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How to Exercise When It Feels Impossible

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How to Exercise When It Feels Impossible

We’ve all been there. You set a goal to exercise regularly, but when the moment comes to get moving, your mind unleashes a torrent of excuses: I’m tired. It’s cold outside. I don’t want to spend money on a class.

These mental blocks may explain why it’s so hard to keep a New Year’s resolution for longer than four months. So how do you cut through them?

The first step, experts say, is to stop thinking of them as “excuses.”

Just using that word can suggest you failed and should feel bad about your willpower. Research has shown that self-criticism and shame can actually stop you from meeting your goals, said Katy Milkman, a behavioral scientist at the University of Pennsylvania and the author of “How to Change.”

Instead, reframe the reasons you aren’t exercising as genuine obstacles and devise a plan to overcome them, Dr. Milkman said. “Most of us don’t just need a goal,” she said, but specific steps and strategies to follow.

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I asked experts in exercise science and psychology to share their best advice for conquering common reasons people struggle to build an exercise habit. Here are their time-tested solutions.

I have no time.

If you face a jam-packed daily schedule, try starting small, said Kate Baird, an exercise physiologist at the Hospital for Special Surgery in New York. Instead of carving out 30 to 60 minutes several times a week, plan several short bursts of movement throughout the day. “If you’re not able to do much, doing anything is going to be helpful in so many ways,” she said.

For example, walk a few laps around the block during lunch, she said, or sneak in a series of squats between meetings. Ideally, you want these bursts to add up to the recommended 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity and 30-to-60 minutes of full-body strength training per week.

Or you could multitask: Try walking or using a resistance band while on a phone call or watching TV, she said. (Several of the experts I talked to were walking while being interviewed.)

If you want to have a dedicated workout window, Ms. Baird recommended taking a hard look at your calendar and asking yourself: Is there anything that could go, or anything you could trade for a dose of movement? Could you experiment with setting your alarm 30 minutes earlier?

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I feel self-conscious.

If the thought of working out in front of other people makes you want crawl into a hole, know that you have options, said Kelly Roberts, a running coach and body-positive fitness influencer in New York City. “The gym is a really intimidating space,” even for experienced exercisers, she said.

For some people, a solution might be exercising at home. But for others, Ms. Roberts recommended taking a few steps to combat feelings of self-consciousness.

First, remind yourself why you’re there, whether it’s to feel stronger or to train for a race. Reconnecting with your goal can help to shore you up, she said. Second, designate a friend or family member who you can text in the moment, who can support you when you’re feeling vulnerable.

Third, try a different gym, class or group. If a space makes you feel uncomfortable in your own skin, it’s OK to leave, Ms. Roberts said. “Some spaces are more welcoming than others.”

The past few years have seen a burst of fitness offerings for people who may have historically felt unwelcome in gyms because of their gender or racial identity, body size or athletic ability, like pace-inclusive running clubs or gyms marketed toward L.G.B.T.Q. communities.

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I don’t want to spend money.

You don’t need a fancy gym to get fit, said Grayson Wickham, a physical therapist in New York City. “There’s so much you can do just with body weight,” he said. “It’s pretty amazing.” Planks, push-ups, lunges, squats and pointers can all build strength, and regular stretching can cultivate flexibility.

For aerobic exercise, you can do jumping jacks, or consider spending a few dollars on a jump rope. If you have access to a safe outdoor space, you can walk, run or strength-train outside, Dr. Wickham said — and get the added benefit of spending time in nature. For expert guidance, download a free workout app.

It’s too cold — or hot.

A shift in temperature doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Think of the change in weather as an opportunity to try something new, or include more variety in your routine, said Dr. Edward Phillips, an associate professor of physical medicine and rehabilitation at Harvard Medical School.

“Maybe in the middle of the winter it’s a good time to bolster your strength training and work on your core, or finally engage in a Pilates class or sink your teeth into some yoga,” he said. Or embrace the weather and try snowshoeing. In the summer, consider trading your run for a swim.

“The idea is not to necessarily say, ‘But I’ve committed to running three miles a day, six days a week, forever,’” he added.

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That said, as long as it’s safe to exercise outside and you dress for the weather, occasionally working out in less-than-ideal temperatures can cultivate mental and emotional strength, Dr. Wickham noted: “You’re getting even more mental challenge on top of your workout, and that’s just going to make you better and more well prepared at anything you’re doing in life.”

