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Out of the Ballroom and Into the Tree House

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To get to their Jan. 11 wedding ceremony, Nicolette Celiceo and William Kilgore had to slip through an ancient cavernous opening, and once inside, squeeze through a thin tunnel that led to a larger space.

“Our officiant was off to one side, our guests were on the other,” said Ms. Celiceo, 37, an account executive for a fitness benefits provider who lives in Springfield, Mo.

The couple’s wedding venue was Bridal Cave, a mile-long limestone cavity under Thunder Mountain in the Lake of the Ozarks region. Since 1949, more than 4,500 couples have gotten married there, according to Lindsey Webster-Dillon, the property’s events and weddings manager.

Ms. Celiceo found the location while researching unusual wedding places. “Every nook and crevice had carvings and marking,” she said. “It smelled wet and earthy, and was peaceful and cocooning. You felt like you were in a different world, even though the rest of the world is happening above you.”

For their nuptials, many brides and grooms have been opting for unusual settings that speak to their love of nature and adventure, from cavernous sites to tree houses and nautical backdrops.

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“Covid taught couples to ask for anything they wanted,” said Lindsey Shaktman, the director of planning and operations for Mavinhouse Events, a wedding planning firm based in Ipswich, Mass.

Bridal Cave offers couples a 15-minute ceremony for up to 40 guests for $1,195; the package includes an officiant, photographer and flowers. (At an extra cost couples can also have their reception at the property’s nearby Thunder Mountain Park Event Center.)

Tim Wood and Lauren McKenzie of Pittsburgh were married Aug. 10, 2024, at the Mohicans Treehouse Resort and Wedding Venue in a forest in Glenmont, Ohio.

“This wasn’t a lame, cookie-cutter hotel for $80,000,” said Mr. Wood, 32, who is currently in a doctorate program at the University of Pittsburgh. While touring one hotel, he said, he realized he had been there for a work conference. “That wasn’t the memory or experience we wanted,” he said.

Mr. Wood said he and Ms. McKenzie, a dietitian, “felt like we were in ‘The Hobbit,’” only with a cigar bar and dance floor, among their wedding amenities, and without cell service. “Lauren and I woke up to birds chirping,” he said. “I took an outdoor shower and felt the stillness of the world and watched this beautiful forest come alive.”

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The 77-acre property they were at includes 10 tree houses and several overnight cabins and cottages for up to 95 guests, along with honeymoon suites. Prices start at $5,000. As is the case for many of these unconventional experiences, catering and other traditional offerings other than tables and chairs are not included.

The Mohicans Treehouse Resort hosts around 90 weddings a year, according to Laura Mooney, who owns the property with her husband, Kevin Mooney.

For a more intimate treehouse experience, there’s the Emerald Forest Treehouse in Redmond, Wash., which hosts up to 35 guests and is available from May through September. The owner, Scott Harlan, says he gets 150 requests a year for the $4,000 experience, which includes tables, chairs and decorations.

Two types of couples seem to gravitate toward these experiences, said Michelle Miles, the founder of the Sustainable Wedding Alliance, a British company that specializes in sustainable weddings. “Those who want Instagrammable, jaw-dropping backdrop weddings, which is why elopements are on the rise, and those wanting nature as their décor,” she said.

Nature-centric locations offer a mindful, social-sustainability perspective and leave less of a carbon footprint, Ms. Miles added.

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Cindy McPherson Frantz, a professor of psychology and environmental studies at Oberlin College, understands the desire to be in a natural element. “Natural settings are good for fostering connection with the setting, and between people,” Dr. Frantz said. “Natural settings create a sense of awe, and awe is an elevating emotion that lifts you up and expands you.”

Two years ago, Ms. Shaktman of Mavinhouse Events planned a wedding ceremony for a couple in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean, off the coast of Salem, Mass. Their 220 guests witnessed the ceremony while free-floating from whale-watching vessels.

