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Dungeons & Dragons turns 50 this year. Here’s what the game has meant to you.
Vintage game modules from the role-playing game Dungeons & Dragons on display at The Dungeon Hobby Shop and Museum in Lake Geneva, which is located in the old offices of TSR, the company Gary Gygax created to sell the game.
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The first edition of tabletop role-playing game Dungeons & Dragons was released 50 years ago this year.
Since then, the game’s publisher, Wizards of the Coast, estimates that over 50 million people have played.
And it’s changed a lot since 1974. It was a pastime of nerds in the ‘80s and in part fueled the “Satanic Panic,” a time when concerned parents and news outlets linked the game teen killings and witchcraft.
It’s become more mainstream after featuring in Netflix’s hit series Stranger Things. It also made its way to the big screen multiple times since 2000, most recently with 2023’s Dungeons and Dragons: Honor Among Thieves.
During the pandemic, it became a popular way for friends to stay connected through virtual campaigns held on Zoom or on ‘virtual tabletop’ websites like Roll20. NBC reported that D&D product sales rose 33% in 2020.
That momentum continued after lockdown into 2023, as Baldur’s Gate 3, a video game based on D&D, exploded in popularity, reaching over half a million concurrent players at its peak in September of 2023. It went on to win Game of the Year.
Throughout the decades, it’s remained as a way for its most loyal players to socialize with friends and escape to faraway lands. A few weeks ago, we asked readers and listeners to tell us what role the game has played in their lives.
Nearly 1,000 of you shared your passion for the game. Here are five of your stories.
Memorializing loved ones
James Rubis and his wife Rena played D&D together throughout their relationship. When their daughter Gwen was born in 2003, they switched to online play to save time. As Gwen grew up, she became interested in playing with her parents. One day, Rena was playing an online game and encountered a Beholder – a floating, spherical monster with tentacles that have eyes on their ends. “My daughter saw that, and she went back to her room, and drew a picture of it and gave it to my wife – we still have it hanging on the wall in our spare room,” Rubis said.
A drawing of a beholder, a Dungeons & Dragons monster, done by James Rubis’ late daughter Gwen.
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The three of them started playing together as a family, in one-off games from Adventure in a Box, a monthly subscription service. “That was our monthly family time,” Rubis said. “We’d play 6 to 8 hours over the weekend once a month.”
In June of 2019, Gwen was killed in an accident while visiting family in California. Two weeks later, the monthly Dungeon in a Box arrived at Rubis’ house. “When I got that, it was like ‘Man, we’re not gonna get to do this again”, he said. He sent an email to the Dungeon in a Box customer service team thanking them for the memories their service allowed them. The co-founder responded, asking if they could honor Gwen’s memory in an upcoming campaign.
Gwen’s character was included in the final chapter of a long sequence of adventures, which was sent to Rubis’ home. “I started going through the book, I found it, it’s been like 6 – 8 months since she had passed away, and I lost it, I just started crying. Because everything they put in there was her story, and how she acted,” he said. “She would’ve loved it.”
Bridging generations
Michael McKenna was introduced to D&D as a kid, when his older brother let him play with his friends. He rediscovered the game in 2017 through Critical Role, a web series where professional voice-actors play D&D in real time. His child Julius wanted to play the game, so Michael put his experience as a high school English teacher to use and wrote a one-on-one campaign for the two of them – and catered to the needs of Julius, who is transgender and has been diagnosed with autism.
“Back then, he had a lot of problems expressing himself,” McKenna said, “but they really loved [D&D]”. The seemingly infinite set of directions to take the campaign started out overwhelming. Michael would ask Julius how his character Greta felt, or how she would react to a situation. “At first, Julius was like I don’t know, so we’d give options. Eventually, it became ‘this is what she’s doing’, and then it became ‘this is what I, Julius, am doing’,” McKenna recounted
“We caught him at 1:30 in the morning, with a flashlight in their bed, and their Chromebook, writing fiction about their D&D character,” McKenna recalled and laughed.“And it’s like you should go to bed responsibly, but it was so great that they were doing that.” At first, Julius kept the contents of the writing to himself, but he began to open up, eventually sharing the game with friends. “They’ve been more comfortable in situations and activities because of exploring things in D&D. They’re more assertive.”