I don’t have the space.

If you have room for a yoga mat, you have enough space to get in a great workout. Dr. Phillips said. “You can get stronger and in better shape and more flexible” in just a few square feet, he said, as long as you can comfortably move your arms and legs without bumping into a wall or furniture.

Beyond doing yoga, you could jump rope, do body-weight exercises, lift dumbbells or kettlebells, stretch or use resistance bands, Dr. Wickham said.

If exercising in close quarters feels too claustrophobic, consider an outdoor space that you can make your gym, he said.

I’m in pain.

It might seem counterintuitive, but for those who struggle with forms of chronic muscle or joint discomfort — like low back pain, neck pain or pain from osteoarthritis and rheumatoid arthritis — physical activity will likely help to make it better, Dr. Phillips said.

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“Chronic pain is awful, but for many people, being inactive is adding to that pain,” he said. While exercise may not alleviate all pain, it can help people complete daily activities with greater ease — and expand what they’re able to do comfortably from, say, walking to the mailbox to going for a stroll on the beach or playing catch with a child.

“If you do more, you can then do more,” Dr. Phillips said. “It’s not a cure, it’s a management.” And often, as you become stronger and more fit, the threshold for what causes pain goes up.

If you live with chronic pain of any kind and want to be more active, talk to a doctor or an expert in exercise science who can guide you on the safest and most effective movements for your condition.

I’m exhausted all the time.

When even the word “exercise” makes you feel tired, experts recommend meeting your body where it is — in a few different ways.

“I think the first practical way to approach this is to ask yourself, are you working out at the best time of day, or best time of the week, for your energy?” Ms. Baird said. If you know that you have the most energy first thing in the morning and generally feel wiped in late afternoon, try working out early in the day.

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If getting started feels like a hurdle, Kelly McGonigal, a health psychologist and lecturer at Stanford University, recommends beginning with a mini workout designed to boost your state of mind. Exercising for the length of “one song is great, because a song will change your mood,” she said. “Do something that reminds you that it feels good to move.”

Remember that exercise doesn’t have to be intense for it to “count,” experts say. Stretching, yoga, Pilates, walking or jogging at a conversational pace are all great options. And finally, do what you can to ensure that you are getting enough sleep.

I just don’t like it.

If you have yet to find a form of movement that you enjoy, keep looking. “Exercise” doesn’t have to mean going to the gym — it can be as simple as dancing alone in your living room, playing pickleball or chasing after your kids or grandkids, Dr. McGonigal said. Basically, moving in any way that brings you joy.

Plus, research has found that when we prioritize fun in movement, we’re more likely to stick with it over time, Dr. Milkman said.

In the meantime, if you need an immediate incentive to move, try a trick Dr. Milkman came up with called “temptation bundling,” in which you save a riveting audiobook, podcast or TV show to enjoy while exercising — and only while exercising. Her research suggests doing so may keep you coming back for more.

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I’m afraid of hurting myself.

Exercise carries some risks, but remind yourself that the benefits of physical activity outweigh them, Dr. Phillips said. On the flip side, “if you remain sedentary, your risk of deleterious health effects is 100 percent.”

If you’re new to exercise, recovering from an injury or haven’t been active in a long time, start slow, cautioned Dr. Tamanna Singh, co-director of the Sports Cardiology Center at Cleveland Clinic. The best way to avoid getting injured is to progress gradually, not taking on too much too soon. “Build confidence, and use that confidence as a motivator to continue exercising in the long term,” she said.

For extra peace of mind, check in with a sports medicine expert, who can advise on the safest and most effective approach for your body.

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Mike Sommerfeld Reveals His Simple 4-Exercise Leg Day Ahead of the 2026 Arnold Classic – Muscle & Fitness

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Mike Sommerfeld Reveals His Simple 4-Exercise Leg Day Ahead of the 2026 Arnold Classic – Muscle & Fitness

Mike “The Bad Ass” Sommerfeld is on a mission to defend his Arnold Men’s Classic Physique title and is taking a no-nonsense approach to outperforming the likes of Wesley Vissers and a debuting Sam Sulek. To illustrate this, the gigantic German used a recent Instagram post to share one of his go-to leg days for total domination, and you can try it too.

