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Starting Sunday, actor Jason Ritter will be back onscreen as attorney Julian Markston in Season 2 of the CBS legal drama “Matlock,” loosely inspired by the 1980s and ’90s Andy Griffith show of the same name. He still gets a thrill when he thinks about the cast he gets to work with, which includes Skye P. Marshall, Beau Bridges and Oscar winner Kathy Bates.

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In Sunday Funday, L.A. people give us a play-by-play of their ideal Sunday around town. Find ideas and inspiration on where to go, what to eat and how to enjoy life on the weekends.

“You almost, but not quite ever, forget that you’re working with an absolute acting legend,” Ritter says. “Kathy is so sweet and so kind and such a team player and collaborator that it helps to sort of stop that voice in your head from going like ‘It’s Kathy Bates!’ every time it’s a scene with her.”

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The 45-year-old L.A. native, part of an entertainment family that includes his late father, sitcom legend John Ritter, didn’t offer up many details about the new season but did say viewers can expect more on-the-edge-of-your-seat episodes. (If you need a refresher of last season, episodes of “Matlock” are available on Paramount+.)

“It has the same pace and fun mystery as the first season, but now my character’s secrets have been revealed,” says Ritter, who regularly posts about the show and his fellow actors on Instagram along with humorous bits.

At home with actor-wife Melanie Lynskey, whom he married in 2020, and their 6-year-old daughter, there aren’t any great mysteries that need to be solved, but there is work to do before bed.

“When midnight starts,” Ritter says, “we’re probably finishing up the jobs, as we call them — you know, the dishes and the chores and cleaning everything up, which is a lovely habit that I’ve gotten into from [my wife]. I always used to just wake up to the nightmare from the night before and I’ve learned to really appreciate waking up to a clean area.”

After lights out and some sleep, his ideal Sunday picks up hours later and is filled with plenty of coffee, some miniature golf or a nature walk and more.

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This interview has been lightly edited for length and clarity.

7 a.m.: A different kind of call time
I will wake up usually at 7. If our daughter is going to school, then I have to wake up at 7 so I can start making her lunch and getting stuff ready. But if she’s having a bit of a sleep-in [on the weekend], then I still have to wake up at 7 to make sure everything times out. And then I’ll make her little lunch and her breakfast. While she’s eating breakfast, she usually gets to watch an episode of something. That’s my prime scrolling through social media time.

9:30 a.m.: Time for more coffee
We would all pile in the car, and our first stop would probably be a coffee stop. We are a big coffee family — not our daughter. We always make a pot of coffee in the morning. And even though we’ve had several cups already, we’ll stop at Go Get Em Tiger, one of our favorite coffee places in L.A. We’ve come to know a lot of the baristas there, so we get to chat about life and everything. And then we’ll be back on the road.

10 a.m.: Miniature golf or a ‘beauty’ walk
Our daughter and I will go to Castle Park, which is the miniature golf place in Sherman Oaks. My daughter and I have really bonded over miniature golf, and that’s sort of our little thing. Any miniature golf course has a real special place in my heart, but Castle Park is the place that I went to as a kid. The course is basically the same. It’s just so fun to watch [our daughter] get better and better at golf; even though, recently she’s become obsessed with par.

If mini golf didn’t take up so much time, my daughter and I like to go on these little beauty walks where she gets on her scooter and puts her helmet on. We just walk around the neighborhood, and she can’t pick any flowers. But we can pick up little flowers or leaves off the ground. So anything that she sees that’s beautiful, she picks up, and we make a little bouquet. And what’s so amazing about it for me is to see what she finds beautiful on those walks.

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1 p.m.: A chopped salad and fries for lunch
There’s a place called Angelini Osteria that has a salad that I really enjoy. It’s called the Alimentari Chopped Salad. It’s got avocado and chicken and bacon and currants and almonds. It comes with two dressings, but I usually just do the sort of lemony kind of oily dressing. And it is just so delicious. I am the only meat eater in my family. At some point, maybe my conscience will get the better of me, and I’ll switch over to their diet. Angelini also has very good french fries. When we’re on the road and the lunch that I’ve packed hasn’t been enough for [my daughter], french fries is one of those safe things that if we’re in a bind, we can pick them up from almost anywhere.

2 p.m.: Time for the Museum of Jurassic Technology
Another favorite thing that I would do is go to the Museum of Jurassic Technology. I just love that place. It’s so fascinating. It’s one of those places that if someone’s coming in from out of town, I love showing them. I love taking them there without telling them anything about it and just watch them kind of explore. And it’s just such a mysterious, magical place.

5 p.m.: Fresh escape room fun
Then I would see if I could get a bunch of my friends together, and we would go do an escape room somewhere in town. It’s just one of my favorite things to do, and they’re all over the place in Los Angeles. I would go to maybe 60out or Maze Rooms or one that I had never heard of. There’s an app called Morty that helps find escape rooms and keep track of the ones you did if your memory is poor like mine. If I can’t convince my friends to do another one right after in the same location, then we would be done by 6. It would be time to go back home and make our daughter’s dinner and get her through the entire dinner-bath time-bedtime phase.

