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Dungeons & Dragons turns 50 this year. Here’s what the game has meant to you.

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Dungeons & Dragons turns 50 this year. Here’s what the game has meant to you.

Vintage game modules from the role-playing game Dungeons & Dragons on display at The Dungeon Hobby Shop and Museum in Lake Geneva, which is located in the old offices of TSR, the company Gary Gygax created to sell the game.

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The first edition of tabletop role-playing game Dungeons & Dragons was released 50 years ago this year.

Since then, the game’s publisher, Wizards of the Coast, estimates that over 50 million people have played.

And it’s changed a lot since 1974. It was a pastime of nerds in the ‘80s and in part fueled the “Satanic Panic,” a time when concerned parents and news outlets linked the game teen killings and witchcraft.

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It’s become more mainstream after featuring in Netflix’s hit series Stranger Things. It also made its way to the big screen multiple times since 2000, most recently with 2023’s Dungeons and Dragons: Honor Among Thieves.

During the pandemic, it became a popular way for friends to stay connected through virtual campaigns held on Zoom or on ‘virtual tabletop’ websites like Roll20. NBC reported that D&D product sales rose 33% in 2020.

That momentum continued after lockdown into 2023, as Baldur’s Gate 3, a video game based on D&D, exploded in popularity, reaching over half a million concurrent players at its peak in September of 2023. It went on to win Game of the Year.

Throughout the decades, it’s remained as a way for its most loyal players to socialize with friends and escape to faraway lands. A few weeks ago, we asked readers and listeners to tell us what role the game has played in their lives.

Nearly 1,000 of you shared your passion for the game. Here are five of your stories.

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Memorializing loved ones

James Rubis and his wife Rena played D&D together throughout their relationship. When their daughter Gwen was born in 2003, they switched to online play to save time. As Gwen grew up, she became interested in playing with her parents. One day, Rena was playing an online game and encountered a Beholder – a floating, spherical monster with tentacles that have eyes on their ends. “My daughter saw that, and she went back to her room, and drew a picture of it and gave it to my wife – we still have it hanging on the wall in our spare room,” Rubis said.

A drawing of a beholder, a Dungeons & Dragons monster, done by James Rubis' late daughter Gwen.

A drawing of a beholder, a Dungeons & Dragons monster, done by James Rubis’ late daughter Gwen.

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The three of them started playing together as a family, in one-off games from Adventure in a Box, a monthly subscription service. “That was our monthly family time,” Rubis said. “We’d play 6 to 8 hours over the weekend once a month.”

In June of 2019, Gwen was killed in an accident while visiting family in California. Two weeks later, the monthly Dungeon in a Box arrived at Rubis’ house. “When I got that, it was like ‘Man, we’re not gonna get to do this again”, he said. He sent an email to the Dungeon in a Box customer service team thanking them for the memories their service allowed them. The co-founder responded, asking if they could honor Gwen’s memory in an upcoming campaign.

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Gwen’s character was included in the final chapter of a long sequence of adventures, which was sent to Rubis’ home. “I started going through the book, I found it, it’s been like 6 – 8 months since she had passed away, and I lost it, I just started crying. Because everything they put in there was her story, and how she acted,” he said. “She would’ve loved it.”

Bridging generations

Michael McKenna was introduced to D&D as a kid, when his older brother let him play with his friends. He rediscovered the game in 2017 through Critical Role, a web series where professional voice-actors play D&D in real time. His child Julius wanted to play the game, so Michael put his experience as a high school English teacher to use and wrote a one-on-one campaign for the two of them – and catered to the needs of Julius, who is transgender and has been diagnosed with autism.

“Back then, he had a lot of problems expressing himself,” McKenna said, “but they really loved [D&D]”. The seemingly infinite set of directions to take the campaign started out overwhelming. Michael would ask Julius how his character Greta felt, or how she would react to a situation. “At first, Julius was like I don’t know, so we’d give options. Eventually, it became ‘this is what she’s doing’, and then it became ‘this is what I, Julius, am doing’,” McKenna recounted

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“We caught him at 1:30 in the morning, with a flashlight in their bed, and their Chromebook, writing fiction about their D&D character,” McKenna recalled and laughed.“And it’s like you should go to bed responsibly, but it was so great that they were doing that.” At first, Julius kept the contents of the writing to himself, but he began to open up, eventually sharing the game with friends. “They’ve been more comfortable in situations and activities because of exploring things in D&D. They’re more assertive.”

