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GRETNA, Neb. — This is not a story about high school basketball. It’s not about a treasured coach who died midway through a season. It’s not a story of redemption, sorrow or achievement.

It’s about togetherness. This is a story about community and a team that has revealed, through its resilience and fight to honor a lost leader, what the best of sports looks like.

Wednesday night at Pinnacle Bank Arena in Lincoln, Neb., Gretna High School will play a first-round game in the Class A boys state tournament against Millard North.

Brad Feeken coached the Dragons to win. He coached them with a passion known around Nebraska. His death at age 48 on Dec. 30, 2023, after a battle of more than two years with neuroendocrine cancer marked a new chapter for his players.

Gretna starts five seniors and brings two others off the bench. Landon Pokorski, Alex Wilcoxson, Alec Wilkins, Kade Cook, Joey Vieth, Chase Doble and Avery Schendt have already secured their legacies. This week matters little for how they’ll be remembered — and still, it means so much for them to arrive in this position at the state tournament after months of pain.

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On the morning Feeken died, Gretna’s players and coaches gathered at their high school. They felt more equipped to move forward as a group rather than individually. The schedule showed a game later that day in the quarterfinals of the Metro Conference holiday tournament.

The Dragons chose to play. Nine hours later in an emotionally charged gymnasium, Pokorski sank a game-winning buzzer-beater. He pointed a finger skyward as teammates mobbed him. Pokorski believed that if he lofted the ball just right, Feeken would help it find the net.

From that moment, the boys showed the way. As Feeken’s condition worsened last fall, parents, teachers and supporters in Gretna prepared to hold the team up.

It has unfolded just the opposite — with those seniors inspiring a community in search of answers.

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“They just keep showing up,” said Travis Lightle, the Gretna Public Schools superintendent. “They just show up. They’re there for each other. With how they treat the fans, the little kids, they say, ‘This is what (Feeken) would want us to do.’ And when you watch them, they are playing exactly how he would want.

“They’re not angry. They’re not bitter. They just continue to do the right things.”


My view on Gretna basketball is skewed. I’m biased. Too close to it, too invested.

I resisted for months to touch this story professionally. But last week, something changed. I’ll get to that.

First, some background. I’ve lived in Gretna with my wife Shannon since 2005. Both of our kids were born here. They’ve grown up as part of this swelling suburb southwest of Omaha that’s still small enough to foster an attachment.

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Ten years ago, I coached T-ball with Bill Heard. His daughter was 6. Mine was 7. A longtime assistant on Feeken’s Gretna bench, Heard took over the basketball team when his old college teammate grew too sick to coach.

He has mourned the loss of his best friend for the past nine weeks. Heard also runs the Gretna softball program, and he plans to coach both sports as his two children progress through high school.

Feeken won two state titles in 21 years as the head coach, but he impacted more lives in Gretna as a seventh-grade reading teacher. My daughter learned about life in his classroom four years ago. Few teachers meant more to her.

My son attended his basketball camps. Feeken’s teams embodied his lively persona. This piece written by Dirk Chatelain beautifully captures the Feeken spirit.

When he got sick, the community rallied behind the coach, his wife, Jenny, and their children, Rylinn, 13, Maylee, 11, and John, who turned 7 last month.

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In his final weeks, Feeken connected with Brad Stevens, general manager and former coach of his beloved Boston Celtics. Nebraska coach Fred Hoiberg and Creighton’s Greg McDermott voiced their admiration for Feeken.

As word spread of Feeken’s death, my family, like many others, felt called on Dec. 30 to attend the Dragons’ Metro Conference tournament game. In that gym at Omaha Creighton Prep, the moment of silence and pregame tribute to Feeken added to a mood unlike anything I’ve experienced — a mix of disbelief, heartbreak and resolve.

In a top corner of the seating area, Hoiberg watched.

“It honestly was one of the more special games that I’ve witnessed in person,” the Nebraska coach told me this week.

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Gretna jumped to a 15-point lead at halftime against Papillion-LaVista South, then saw it disappear as the weight of the moment took hold.

“We’ll never play in a game like that again,” Pokorski said. “It still hasn’t fully hit me how hard that day was, how hard that game was.”

When Pokorski drove to the baseline in the last seconds, with Gretna down 48-47, Hoiberg predicted out loud that the shot would fall.

A town held its breath.

“To see the reaction of the team, those guys all hugging out on the court and crying, I know they did it for Brad, what he meant for those kids,” Hoiberg said. “It was emotional. I got a tear in my eye.”

