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Out of the Ballroom and Into the Tree House
To get to their Jan. 11 wedding ceremony, Nicolette Celiceo and William Kilgore had to slip through an ancient cavernous opening, and once inside, squeeze through a thin tunnel that led to a larger space.
“Our officiant was off to one side, our guests were on the other,” said Ms. Celiceo, 37, an account executive for a fitness benefits provider who lives in Springfield, Mo.
The couple’s wedding venue was Bridal Cave, a mile-long limestone cavity under Thunder Mountain in the Lake of the Ozarks region. Since 1949, more than 4,500 couples have gotten married there, according to Lindsey Webster-Dillon, the property’s events and weddings manager.
Ms. Celiceo found the location while researching unusual wedding places. “Every nook and crevice had carvings and marking,” she said. “It smelled wet and earthy, and was peaceful and cocooning. You felt like you were in a different world, even though the rest of the world is happening above you.”
For their nuptials, many brides and grooms have been opting for unusual settings that speak to their love of nature and adventure, from cavernous sites to tree houses and nautical backdrops.
“Covid taught couples to ask for anything they wanted,” said Lindsey Shaktman, the director of planning and operations for Mavinhouse Events, a wedding planning firm based in Ipswich, Mass.
Bridal Cave offers couples a 15-minute ceremony for up to 40 guests for $1,195; the package includes an officiant, photographer and flowers. (At an extra cost couples can also have their reception at the property’s nearby Thunder Mountain Park Event Center.)
Tim Wood and Lauren McKenzie of Pittsburgh were married Aug. 10, 2024, at the Mohicans Treehouse Resort and Wedding Venue in a forest in Glenmont, Ohio.
“This wasn’t a lame, cookie-cutter hotel for $80,000,” said Mr. Wood, 32, who is currently in a doctorate program at the University of Pittsburgh. While touring one hotel, he said, he realized he had been there for a work conference. “That wasn’t the memory or experience we wanted,” he said.
Mr. Wood said he and Ms. McKenzie, a dietitian, “felt like we were in ‘The Hobbit,’” only with a cigar bar and dance floor, among their wedding amenities, and without cell service. “Lauren and I woke up to birds chirping,” he said. “I took an outdoor shower and felt the stillness of the world and watched this beautiful forest come alive.”
The 77-acre property they were at includes 10 tree houses and several overnight cabins and cottages for up to 95 guests, along with honeymoon suites. Prices start at $5,000. As is the case for many of these unconventional experiences, catering and other traditional offerings other than tables and chairs are not included.
The Mohicans Treehouse Resort hosts around 90 weddings a year, according to Laura Mooney, who owns the property with her husband, Kevin Mooney.
For a more intimate treehouse experience, there’s the Emerald Forest Treehouse in Redmond, Wash., which hosts up to 35 guests and is available from May through September. The owner, Scott Harlan, says he gets 150 requests a year for the $4,000 experience, which includes tables, chairs and decorations.
Two types of couples seem to gravitate toward these experiences, said Michelle Miles, the founder of the Sustainable Wedding Alliance, a British company that specializes in sustainable weddings. “Those who want Instagrammable, jaw-dropping backdrop weddings, which is why elopements are on the rise, and those wanting nature as their décor,” she said.
Nature-centric locations offer a mindful, social-sustainability perspective and leave less of a carbon footprint, Ms. Miles added.
Cindy McPherson Frantz, a professor of psychology and environmental studies at Oberlin College, understands the desire to be in a natural element. “Natural settings are good for fostering connection with the setting, and between people,” Dr. Frantz said. “Natural settings create a sense of awe, and awe is an elevating emotion that lifts you up and expands you.”
Two years ago, Ms. Shaktman of Mavinhouse Events planned a wedding ceremony for a couple in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean, off the coast of Salem, Mass. Their 220 guests witnessed the ceremony while free-floating from whale-watching vessels.
“The groom’s family, and the bride and her family, pulled up to the designated spot in their own boats,” Ms. Shaktman said. “Then the groom, who drove his family boat, picked up the bride, and that boat doubled as their altar.” Once vows were exchanged, the vessels that had circled the couple’s boat headed to Pickering Wharf Marina in Salem. Guests were later treated to a pizza party on the beach.
