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‘I Started a Conversation With a Woman Sitting to My Right’

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‘I Started a Conversation With a Woman Sitting to My Right’

Dear Diary:

My husband and I got tickets for “Take Me Out” when it first played in New York in the early 2000s.

We had seats close to the stage, and I started a conversation with a woman sitting to my right who had a thick Texas accent.

She and a male colleague were on a business trip and had gotten last-minute tickets that were unfortunately not next to each other.

She and I discussed the play. With a twinkle in her eye, she said her colleague had given her the seat closest to the stage so she would have a better view during the nude scenes. They planned to switch at intermission.

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At the start of the first nude shower scene, I felt a poke in my ribs. I turned to look at my new friend, who was nodding at me with a big grin.

She did not switch seats at intermission.

— Elka Grisham


Dear Diary:

After a long day of navigating trade-show booths at the Javits Center, I made my way to the 7 train. When one pulled in, there was an empty seat in the car I got on. I sank into it gratefully.

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Next to me was a gray-haired woman who was resting her hands on a large canvas bag with its contents peeking out. She looked as worn out as I felt.

Suddenly, a memory surfaced: A friend once confided her frustration that after a long day, all she really wanted from her boyfriend was a simple acknowledgment: “How was your day, dear?”

I smiled, and then turned to the woman.

“How was your day?” I asked.

She offered a small, tired smile.

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“It’s been long,” she said. “I can’t wait to get home, have a quiet dinner and put my feet up.”

I nodded.

We didn’t exchange any other words. The energy for conversation wasn’t there.

As the train slowed to a stop at Queensboro Plaza, the woman stood, got ready to exit, then paused and turned to meet my eyes.

“Thank you for asking,” she said before disappearing into the crowd.

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— Carol Bradbury


Dear Diary:

Back home from Boston for the holidays, Dean and Dylan and I watched “Anora” at the Angelika because we were the last ones still on winter break.

We walked uptown afterward, laughing about the movie and about the guy next to us who had laughed though the whole movie.

I was going to turn off at 23rd Street to go to the PATH station. Dylan and Dean were going to keep walking to 33rd Street to catch the Q train.

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We walked a few blocks backpedaling as the cold wind blew hard at our faces.

“I’ll see you guys again for spring break,” I said as I got ready to turn.

“I think I’ll be on a spring break trip with some school friends,” Dylan said.

“All right,” I said. “Well, some time else then. Love you bro, see ya.”

“No, bro,” Dean said. “Keep walking to 33rd. There’s a PATH station there too.”

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And so we kept walking uptown, the Empire State Building in the distance. At 33rd, we said our goodbyes, and I ran down the steps to the PATH station as I had all through high school.

I caught the last train home.

— Ryan Rizvi


Dear Diary:

On a recent cold day, a friend and I met for lunch at a restaurant on the Upper West Side.

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When we came outside, we had the light to cross Amsterdam Avenue, so cross we did, onto what turned out to be the sunny side of the street.

As we crossed, we started to sing “On the Sunny Side of the Street.” We were in the middle of the song when we got to the corner and then waited before crossing 79th Street.

“May I?” asked a woman who was standing there.

I nodded, and she joined right in.

— Dorothy Cantor

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Dear Diary:

The M57 bus had just pulled away from my stop as I got there.

Might the driver let me on as he was merging into the line of traffic, just a few yards from the curb? No. Had he even seen me, looking plaintive and hopeful? Apparently not.

I decided to go for it, to catch this same bus at the next stop, at 57th Street and Eighth Avenue.

Weighed down by a backpack, a shoulder bag and a shopping bag full of groceries, I ran as fast as I could, dodging pedestrians as I went.

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The bus beat me to the stop, but because a few other people were waiting to get on, I made it before it pulled out.

Huffing and puffing up the steps, I fished out my senior MetroCard.

The driver, without making eye contact, covered the farebox with his hand.

“You’ve worked hard enough today,” he said.

— Elinor Lipman

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Our graphics reporter Lazaro Gamio breaks down the second-by-second analysis leading up to the deadly plane crash at LaGuardia Airport.

By Lazaro Gamio, Coleman Lowndes and James Surdam

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Video: LaGuardia Crash Survivors Recount Ordeal

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“I just thought, please don’t let this be how my life ends. I’m not ready to die. When we landed, it was a very rough landing. Like we landed and the plane jolted back up, and that caught a lot of passengers off guard. Everyone kind of like, ‘What’s going on?’ And then you hear the pilot braking, and it was like just this grinding sound.” “Everybody was shocked everywhere. There was — there’s people screaming. The plane just veered off course. I mean, it was just — it all happened so quickly, but it all felt just like a very dire situation.” “Oh, God. Oh my goodness. That’s crazy.” “People were bleeding from their nose, cuts and scrapes. I saw black eyes, all different types of facial contusions, bruising and bleeding. I was sitting by the exit door, and I opened the exit door. There was a sense of camaraderie amongst the survivors. Nobody was pushing, shoving, ‘I got to get out first.’” “The plane actually tipped back as we were leaving, as people were getting off the plane. That was when the nose kind of fell off the front of the plane, and the whole plane kind of went up to what we’d seen in all the pictures of the plane’s nose in the air.” And there was no slide when we got out. A lot of us were jumping off of the airplane wing to get down. And when I got out and I saw that the front of the plane, how destroyed it was, I just was — I was in shock.” “It was only really when I was outside of the plane, looking back at the plane, and I had seen what had happened to the cockpit, and then just like this sense of dread overcame me, where I was just like, wow, a lot of people might have just been pretty badly hurt.” “I’m grateful to the pilots who were so courageous and brave, and acted swiftly, and they saved our lives. And if it wasn’t for them, I wouldn’t be able to come home to my family. I’m forever indebted to them. They’re my heroes.”

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Video: Passenger Jet and Fire Truck Crash at LaGuardia Airport, Leaving 2 Dead

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The two pilots of a Air Canada Express jet were killed after a collision with a Port Authority fire truck on Sunday at LaGuardia Airport in New York.

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March 23, 2026

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