Sommerfeld brought the complete package to the stage during the 2025 Arnold Classic, impressing the judges with his muscle mass, definition, symmetry, and conditioning, but with a stacked field ahead of him in March, the big man shares that one of the workouts he’s forged follows a back-to-basics approach. Apparently, The Bad Ass’s leg day is about quality over quantity and requires just four exercises in total. “Two for hams, and two for quads,” he explained.

Mike Sommerfeld’s 4-Exercise Leg Day Workout Ahead of the 2026 Arnold Classic

Warmup

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Mike Sommerfeld’s Leg Day Strategy Explained

Joining the likes of other bodybuilding great, Martin Fitzwater, Sommerfeld shared that he begins leg workouts with adductors to warm up his upper legs and get the blood circulation stimulated. “I always start with adductors to warm up my hips and get me going,” explained Sommerfeld. “Especially mentally, and physically, to lift heavier weights for the upcoming exercises.” He noted that while on the machine, he pushes his back to the pad as far as possible, to increase both the stretch and the contraction while executing his reps.

Homing in on his hamstrings, Sommerfeld’s first exercise is the seated leg curl. “The reason for that is, you get an amazing pre-stretch position by just sitting down (and getting set up) on the machine” said the man-mountain. Next up is the deadlift. “Why? Because we already contracted hamstrings pretty hard, and they are pumped as hell,” confirmed Sommerfeld. “Now we can stretch the s**t out of our hamstrings.”

Moving on to quads, the 2025 Arnold Men’s Classic Physique champion shared that his new favorite quad exercise is the hack squat (also referred to as the hack press). “The reason for that is, it feels so much more natural to my knees.” Sommerfeld explained that he feels almost zero pressure or pain on his knees with this squat variation. “And I can go really deep into the stretch, and I can focus entirely on my way up, to contract my quads as hard as possible.” The Bad Ass also shared that he likes to use rest-pause sets on the hack squat, performing his reps towards failure, taking a short break, and then going again to towards failure. “So, after hitting 10 to 12 reps, I like to pause for a few seconds, and then go again for three to four more reps.”

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Last but not least for his legs, Sommerfeld rounds out his workout with the belt squat. “The reason for that is, it’s actually so much smarter to use a belt squat because it loads your hips, not your shoulders,” coached the champ. “In regular (back) squats you have all the load on your shoulders, and your body needs to stabilize it all the way. That creates a lot of fatigue and we wanna train legs not our full body. This is why I chose the belt squat, an amazing piece of equipment. You can hold yourself and stabilize yourself (on the platform). You can go really deep, wait a second in the stretched position, and then go up again, and squeeze it out.”

In terms of sets and rep, Sommerfeld explained that he does “multiple, multiple, sets,” but for us mere mortals, 2 to 3 sets of 8 to 12 reps will bring mass building results. By focusing on the quality of his stretch and contractions and isolating his quads and hamstrings rather than fatiguing the rest of his body, Mike Sommerfeld could present his best physique yet come March.

To follow Mike Sommerfeld on Instagram, click here. 

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Combining small changes in diet, exercise and sleep may extend life | CNN

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Small changes in diet, exercise and sleep may extend life by a year when put into practice together, while making larger changes could provide more than nine additional years of life, according to a new study.

Combining changes in diet, sleep and exercise also increased “health span,” or the number of years a person may live without major health complaints.

“These findings highlight the importance of considering lifestyle behaviors as a package rather than in isolation,” said lead study author Nick Koemel, a research fellow in physical activity, lifestyle and population health at the University of Syndey’s main campus in Camperdown, Australia.

“By targeting small improvements across multiple behaviors simultaneously, the required change for any single behavior is substantially reduced, which may help overcome common barriers to long-term behavior change,” Koemel said in an email.

READ MORE: Can’t sleep? Take steps to improve your sleep hygiene, which boosts health.

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However, that finding is far from conclusive, said Kevin McConway, professor emeritus of applied statistics at the Open University in Milton Keynes, United Kingdom, who was not involved in the study.

“A snag is that the paper uses complicated statistical methods that are not always described clearly,” McConway said in an email. “It’s therefore difficult to tell to what extent the findings have emerged from the researchers’ choice of statistical analyses, rather than things that are clearer from the data.”

