Expensive Miss Manners: What’s the considering lately on who in a pair indicators a greeting card?
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Perspective | Miss Manners: Should couples sign greeting cards for each other?

I’ve to confess that I used to be just a little shocked that everyone did not signal their very own names at the moment. Like, they have been all sitting proper there, collectively.
An apart: After I was married, my husband would by no means signal a card I used to be sending, however pitched a match if I refused to signal a card he was sending. I used to be confused by that.
You’ll forgive Miss Manners if she pitches her personal match over the impersonal nature of greeting playing cards within the first place. Including eight signatures to it feels much more insulting — as if a treaty is being signed, not a want for a swift restoration.
The right factor to do is to write down the phrases out — and Miss Manners is sorry to let you know, however just one particular person can do this. Nevertheless, you possibly can add: “Tito provides his want that you just get higher quickly.”
Sure, one particular person within the couple goes to get off straightforward. So Miss Manners suggests that you just take turns or commerce doing this for one more job.
Expensive Miss Manners: My spouse and I labored diligently to encourage good manners in our boys as they have been rising up, and now that they’re adults, we really feel typically happy with their progress — aside from one new factor.
They’ve each begun to eat terribly quick, and never simply when grabbing a noon sandwich whereas working remotely. Even in good eating places, we watch them tear into their meals, ending as my spouse and I are simply beginning. They are not messy, simply quick.
We have now talked about this discreetly to each of them, explaining how their velocity can depart others feeling uneasy, whereas depriving the desk of welcome dialog. However they do not appear to see it as an actual downside, and all the time neglect after we once more share a meal.
Is there one thing good-natured, however nonetheless “impactful,” that my spouse or I can say when this happens? (Clearly solely when it’s simply the 4 of us; we wouldn’t embarrass them in entrance of different visitors.)
Mother and father, even of grownup youngsters, are nonetheless entitled to precise concern over well being and manners. However the former could also be simpler for these youngsters to … ahem … digest.
“Wow. You boys have to be hungry, however I’m anxious that along with your speedy consuming, you would possibly choke. Please attempt to decelerate in order that we will all benefit from the meal and dialog collectively.” If this isn’t efficient, Miss Manners feels sure that consuming like this in entrance of potential romantic companions might show extra so.
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Video Chilling new details in killings of Israeli Embassy staffers in Washington D.C.

Chilling new details in killings of Israeli Embassy staffers in Washington D.C.
Chilling new details were released in a federal criminal complaint about the deadly shooting outside the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington D.C. that took the lives of two Israeli Embassy staffers.
May 23, 2025
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China’s space ambitions ‘forcing’ Washington’s Golden Dome strategy: commander

General Stephen Whiting told a public forum in Chicago on Thursday that the ambitious defence system known as the Golden Dome was a response to how China had spent the past three decades preparing to target American space infrastructure.
“They have built capabilities to hold at risk our space systems,” he said. “Golden Dome is part of making sure we’re ready.”
Whiting said Beijing’s strategy included deploying weapons in orbit, developing jamming systems and fielding kinetic anti-satellite missiles – all with the explicit aim of blinding and disrupting US military operations during a crisis.
“China has ambitions to be the world’s greatest space power,” he said. “And they are backing that up with action.”
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Here's what we know about the 2 Israeli embassy staffers killed in Washington, D.C.

A man draped in the Israeli flag, bearing a cross and the name “Jesus” at its center, gestures as Metropolitan Police officers secure the area outside the Capital Jewish Museum in Washington, D.C. Two Israeli embassy staffers were shot dead late Wednesday by a gunman who allegedly shouted “free Palestine.”
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WASHINGTON — Two staff members from the Israeli embassy — a young couple about to be engaged — were shot and killed Wednesday night outside an event at a Jewish museum by a man who allegedly chanted “free, free Palestine” after he was detained by security officers.

Many U.S. and Israeli officials identified the attacks as the latest in a marked rise of antisemitic incidents in recent years — and more notably, as Israel ramps up its offensive in Gaza, where the risk of famine looms for a population ground down by a months-long blockade.
Israel’s foreign ministry identified the two victims of Wednesday night’s attack as Yaron Lischinsky, 30, and Sarah Lynn Milgrim, 26.
Speaking to reporters, Israel’s ambassador to the U.S. Yechiel Leiter said the pair was about to become engaged. “The young man purchased a ring this week with the intention of proposing to his girlfriend next week in Jerusalem,” he said.
Here’s what we know so far.
What happened?
Shortly after 9 p.m. ET, as an event for young diplomats hosted by the American Jewish Committee wrapped up at the Capital Jewish Museum in downtown D.C., a man was observed “pacing back and forth” outside the building, Metropolitan Police Chief Pamela Smith told reporters.

