized to his liver, his bones and his brain, which alone had 50 cancerous growths. He is married, with two teenage sons.
The diagnosis was particularly cruel given his work. Dr. Lin, a clinical professor and primary care physician, was a founder of the Stanford Center for Asian Health Research and Education. One of its priorities has been nonsmoker lung cancer, a disease that disproportionately affects Asian populations.
A self-described “jolly” person, Dr. Lin is known for his booming laugh and voice made for radio. A longtime mentor called him a “pied piper” for ideas — someone who can rally people around a vision. In addition to his other work, he directs the medical humanities program at Stanford and has patented medical devices.
Across his roles, he stresses that people are at the heart of medical practice. He said he tries to emulate an “old-timey country doctor” and once helped throw a 100th birthday party for one of his patients.
Dr. Lin learned that his cancer was advancing rapidly. He felt pain in his spine and ribs, and his weight dropped. His doctor put him on a targeted therapy designed to attack the specific mutation driving his cancer. He also underwent chemotherapy, which caused nausea and sores in his mouth.
“Day in the life of a cancer patient,” he said in a video diary he began keeping after his diagnosis. “So I guess that’s what I’ve become. Rather than a dad or husband.”
After a few cycles of chemotherapy, his breathing and coughing began to improve, and scans showed drastic reductions in the cancer’s extent. He continued to see patients and teach, and he began to think about what to do with the time he had left.
The dying dialysis patient had written a letter because he wanted Dr. Lin to know he was appreciated. Dr. Lin had a couple of ambitions for his own message to his students. He liked to think that some of them, having taken his course, might go on to dedicate themselves to some aspect of cancer care. And he wanted them all to understand the humanity at the core of medicine.
The ‘Primary Care’ Model
Dr. Lin’s class met for about an hour each Wednesday. One week, he led a session on having difficult conversations, where he stressed that doctors should be honest enough to say “I don’t know” when necessary — an answer he had to accept as a patient amid the uncertainties of his own diagnosis.
In another class, he discussed how spirituality and religion help some patients cope with cancer. Though he isn’t religious, he shared that he found comfort in others’ offering to pray, chant or light a candle on his behalf.
And in a session on the psychological impact of cancer, Dr. Lin spoke about the disappointment he felt after a scan showed that some of his tumors had shrunk but hadn’t disappeared — because, deep down, he was still holding out hope for a miracle.
He taught the sessions using what he described as the “primary care” model. He was the initial point of contact, sharing how his cancer diagnosis had affected him, but he referred his students to specialists — guest speakers — when more exploration was needed.
One of his first guests was Dr. Natalie Lui, a thoracic surgeon and lung cancer expert. Standing before a set of slides, she placed Dr. Lin’s diagnosis within the broader context of lung cancer among nonsmokers, particularly in Asian populations.
“In the U.S., about 20 percent of people diagnosed with lung cancer never smoked,” she said. “But in Asian populations and Asian American populations, that could be really up to 80 percent in some racial and ethnic groups,” she added, with Chinese women especially likely to receive the diagnosis.
For a class on caregiving, Dr. Lin brought in Christine Chan, whom he introduced as “my wonderful wife.” The students, some in scrubs, had been chatting and laughing, but grew quiet as the session began. Chairs shifted closer, and one person stood to get a better view.
Like her husband, Ms. Chan softened difficult truths with a smile, meeting students’ eyes across the audience. She spoke to the students as though they were or would become caregivers themselves.
Ms. Chan said she had been overwhelmed at first, buried in medical terminology she didn’t understand. Wanting to give her husband the best chance at continued health, she tried cutting out sausages and red meat from his diet — but felt disappointed when he turned down some of the new foods she made. While she encouraged caregivers to lean on friends and family, she warned that coordinating well-meaning offers of help could become a task in itself.
An M.I.T. graduate and program manager at Google DeepMind, she acknowledged that letting go of her instinct to plan for the future had been difficult.
“We just have to go through it one day at a time,” she said. Dr. Lin nodded in agreement.
A Job Not Quite Finished
Watching Dr. Lin teach, I often wondered what his students, many in their late teens and early 20s, were thinking. What was it like for them to become attached to him as a professor, knowing his prognosis was so dire?
When I asked, some used the phrase “once-in-a-lifetime opportunity” to describe the course. Others saw Dr. Lin as brave and said that if they were in his position, they probably wouldn’t be teaching a class.
