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How this LA gym became a refuge for the trans community

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How this LA gym became a refuge for the trans community

Candace Hansen, a PhD candidate in musicology at UCLA, recalls being harassed and forced out of a women’s restroom at their hometown 24-Hour Fitness a few months ago.

At the gym, located in Garden Grove, Hansen says they were met with unwelcoming and leering stares before entering the facility. The gendered bathroom presented a thorny dilemma: which would be the least offensive choice for other patrons, and the least threatening for Hansen? Once inside the women’s bathroom, Hansen says an older woman started yelling, “You’re a man! You’re a man!” More women joined in, screaming and advancing until Hansen was driven out.

Hansen explained the situation to the 24-Hour Fitness staff, who were sympathetic. They escorted Hansen back to the locker room to collect their belongings and offered a private place to change. “It was next to old pool parts and supplies for a kid’s swimming class,” Hansen recalls. “It was pretty dehumanizing and sad.”

Everybody Gym’s gender neutral locker room includes private showers and changing stations.

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Candace Hansen, 39, punches a boxing bag at Everybody Gym.

Candace Hansen, 39, punches a boxing bag at Everybody Gym.

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The experience deepened Hansen’s gratitude for the gym they frequent in Los Angeles, Everybody Gym. Everybody Gym, which has been operating in Los Angeles for more than 10 years, like its name implies— is inclusive to all.

Sam Rypinski founded Everybody Gym in January of 2017, a few months after Donald Trump was elected president for the first time. As a trans man, Rypinski says that they experienced discrimination and discomfort at other gyms and yearned to connect with the trans community. “I remember a time when there wasn’t any access to healthcare. There wasn’t access to support. There wasn’t an internet where you could find community.”

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Recognizing the need for solidarity, Rypinski created Everybody Gym, a space where queer people and their allies could coexist. “I’ve always been passionate about fitness, and working out has been critical for my well-being and feeling safe, feeling confident and feeling good in my body. I wanted to bring that to L.A.,” says Rypinski.

The key to its endurance, Rypinski explains, is creating a welcoming environment. “Even the burliest, cis-dude gym rats are coming up to me all the time and thanking me for creating a space where they feel safe to work out,” Rypinski says.

Everybody Gym founder Sam Rypinski inside the facility's gender-neutral locker room.

Everybody Gym founder Sam Rypinski inside the facility’s gender-neutral locker room.

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It’s worth noting that in 2025, hundreds of bills have been introduced at the federal level aimed at restricting trans rights. These bills have targeted gender-affirming care, bathroom access and trans people’s participation in sports. An executive order issued by Trump has required passports only to be issued to genders assigned at birth — discriminating against trans people. In December of 2025, the House passed a bill that would ban providing gender-affirming care for minors.

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“As people believe they’re losing a certain control over their political life because the world has stopped catering to hatred, they look to the smallest place that they can control,” says Hansen, who has been tracking anti-trans legislation as part of their PhD. “This year is the most anti-trans legislation in the history of America.”

Sonny Koch is a trans trainer who has worked at the gym for eight years. “It makes it feel that much more important that we have this space, especially at this time where trans people are under attack,” says Koch, “It feels scary out there. It’s dangerous. It’s not just working out, it feels like a movement where we’re doing something bigger than that.”

As a trans trainer at a previous gym, Koch recounts some uncomfortable moments surrounding his pronoun use. “It’s been the biggest life-changing experience to be able to train in a space that welcomes trans people,” says Koch.

Everybody Gym trainer Sonny Koch, 36, smiles after leading a workout class.

Trainer Sonny Koch, 36, smiles after leading a workout class.

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One of the distinct features of the gym is its gender-neutral changing room, which Rypinski says is the first of its kind in the country. There are private changing stalls and showers, but the common area is open to people of all gender expressions. “We didn’t want there to be any awkward choices for folks who may normally feel like they have to make a choice that isn’t really in alignment with their identity,” says Rypinski.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, Everybody Gym transitioned to a digital video-on-demand service called “Homebody.” Beginning in 2020, the gym started hosting a digital catalog of its classes. Since then, they have expanded their digital presence, shooting tutorials on a stage. “‘It’s a way to be a member anywhere,” Rypinski explains. His aim is for it to be especially beneficial for transgender people, both nationally and internationally, who aren’t always able to access a welcoming community where they live. “We’ve donated memberships to folks in the South and in affected areas where they don’t have healthcare or resources. We’ve partnered with organizations and offer those as free memberships to folks across the country,” he adds.

The gym’s holistic approach to wellness also extends to staff. Paulo Diaz, one of Everybody’s trainers, was working as a pizza cook when he discovered Everybody Gym at a trans job fair. After conversations with Rypinski, Diaz earned his trainer certification sponsored by the gym. “I have never heard of a gym doing that — paying for a person to become a trainer.”

In his new career as a trainer, Diaz had found the courage to explore his other interest — wrestling. “Wrestling is one of the most controversial sports for trans people to be in. If it hadn’t been for Sam and Everybody sponsoring me to become a trainer, I would never have the knowledge or confidence to wrestle,” Diaz adds.

Trainer Koch, left, leads a class at Everybody Gym.

Trainer Koch, left, leads a class at Everybody Gym.