“The groom’s family, and the bride and her family, pulled up to the designated spot in their own boats,” Ms. Shaktman said. “Then the groom, who drove his family boat, picked up the bride, and that boat doubled as their altar.” Once vows were exchanged, the vessels that had circled the couple’s boat headed to Pickering Wharf Marina in Salem. Guests were later treated to a pizza party on the beach.

Weddings like these, Ms. Shaktman said, bring a heightened level of awareness and are “a once-in-a-lifetime experience” that everyone can be part of at the same time.

“There are no walls,” she said. “The Atlantic Ocean was their design; the Boston skyline was their backdrop.”

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But, compared with more traditional wedding venues in ballrooms and hotels, such experiences can present some logistical challenges.

“A hotel is a one-stop shop — it’s easy, convenient and traditional,” said Carley Tryon, a founder of C&E Event Productions, a wedding events company in Westchester County, N.Y.

Two summers ago, Ms. Tryon organized a wedding ceremony and cocktail hour on Pollepel Island in the Hudson River Valley. On the island sits Bannerman Castle, an abandoned military warehouse that dates back to 1901.

The property, open May through October, has no electricity nor water, and is accessible only via ferries owned by Pollepel Island, which leave from docks at the train station in Beacon, N.Y. (Three locations on the small island are available for events: the warehouse; a courtyard, which has a garden and views of the river; and an indoor space, that once contained the owner’s home. Ceremonies for up to 40 guests costs $4,000 for weekdays and $5,000 for weekends.)

“We had to bring everything over ourselves by a boat,” Ms. Tryon said. Still, she added, “it was a beautiful event, in a primitive location, which was very different from anything we had planned before.”

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Mundane, magic, maybe both — a new book explores ‘The Writer’s Room’

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There’s a three-story house in Baltimore that looks a bit imposing. You walk up the stone steps before even getting up to the porch, and then you enter the door and you’re greeted with a glass case of literary awards. It’s The Clifton House, formerly home of Lucille Clifton.

The National Book Award-winning poet lived there with her husband, Fred, starting in 1967 until the bank foreclosed on the house in 1980. Clifton’s daughter, Sidney Clifton, has since revived the house and turned it into a cultural hub, hosting artists, readings, workshops and more. But even during a February visit, in the mid-afternoon with no organized events on, the house feels full.

The corner of Lucille Clifton's bedroom, where she would wake up and write in the mornings

The corner of Lucille Clifton’s bedroom, where she would wake up and write in the mornings

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“There’s a presence here,” Clifton House Executive Director Joël Díaz told me. “There’s a presence here that sits at attention.”

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Sometimes, rooms where famous writers worked can be places of ineffable magic. Other times, they can just be rooms.

The Writer’s Room: The Hidden Worlds That Shape the Books We Love

Princeton University Press

Katie da Cunha Lewin is the author of the new book, The Writer’s Room: The Hidden Worlds That Shape the Books We Love, which explores the appeal of these rooms. Lewin is a big Virginia Woolf fan, and the very first place Lewin visited working on the book was Monk’s House — Woolf’s summer home in Sussex, England. On the way there, there were dreams of seeing Woolf’s desk, of retracing Woolf’s steps and imagining what her creative process would feel like. It turned out to be a bit of a disappointment for Lewin — everything interesting was behind glass, she said. Still, in the book Lewin writes about how she took a picture of the room and saved it on her phone, going back to check it and re-check it, “in the hope it would allow me some of its magic.”

Let’s be real, writing is a little boring. Unlike a band on fire in the recording studio, or a painter possessed in their studio, the visual image of a writer sitting at a desk click-clacking away at a keyboard or scribbling on a piece of paper isn’t particularly exciting. And yet, the myth of the writer’s room continues to enrapture us. You can head to Massachusetts to see where Louisa May Alcott wrote Little Women. Or go down to Florida to visit the home of Zora Neale Hurston. Or book a stay at the Scott & Zelda Fitzgerald Museum in Alabama, where the famous couple lived for a time. But what, exactly, is the draw?