9 p.m.: Dinner and “The Bachelor” before bed
My favorite thing is when Melanie and I order in from a place called Bulan Thai Vegetarian Kitchen. It has these incredibly delicious hot wings. Our daughter will be asleep in the other room. And we get to eat some delicious Thai food and watch some silly show or some serious show.

If our daughter has gone to sleep around 8, this will usually be maybe 9, 9:30 depending on if I’ve fallen asleep in the bed next door. This is also why sometimes it gets so late and bleeds into the next day. Because by the time we get to have our alone fun, dinner and watching time, it’s 9:30, 10, and some of those “Bachelor” episodes are two hours long.

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And yes, I promise that somewhere in this day, I have showered. [Laughs] That is another very important element of our day. It’s the one that can go by the wayside. But we always try to check in with each other. Like, “Have you showered today? Have you showered? OK, you go and then I’ll go.”

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Panda Bao Li eats bamboo at the Smithsonian National Zoo in Washington, D.C., on Jan. 28. The zoo, as well as other Smithsonian facilities, will be closed beginning on Oct. 12 as the government shutdown continues.

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As the government shutdown drags on, Smithsonian museums, the National Zoo and other facilities are the latest to be caught in the fray, with the federal trust announcing the closure of all of its sites beginning on Sunday.

“We will update our operating status as soon as the situation is resolved,” the Smithsonian announced on social media. “We do not plan to update social media other than to inform you of changes to our operating status.”

The closure affects all of the Smithsonian’s 21 museums, its research centers and the National Zoo.

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As worried social media users expressed concern about the well-being of the animals at the zoo, the Smithsonian assured its supporters that the animals would still be cared for during the zoo’s closure.

“All the animals at the Zoo and at the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute in Front Royal, Virginia, will continue to be fed and cared for,” the Smithsonian said. “A shutdown will not affect our commitment to the safety of our staff and standard of excellence in animal care.”

The zoo’s beloved animal cams, however, are considered nonessential and will be turned off for the remainder of the shutdown.

The Smithsonian receives about 62% of its funding from the federal government, which helps support free admission to all of its D.C. museums and the National Zoo.

Its facilities had been able to keep their doors open for the first 11 days of the shutdown by relying on prior-year funds, but those coffers have since run dry.

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The Smithsonian is just the most recent entity to find itself ensnared in the ongoing dispute on government funding.

Some national parks around the country have also been forced to close as staff have been deemed nonessential and sent home until Congress can reach an agreement on government funding.

On Friday, thousands of federal employees across agencies including the Department of Health and Human Services and the Department of Education began receiving reduction in force notices, informing them that they would be laid off.

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Joey Arias has plenty of art left to give: ‘I want to live to be at least 200 years’

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Joey Arias hitting the high notes at Barrel House Cafe and Bar in Washington, D.C.

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At 76, cabaret artist Joey Arias’ resume reads like the movie Big Fish. The tales are almost too tall to believe, but he’s really done them all.

He’s sold clothes to Spanish royalty, sung backup for David Bowie, performed at the 2015 centennial celebration for jazz legend Billie Holiday, and even played ringmaster for Cirque Du Soleil’s first ever adult show.

But perhaps this creature of New York is best experienced in a small, swanky, and dimly lit club – the kind of place where you can cozy up to strangers in the safety of relative darkness, while leaving your problems at the door.

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A place like Northwest Washington, D.C.’s, Barrel House Cafe and Bar, where on a recent night, the petite Joey Arias slinked up to the stage on black leather high heels, sporting jet black bangs, deep red lipstick and a corset pulled so tight it’s a wonder he can even breathe.

“I’m so happy. So honored to be here in D.C. Are you comfortable? Are you feeling sexy?” Arias asks with his trademark smirk.

It’s best to go into your first Joey Arias show sans expectations. It’s musical, sure, but it’s not a concert. He’s surely sultry and serious, but he’s also a comedian. And be mindful of your aura, as Arias is likely to read your mood with a single look.

“Improv is kind of my strongest point with my career. So I start collecting ideas and think, you know, ‘what should I talk about?’” Arias says. “And then when the show starts, the audience kind of tells me what they want.”

During a show, Arias will often consult a giant songbook he calls his bible. With long, black press-on nails, he flips through it like a list of spells. It includes years of handwritten notes, some classic rock covers, original music, and jazz standards he can sing so eerily perfect that they’ll have you thinking Billie Holiday was reincarnated as a septuagenarian gay man.

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Arias prefers to approach the daylight incognito, in an all-black tracksuit, sipping a six-espresso-shot venti coffee and wearing large black sunglasses reminiscent of Italian actor Marcello Mastroianni’s character in Federico Fellini’s 8 1/2. 

When asked where his penchant for entertaining started, Arias replies with a chuckle.

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“I think it first started when I landed on this planet. I tell people, I wasn’t born here. I was brought here,” Arias says.

Arias landed in Fayetteville, N.C., and grew up in California.