Connecting cultures across borders 

Khaver Siddiqi grew up in Karachi, Pakistan. The country has a Sunni Muslim majority, and making friends in other denominations was rare. Siddiqi began playing D&D in 1997, when a friend returned from a trip to England with a copy of the 2nd Edition box set. “We poured over the three books religiously every weekend,” Siddiqi told us “It was truly immersive for us as Pakistani teenagers, being transported to a place completely different from ours.”

Through his immersion in the world of D&D, he became curious about the real-world events and cultures that inspired the campaigns he played. “You go and you read and you realize, ‘Wow, other cultures have this fascinating history and mythology,’” he said. That curiosity then extended back to his view of his own culture, which he could study with a broader perspective. “It gave me a sense of purpose, an anchor in life to be like ‘This is my identity’.”

Siddiqi found community through the game, adding players from the Shia Muslim minority to his D&D party. Playing kept him and the rest of his friends grounded and connected through the country’s political strikes, government changes, and corruption. “There was chaos all around us at some point or another, whether it was political or otherwise. But every Friday night we would get together and play. It would drag into the early hours of Saturday morning or night,” he said.

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Siddiqi hopes that the worlds in D&D’s mythology will look more like where he grew up and include facets of his culture. He recalls how important representation has been for his family, “Like Miss Marvel – I have a daughter who looks up to her because she’s like ‘oh yeah, she’s Pakistani-American,’ that’s what was missing for me in D&D when I was growing up. It was all these Euro-centric settings.”

Helping people discover themselves

Abby Morrione Matz, a transgender woman, first chose to play a female character during her first big D&D campaign in 2000. “At this point in my life, I was still trying to get a sense of who I was gender and sexuality-wise. I decided to use it as a platform to try out being a girl in front of my friends,” she said. “I really got to explore myself, as an elf, a wizard, but as a woman for the first time.”

Creating the character, she was inspired by the Lord of the Rings – a text that inspired the world of D&D. “I fell in love with Éowyn,” she described, “I was like ‘oh my god, she’s so cool, I want to play someone like her,’ but I also really liked Gandalf, so I did a wizard, I combined the two.”

Matz’ identity has been generally accepted throughout her D&D community. She found a community looking to start a group for women only. “I contacted [the leader] like ‘how do you feel about trans women?’ and she’s like ‘I’ll see you on Wednesday.’ We’ve built a humongous community since then, I’ve met some of my absolute best friends through this game.”

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Platform for mental health and healing

In 2021, Stacia Seaman found her partner Reese in cardiac arrest in her home. “She wasn’t breathing,” Seaman said. “Her heart wasn’t beating. I had to do CPR on her while I waited for the EMTs to arrive.” She had suffered a reaction to an antibiotic and was left with mental and physical impairment due to lack of oxygen in her brain.

Stacia Seaman's partner, Reese, pictured at the hospital after she was found in cardiac arrest at her home.

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As Reese slowly recovered, Seaman began slowly introducing new activities. “We started with games,” she said. “We played Go Fish, we played Rummy, we played dominoes, and then she was able to come home.” Then, they reintroduced the game both had played throughout their lives: D&D.

They began by building a D&D Lego set that came with a playable adventure. “[Reese] took one look at that and said ‘When are we going to start playing again?’” Seaman said, “I was thinking we’re not.” But she decided to slowly help Reese begin playing.

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They created a character to play together, and Seaman reached out to the leader of a game for them to join, and described Reese’s situation. They welcomed the couple. “That’s one of the things I love about our gaming community: We get young kids, people with autism, and you just work with it,” Seaman said.

Seaman sees the game as benefitting Reese’s recovery.

Seaman credits Dungeons & Dragons for helping her partner Reese recover from a brain injury due to cardiac arrest.

Seaman credits Dungeons & Dragons for helping her partner Reese recover from a brain injury due to cardiac arrest.

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“It’s therapeutic,” she said. “It helps her with fine motor control because she’s rolling dice, it’s helping her cognitively because she’s in groups again. She’s just a happier person again. She’ll never be who she was, but she’s a lot more herself.”