Connecting cultures across borders
Khaver Siddiqi grew up in Karachi, Pakistan. The country has a Sunni Muslim majority, and making friends in other denominations was rare. Siddiqi began playing D&D in 1997, when a friend returned from a trip to England with a copy of the 2nd Edition box set. “We poured over the three books religiously every weekend,” Siddiqi told us “It was truly immersive for us as Pakistani teenagers, being transported to a place completely different from ours.”
Through his immersion in the world of D&D, he became curious about the real-world events and cultures that inspired the campaigns he played. “You go and you read and you realize, ‘Wow, other cultures have this fascinating history and mythology,’” he said. That curiosity then extended back to his view of his own culture, which he could study with a broader perspective. “It gave me a sense of purpose, an anchor in life to be like ‘This is my identity’.”
Siddiqi found community through the game, adding players from the Shia Muslim minority to his D&D party. Playing kept him and the rest of his friends grounded and connected through the country’s political strikes, government changes, and corruption. “There was chaos all around us at some point or another, whether it was political or otherwise. But every Friday night we would get together and play. It would drag into the early hours of Saturday morning or night,” he said.
Siddiqi hopes that the worlds in D&D’s mythology will look more like where he grew up and include facets of his culture. He recalls how important representation has been for his family, “Like Miss Marvel – I have a daughter who looks up to her because she’s like ‘oh yeah, she’s Pakistani-American,’ that’s what was missing for me in D&D when I was growing up. It was all these Euro-centric settings.”
Helping people discover themselves
Abby Morrione Matz, a transgender woman, first chose to play a female character during her first big D&D campaign in 2000. “At this point in my life, I was still trying to get a sense of who I was gender and sexuality-wise. I decided to use it as a platform to try out being a girl in front of my friends,” she said. “I really got to explore myself, as an elf, a wizard, but as a woman for the first time.”
Creating the character, she was inspired by the Lord of the Rings – a text that inspired the world of D&D. “I fell in love with Éowyn,” she described, “I was like ‘oh my god, she’s so cool, I want to play someone like her,’ but I also really liked Gandalf, so I did a wizard, I combined the two.”
Matz’ identity has been generally accepted throughout her D&D community. She found a community looking to start a group for women only. “I contacted [the leader] like ‘how do you feel about trans women?’ and she’s like ‘I’ll see you on Wednesday.’ We’ve built a humongous community since then, I’ve met some of my absolute best friends through this game.”
Platform for mental health and healing
In 2021, Stacia Seaman found her partner Reese in cardiac arrest in her home. “She wasn’t breathing,” Seaman said. “Her heart wasn’t beating. I had to do CPR on her while I waited for the EMTs to arrive.” She had suffered a reaction to an antibiotic and was left with mental and physical impairment due to lack of oxygen in her brain.
Stacia Seaman’s partner, Reese, pictured at the hospital after she was found in cardiac arrest at her home.
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As Reese slowly recovered, Seaman began slowly introducing new activities. “We started with games,” she said. “We played Go Fish, we played Rummy, we played dominoes, and then she was able to come home.” Then, they reintroduced the game both had played throughout their lives: D&D.
They began by building a D&D Lego set that came with a playable adventure. “[Reese] took one look at that and said ‘When are we going to start playing again?’” Seaman said, “I was thinking we’re not.” But she decided to slowly help Reese begin playing.
They created a character to play together, and Seaman reached out to the leader of a game for them to join, and described Reese’s situation. They welcomed the couple. “That’s one of the things I love about our gaming community: We get young kids, people with autism, and you just work with it,” Seaman said.
Seaman sees the game as benefitting Reese’s recovery.
Seaman credits Dungeons & Dragons for helping her partner Reese recover from a brain injury due to cardiac arrest.
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“It’s therapeutic,” she said. “It helps her with fine motor control because she’s rolling dice, it’s helping her cognitively because she’s in groups again. She’s just a happier person again. She’ll never be who she was, but she’s a lot more herself.”
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L.A.’s latest viral party spot is … Seafood City. Yes, you read that right
Under the glow of fluorescent lights at Seafood City market in North Hills, packages of pre-made adobo, salted shrimp fry and and dried anchovies glisten in meat coolers.
A DJ, dressed in a traditional barong, blasts a dance remix of Whitney Houston’s “I Wanna Dance with Somebody” as a crowd gathers to take a shot of fish sauce together.
“That was disgusting!” a man shouts into the mic, flashing a grimacing expression.
At Seafood City, DJs 1OAK, left, EVER ED-E and AYMO spin in barongs, the Philippines’ national formal shirt.