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Everybody’s commitment to strengthening the community reaches beyond the queer community. As Glassell Park is home to many Latinx immigrants, Everybody Gym prioritizes Spanish-speaking staff at the front desk. “We’re trying to make it clear that this is a safe space for immigrants too,” says Rypinski. “We take into consideration all of the ways gyms fail, not only in terms of gender and kind of binary spaces, but size, age, ability, ethnicity and economic situations. We try to make this affordable.”

In the years since Hansen discovered the gym, it has become something of a home for them, witnessing them through disappointments, triumphs and even grief. “It became this amazing landing pad for me in terms of giving myself the room to feel stable in who I was: emotionally, spiritually and physically.”

Beyond the elliptical machines, the sweat-inducing yoga classes or weights, it’s the community that makes Everybody Gym strong. “You hear people gossiping in the locker room, or you hear about cool art shows that are happening or dance parties,” says Hansen. “I always end up making friends.”

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10 new books you won’t want to miss in July

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10 new books you won’t want to miss in July

I regret to inform you I’ll need to keep this introduction brief. Not because there’s any lack of things to say about July’s crop of notable new releases; it features award-winning journalists and several different flavors of anxiety about our bleak ecological future and data-dominated present, as well as the welcome returns of several beloved novelists.

No, these books certainly deserve some love, dear readers. It’s just that I’m finding it a bit tough to type while bearhugging a box fan. And since it seems that may be my last best chance to get through this latest U.S. heat wave here on the east coast without sweating through my shirt, I feel some urgency to get back at it.

So enough with the ado. With any luck, you’ll soon be cracking open one of these great reads on the beach — or in front of a decent air-conditioning unit, at any rate.

You Won’t Get Free of It: Stories of Mothers and Daughters, by Rachel Aviv

You Won’t Get Free of It: Stories of Mothers and Daughters, by Rachel Aviv (July 7)

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Aviv, New Yorker staff writer and finalist for this year’s Pulitzer Prize, has a fairly extensive purview in her role as reporter at large. Still, when reviewing her latest work, Aviv noticed a crucial throughline: “I realized that, to some degree, I’d been writing about mother-daughter pairs for the last decade,” she explained to the Paris Review. Seeing this, she decided to collect and revise half a dozen of those stories, which cover ground from a daughter’s troubling fugue states to the immigrant nannies who must leave their own children behind, to Alice Munro’s daughter, whose claims of sexual abuse went unheeded yet regularly resurfaced in her mother’s fiction.

Country People, by Daniel Mason

Country People, by Daniel Mason (July 7)

In Mason’s first novel since North Woods, 2023’s critical darling and book club stalwart, readers are plopped right back in the New England woods but the time scale has shrunk considerably. Whereas North Woods spanned centuries, his new novel confines itself to a single year, during which Miles, loving family man and lackadaisical Ph.D. candidate, plans to finally buckle down on that derelict degree of his and reassert his worth to one and all! At least, that’s the idea. But plans don’t stand much of a chance when there are eccentric neighbors to befriend and mysterious local legends to investigate.

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Jessica McCormack: How a Challenger Is Seizing the Jewellery Opportunity

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The London-based independent jewellery label, which sells high-end pieces for everyday wear, has boosted sales by leveraging jewellery as a means of self expression. Chief executive Leonie Brantberg details in our latest report ‘Face to Face With Luxury Clients’ the brand’s strategy and expansion plans.
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What a divorce coach wishes couples knew before ending a marriage

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Karen McNenny is a certified divorce coach, certified co-parenting specialist and author of the book The Good Divorce: How to End Your Marriage Without Ending Your Family.

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When Karen McNenny was facing divorce about 15 years ago, she was afraid of what it would mean for her future: despair, debt and a lifetime of resentment, she says.

At the same time, she was thinking of her two children, she says. She didn’t want their father to become her enemy.

So she and her former husband chose to approach divorce differently as a couple. “We’re going to renovate and transform this family. We’re not going to destroy it,” she says. “The marriage is ending, not your relationship.”

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For McNenny, a mediator, certified divorce coach and certified co-parenting specialist, divorce is a tool, not a weapon. She expands on this concept in The Good Divorce: How to End Your Marriage Without Ending Your Family, which came out this spring. The book offers guidance on how to maintain compassionate and respectful ties with a former spouse while also healing and moving forward.

According to Pew Research Center, a third of Americans who have ever been married had a first marriage that ended in divorce. For that reason, McNenny hopes her book becomes a must-read for couples before they get married. “The best time to talk about divorce is before you need to talk about it,” she says.

She shared insights from her book in a conversation with Life Kit. This interview has been edited for length and clarity.

The book is called The Good Divorce. What does that mean?

[For those with kids,] the good divorce is about protecting the future of the family while we dissolve the marriage.

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After the paperwork is done and the assets have been divided, can you and your co-parent sit on the same side of the bleachers during the basketball game? Can you still see yourselves as a partnership, with the ability to have thoughtful conversations about your kids?

For those who don’t have kids, [the good divorce is] about protecting your health — your mental health and your physical health. If we are doubling down with resentment and bitterness, all of that gets stored in the body and shows up in different ways. You deserve a pathway that’s less destructive.

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