Weddings like these, Ms. Shaktman said, bring a heightened level of awareness and are “a once-in-a-lifetime experience” that everyone can be part of at the same time.
“There are no walls,” she said. “The Atlantic Ocean was their design; the Boston skyline was their backdrop.”
But, compared with more traditional wedding venues in ballrooms and hotels, such experiences can present some logistical challenges.
“A hotel is a one-stop shop — it’s easy, convenient and traditional,” said Carley Tryon, a founder of C&E Event Productions, a wedding events company in Westchester County, N.Y.
Two summers ago, Ms. Tryon organized a wedding ceremony and cocktail hour on Pollepel Island in the Hudson River Valley. On the island sits Bannerman Castle, an abandoned military warehouse that dates back to 1901.
The property, open May through October, has no electricity nor water, and is accessible only via ferries owned by Pollepel Island, which leave from docks at the train station in Beacon, N.Y. (Three locations on the small island are available for events: the warehouse; a courtyard, which has a garden and views of the river; and an indoor space, that once contained the owner’s home. Ceremonies for up to 40 guests costs $4,000 for weekdays and $5,000 for weekends.)
“We had to bring everything over ourselves by a boat,” Ms. Tryon said. Still, she added, “it was a beautiful event, in a primitive location, which was very different from anything we had planned before.”
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‘Predator: Badlands’ makes the monster the good guy : Pop Culture Happy Hour
Elle Fanning and Dimitrius Schuster-Koloamatangi in Predator: Badlands.
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Predator: Badlands is the latest film about an alien race that hunts things using all sorts of space-gadgets. It’s told from the Predator’s perspective. He’s an outcast sent to a hostile planet to hunt down a deadly monster to prove his worth to his people – with Elle Fanning joining as an unlikely ally. It’s from the same team that made Prey. And both Predator movies are much better than they had any right to be.
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L.A. Times Concierge: Help me plan a family day out that won’t bore my teen boys!
We live in Pasadena with our two teen boys, 14 and 17. We moved from the East Coast four years ago and are still getting to know all the interesting neighborhoods, foods and quirks of Los Angeles. We spent a lot of time in Little Tokyo as we love all things Japanese, but we need to explore more and see other neighborhoods that we don’t even know about. We’re interested in art, but not really art museums because that’s too boring for teen boys. We love food as an anchor for a visit to a neighborhood. Can you give me some suggestions? — Margaret Hunt
Looking for things to do in L.A.? Ask us your questions and our expert guides will share highly specific recommendations.
Here’s what we suggest:
I don’t have kids yet, but every time my siblings visit me from Las Vegas, I’m reminded of how difficult it is to keep teenagers entertained (and off their phones). But it sounds like your boys have some cool interests. We’ve put together a few mini itineraries in different neighborhoods. You won’t be able to cover them all in one day, so choose your own adventure.
If your teens are into the art form of comic books, check out Revenge Of, not too far from Pasadena in Glassell Park. “The shop, with its black-and-white tile floors, murals and neon lighting, is full of comic books, graphic novels and collectibles,” Times entertainment and features editor Brittany Levine Beckman tells me. “There are also pinball machines and arcade games, which may be as fun for you as they are for your kids.” Next door is sister shop And Destroy, which offers coffee and inventive beverages (the November menu includes a cornbread matcha concoction and sweet potato latte), and hosts a board game day on Sundays. Up the street is Bub and Grandma’s diner (the tuna made our food critic’s list of great sandwiches in L.A. a few years ago). But be warned, it gets packed on the weekends, so prepare to wait for a table or order to go.
For a Westside option, given that your family is already acquainted with Little Tokyo, explore L.A.’s other Japanese enclave: Sawtelle. Kick off your adventure at Odd One Out, an award-winning boba tea shop, then take a quick walk to the Giant Robot store, which is often cited as the birthplace of Asian pop culture products. Your kids will love browsing the shelves. In a Times guide to Sawtelle, Grace Xue writes that it’s packed with “quirky-cool art pieces, blind boxes, plushies, home goods, toys, anime merch and gifts that will delight the young and young at heart.” Across the street is Giant Robot’s sister gallery, GR2. The snug art hub is anything but boring — this month’s group exhibit features dinosaur art. By now, you’ve probably worked up an appetite and the noodles at Wadaya are hearty enough to satisfy the stomachs of teen boys. Times contributor Tiffany Tse recommends its mazemen: “the rich, sauce-slicked, brothless cousin of the classic noodle bowl.”