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Lewin said in an interview that whenever she was at a book event or an author reading, an audience question about the writer’s writing space came up. And yes, some of this is basic fan-driven curiosity. But also “it started to occur to me that it was a central mystery about writing, as if writing is a magic thing that just happens rather than actually labor,” she said.

In a lot of ways, the book is a debunking of the myths we’re presented about writers in their rooms. She writes about the types of writers who couldn’t lock themselves in an office for hours on end, and instead had to find moments in-between to work on their art. She covers the writers who make a big show of their rooms, as a way to seem more writerly. She writes about writers who have had their homes and rooms preserved, versus the ones whose rooms have been lost to time and new real estate developments. The central argument of the book is that there is no magic formula to writing — that there is no daily to-do list to follow, no just-right office chair to buy in order to become a writer. You just have to write.

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In 1982, Jean Muenchrath was injured in a mountaineering accident and on the brink of death when a stranger and his family went out of their way to save her life.

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In early May 1982, Jean Muenchrath and her boyfriend set out on a mountaineering trip in the Sierra Nevada, a mountain range in California. They had done many backcountry trips in the area before, so the terrain was somewhat familiar to both of them. But after they reached one of the summits, a violent storm swept in. It began to snow heavily, and soon the pair was engulfed in a blizzard, with thunder and lightning reverberating around them.

“Getting struck and killed by lightning was a real possibility since we were the highest thing around for miles and lightning was striking all around us,” Muenchrath said.

To reach safer ground, they decided to abandon their plan of taking a trail back. Instead, using their ice axes, they climbed down the face of the mountain through steep and icy snow chutes.

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They were both skilled at this type of descent, but at one particularly difficult part of the route, Muenchrath slipped and tumbled over 100 feet down the rocky mountain face. She barely survived the fall and suffered life-threatening injuries.

This was before cellular or satellite phones, so calling for help wasn’t an option. The couple was forced to hike through deep snow back to the trailhead. Once they arrived, Muenchrath collapsed in the parking lot. It had been five days since she’d fallen.

 ”My clothes were bloody. I had multiple fractures in my spine and pelvis, a head injury and gangrene from a deep wound,” Muenchrath said.

Not long after they reached the trailhead parking lot, a car pulled in. A man was driving, with his wife in the passenger seat and their baby in the back. As soon as the man saw Muenchrath’s condition, he ran over to help.

 ”He gently stroked my head, and he held my face [and] reassured me by saying something like, ‘You’re going to be OK now. I’ll be right back to get you,’” Muenchrath remembered.

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For the first time in days, her panic began to lift.

“My unsung hero gave me hope that I’d reach a hospital and I’d survive. He took away my fears.”

Within a few minutes, the man had unpacked his car. His wife agreed to stay back in the parking lot with their baby in order to make room for Muenchrath, her boyfriend and their backpacks.

The man drove them to a nearby town so that the couple could get medical treatment.

“I remember looking into the eyes of my unsung hero as he carried me into the emergency room in Lone Pine, California. I was so weak, I couldn’t find the words to express the gratitude I felt in my heart.”

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The gratitude she felt that day only grew. Now, nearly 45 years later, she still thinks about the man and his family.

 ”He gave me the gift of allowing me to live my life and my dreams,” Muenchrath said.

At some point along the way, the man gave Muenchrath his contact information. But in the chaos of the day, she lost it and has never been able to find him.

 ”If I knew where my unsung hero was today, I would fly across the country to meet him again. I’d hug him, buy him a meal and tell him how much he continues to mean to me by saving my life. Wherever you are, I say thank you from the depths of my being.”

My Unsung Hero is also a podcast — new episodes are released every Tuesday. To share the story of your unsung hero with the Hidden Brain team, record a voice memo on your phone and send it to myunsunghero@hiddenbrain.org.

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