The smells of lechon and lumpia float through the air. Smiling children munch on halo-halo (a Philippine dessert made with ube ice cream, leche flan and shaved ice). Flags of the Philippines wave in the air as a man in UCLA Health scrubs hops into the center of an energetic dance circle. Employees shoot store coupons out of a money gun and toss bags of Leslie’s Clover Chips into the crowd. Fathers hold their children on their shoulders as a group of college students perform a Tinikling routine, a traditional Philippine dance in which performers step and hop over and between bamboo poles.
“This is so Filipino,” a woman says, in awe of the scene.
Sabria Joaquin, 26, of Los Angeles, left, and Kayla Covington, 19, of Rancho Cucamonga hit the dance floor at “Late Night Madness” in North Hills.
“I came here for groceries,” explains an elderly man, adding that he decided to stay for the party.
Seafood City, the largest Philippine grocery store chain in North America, typically closes at 9 p.m. But on certain Friday and Saturday nights, its produce or seafood aisle turns into a lively dance floor for “Late Night Madness.” On social media, where the gathering has exploded, it looks like a multigenerational nightclub that could use dimmer lighting. But for attendees who frequent the store, it’s more than that. It’s a space for them to celebrate their Filipino heritage through food, music and dance in a familiar setting.
“This is something that you would never expect to happen — it’s a grocery store,” says Renson Blanco, one of five DJs spinning that night. He grew up going to the store with his family. “My mom would [put] us all in the minivan and come here, and she’d let us run free,” he adds. “It’s comfortable here. It’s safe here.”
1. Rhianne Alimboyoguen, 23, of Los Angeles follows an employee through the produce section. 2. Allison Dove, 29, left, and Andrea Edoria, 33, both of Pasadena, enjoy Philippine street food. 3. Katie Nacino, 20, left, Daniel Adrayan, 21, and Sean Espiritu, 21, of the Filipino American Student Assn. at Cal State Northridge, practice tinikling, a traditional Philippine folk dance, in an aisle.
The first Seafood City location opened in 1989 in National City, a suburb of San Diego, which has a nearly 20% Asian population including a rich Filipino community. For its founders, the Go family, the mission was simple: to provide a market where Filipinos and people within the diaspora could comfortably speak their native language and buy familiar products. It’s since become a community anchor. Of the nearly 40 locations in Northern America, at least half of them are based in California, which has the highest population of Asian Americans in the United States.
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The first “Late Night Madness” event happened in September in Daly City, Seafood City’s newest location. The company wanted to launch a street food program at the store’s food hall in a fun and creative way.
The DJ played a selection of hip-hop, pop, soul and classic Pinoy records like VST & Company’s “Awitin Mo, Isasayaw Ko.” Hundreds of people showed up, and videos of people of all ages turning up in the popular supermarket spread like wildfire. So the company decided to continue hosting the event in October during Filipino American History Month and for the rest of the year. It’s since expanded to more locations around the country and in L.A., including Eagle Rock.
By 10 p.m. at the Seafood City in North Hills, at least 500 people are dancing in the produce section, next to rows of saba bananas, fresh taro leaves and bok choy. The lively crowd forms dance circles throughout the night, taking turns jumping in the center to show off their moves to songs like Earth, Wind & Fire’s “Let’s Groove,” “Nokia” by Drake and Justin Bieber’s “I Just Need Somebody to Love.” At one point, TikToker and artist Adamn Killa hops on the mic and says “If you a Filipino baddie, this is for you,” before doing his viral dance.
Among the Philippine street food offerings were pandesal sliders, lumpia-style nachos, lobster balls and various skewers.
A group of employees dance behind the counter as they serve hungry patrons who fill their trays with various Filipino street food including pandesal sliders (soft Philippine bread filled with adobo, lechon or longganisa) and Lumpia Overload (think nachos, but a bed of lumpia instead of tortilla chips), lobster balls and barbecue chicken skewers. (No alcohol is served.) Meanwhile, a few lone shoppers sprinkle into the store to get their weekly groceries as music blasts through the speakers.
First-generation Filipino American Andrea Edoria of Pasadena says “Late Night Madness” reminded her of the family parties she attended as a child in L.A. and in Manila, where her parents are from.
“Growing up as a child of immigrants, I was kind of self conscious about displaying too much of my culture,” she says between bites of spiral fried potato. She went to the Eagle Rock event with her mother last month as well. “So it kind of fed my inner child to see so many people celebrating this shared culture and experience that we each grew up [with].”