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The Italian fashion group behind Diesel and Maison Margiela is taking full ownership of the avant-garde haute couture house, acquiring the remaining 30 percent it didn’t already own. Founders Viktor Horsting and Rolf Snoeren remain creative directors.
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How having zero points in tennis — or ‘love’ — came to sound so sweet

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The scoreboard shows the results of the women’s singles final match between Iga Swiatek of Poland and Amanda Anisimova of the U.S. at the Wimbledon Tennis Championships in London, Saturday, July 12, 2025.

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Fifteen points in tennis? Nice. Thirty, 40 — even better. Advantage — that sounds good. “Love” — that also must be great, right? Well, not quite.

As the French Open rolls on and Serena Williams has announced her return to the sport, maybe you’ve been paying a little more attention to tennis. The sport’s scoring system is notably distinct, and can sometimes be hard to grasp for newcomers. But even tennis aficionados might not know why, or how, “love” became the unmistakable callout for zero points. For this installment of NPR’s Word of the Week, we’re exploring how a word that signifies trailing behind got such a sweet name.

“Love” comes from the heart — or an egg?

It’s hard to pinpoint when the first tennis ball went over the net. Tennis is a derivative of lots of other sports, such as “jeu de paume,” a handball game played in France, said JT Buzanga, the collections manager at the International Tennis Hall of Fame museum.

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But tennis became a patented, official sport in 1874, said Steve Flink, a journalist whose tennis coverage got him inducted into the International Tennis Hall of Fame. It has retained its unique, mysterious scoring system ever since.

“By and large, the original system has held up almost entirely,” Flink said.

The use of “love” goes back to the late 18th century, said Jesse Sheidlower, a lexicographer. But it was used earlier than that in card games such as whist and bridge. Before the term made its way to tennis, the sport favored plain old “nothing,” or “nil,” he said.

Why love in the first place, though? Historians don’t really know for sure, but there are a few theories.

The French could have something to do with it. Some historians believe “love” derives from “l’oeuf,” which means “the egg” in French. Because eggs are shaped like zeros, terms such as “goose egg” and “duck’s egg” have been used in other contexts to mean zero, Sheidlower said.

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It’s also possible English speakers mispronounced l’oeuf as “love.” But Sheidlower isn’t convinced that’s the answer.

“It’s the French equivalent of an English expression. But since that expression doesn’t appear in French, the French word wouldn’t have been used,” he said.

To be sure, France has had a lot of influence on tennis culture, Buzanga said. For example, “deuce” or a game tied at 40 points, comes from the French word for “two”: “deux.” But he prefers another prominent theory: that “love” comes from the idiom “for the love of the game.” Even if a player hasn’t scored, it doesn’t matter, because their heart is in it. It’s the theory Sheidlower said is the most plausible, because the idiom was used by the English before tennis was popularized.

Another variation of the “love of the game” theory is that the word could have come from the Dutch “lof,” or “honor” — or the Latin “amare,” meaning “to love,” Flink said.

But if tennis’ “love” doesn’t come from a French word, the theory at least has a French sensibility.

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“I think the ‘for the love of the game’ is kind of romantic,” Buzanga said.

“Love” probably isn’t going anywhere

Tennis used to be a sport of leisure. The style of play has changed a lot over the years; players are more athletic and competitive, for instance, Flink said. But the rules of the sport are more steadfast, he said.

“There’s this incredible, enduring respect for tradition in tennis,” he said. “Changes are not made easily.”

There has been one major change in modern history: the tie-break. Matches can go on and on because players have to score two consecutive points to break a deuce, or by two games to break a tied set. But the onset of television meant matches would have to get shorter if the sport wanted to capture a larger audience, Flink said.

Change even came for “love.” An alternative sprouted up in the 1970s, and is still used today: “bagel,” named for its zero shape, Sheidlower said. Novices may say “zero,” and insiders will understand what they mean, but they “will needle them about it,” Flink said.

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But “love” still prevails.

“People kind of like it,” Flink said. “It’s different. Why say zero when you can say love?”

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With Highway 1 open, Big Sur braces for its busiest summer in years

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On a 75-mile cliff-hugging stretch of highway in California, traffic is way up, despite soaring gas prices. And locals expect the busiest summer in years.

The road is Highway 1 in Big Sur, which reopened in January after three years of repair and reconstruction following a pair of landslides. Drivers can once again embark on the state’s most famous road trip, covering the 100 miles between Cambria to the south and Carmel to the north without leaving the two-lane coastal highway. And they’re heading out in big numbers.