But a significant number of students said they were confused. They had signed up for the course expecting something more “existential,” as one student put it. They were prepared for a harrowing emotional experience. But, save for choking up during the first lecture, Dr. Lin remained steadfastly upbeat, even cracking jokes.
When his wife told the class about cleaning up his diet, he feigned alarm, saying, “I’m like, ‘I don’t eat this food!’” And when he quizzed his oncologist, another guest speaker, about what might come next for people who developed resistance to the drug he was taking, Dr. Lin quipped, “Asking for a friend!”
It was difficult for some students to reconcile this upbeat attitude with the severity of his diagnosis. Gideon Witchel, of Austin, Texas, was one. He was the 18-year-old freshman who had watched a recording of the first class from his dorm room. A spot had since opened up, and now he was enrolled.
When Mr. Witchel was 5 years old and his sister was 3, his mother, Danielle Witchel, was diagnosed with breast cancer, but he had never talked to her about it in depth. He had never been able to say, “Tell me the story of your cancer.” He was taking Dr. Lin’s class in hopes that it would help him start that conversation.
One of his strongest memories of his mother’s illness was of playing with her colorful scarves while she sat on the couch, bald. But looking back, he felt unsettled. The thought that she could have died was terrifying.
During the session on spirituality, the idea of control came up, and that gave Mr. Witchel the opening he needed to approach Dr. Lin. He lingered after class and asked the professor whether he had chosen to teach the class to regain a sense of control over his diagnosis.
Dr. Lin replied without hesitation: no. He said he tried not to dwell on what was out of his control. “I’m very conscious that I have limited time left,” he said. “So I think about that. How am I going to live my life today? Is this a worthwhile way to spend my time?”
The class, he said, was worthwhile. “Does that make sense?”
“It’s powerful,” Mr. Witchel said. “It’s impressive that you’re doing this.”
“You know, I think if I were 20, it would be different,” Dr. Lin responded. He said his work as a doctor had perhaps enabled him to cope faster than other people would. He asked again, “Does that make sense?”
Mr. Witchel nodded, and Dr. Lin smiled, this time with a shrug.
Sometimes, in private, Dr. Lin was less sanguine than he appeared in class. More than once, he told me, he looked back on time passing and thought, “Wow, that was a fast week.”
When he saw an older person, he was reminded that he probably wouldn’t live to be that age. What hurt was missing not the opportunity to grow old, but what growing older represented — the chance to attend his children’s graduations, to watch them grow up and start their own families. The expectation of spending his later years with his wife.
Dr. Lin and Ms. Chan had told their children about his diagnosis, but they weren’t sure the boys fully understood what it meant. It was hard to think of a man as dying when he looked as healthy as Dr. Lin did. “They think, Daddy can take care of everything, fix everything, solve everything,” Dr. Lin said.
He referred to the class as his letter to his students, but he had crafted an actual letter to his sons for them to read after he was gone.
“Whether I’m here or not, what I want you to know is that I love you,” he wrote. “Of the many things I’ve done that have given my life meaning, being your daddy is the greatest of all.”
The ‘Luckiest Man’
For the last class, held on a sunny day in December, Dr. Lin and his students met in a library at Stanford Hospital. The room was walled in with glass, offering a view of the foothills and flowering plants on the adjoining rooftop garden. Students spilled over from the designated seats into a computer cluster, and the librarian leaned against one of the sections of shelves to watch.
Near the end of the class, Dr. Lin stood at the front of the room, folding and unfolding a piece of paper where he had printed his closing remarks. It was time to finish his letter.
He gave what he called his version of Lou Gehrig’s farewell speech, referring to the Hall of Fame baseball player for the New York Yankees who died at 37 from amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, or A.L.S., an incurable neurological disease.
Dr. Lin unfolded the paper once more, this time all the way.
“For the past quarter, you’ve been hearing about the bad break I got,” he said, echoing parts of Gehrig’s address at Yankee Stadium. “Yet today, I consider myself the luckiest man on the face of this earth.”
With that, he choked up. “Sure, I’m lucky,” he said. He said he was lucky to have his two sons, who brought joy and laughter into his house. His teaching assistants, who made the course possible. The Stanford community, his colleagues and the people at the Asian health center. His students and residents. His patients. His friends. His parents. His wife.
“So I close in saying that I may have had a tough break, but I have an awful lot to live for,” he said. “Thank you. And it’s been an honor.”