A multi-generational crowd is drawn to the dance floor. At center is Jade Cavan, 44, of Chatsworth.
Members of the Filipino American Student Assn. at Cal State Northridge perform a tinikling performance.
She adds, “I think it’s so important especially now at a time where our country is so divisive and culture is kind of being weaponized, I think it’s a beautiful reminder that we can come together and find something that unites us.”
About 10 minutes before midnight, the grocery store is still bustling with activity. A dance battle breaks out and people begin hyping up the young women. The DJ transitions into slower tracks like Beyoncé’s “Love on Top” and Mariah Carey’s “All I Want for Christmas is You.” The remaining folks sing along loudly as they walk toward the exit, smiles imprinted on their faces. Staff rush to clean up, then huddle together for group photos to memorialize the evening.
After the final song is played, employees rush to clean up the supermarket.
Patrick Bernardo, 34, of Van Nuys looks at the counter, where a man had been chopping lechon, before stepping outside.
“There’s barely anything left on that pig,” he says, pointing to it as proof that the night was a success.
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10 books to help you understand America as its 250th birthday approaches
With the nation’s big 2-5-0 coming up next year, NPR staff and critics recommended a lot of U.S.-focused titles for Books We Love, our annual year-end reading guide. Below you’ll find 10 favorites — perfect for the history buff on your gift list, or anyone looking to learn more about how the U.S got to where it is today. Read on, or check out our full 2025 list here.
American Grammar: Race, Education, and the Building of a Nation, by Jarvis R. Givens
In this deeply researched book, Harvard University professor of education and African American studies Jarvis R. Givens locates 1819 as a “crossroads” in the history of education in the United States. That year, Congress passed the Civilization Fund Act, providing funding for assimilative boarding schools for Native American children, and the governor of Virginia signed an anti-literacy law that made it a crime to teach enslaved people to read and write in schools. Amid the Trump administration’s effort to dismantle the Department of Education, Givens’ clear-eyed assessment of American education offers an opportunity to reflect on the long-standing relationships among race, power and schooling in the U.S. — Kristen Martin, book critic and author of The Sun Won’t Come Out Tomorrow: The Dark History of American Orphanhood
The Fate of the Day: The War for America, Fort Ticonderoga to Charleston, 1777-1780, by Rick Atkinson
I’ve been eagerly waiting years for this book! This is the second volume of Rick Atkinson’s trilogy on the American Revolution. Atkinson makes good use of letters and diaries. You feel like you’re in the middle of a battle, with all the sights, sounds and tragedy. Harrowing tales of hand-to-hand fighting, scalping and desperate evacuations. Fine detail: the waxed mustaches of the Hessian forces, the number of rum barrels distributed to weary and ill-clad troops, the dull thud of cannonballs smacking into ships. The stench of makeshift hospitals, with piles of limbs stacked outside. He carefully lays out how the battles began, and the successes, mistakes and missed opportunities – on both sides. — Tom Bowman, Pentagon reporter
History Matters, by David McCullough, Dorie McCullough Lawson (contributor), and Michael Hill (contributor)
If history can be a comfort read, this is it. David McCullough’s daughter Dorie McCullough Lawson and his longtime researcher, Michael Hill, assembled this posthumous collection over two years. Some of the historian’s old manuscripts and files were kept in a New England barn, so the occasional acorn and nest turned up along with the historian’s glorious observations about Americans and their history. The essay subjects are diverse – painter Thomas Eakins, Harriet Beecher Stowe in Paris, “A Book on Every Bed” (it will melt your heart). One theme emerges that you might find reassuring in its own way: There was no “simpler time.” — Shannon Rhoades, supervising senior editor, Weekend Edition
Last Seen: The Enduring Search by Formerly Enslaved People to Find Their Lost Families, by Judith Giesberg
In 2017, historian Judith Giesberg and her team of graduate student researchers launched a website called the “Last Seen” project. It now contains over 5,000 ads placed in newspapers by formerly enslaved people hoping to find family members separated by slavery. The ads span the 1830s to the 1920s and serve as portals “into the lived experience of slavery.” In Last Seen, her book drawn from that monumental website, Giesberg closely reads 10 of those ads placed in search of lost children, mothers, wives, siblings and comrades who served in the United States Colored Troops during the Civil War. — Maureen Corrigan, book critic, Fresh Air
Medicine River: A Story of Survival and the Legacy of Indian Boarding Schools, by Mary Annette Pember