Using scientific modeling, Koemel and his team found combining as little as five additional minutes of sleep, two minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity (such as brisk walking or taking the stairs), and an additional ½ cup of vegetables a day might lengthen life by a year.

However, this predicted outcome was only for people who had an extremely poor diet, slept less than six hours per night and only exercised about seven minutes a day. In addition, it wasn’t until the model’s lifestyle improvements greatly increased that the results became scientifically significant.

“All of the gains reported in this study are theoretical,” Koemel said. “We cannot claim a direct causal effect from the lifestyle patterns. These findings should therefore be interpreted as expected or projected benefits under assumed behavioral variations, rather than confirmed effects of an intervention.”

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The greatest gain in longevity — 9.35 years — and health span — 9.46 years — came with the combination of an addition of 42 to 103 minutes of exercise and sleeping between seven and eight hours a day, while also eating an extremely healthy diet that included fish, whole grains, vegetables and fruits.

Adding exercise to the mix moved the longevity needle the most — a fact that did not surprise preventive cardiologist Dr. Andrew Freeman, director of cardiovascular prevention and wellness at National Jewish Health in Denver.

“Exercise is the elixir of youth,” said Freeman, who was not involved in the study. “But let me be clear — this study should not be interpreted as exercising for exactly two minutes and stop, you’ve accomplished a goal.

“Rather, you should aim to get 20 to 30 minutes of brisk, breathless physical activity, combining strength and cardio in every day. That advice has not changed over decades of study.”

READ MORE: Want to start moving? Check out this guidance to ease into walking.

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The study, published Wednesday in the journal eClinicalMedicine, looked at almost 60,000 participants from England, Scotland and Wales in the UK Biobank, a longitudinal health study, who were followed for an average of eight years. Everyone in the study provided information on their diet — including ultraprocessed foods, such as sugar-sweetened beverages. A subset of the group also wore wrist watches that provided more objective measurements of movement and sleep.

Researchers gathered this medical data and used it to form theoretical scenarios of improved longevity and health span, which was defined as the number of years free of cardiovascular disease, dementia, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease and type 2 diabetes.

Enjoying a longer life and a longer health span, or remaining free of disease, aren’t the same thing, Koemel said. “Combined improvements in sleep, physical activity, and diet were associated with longer lifespans, even if people still developed some chronic conditions later in life.”

READ MORE: Want to improve your diet? Instead of making drastic changes, you can ease into the Mediterranean diet.

After adjusting the findings for many variables — such as the amount of ultraprocessed foods, smoking, alcohol use, body mass index, insomnia, snoring and daytime sleepiness — the results differed depending on how much of each behavior change was accomplished.

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In addition to the lowest and highest levels of the lifestyle changes discussed above, researchers also found lower levels of exercise — less than 23 minutes a day — sleeping seven to eight hours a night, and an excellent diet were associated with nearly four more years of life and three years of health, the study found.

Moderate levels of exercise (between 23 and 42 minutes a day), sleeping up to eight hours per night, and a high-quality diet were associated with a greater improvement of an additional seven years of life and just over six years of good health. So many calculations! What does it all mean?

“This is not about the absolute minutes you exercise or sleep or the number of pieces of broccoli you eat. It’s about making sure that all the things you do in your life are synonymous with health,” Freeman said.

“This is a great time of year to reflect on how you live and make big changes that will set you up for a life of wellness by modifying your life’s trajectory,” he said. “The overall signal in the noise is if you live well, your health span and then your lifespan will be longer.”

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Consider This: How to build a fitness routine that lasts past February

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Every year, countless individuals — including many from within the U of A community — make new year’s resolutions focused on health and fitness. However, the spark of motivation that accompanies the start of a new year often causes people to push too hard, too fast, setting overly ambitious goals that are abandoned by the time February arrives.

Michael Kennedy, a Clinical Exercise Physiologist and Associate Professor in the Faculty of Kinesiology, Sport, and Recreation, shares his expertise and tips for success if you’re looking to build a sustainable exercise routine that lasts all through the year.

Start by establishing your baseline 

Before you make an exercise plan, Kennedy explains, it’s important to assess where you’re starting from. A reasonable fitness goal for someone who is completely sedentary will be very different than for someone who already regularly incorporates physical activity into their daily routine. “Our bodies regulate how much capacity or function we have based on how much stress you impose,” explains Kennedy, which means different people will be able to handle a very different amount of intensity or overload dependent on what their activity has been like in the past.