It seemed clear that Dr. Lin had achieved at least some of his goals. When he asked whether students were thinking of careers in cancer care, about a third raised their hands. The ones planning to be doctors told me they would remember Dr. Lin’s story when seeking to understand their patients’ experience of illness.
But the class moved students in ways he hadn’t anticipated. I talked to several students who said they had advised their parents to get screened for lung cancer. A master’s student told me they were integrating vocabulary about lung cancer into the Mandarin class for medical trainees that they planned to help teach in the winter.
For Mr. Witchel, the effect of the quarter was more personal. He had finally talked to his mother about her cancer.
He told me his story as we sat at a table outside Tresidder Memorial Union, a student center in the heart of campus. His mother had come to visit him during the fall, and he had told her about Dr. Lin’s class and broached the subject with her. The class had removed the taboo from his thinking, and he was able to start talking without the discomfort he had once expected to feel.
He learned that she had something in common with Dr. Lin: letters.
During her illness, Ms. Witchel had written messages to family members and friends. Some wrestled with her uncertainty about whether she would survive, as well as the effect her diagnosis might have on her children. They became a way for her to process what she was experiencing and to connect with loved ones.
“There has been a shuttling back and forth between a very private experience and a very public experience and both have given me strength,” she wrote in one.
After she went into remission, she compiled the writings along with medical records, photographs and other documents into a book bound with ribbon. When Mr. Witchel returned home for Thanksgiving break, he sat down at the kitchen table with the book and his parents, his mother tucked between him and his father.
Together, they alternated between reading from the book and talking. They laughed and cried. For the first time, Mr. Witchel felt he was interacting with his mother as an adult.
In her letters, he heard echoes of Dr. Lin’s philosophy. In one passage, she wrote about the puzzles scattered throughout the waiting areas in the hospital where she received care. Difficult puzzles with hundreds of pieces that “no one person could possibly finish no matter how long the wait.”
Perhaps that was the point, she wrote. Not to finish, but to try.
Audio produced by Sarah Diamond.
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Relationship coach blames Oprah for pushing family estrangement ‘for decades’
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Oprah Winfrey is shining a light on family estrangement, which she calls “one of the fastest-growing cultural shifts of our time” — but one expert says the media mogul helped fuel that very culture.
“A Cornell University study now shows that almost one-third of Americans are actively estranged from a family member,” Winfrey said on a recent episode of “The Oprah Podcast,” referring to adult children going “no-contact” with parents, siblings or entire family systems.
Winfrey said the trend is a “silent epidemic” that can be especially relevant during the holidays.
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But family and relationship coach Tania Khazaal, who focuses on fighting “cutoff culture,” took to social media to criticize Winfrey for acting as if the estrangement crisis appeared “out of thin air.”
“Now Oprah is shocked by the aftermath of estrangement, after being one of the biggest voices pushing it for decades,” Canada-based Khazaal said in an Instagram video, which drew more than 27,000 likes and 3,000 comments.
Oprah Winfrey recently discussed what she called a “silent epidemic” of family estrangement on her podcast. (Theo Wargo/Getty Images)
Khazaal claimed that Winfrey’s messaging started in the 1990s and has contributed to a cultural shift where walking away became the first resort, not the last.
According to the relationship coach, millennials, some of whom grew up watching Oprah, are the leading demographic cutting off family members — and even if it wasn’t intentional, “the effect has absolutely been harmful,” Khazaal told Fox News Digital.
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The coach, who has her own history with estrangement, questioned why Winfrey is now treating the issue as a surprising crisis.
“Now she hosts a discussion with estranged parents and estranged kids, speaking on estrangement like it’s some hidden, sudden, heartbreaking epidemic that she had no hand in,” she said in her video.
Nearly one-third of Americans are estranged from a family member, research shows. (iStock)
Khazaal said she believes discussions about estrangement are necessary, but insists that people shouldn’t “rewrite history.”
“Estrangement isn’t entertainment or a trending conversation piece,” she added. “It’s real families, real grief, parents dying without hearing their child’s voice.”
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Winfrey reportedly responded in the comments, writing, “Happy to have a conversation about it — but not on a reel. Will have my producer contact you if you’re interested.” But the comment was later deleted due to the backlash it received, Khazaal told Fox News Digital.
“I would still be open to that discussion,” Khazaal said. “The first thing I’d want her to understand is simple: Setting aside cases of abuse or danger, the family unit is the most sacred structure we have.”
