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Meet the woman who helped me fall back in love with exercise

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Meet the woman who helped me fall back in love with exercise

A few years back I was falling out of love with exercise. I was tired of being told I’d earned my dinner, and fed up with hearing that with no pain, there was no gain.

I was all set to hang up my gym towel for good, when I booked into a spin class hosted by Ashley Newburn, Ride Instructor at Walthamstow studio East of Eden. Far from yelling at us to pedal faster and harder, she encouraged us to do what felt right for us, to go at our own pace and appreciate our beautiful bodies for carrying us through the class.

“I have tried to create the kind of movement space I wish I’d had access to when I was younger,” Ashley says of her sessions. “I truly believe that supportive movement spaces can be life-changing. If I’d had access to radical anti-diet classes as a teen/young adult my relationship with my body could have been completely different.

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Ashley Newburn helped me fall back in love with fitness

“I’ve had countless riders tell me how their relationship with movement has completely changed through coming to my classes and that has become my ‘why’ when it comes to the importance of creating a space where riders can feel safe and supported.”

After my first class with Ashley, I floated out, already planning when I could next join her on a bike. The joy I felt in her class reminded me of the feeling of childhood hobbies before exercise became a means to making my body smaller, which took all the fun out of it.

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Ashley got me thinking of how in adulthood, exercise is often seen as a chore rather than a pleasure. This is a feeling many of us can relate to, with new stats from Asics showing that adults have lost touch with moving for how it feels, instead becoming obsessed with exercising to change how we look, with 63% of adults admitting the main reason they exercise is for physical gain.

This is a far cry from childhood, when we hopped, skipped and jumped our way through the day, with 77% of children asked saying the key reason they exercise is for fun. “We never ask kids to exercise,” says psychologist Dr. Linda Papadopoulos. “They’re just happy to do it because it’s never about the weight they need to lose.

“As adults, working out becomes a chore and that is a barrier to enjoying exercise,” she continues.

Ashley is working hard to help us reframe exercise as a joy and a privilege, explaining: “I discovered that it is possible for movement to be about loving our bodies, not hating them.

READ: This empowering workout reframed my attitude to exercise 

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“I only want to do things that made me feel good in my body, and only move in ways that I enjoy and that led me to focus almost exclusively on spin. There are certain classes and movements (I’m looking at you, burpees) that I absolutely hate, they feel awful in my body, and I can now see are not compulsory or required for me to move my body.”

See inside Ashley’s classes

Falling back in love with movement isn’t an overnight thing, Ashley explains: “It’s taken me a long time to get to a place where movement is about feeling and not aesthetics and I feel it’s important to emphasise this; it’s absolutely not something that happened overnight.

“It’s relentless and hard work to resist the fatphobia and body shame which bombard us from all angles all day, every day. Choosing to move my body with no agenda other than to feel good is a radical act and when I have a difficult body image day, I try to remind myself of that.”

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The spin studio at East of Eden where Ashley works her magic

How to find joy in exercise again

“I know joy can feel out of reach for many,” Ashley states. “Lots of folks may choose to focus on neutrality as a starting point. But I think it’s important to acknowledge that joy is possible.

1. Work out how a class makes you feel

” I’d encourage people to start by giving some thought to what classes/styles of movement they enjoy. Some helpful questions to start thinking about this might be: 

-When I book into class do I feel excited?

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-How does the movement/speed/resistance feel in my body?

-Can I name any pleasant/pleasurable sensations in my body whilst it’s moving in this way?

 RELATED: Why exercise can make you feel like yourself again – no mum guilt allowed 

2. Stop tracking your workouts

“I would suggest taking a break from tracking workouts (or maybe even ditching the tracker altogether!) to really allow space to focus on feeling.

“Getting out of our heads and into our bodies takes presence and an ability to listen to, and act on, what our bodies have to tell us. Since ditching my tracker I have never looked back!”

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3. Read anti-diet books

“It can be helpful to seek out anti-diet books to read and accounts to follow on socials, whilst also unfollowing any accounts that make you feel bad about yourself or share problematic ‘fitspo’ content. 

Some books I have found helpful are: The Body is not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor; The Good Body by Eve Ensler; Happy Fat by Sofie Hagen; Pleasure Activism by Adrienne Marie Brown; Hunger by Roxane Gay; and You Have the Right to Remain Fat by Virgie Tovar – but there are SO many and this is very much a non-exhaustive list. The Maintenance Phase podcast is also brilliant!

4.  Change your mindset

Dr. Linda explains that the language we use around exercise can make a difference. “The words we use really matter,” she says. “Rather than saying ‘I have to work out,’ say, ‘I get to work out,’ and think about all the things you stand to gain from exercise, rather than what you might lose.”

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How the 3-3-3 Rule Helped Me Stick to an Exercise Routine

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If you’ve ever started a new workout routine with the best intentions only to find yourself skipping sessions by week two, you’re not alone. I’m the type to get trapped in the same cycle of burnout, where I go hard for a couple of weeks, feel exhausted, feel guilty, and repeat. For me, what finally broke that cycle wasn’t a new gym membership or a fancy fitness app, but a simple scheduling hack: the “3-3-3 rule.” I’d seen this rule applied it to general productivity, and all the same principles can apply to your fitness habits, too. Here’s how you can use the 3-3-3 rules to structure your workouts and create a habit that sticks.

