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Is Delaware No. 1 for dating mind games? Where we rank, plus where to find chivalrous men
Phish fans by the thousands run for fun in Mondegreen 5K
The morning after staying up for the opening sets at the Mondegreen festival, an early start for thousands of Phish fans meant a loop around the Monster Mile and through parts of the Dover campground. A festival tradition brought out both fast runners and creative costumes.
Dating has always been a source of drama and anxiety, both in real life and online. From reality TV shows with contestants dating multiple suitors to social media platforms where potential matches pop red balloons to show disinterest, the media often portrays dating as a game.
While these may be sensationalized versions of what takes place in the real world, dating remains challenging, particularly in the online realm. Dating apps have expanded the pool of potential partners but also have made forming genuine connections more difficult.
With the ability to conceal one’s identity or present an idealized version of oneself, mind games have become increasingly common, especially in the digital dating landscape. These manipulative tactics range from minor behaviors, like deliberately delaying responses to messages, to more serious actions such as ‘ghosting’ – abruptly cutting off all communication – or cyberstalking.
To gain a deeper insight into who is engaging in these behaviors, DatingNews.com polled over 2,000 Americans, exploring their experiences with mind games in romantic relationships.
Some of their key findings include:
- About 1 in every 5 respondents have created or used a fake social media account to cyber stalk someone they’re romantically interested in
- 56% of those surveyed have suddenly cut off communication or “ghosted” someone
- 30% of of those surveyed have canceled or moved plans to make the other person think they were busy when they, in fact, were not
- On average, 40% of survey participants have given a romantic partner an ultimatum
- 1 in every 3 Americans surveyed has intentionally sent a “wrong” message to someone to spark conversation
The survey also aimed to determine which states have the highest concentration of master manipulators.
According to the survey, The First State ranks first in the nation for having the biggest players.
Survey says Delaware residents are masters of romantic maneuvers
In the high-stakes game of love, it seems Delaware residents have emerged as the reigning champions of romantic gaslighters. According to survey responses, online daters in the First State were more frequently found to use mind games, such as canceling plans to appear busy, posting on social media for a specific person to see, and using the silent treatment in relationships.
The survey found these are the Top 10 states for online dating mind games:
- Delaware
- Alabama
- Mississippi
- Oklahoma
- Nevada
- Hawaii
- Illinois
- Maryland
- Georgia
- Texas
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This Delaware city has the most chivalrous men
While Delaware tops the ranking for online dating mind games, it’s worth exploring how this translates to real-life interactions. Interestingly, a separate DatingNews.com survey focused on the charm and chivalry of men in various cities.
In the poll, 3,000 single women were asked where the most charming men could be found. It turns out, Delaware’s most charming and chivalrous men reside in Wilmington, the state’s largest city.
The survey asked women to identify traits that best represent a ‘mannered man,’ based on behaviors like opening doors, planning thoughtful dates, and engaging in respectful conversations.
The findings showed single women looked for:
- Patience and understanding: 32%
- Politeness and respect: 31%
- Thoughtfulness and consideration: 19%
- Good communication skills: 14%
- Humility and modesty: 4%
The importance of chivalry remains significant, with 56% of respondents considering it “very important,” 41% deeming it “moderately important,” and only 2% attaching little importance to it.
The poll also unveiled a glimpse into the expectations of modern women in the dating world, noting the most appreciated behaviors on a date include:
- Engaging in respectful conversations (43%)
- Planning thoughtful and creative dates (18%)
- Offering genuine compliments (14%)
- Opening doors (12%)
- Being punctual and considerate of time (12%)
These findings illustrate that while the dating landscape has evolved, traditional values still play a crucial role in face-to-face interactions where the right mix of attentiveness, creativity and respect can prove irresistible.
You can contact Anitra Johnson at ajohnson@delawareonline.com.
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State Police Arrest Dover Man for Assault and Aggravated Menacing in Dover – Delaware State Police – State of Delaware
Date Posted: Saturday, April 18th, 2026
The Delaware State Police have arrested 45-year-old Joseph Chapler, from Dover, Delaware, following an assault and aggravated menacing incident that occurred Thursday night in Dover.