Experts emphasize that estrangement should be a last resort. (iStock)
“When children lose their sense of belonging at home, they search for it in the outside world,” she added. “That’s contributing to the emotional fragility we’re seeing today.”
Her critique ignited a debate online, with some social media users saying Khazaal is voicing a long-overdue concern.
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“The first time I heard, ‘You can love them from a distance’ was from Oprah … in the ’90s,” one woman said.
“My son estranged himself from us for five years,” one mother commented. “The pain, hurt and damage never goes away.”
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Others, however, argued that Winfrey’s podcast episode was empathetic and that estrangement shouldn’t be oversimplified.
Mental health experts say the conversation around estrangement is more complex than any single celebrity influence, and reflects broader cultural shifts.
Experts say today’s focus on boundaries and emotional well-being has reshaped family expectations. (iStock)
In the episode with Winfrey, Joshua Coleman, a California-based psychologist, said, “The old days of ‘honor thy mother and thy father,’ ‘respect thy elders’ and ‘family is forever’ has given way to much more of an emphasis on personal happiness, personal growth, my identity, my political beliefs, my mental health.”
Coleman noted that therapists sometimes become “detachment brokers” by unintentionally green-lighting estrangement.
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Jillian Amodio, a licensed master’s social worker at the Maryland-based Waypoint Wellness Center, told Fox News Digital that while public figures like Winfrey help normalize these conversations, estrangement might just be a more openly discussed topic now.
“Estrangement used to be handled privately and quietly,” she said.
Winfrey’s take on family estrangement is prompting a broader discussion amid the holiday season. (iStock)
But even strained relationships can be fixed with the right support, experts say.
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Susan Foosness, a North Carolina-based clinical director of patient programs at Rula Health, said families can strengthen their relationships by working with a mental health professional to improve communication, learn healthier conflict-resolution skills, and build trust and empathy through quality time together.
“No family is perfect,” Foosness told Fox News Digital.
Khazaal agreed, saying, “Parents need to learn how to listen without slipping into justification, and children need help speaking about their pain without defaulting to blame or avoidance.”
Fox News Digital reached out to Winfrey for comment.
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Major measles outbreak leads to hundreds quarantined in US county, officials say
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South Carolina is facing a major measles outbreak, resulting in the quarantine of hundreds of residents.
The South Carolina Department of Health (DPH) reported in a media briefing on Wednesday that the current number of measles cases has reached 111 as part of the current Spartanburg County outbreak.
DPH first reported a measles outbreak in the Upstate region on Oct. 2.
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The health department confirmed that 254 people are currently in quarantine and 16 are in isolation to prevent further spread.
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“This significant jump in cases is unfortunate,” a DPH spokesperson commented on the outbreak.
Public exposure was identified at Inman Intermediate School, with 43 of their students in quarantine.
“This significant jump in cases is unfortunate.”
Eight other intermediate and middle schools in the area are also reportedly undergoing quarantine. The DPH said multiple students have had to quarantine twice due to repeat exposure.
“Vaccination continues to be the best way to prevent the disruption that measles is causing to people’s education, to employment and other factors in people’s lives and our communities,” the spokesperson said.
“This significant jump in cases is unfortunate,” a DPH spokesperson commented on the current outbreak. (iStock)
Out of the 111 confirmed cases, 105 were unvaccinated. Receiving a vaccination within 72 hours has been shown to prevent measles infection, the DPH spokesperson noted.
Some cases are related to travel exposure, while others are from an unknown source, suggesting that measles is circulating in the community, the DPH noted.
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Connecticut has also reported its first measles case in four years, according to the Connecticut Department of Public Health.
The department confirmed on Thursday that an unvaccinated child in Fairfield County, under the age of 10, was diagnosed with measles after recently traveling internationally.
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The child began to show symptoms several days later, including a runny nose, cough, congestion, fever and a rash starting at the head and spreading to the rest of the body.
The Connecticut DPH noted that measles is “highly contagious” and can spread quickly through the air via coughing or sneezing. The CDC has estimated that nine out of 10 unvaccinated individuals who encounter an infected person will develop the measles virus.
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According to the International Vaccine Access Center, more than 1,800 cases of measles have been reported in 2025, which is the most since the U.S. declared the virus eliminated in 2000. It is also the most cases recorded in three decades.
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“The single best way to protect your children and yourself from measles is to be vaccinated,” DPH Commissioner Manisha Juthani, M.D., wrote in a statement. “One dose of measles vaccine is about 93% effective, while two doses are about 97% effective.”
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