“I think I was creating and reinventing myself constantly, even as a child. It kind of worried my parents because … even at the age of like nine years old, I was dying my hair and tweezing my eyebrows and doing weird things to myself,” he says.

Arias calls himself a shapeshifter.

“People always think: ‘oh I know Joey.’ No, you don’t know Joey,” Arias explains.

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If there’s anyone who DOES know Joey Arias, it’s Kim Hastreiter, founder of Paper Magazine. She met Arias while a student at CalArts in Southern California.

“We grew up together… he was like my bestie,” Hastreiter says. In her recent memoir, Stuff: A New York Life of Cultural Chaos, she devotes an entire chapter to Arias.

“Joey is everything to me – my brother, my husband, my sister, my mother, and my soulmate,” Hastreiter writes in the book, “And I know, I am that for him.”

When she graduated from CalArts in the mid-1970s, Hastreiter says Arias offered to help move her to New York City. She wasn’t allowed to sublease her apartment, so she had to switch places with the new tenant quickly.

“[Joey] helped me move out in the middle of the night through the window, literally. We packed my dragon wagon. It was crazy,” Hastreiter tells NPR.

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The dragon wagon was Hastreiter’s old pickup truck emblazoned with a long, colorful dragon along the side.

“We made this whole itinerary, and we went to every thrift shop between L.A. and New York,” she says.

Hastreiter and Arias arrived in New York in 1976. They shared an apartment, both got jobs, and went dancing every night. She says her soulmate Joey Arias just never looked back.

He started working as a sales associate at the Italian fashion brand Fiorucci’s flagship store in the United States. And Arias quickly became a draw, acting as a living mannequin who once spoofed patron Andy Warhol and played fashion consultant for the then-Queen of Spain.

“It was sexy with the way it was lit. It was beautiful and all the Italians were always there to market,” Arias says. “And it was the beginning of my redefining and reinventing who I was [again].”

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Arias eventually made friends with German avant-garde opera singer Klaus Nomi and he began performing with him, even joining Nomi on stage with David Bowie as the musical guests for Saturday Night Live.

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Arias often performs a song he wrote in tribute to Nomi, who died of AIDS in 1983 at age 39.

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“Klaus had pneumonia… and I went to the hospital and I had to put a paper jumpsuit on. I went in there and he was looking at me and he said ‘I can’t see you.’ I took everything off and I hugged him, kissed him on the cheeks. The doctors were so mad [at me],” Arias says.

AIDS created a tragic duality for Arias’ contemporaries of this particular time and scene: a burgeoning underground movement of artists and performers populated by blindingly colorful lights that were being snuffed out as quickly as they came to life.

Arias recalls losing collaborators, friends and even lovers of his, like Chuck Smith.

“We were supposed to grow old together. But he’s always guided me spiritually. I know that,” Arias says.

Shortly after Nomi died, Arias remembers Smith rolling over in bed one night and whispering simply “I have it.” He died a short time later.

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“At that point, that was the sentence. If you said you had it, you had less than a year to live,” He adds. Arias says he doesn’t really know how he made it through that period alive.

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In the following years, he continued performing throughout New York City clubs before getting the role of a lifetime: Emcee for Cirque du Soleil’s first adult-themed show at the New York, New York Casino in Las Vegas.

Arias also wrote songs for the show. It was called Zumanity.

The show was raunchy, outrageous and sexy. The perfect vehicle for a performer like Arias. But it was also grueling.

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After years of doing ten shows a week, Arias says the show’s doctor gave him prescription pain killers. He became addicted and his then-husband asked him for a divorce.

“It seemed like things were falling apart,” Arias says ” I started to drink and before I knew it, I found myself drinking white wine 24 hours a day.”

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One night, Kim Hastreiter visited her friend during his show at Joe’s Pub where she immediately knew something was wrong: Arias, always eager to perform, was getting other people to sing his songs.

“He was slurring, he was completely [intoxicated] on stage. He got other people to sing for him. It was like a mess,” Hastreiter says.

Hastreiter then invited her friend to a tea party – a small get-together with a whole bunch of their old friends.

It was an intervention. She helped raise funds to send Arias to rehab, and now Arias has been sober for almost eight years.

“Kim came through and she said I’m not gonna let my best friend, this incredible artist, die on my watch,” Arias reflected.

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Joey Arias has resurrected and reinvented his career and his persona endless times over his more than seven decades on earth.

And he says he’s nowhere close to being finished.

“I want to live to be at least 200 years. … There’s so much I want to do. I feel like I’m just starting over again, even right now. I feel like I’m a messenger of the universe,” Arias says.

And — he has a message he wants to share with NPR listeners and readers:

“Remember how beautiful you are. Look in the mirror. And if you don’t feel inspired, seriously, go to the park, touch a tree, look at the sky,” because whatever’s happening in the world, Arias says, mother nature knows how to take care of herself.

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“And come to my shows, because I will take care of you too,” Arias says.

Joe Arias’ next set of shows are at Washington, D.C.’s Barrel House Cafe and Bar on Oct. 17 and 18.

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