What is the 3-3-3 rule?

The 3-3-3 “rule” (or “method,” or “gentle suggestion”) is essentially a weekly workout framework built around three types of movement, each done three times per week:

  • Three strength training sessions. This includes lifting weights, bodyweight circuits, resistance bands, whatever builds muscle and challenges your body.

  • Three cardio sessions. This includes running, cycling, swimming, jump rope, a dance class—what counts as “cardio” is up for debate, but here, I think of it as anything that gets your heart pumping.

  • Three active recovery days. This includes light walking, yoga, stretching, foam rolling, and so on.

And yes, I realize this math adds up to nine intentional days of movement across a seven-day week. Here’s the thing: You do double duty some days, or skip workouts here and there, or adjust to a nine-day cycle, because the point isn’t rigid scheduling. The point is rhythm over a strict structure. For me, the 3-3-3 rule provides a sense of momentum that’s flexible enough to fit into real life, but consistent enough to actually stick to.

Why the 3-3-3 rule works for me

Before I get into how the 3-3-3 rule helped me specifically, let’s talk about why so many workout plans fall apart in the first place. I believe most of them make two classic mistakes. The first is doing too much, too soon. You go from zero to six days a week at the gym, you get burnt out, and the whole thing unravels. The second mistake is having no real structure at all—just vague intentions, like “I’ll work out when I can,” which never materializes into anything real for a lot of people.

For me, the 3-3-3 rule solves both of those problems. It gives me enough structure to build habit and momentum, but not so much intensity that my body and brain feel overwhelmed. I personally adore running, but I struggle to motivate myself to lift weights; the 3-3-3 rhythm here helped me find a middle ground between those two workouts. When I know I have three strength sessions to hit in a week (or nine-ish day cycle), I can look at my calendar and find three slots without too much drama or dread.

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There’s also plenty of breathing room built into the plan, which was the biggest game changer for me. I used to have the (toxic) thought that my rest days were wasted days, which is a mentality that led to either overtraining or complete inactivity with pretty much no middle ground.

Plus, there’s something psychologically satisfying about the number three. I know and love the rule of threes in photography, comedy, survival tips, and all over the place.

How to make a 3-3-3 workout schedule work for you

The 3-3-3 rule has a ton of wiggle room for customization. Here are some ideas for how you can approach it:


What do you think so far?

For strength days, pick a format you actually enjoy. That might be a full-body circuit, a push/pull/legs split, or a class at your gym. (Boxing, anyone?) Your focus on these days should be a progressive challenge—push yourself, yes, but don’t obliterate yourself.

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For cardio days, variety helps. Mix a longer, easier effort with a shorter, more intense session (like a 20-minute interval run). I know I’m biased, but cardio really shouldn’t feel like punishment.

For recovery days, resist the urge to “make them count” by sneaking in extra work. The whole point is to let your body consolidate the gains from your harder days. Walk, stretch, breathe, and trust the process.

Another practical tip: Pick a night to map out your 3-3-3 week ahead of time. You’ll probably find that the week arranges itself pretty naturally once you’re looking for those nine windows.

The bottom line

As always, consistency should always be your priority in fitness. If you’ve been struggling to find a rhythm, if your past workout plans have always fizzled out around week three, give the 3-3-3 rule an honest four-week try. Maybe start with a 1-1-1 month! After all, the 3-3-3 rule isn’t a hack to totally transform your physique, but I do think it can provide something way more valuable. Finding a routine that works for you—like the 3-3-3 rule works for me—is the first step to make exercise a reliable, sustainable part of your life.

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Mere minutes of daily vigorous exercise can cut your risk of 8 diseases | CNN

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Move more. Sit less. For many years, that’s been accepted guidance for people wanting to get healthier.

Now that message is getting refined, with a growing body of research suggesting that certain types of movements may be more beneficial than others when it comes to health benefits.

The intensity of your exercise may matter as well. A new study published in the European Heart Journal found that a small amount of vigorous activity may be linked to lower risk of eight different chronic diseases.

The findings raise questions about why intensity matters and how people can incorporate more intense exercise routines into everyday life. To better understand the study’s implications, I spoke with CNN wellness expert Dr. Leana Wen, an emergency physician and clinical associate professor at George Washington University. She previously served as Baltimore’s health commissioner.

Before beginning any new exercise program, consult your doctor. Stop immediately if you experience pain.

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CNN: What did this study examine about exercise and its relationship to chronic disease?

Dr. Leana Wen: This investigation looked at how the intensity of physical activity is related to the risk of developing a range of chronic diseases. Researchers analyzed data from two very large groups in the UK Biobank, which is a long-term health study in the United Kingdom that tracks medical and lifestyle information from hundreds of thousands of participants. One group included about 96,000 people who wore wrist activity trackers that objectively measured their movement, and the other included more than 375,000 people who self-reported their activity.