One of the most accurate ways to figure out your baseline is through fitness testing, a service that the U of A offers through its Fitness Testing Services program, where Kennedy is director. It’s not just for elite athletes — regular individuals can sign up to have several health measures assessed, including cardiorespiratory or aerobic fitness, muscular strength, muscular endurance, flexibility, neuromuscular health and body composition.

“Testing gives you real evidence of your baseline fitness, and then through that feedback we can give you very clear recommendations on the intensity, duration, frequency and types of exercise that are appropriate for your training program.”

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Follow the 15 per cent rule 

Kennedy covers several training principles in his Introduction to the Biological Aspects of Fitness to Health class, including the overload principle. Essentially, once you’ve figured out what your baseline is, you should avoid setting goals that have you exceeding it by more than 15 per cent. If you’re already running for 30 minutes a few times a week, for example, increase a few of your runs to 35 minutes per week.

For an individual who is completely sedentary, for example, “increasing to 10 or 15 minutes of physical activity a few times a week is a good start.” A training plan involving high-intensity, 90-minute fitness classes is a recipe for disaster, and likely injury.

And, Kennedy notes, you should keep the 15 per cent rule in mind when thinking of intensity as well. For example, if you regularly go for 30-minute walks, aiming to slowly increase the duration of your walks at the same pace is a reasonable and sustainable goal. Interested in a more high-intensity form of exercise for the new year, such as cross-country skiing or running? Don’t make the mistake of planning for the same duration as your lower-intensity workouts — instead, lower your amount of minutes as your body adjusts. 

“As I say to my students, intensity and duration are inversely related — as one goes up the other should go down.”

If you keep this in mind, your body will have the chance to adapt and keep pace with your resolution-fuelled enthusiasm.

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Individualize your plan based on both capacity and interest

A common tip for those with fitness goals is to find a buddy to help motivate you to show up for your training sessions or exercise classes. While this may help with accountability, Kennedy warns that it can be a mistake in terms of sustainably reaching your health goals. “People are very social animals, so they want support,” he says, which often leads to people agreeing to accompany a friend to a workout class that’s too intense for them. “The training principle associated with that is individualization — what’s good for you is not necessarily good for me.”   

Kennedy also recommends finding activities you actually enjoy, rather than what you think might be the most effective, when designing your fitness plan. “Don’t do things that are good for you but that you absolutely hate — that’s not going to lead to long-term changes in your lifestyle and health-related fitness.”

Those who far prefer venturing outdoors over sweating in a gym can do so year-round, even in our northern climate; simply keep in mind that “cold is a major physical stressor,” says Kennedy.

“Spend the money and the time to dress appropriately, cover your mouth and cover your skin, because those two things can really change your nervous system and how it’s responding to your lung function and body temperature.”

Assess your schedule — and be realistic

While it may seem obvious, keep in mind that it’s also crucial to consider what your current weeks look like when planning a fitness program. “Any program is not worth the screen or paper it’s written on if it can’t fit into your actual life schedule,” says Kennedy. 

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He recommends taking a look at an average week in your life and breaking it into two-hour blocks, spotting where there are windows of leisure time. Those are the opportunities to fit in physical activity — creating an idealistic plan and then trying to shoehorn it into your schedule where it simply doesn’t fit won’t lead to long-term success.

Know how to identify symptoms that you’re pushing too hard 

It’s normal to feel sore after a workout, especially if you’re pushing yourself, but how do you know when you may be taking things too far? According to Kennedy, a good rule of thumb is that if you’ve taken over-the-counter medications such as Advil or Tylenol to reduce subjective muscle soreness that is still lasting over 72 hours, “you’ve probably gone too hard.”

And don’t be tempted to ‘tough it out’ — “one of the things that can happen with severe muscle soreness is a leakage of proteins into the blood, and if too much leaks out this can be really hard on your kidneys.” 

Beyond muscle soreness, other physical signs of what Kennedy refers to as “overreaching” include a racing heart when you are trying to fall asleep, dry mouth, restless sleep, cravings, an increase in daytime drowsiness and mood disturbances (feeling grumpy or feeling flat). 

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