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He was far from alone.



The Dragons with Feeken daughters Rylinn, 13 (left) and Maylee, 11, after Gretna’s 65-63 win at Kearney to clinch a berth in the state tournament. (Courtesy of Angie Wilcoxson)

The tears didn’t stop on that Saturday night. Nine days after Feeken died, Rylinn, his older daughter, delivered a tribute to her father at his memorial service.

Heard eulogized Feeken. Pokorski and Wilcoxson spoke to his legacy. For years, they said, Feeken preached to them about the importance of “doing hard things.”

Three of Gretna’s five losses this season came in the first 18 days of January. It was a hard time.

“Basketball was secondary,” Heard said. “But basketball was really important because it’s the place where we all got to be together. It was evident that the kids needed it. I needed it.”

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Feeken famously left motivational messages on sticky notes for his players to find. In January, Jenny Feeken took his place, sending text messages to the seven Gretna seniors.

They receive snippets from “Pound the Stone: 7 Lessons to Develop Grit on the Path to Mastery,” a book that Jenny is reading with Rylinn and Maylee.

The frequency of her messages increased last month as tournament time neared. Lately, she’s reminded the seniors that they’re ready for whatever life presents.

“Everything has been hard for them,” she said. “It helps me. They’re telling me that they like it, so I hope it helps them, too.”

The Dragons won nine consecutive games before a three-point defeat in the regular-season finale against top-ranked Bellevue West. The loss knocked Gretna from a host position in state-tournament qualifying district play and set up a Feb. 27 trip to Kearney High School in central Nebraska.

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In Kearney’s hornet’s nest of a 3,000-seat gym, the path of this season changed for Gretna. Basketball came roaring back to the forefront. Another chapter began. It was Feeken’s kind of night. And again, the Dragons showed their strength.

Late in the district final, crowd noise shook the floor. Gretna won 65-63 to secure a trip to the state tournament as a Kearney halfcourt heave at the buzzer hit the rim.

Conceivably, no team in the state could have handled that wild environment as well as Gretna. In the celebration, Rylinn and Maylee cut the final strands of the net from the rims. The nets went back to Gretna with the girls.

“Just one of those moments that’s so much bigger than a ball game,” Heard said.

Likewise, Heard said, the state tournament often elicits exaggerated emotions.

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Gretna, in seasons past, has felt the postseason pressure. Last year in Lincoln, Millard North beat the Dragons in the semifinal round. Officials waved off a Pokorski bucket in the final seconds. Video of the play shows Feeken, stomping toward the action before Millard North held on to win 54-52.

The same Mustangs eliminated Gretna two years ago in the semifinals and in 2021 district play. The Dragons’ history against Millard North looms in their minds, Pokorski said.

But pressure for Gretna? Not a chance with this team.

“When you’ve been through what we’ve been through off the court,” said Pokorski, the unflappable point guard set to play at Southwest Minnesota State, “it tends to make basketball a little easier. What we were supposed to do this year, we already did.

“Our purpose was way bigger than basketball.”

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(Top photo of Bill Heard and Gretna’s five senior starters (seated), courtesy of Nicole Stuchlik)

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To capture Jane Austen’s brief life and enormous impact, editors at The New York Times Book Review assembled a sampling of the wealth, wonder and weirdness she has brought to our lives.

By Jennifer Harlan, Sadie Stein, Claire Hogan, Laura Salaberry and Edward Vega

December 18, 2025

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“Window seat with garden view / A perfect nook to read a book / I’m lost in my Jane Austen…” sings Kristin Chenoweth in “The Girl in 14G” — what could be more ideal? Well, perhaps showing off your literary knowledge and getting a perfect score on this week’s super-size Book Review Quiz Bowl honoring the life, work and global influence of Jane Austen, who turns 250 today. In the 12 questions below, tap or click your answers to the questions. And no matter how you do, scroll on to the end, where you’ll find links to free e-book versions of her novels — and more.

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On Dec. 16, 1775, a girl was born in Steventon, England — the seventh of eight children — to a clergyman and his wife. She was an avid reader, never married and died in 1817, at the age of 41. But in just those few decades, Jane Austen changed the world.

Her novels have had an outsize influence in the centuries since her death. Not only are the books themselves beloved — as sharply observed portraits of British society, revolutionary narrative projects and deliciously satisfying romances — but the stories she created have so permeated culture that people around the world care deeply about Elizabeth Bennet and Mr. Darcy, even if they’ve never actually read “Pride and Prejudice.”