Mary Annette Pember, a citizen of the Red Cliff Band of Wisconsin Ojibwe and a national correspondent at ICT News, grew up in the 1950s and 1960s as her mother’s “secret confessor,” listening to fairy-tale-like stories of the horrors she endured at an assimilative boarding school. In Medicine River, Pember traces the repercussions of her mother’s maltreatment, situating her family’s story within the United States’ systemic use of education to eradicate Native cultures. Through an approach that is “part journalistic research, part spiritual pilgrimage,” Pember provides a cuttingly personal account of the history of federally funded Indian boarding schools and a moving look at how Indigenous traditions and rituals can light the path for healing. — Kristen Martin, book critic and author of The Sun Won’t Come Out Tomorrow: The Dark History of American Orphanhood
Mother Emanuel: Two Centuries of Race, Resistance, and Forgiveness in One Charleston Church, by Kevin Sack
There was great symbolism when a white supremacist targeted Charleston’s Mother Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church, killing nine Black worshippers as a means to ignite a race war. As we learn in this deeply researched history, the congregation has been involved in the struggle for racial justice ever since it was founded in an “act of bold subversion” by enslaved and free African Americans in the 1800s. I am struck by the stories of clergy and members who fought against seemingly insurmountable odds at nearly every turn of history, truly living out their faith and believing in a better America. — Debbie Elliott, correspondent, National Desk
There Is No Place for Us: Working and Homeless in America, by Brian Goldstone
In this paradigm-shifting, immersive book, journalist and anthropologist Brian Goldstone follows five families in Atlanta who, despite working full time, struggle to stay housed amid gentrification, a lack of tenants’ rights and low wages. These families, all Black, fall into a “shadow realm” – they are not considered officially homeless by the federal government, but lack a fixed living place as they double up with friends and family, sleep in their cars, or pay exorbitant rates at extended-stay hotels. Woven throughout their stories is a trenchant exploration of how America’s disinvestment in public housing and relentless pursuit of free-market growth have fueled housing insecurity for poor working families. — Kristen Martin, book critic and author of The Sun Won’t Come Out Tomorrow: The Dark History of American Orphanhood
The War of Art: A History of Artists’ Protest In America, by Lauren O’Neill-Butler
This book is about the creative – if often short-lived and not always successful – ways in which artists have fought for social change in the U.S. since the 1960s. Personal favorite: a chapter on how the scrappy video collective, Top Value Television (TVTV), changed the public’s view of political conventions. With artist-led protests once again becoming a thing – from the thousands of actors and filmmakers who recently pledged to boycott the Israeli movie industry in response to the humanitarian crisis in Gaza, to the presence of a 12-foot statue depicting President Trump and the late sex offender Jeffrey Epstein frolicking on the National Mall, this book about the past provides a powerful frame for thinking about artist-led actions today. — Chloe Veltman, correspondent, Culture Desk
We the People: A History of the U.S. Constitution, by Jill Lepore
As the U.S. approaches the 250th anniversary of its founding, it feels like an appropriate time to reflect on where we’re at as a country and how we got here. We the People, by Jill Lepore, a history and law professor at Harvard University, helps satisfy that impulse. It tells the story of the U.S. Constitution, which is among the world’s oldest constitutions. Lepore focuses on battles over amendments, which were fought not just by politicians but by ordinary Americans. The founders designed the Constitution to be amended, but it has become much more difficult to do so over the years. As the Constitution becomes harder to amend, Lepore writes, the risk of political violence becomes greater. — Milton Guevara, producer, Morning Edition and Up First
Who Is Government?: The Untold Story of Public Service, by Michael Lewis (editor)
Thousands of unsung heroes in the government are making life better for Americans. But because of bureaucracies being made up of bureaucrats, we rarely hear those stories. This book showcases them. Like a coal-mining safety official who helped the U.S. reach zero mine-collapse deaths. Or the man who has led the National Cemetery Administration to the top of the American Customer Satisfaction Index. As the federal government is in its biggest shake-up in a generation, it’s worth learning about where the bright spots are. — Darian Woods, host, The Indicator from Planet Money
This is just a fraction of the 380+ titles we included in Books We Love this year. Click here to check out this year’s titles, or browse nearly 4,000 books from the last 13 years.
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