The researchers followed participants over an average of about nine years and examined the development of eight conditions: major cardiovascular events, atrial fibrillation, type 2 diabetes, immune-related inflammatory diseases, fatty liver disease, chronic respiratory disease, chronic kidney disease and dementia, as well as overall mortality.

The key finding was that the proportion of activity done at vigorous intensity mattered. People who had more than about 4% of their total activity classified as vigorous had substantially lower risks of developing these conditions compared with people who had no vigorous activity at all. The numbers were stunning, with the participants having the following results:


  • 63% lower risk of dementia,

  • 60% lower risk of type 2 diabetes,

  • 48% lower risk of fatty liver disease,

  • 44% lower risk of chronic respiratory disease,

  • 41% lower risk of chronic kidney disease,

  • 39% lower risk of immune-mediated inflammatory diseases,

  • 31% lower risk of major cardiovascular events,

  • 29% lower risk of atrial fibrillation, and

  • 46% lower risk of death from any cause.

These results are amazing. Imagine if someone invented a medication that could reduce the risks of all these diseases at once — it would be very popular! Crucially, even people who exercised a lot still benefited if the proportion of time they spent doing vigorous physical activity was increased. Conversely, people who were relatively inactive also benefited from adding just a little bit of higher-intensity exercise to their daily routines.

CNN: What counts as “vigorous” physical activity?

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Wen: Vigorous activity is generally defined as exercise that substantially raises your heart rate and breathing. A simple way to gauge it is the “talk test.” If you can speak comfortably in full sentences while exercising, you are likely in the low to moderate range. If you are so out of breath that you can only say a few words at a time, that is vigorous.

Running, cycling, lap swimming or climbing stairs quickly could count. But this also depends on people’s baseline fitness. For some individuals, taking longer strides with walking can be vigorous exercise. Others who are already fairly fit would need to do more. It’s also important to remember that vigorous activity doesn’t have to be in the context of a structured exercise plan. Short bursts of effort in daily life, such as rushing to catch a bus or carrying heavy groceries upstairs, can also qualify if they raise your heart rate and make you breathless.

CNN: Why might higher intensity exercise provide additional health benefits?

Wen: Higher intensity activity places greater demands on the body in a shorter period. This type of movement can improve cardiovascular fitness, increase insulin sensitivity and support metabolic health more efficiently than lower-intensity activity alone. Some studies have also linked vigorous activity with cognitive benefits.

Greater intensity may have distinct benefits across different organ systems. The researchers found that some conditions, such as immune-mediated inflammatory diseases, appeared to be more strongly linked to the intensity of activity than to the total amount. On the other hand, type 2 diabetes and kidney disease were influenced by both how much activity people did and how intense it was. Why this is the case is not yet known, but intensity appears to have a significant impact across diseases affecting multiple organs.

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CNN: How much vigorous activity do people need?

Wen: The threshold for people seeing a benefit appears to be relatively low. The researchers found that once people reached more than about 4% of their total activity as vigorous, their risk of developing chronic diseases dropped substantially.

To put that into practical terms, we are not talking about professional athletes dedicating their lives to hours of high-intensity training. Everyday people may see benefits from just doing a few minutes of vigorous effort daily.

CNN: How can people realistically incorporate vigorous activity into their daily routines?

Wen: One helpful way to think practically is that vigorous activity does not have to happen all at once. It can be accumulated in short bursts throughout the day.

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People can take the stairs instead of the elevator and do so at a faster pace than usual. When they are heading to work, they can add some speed walking. They can park farther away when grocery shopping and walk briskly while carrying groceries.

Structured exercise also can incorporate intervals where people alternate between moderate and more intense effort. If you’re swimming laps, you can warm up at a more leisurely pace, then do a few laps at a faster pace, then again at a leisurely pace and repeat. This suggestion applies to any other aerobic exercise: Aim for multiple intervals of at least 30 seconds to a minute each where your body is working hard enough that you feel noticeably out of breath.

CNN: What about someone who is older or has mobility issues?

Wen: Not everyone can or should engage in high-intensity activity in the same way. Vigorous activity is relative to that person’s baseline. For someone who is not used to exercise, even a short period of slightly faster walking or standing up repeatedly from a chair could be considered high intensity. And not everyone may be able to walk. In that case, some exercises from the chair can have aerobic benefits.

Individuals who have specific medical conditions should consult with their primary care clinicians before embarking on a new exercise routine. People with mobility issues also may benefit from working with a physical therapist who can help to tailor exercises appropriate to their specific situation.

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CNN: What is the key takeaway for people trying to improve their health?

Wen: To me, the main takeaway from this study is that it’s not only how much total exercise you get but also how hard you push yourself that matters. And you don’t have to have a lot of high-intensity exercise: Adding just a little has substantial health benefits across a wide range of chronic health conditions.

At the same time, exercise needs be practical. People should look for opportunities to safely increase intensity in ways that fit their daily lives. The most effective approach to physical activity is a balanced one: Exercise regularly, incorporate more challenging activities when you can and build habits that are sustainable over time.

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