On April 16, 2026, at approximately 10:20 p.m., troopers responded to the parking lot of Microtel, located at 1703 East Lebanon Road in Dover for a report of an assault and aggravated menacing. When troopers arrived, they learned that a man and woman were walking on a path behind the Microtel when they were approached by an unknown male suspect. The suspect threatened the victims, pointed a gun at them, and sprayed the female victim with pepper spray before running away. The victims ran to safety and called 9-1-1. The female victim was treated by EMS but refused medical attention.
Through investigative means, detectives identified Joseph Chapler as the suspect and obtained a warrant for his arrest.
On April 17th, Chapler was arrested and taken to Troop 3, where he was charged with the crimes listed below, arraigned by Justice of the Peace Court 2, and committed to the Sussex Correctional Institution on a $94,001 cash bond.

- Possession of a Firearm During the Commission of a Felony (Felony)
- Assault 2nd Degree (Felony) – 2 counts
- Aggravated Menacing (Felony) – 2 counts
- Terroristic Threatening – 2 counts
- Criminal Trespass 3rd Degree
If you or someone you know is a victim or witness of a crime or have lost a loved one to a sudden death and need assistance, the Delaware State Police Victim Services Unit / Delaware Victim Center is available to offer you support and resources 24 hours a day through a toll-free hotline at 1-800-VICTIM-1 (1-800-842-8461). You may also email the Victim Services Unit at DSP_VictimServicesMail@delaware.gov.
Disclaimer: Any individual charged in this release is presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law.
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Local police departments earn state accreditation
The Delaware Police Officer Standards and Training Commission recently announced that the Dewey Beach Police Department and Rehoboth Beach Police Department have both earned state accreditation from the Delaware Police Accreditation Commission.
As part of the rigorous process, a team of DPAC assessors ensured all accreditation standards were met by completing comprehensive, on-site inspections of each agency, reviewing their policies and procedures for compliance, and conducting interviews with department members.
“This milestone represents a significant step forward for public safety in Delaware. The initial state accreditation of these police agencies reflects a strong commitment to professionalism, accountability and excellence in law enforcement. I commend each department for their dedication to serving their communities with integrity and for upholding the highest standards,” said Joshua Bushweller, Department of Safety and Homeland Security secretary and DPAC chair.
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DDA inducts three Delaware Century Farms – 47abc
Dover, Del. – Three farms, one from each of Delaware’s counties, were inducted into the Century Farm Program by the state Department of Agriculture on Thursday at the Delaware Agricultural Museum.
Each of the family farms has been owned and operated for at least a century. Each received a sign for their farms, an engraved plate and legislative tributes.
In addition to Secretary of Agriculture, Don Clifton, and Deputy Secretary Jimmy Kroon, state Senators David Wilson (R – District 18) and Kyra Hoffner (D – District 14) were also in attendance.
Wright Family Farms are located in Harrington in Kent County. In 1919, the farm was purchased by William Wright. Over a century later, William’s grandson, Ronald, is the owner and his great-grandson, Greg, said he hopes to continue the family legacy by buying the farm from his father.
Although the event celebrated each family for their hard work and resilience, it also highlighted the challenges farmers have to surmount to stay in business today, let alone for a hundred years.
“The price of equipment, the price of fertilizer, the price of seed, everything is just gone up,” Greg said. “So, you know, everything’s going up that we gotta purchase just to stay in business.”
Clifton, Kroon and Wilson also echoed difficulties in balancing the need to preserve agricultural land with the need to develop housing and sustainable energy projects like solar power.
“I know housing is very important, and we want people to always have good housing, but at some point, I think you’re going to saturate the area with more houses than you have food to feed these people,” Wilson said.
Kroon also said there are difficulties in keeping future generations motivated to stay in farming.
“When you think about it in the context of multi-generational farm families, there’s a real long-term challenge where a new generation may think twice about whether they want to keep farming if it’s always a struggle,” he said.
Clifton said farming has always been a challenging way of life, but it has been so since time immemorial.
“These families, their experience shows that they have an appreciation for the way of life and perseverance and that’s to be honored and emulated to the greatest extent possible,” he said.
Greg said he hopes to pass down the way of life so that his family legacy can live on for another hundred years, as well as for other families.
“A hundred years as the same family tilling the land, that’s, you know, that’s an honor right there,” Greg said. “And I hope that more farmers who are close to 100 years old will be doing the same thing. You know, keep it in the family.”
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