A neighborhood that should be at the top of every East Coaster’s list is Los Feliz, one of the most walkable areas in L.A. Start your day off at Ululani’s Hawaiian Shaved Ice, a Maui-born sweet shop that sells cloud-like shaved ice that is so soft it practically melts in your mouth. There are fun flavors like cotton candy and pickled mango. Once you’ve secured your treats, head to Barnsdall Art Park, where you can relax on on a luscious lawn and take in a stunning view of the city. Don’t forget to bring a picnic blanket, and for bonus points, bring a card game to play. I did this with my siblings and we had so much fun. You can also tour the century-old, Frank Lloyd Wright-designed Hollyhock House from Thursday to Saturday — advance tickets are recommended. Have a quick dinner at smash burger hot spot Goldburger and be sure to order the curly fries. Finally, wrap up your evening at Vista, a glorious single-screen movie theater owned by Quentin Tarantino.
Now for some rapid-fire picks across L.A.: There’s Koreatown, where you can take your pick of delicious Korean BBQ joints, then go bowling at Shatto 39 Lanes, virtual golfing at W Screen Golf or sing your heart out at karaoke. My colleague, food writer Stephanie Breijo, also suggests checking out Santa Monica’s pier, Camera Obscura Art Lab, “some of the L.A.’s best pastries at Petitgrain Boulangerie” and having dinner at Southeast Asian hot spot Cobi’s. For an off-the-beaten-path art option, there’s Phantasma Gloria, one Echo Park man’s massive front-yard sculpture. It’s made of rebar and colorful glass bottles, and shines differently depending on the light that day. You can see the art from the street on a drive-by or schedule a free tour by texting the creator, Randlett King Lawrence, in advance at (213) 278-1508. He says he has some “recent spectacular expansions.” Finally, Downtown L.A. is overflowing with things to do such as exploring the treasured Last Bookstore, eating food from around the globe at Grand Central Market, taking a ride along the iconic Angels Flight railway and learning about music history at the Grammy Museum.
Living in L.A. is realizing how expansive it is. Each time I feel like I’ve figured this city out, something new and exciting pops up, sending me down a road of discovery. So as you and your family explore the sprawling city, I hope you find more and more reasons to love it as much as I do.
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Sunday Puzzle: State postal abbreviations
On-air challenge
Every answer is a familiar two-word phrase or name in which the first two letters of each word are the same state postal abbreviation. (Ex. Colorado — everyday ailment there’s no cure for — COmmon COld)
1. Florida — sudden rush of water down a streambed
2. Wisconsin — aid in seeing the road when it rains
3. Louisiana — deep-blue gem with a Latin name
4. California — Christmas tree decoration you can eat
5. Pennsylvania — tricky thing to learn to do with a car
6. Indiana — something a stockbroker is not allowed to share
7. Alabama — star of “M*A*S*H”
8. Massachusetts — female disciple who anointed the feet of Jesus
9. Maine — tribal doctors
10. Delaware — event in which vehicles go around a track crashing into each other
11. Georgia — part of the dashboard that measures from full to empty
12. Washington — city in Washington
Last week’s challenge
Last week’s challenge came from Andrew Chaikin, of San Francisco. Name a popular automobile import — make + model. Add the letter V and anagram the result. You’ll name a popular ethnic food. What names are these?
Challenge answer
Kia Soul + V = Souvlaki
Winner
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This week’s challenge
Here’s a funny challenge from Mark Scott, of Seattle. Think of a famous actress — first and last names. Interchange the first and last letters of those names. That is, move the first letter of the first name to the start of the last name, and the first letter of the last name to the start of the first name. Say the result out loud, and you’ll get some advice on fermenting milk. What is it?
If you know the answer to the challenge, submit it below by Thursday, November 13 at 3 p.m. ET. Listeners whose answers are selected win a chance to play the on-air puzzle.
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