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With her 250th birthday this year, the Austen Industrial Complex has kicked into high gear with festivals, parades, museum exhibits, concerts and all manner of merch, ranging from the classily apt to the flamboyantly absurd. The words “Jane mania” have been used; so has “exh-Aust-ion.”

How to capture this brief life, and the blazing impact that has spread across the globe in her wake? Without further ado: a mere sampling of the wealth, wonder and weirdness Austen has brought to our lives. After all, your semiquincentennial doesn’t come around every day.

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By ‘A Lady’

Jane Austen’s House, Chawton, England

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Austen published just four novels in her lifetime: “Sense and Sensibility” (1811), “Pride and Prejudice” (1813), “Mansfield Park” (1814) and “Emma” (1815). All of them were published anonymously, with the author credited simply as “A Lady.” (If you’re in New York, you can see this first edition for yourself at the Grolier Club through Feb. 14.)

Where the Magic Happened

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Placed near a window for light, this diminutive walnut table was, according to family lore, where the author did much of her writing. It is now in the possession of the Jane Austen Society.

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An Iconic Accessory

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Jane Austen’s House, Chawton, England

Few of Austen’s personal artifacts remain, contributing to the author’s mystique. One of them is this turquoise ring, which passed to her sister-in-law and then her niece after her death. In 2012, the ring was put up for auction and bought by the “American Idol” champion Kelly Clarkson. This caused quite a stir in England; British officials were loath to let such an important cultural artifact leave the country’s borders. Jane Austen’s House, the museum now based in the writer’s Hampshire home, launched a crowdfunding campaign to Bring the Ring Home and bought the piece from Clarkson. The real ring now lives at the museum; the singer has a replica.

Austen Onscreen

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Since 1940, when Austen had a bit of a moment and Greer Garson and Laurence Olivier starred in MGM’s rather liberally reinterpreted “Pride and Prejudice,” there have been more than 20 international adaptations of Austen’s work made for film and TV (to say nothing of radio). From the sublime (Emma Thompson’s Oscar-winning “Sense and Sensibility”) to the ridiculous (the wholly gratuitous 2022 remake of “Persuasion”), the high waists, flickering firelight and double weddings continue to provide an endless stream of debate fodder — and work for a queen’s regiment of British stars.

Jane Goes X-Rated

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The rumors are true: XXX Austen is a thing. “Jane Austen Kama Sutra,” “Pride and Promiscuity: The Lost Sex Scenes of Jane Austen” and enough slash fic and amateur porn to fill Bath’s Assembly Rooms are just the start. Purists may never recover.

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A Lady Unmasked

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Jane Austen’s House, Chawton, England

Austen’s final two completed novels, “Northanger Abbey” and “Persuasion,” were published after her death. Her brother Henry, who oversaw their publication, took the opportunity to give his sister the recognition he felt she deserved, revealing the true identity of the “Lady” behind “Pride and Prejudice,” “Emma,” etc. in a biographical note. “The following pages are the production of a pen which has already contributed in no small degree to the entertainment of the public,” he wrote, extolling his sister’s imagination, good humor and love of dancing. Still, “no accumulation of fame would have induced her, had she lived, to affix her name to any productions of her pen.”

Wearable Tributes

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It is a truth universally acknowledged that a Jane Austen fan wants to find other Jane Austen fans, and what better way to advertise your membership in that all-inclusive club than with a bit of merch — from the subtle and classy to the gloriously obscene.

The Austen Literary Universe

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On the page, there is no end to the adventures Austen and her characters have been on. There are Jane Austen mysteries, Jane Austen vampire series, Jane Austen fantasy adventures, Jane Austen Y.A. novels and, of course, Jane Austen romances, which transpose her plots to a remote Maine inn, a Greenwich Village penthouse and the Bay Area Indian American community, to name just a few. You can read about Austen-inspired zombie hunters, time-traveling hockey players, Long Island matchmakers and reality TV stars, or imagine further adventures for some of your favorite characters. (Even the obsequious Mr. Collins gets his day in the sun.)

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A Botanical Homage

Created in 2017 to mark the 200th anniversary of Austen’s death, the “Jane Austen” rose is characterized by its intense orange color and light, sweet perfume. It is bushy, healthy and easy to grow.