The man approached a group of four people, then opened fire, Smith said. Two people were killed — a man and woman who were a couple, officials said. Afterward, the shooter entered the museum and was detained by event security, Smith said.
“The suspect chanted ‘free, free Palestine’ while in custody,” Smith added. Police said they had tentatively identified the suspect as Elias Rodriguez, 31, of Chicago. He did not have any prior known encounters with police, Smith said. It was not immediately clear whether Rodriguez had legal representation.
Who were the victims?
26-year-old Sarah Milgrim was an American born in Kansas, and 30-year-old Yaron Lischinsky was originally from Germany but immigrated to Israel when he was 16, according to his LinkedIn profile. He held citizenship in both countries, according to both the Israeli and German governments.

This undated handout photo provided by the embassy of Israel in the U.S. shows staff members of the Israeli Embassy in Washington, Israeli citizen Yaron Lischinsky, right, and U.S. citizen Sarah Milgrim, who were shot and killed while leaving an event at a Jewish museum in Washington.
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“Sarah and Yaron were stolen from us,” said Ted Deutch, chief executive of the AJC, the organization behind the event the two were attending at the museum. “Moments before they were murdered, they were smiling, laughing, and enjoying an event with colleagues and friends. We are in shock and heartbroken as we attempt to process this immense tragedy.”
Milgrim worked in the embassy’s public diplomacy department, and Lischinsky was a researcher focused on the Middle East and North Africa region. On his LinkedIn profile, Lischinsky wrote that he was an “advocate for interfaith dialogue and intercultural understanding” between Israel and its Arab neighbors.

Milgrim grew up in Overland Park, a suburb of Kansas City, and was a member of a reform synagogue there, B’nai Jehudah. In a statement, the temple called Milgrim “a devoted Zionist and a radiant presence in every space she entered.”
“She stood for something larger than herself and she paid the ultimate price for it,” the statement said, calling for unity in the community in response to the attack.
Kansas City mayor Quinton Lucas posted on X about the attack, saying “People in our area know the pain of religious-based violence. We pray for its end.” A Jewish community center in Overland Park was the site of a 2014 shooting that killed three people and was later deemed a hate crime by law enforcement.
In a post on X, Shoval Ronen said that he taught Lischinsky at the Argaman Institute in Jerusalem, saying he was “a Christian, a great lover of Israel, who immigrated to Israel, served in the army, and decided to dedicate his life to the State of Israel and Zionism.”
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s office said he spoke with the parents of both victims, saying that he “shares in their great grief along with the entire people of Israel.”
Who is the suspect?
The suspect has been identified as Elias Rodriguez of Chicago, Ill.
He was taken into custody shortly after the shooting and was being interviewed early Thursday by D.C.’s Metropolitan Police Department as well as the FBI.
Rodriguez was born and raised in Chicago and resided in the northwest neighborhood of Albany Park, in an apartment on a quiet, leafy residential side street.
The windows of an apartment believed to be his were covered with political signs facing the street below. Some signs were for local politicians and causes, but several others addressed Israel’s war in Gaza against Hamas. One called for a ceasefire, while another demanded “Free Palestine!” in handwritten letters and a third said “Justice for Wadea,” referring to six-year-old Wadea Al-Fayoume, a Palestinian-American who was stabbed to death in his home by his family’s landlord shortly after the Oct. 7, 2023 Hamas-led attack on southern Israel.
Rodriguez was an employee of the American Osteopathic Association. In a statement, the organization said it was “shocked and saddened” that an employee had been arrested as a suspect in the attack, and said it was fully cooperating with the investigation.
Steve Jensen, with the FBI’s Washington field office, called the shooting “a heinous crime.” The FBI is investigating “ties to potential terrorism or motivation based on a bias-based crime or a hate crime,” he said.
NPR’s Odette Yousef contributed to this report from Chicago, and NPR’s Jennifer Ludden contributed from Washington. Shir David contributed from Tel Aviv, Israel.
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