Caltrans estimates that as of May, Big Sur restaurant and retailer guest counts are up 40% from last year, and that northbound traffic at Ragged Point, the southern gateway to Big Sur, has risen 900% year-over-year.

People pose for photos near Bixby Bridge. Monterey County’s Board of Supervisors voted to explore a 12-month ban on parking around the bridge.

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Safety cones prevent parking along Coast Road near the Bixby Bridge.

Safety cones prevent parking along Coast Road near the Bixby Bridge.

“Take your time,” said Kirk Gafill, co-owner of the popular Nepenthe restaurant and president of the Big Sur Chamber of Commerce, offering advice to travelers. “You’re going to be sharing the road with a number of people.”

As travelers rediscover the road, the cost of driving has been shooting skyward. California’s average gas price ($6.11 per gallon as of May 26) is up 26% from the year before. In early April, rates hit $9.99 at the isolated gas station in the Big Sur community of Gorda.

For spring and summer travelers, these numbers would seem to pose a stark question: Stay home and save money, or head for the coast because the road is finally open and it’s still cheaper than flying?

So far, the latter answer is winning big.

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Fog lingers off the coast of Highway 1.

Fog lingers off the coast of Highway 1.

“We are definitely seeing a huge uptick in our reservations,” said Megan Handy, assistant general manager at the upscale Treebones resort. She estimated that bookings are 30% or more ahead of last year, and rates are unchanged since then. But “it’s still not feeling super crowded, which is nice. Everything still feels kind of calm.”

But added traffic has raised some anxiety. On May 19, Monterey County’s Board of Supervisors voted to explore a 12-month ban on parking at Bixby Bridge, one of the region’s top photo spots.

Over the years, the number of cars parking near the bridge — often illegally, sometimes impeding emergency vehicles — has risen. The proposed parking moratorium won’t take effect until the supervisors discuss it further.

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Busy as things are, several business owners pointed out that many international travelers have not yet returned — perhaps because most make their plans more than six months ahead, perhaps because of global politics, perhaps a little of each.

The biggest challenge for businesses during this resurgence? “Restaffing and retaining,” said Handy at Treetops.

At Nepenthe, Gafill said his business has seen a 45% boost in guest volume since the road’s reopening. Gafill said he would have expected a 35% pickup, “simply by virtue of reopening the highway.” The additional 10%, he said, might be “all that pent-up demand,” aided by “a very beautiful and very dry winter,” followed by a mild spring.

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A lunch crowd dines at popular restaurant Nepenthe.

A lunch crowd dines at popular restaurant Nepenthe.

Another possible factor: Nobody can be sure how long the road will remain open.

To cope with the influx of people, Gafill said, “everybody is trying to recruit and retain their existing staff.”

At the Ragged Point Inn, where rates dropped as low as $149 nightly last fall, rates are back over $200 and staffers are suggesting that customers book at least six months ahead. The inn has reopened its snack bar for the first time since early 2023, and management is investing in capital upgrades and staging live music on weekends throughout the summer.

Business “is up over 100%,” said Diane Ramey, whose family owns the inn. “I know not all of our neighbors are having the same lift, but everybody is doing better.”

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Traffic approaching Bixby Bridge.

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A visitor poses in an oversized chair at Big Sur River Inn.

A visitor poses in an oversized chair at Big Sur River Inn.

Even at the New Camaldoli Hermitage, a Benedictine monastery above Lucia, the road’s reopening and coming summer season have made a difference. Bookings are up an estimated 30% at the hermitage, which rent rooms and cottages (for two nights or more) to visitors who agree to its requirement of silence.

Big Sur business owners advise visitors to travel on weekdays for less traffic and the best hotel rates, and to get on the road as early as possible.

Since its opening in 1937, the highway has been vulnerable to landslides and shifting ground, operating on a longstanding cycle of landslide, closure, repair, reopening and then another landslide, or sometimes a fire. The U.S. Geological Survey has identified the Big Sur coastline as one of the most landslide-prone areas in the western United States. The 2023-2026 closure was the longest in the highway’s history.

Over time, road crews have used increasingly sophisticated strategies. In the most recent efforts, Caltrans said, it used drones to help survey the slopes and remotely operated bulldozers and excavators to reduce risks to workers.

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During the closure, no traffic was allowed on 6.8-mile span from just north of Lucia until about a mile south of the Esalen Institute. Drivers detoured inland by way of U.S. 101.

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