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Aunt Jane

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Jane Austen’s House, Chawton, England

Hoping to cement his beloved aunt’s legacy, Austen’s nephew James Edward Austen-Leigh published this biography — a rather rosy portrait based on interviews with family members — five decades after her death. The book is notable not only as the source (biased though it may be) of many of the scant facts we know about her life, but also for the watercolor portrait by James Andrews that serves as its frontispiece. Based on a sketch by Cassandra, this depiction of Jane is softer and far more winsome than the original: Whether that is due to a lack of skill on her sister’s part or overly enthusiastic artistic license on Andrews’s, this is the version of Austen most familiar to people today.

Cultural Currency

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In 2017, the Bank of England released a new 10-pound note featuring Andrews’s portrait of Austen, as well as a line from “Pride and Prejudice”: “I declare after all there is no enjoyment like reading!” Austen is the third woman — other than the queen — to be featured on British currency, and the only one currently in circulation.

In the Trenches

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During World War I and World War II, British soldiers were given copies of Austen’s works. In his 1924 story “The Janeites,” Rudyard Kipling invoked the grotesque contrasts — and the strange comfort — to be found in escaping to Austen’s well-ordered world amid the horrors of trench warfare. As one character observes, “There’s no one to touch Jane when you’re in a tight place.”

Baby Janes

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You’re never too young to learn to love Austen — or that one’s good opinion, once lost, may be lost forever.

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The Austen Industrial Complex

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Maybe you’ve not so much as seen a Jane Austen meme, let alone read one of her novels. No matter! Need a Jane Austen finger puppet? Lego? Magnetic poetry set? Lingerie? Nameplate necklace? Plush book pillow? License plate frame? Bath bomb? Socks? Dog sweater? Whiskey glass? Tarot deck? Of course you do! And you’re in luck: What a time to be alive.

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Goucher College Special Collections & Archives, Alberta H. and Henry G. Burke Collection; via The Morgan Library & Museum

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Austen’s novels have been translated into more than 40 languages, including Polish, Finnish, Chinese and Farsi. There are active chapters of the Jane Austen Society, her 21st-century fan club, throughout the world.

Playable Persuasions

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In Austen’s era, no afternoon tea was complete without a rousing round of whist, a trick-taking card game played in two teams of two. But should you not be up on your Regency amusements, you can find plenty of contemporary puzzles and games with which to fill a few pleasant hours, whether you’re piecing together her most beloved characters or using your cunning and wiles to land your very own Mr. Darcy.

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#SoJaneAusten

The wild power of the internet means that many Austen moments have taken on lives of their own, from Colin Firth’s sopping wet shirt and Matthew Macfadyen’s flexing hand to Mr. Collins’s ode to superlative spuds and Mr. Knightley’s dramatic floor flop. The memes are fun, yes, but they also speak to the universality of Austen’s writing: More than two centuries after her books were published, the characters and stories she created are as relatable as ever.

Bonnets Fit for a Bennett

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For this summer’s Grand Regency Costumed Promenade in Bath, England — as well as the myriad picnics, balls, house parties, dinners, luncheons, teas and fetes that marked the anniversary — seamstresses, milliners, mantua makers and costume warehouses did a brisk business, attiring the faithful in authentic Regency finery. And that’s a commitment: A bespoke, historically accurate bonnet can easily run to hundreds of dollars.

Most Ardently, Jane

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Austen was prolific correspondent, believed to have written thousands of letters in her lifetime, many to her sister, Cassandra. But in an act that has frustrated biographers for centuries, upon Jane’s death, Cassandra protected her sister’s privacy — and reputation? — by burning almost all of them, leaving only about 160 intact, many heavily redacted. But what survives is filled with pithy one-liners. To wit: “I do not want people to be very agreeable, as it saves me the trouble of liking them a great deal.”

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Stage and Sensibility

Austen’s works have been adapted numerous times for the stage. Some plays (and musicals) hew closely to the original text, while others — such as Emily Breeze’s comedic riff on “Pride and Prejudice,” “Are the Bennet Girls OK?”, which is running at New York City’s West End Theater through Dec. 21 — use creative license to explore ideas of gender, romance and rage through a contemporary lens.

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Austen 101

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Austen remains a reliable fount of academic scholarship; recent conference papers have focused on the author’s enduring global reach, the work’s relationship to modern intersectionality, digital humanities and “Jane Austen on the Cheap.” And as one professor told our colleague Sarah Lyall of the Austen amateur scholarship hive, “Woe betide the academic who doesn’t take them seriously.”

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When facing problems — of etiquette, romance, domestic or professional turmoil — sometimes the only thing to do is ask: What would Jane do?

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