San Francisco, CA
Who Are You Calling Old? – San Francisco Bay Times
By Joanie Juster–
I recently did some grocery shopping at Trader Joe’s in downtown San Francisco. Leaving the store with three heavy bags, and too tired to take Muni, I trudged wearily across the street to the Marriott Hotel, where a line of taxis awaited. Then this happened:
Me to Taxi Driver #1: “Are you available?”
Taxi Driver #1: (waving vaguely off into the distance): “Um, uh, no, I’m waiting for someone.”
Taxi Driver #2 (angrily jumping out of his cab to yell at Taxi Driver #1): “Are you kidding? You have to take her! She’s old!”
A bemused crowd of tourists standing in front of the Marriott Hotel, awaiting their Ubers, looked up from their phones to see who the old lady was.
(Me, internally: “Can the sidewalk just open up and swallow me now, please?”)
The Battle of the Taxi Drivers escalated for several minutes, with Taxi Drivers #2 and #3 yelling loudly at Taxi Driver #1 that he was violating the rules by discriminating against an old lady. They finally chased him down and reported him.
Taxi Driver #2 eventually claimed victory in the battle and drove me home, proclaiming loudly throughout the ride that it is necessary to respect our elders, and that other drivers shouldn’t neglect old people, even though everyone knows there’s no money to be made off of them. (And yes, of course I over-tipped him.)
Later than night, I posted about the incident on social media, still stinging a bit from being loudly and publicly branded as old. The responses ranged from sympathy to hilarity, but a comment from my wise friend Bob provided some much-needed perspective: “To laugh or to cry. Choose wisely.”
By that time, I was indeed able to have a good laugh at the situation. But it also made me think about what being “old” means.
Many of my friends and family, as well as myself, have reached, shall we say, a Certain Age. We are dealing with issues that seemed impossibly far away when we were in our 30s or 40s, or even 50s. We were young for a very long time, then middle-aged for a pretty darned long time. But after a certain point, if we’re truthful, there’s no denying that even middle age is behind us. All too often conversations with my peers turn to late-in-life issues: wills, downsizing, funeral plans, long-term care, loss of mobility, and, sadly, the loss of our loved ones.
At the same time, many of us are still holding down jobs, actively engaged in our communities, busy with volunteer work and social activities, and fully participating in life. We are not ready to be put out to pasture and forgotten, and while we may technically be old, we aren’t quite ready for the more judgmental term “elderly.”
How we see ourselves, and how the rest of the world sees us, can vary day by day, or hour by hour. There are days when I’m feeling good, getting a lot accomplished, and feeling like I’m contributing to my community. On those days, I just feel like myself, not thinking about age, just living my life. But those taxi drivers didn’t know me, or what I am capable of when I’m at my best. All they saw was a tired white-haired lady struggling down 4th Street with too many bags of groceries. They simply saw an old woman. And they were not wrong.
There’s a well-worn meme that declares: “Inside every old person is a young person wondering what the hell happened.” It’s true. Each of us contains a multiverse of identities, from the child we once were to whatever age we are now. It is up to us to accept and embrace all those versions of ourselves, and try to see others for more than just what they look like now. That white-haired person you see walking slowly with a cane may have rocked the dance floor years ago. Honor and celebrate all the people they have been.
‘Tis the Season for City Budgets, and Fundraising
It’s budget season in San Francisco, and every agency is fighting hard to hang onto funding to support their programs. But everyone familiar with the process has warned that this year’s budget negotiations are going to be a brutal process.

For the HIV community, this can be especially challenging: agencies large and small all depend on city funding. This is why supporting two of San Francisco’s longest-running and most beloved fundraising events is particularly important this year. With city and federal budget cuts looming, the money raised from the community for AIDS LifeCycle (June 2–8) and AIDS Walk San Francisco (July 17) is more important than ever.
AIDS/LifeCycle is a fully-supported, 7-day, 545-mile bike ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles. The event is co-produced by and benefits San Francisco AIDS Foundation and the Los Angeles LGBT Center. Taking part in AIDS/LifeCycle isn’t for everyone: it takes a tremendous amount of time, energy, and resources to train for and participate in the ride, but anyone can support it. To support AIDS/LifeCycle, or a specific participant, go to: https://www.aidslifecycle.org/
AIDS Walk San Francisco will return to Golden Gate Park on Sunday, July 17. This event has always been dear to my heart for many reasons, but two in particular: Anyone can participate, no matter what their resources. And AIDS Walk provides a way for smaller local agencies to raise funds that they might not have the resources to raise on their own. Many of our grassroots organizations depend on the money raised by AIDS Walk to keep providing services to the community. I will be writing more about AIDS Walk over the next couple of months, but in the meantime, you can go to their website to support a walker, a team, or the Walk in general: https://sf.aidswalk.net/
Pride Month Safety
Pride Month is days away, and federal agencies are warning of potential threats to LGBTQ+-related events and venues, according to a public announcement issued by the FBI and the Department of Homeland Security on May 10.
While the announcement didn’t specify any particular threats, they advised, “Foreign terrorist organizations or supporters may seek to exploit increased gatherings associated with the upcoming June 2024 Pride Month.” The announcement made reference to the fact that June 12 marks the eighth anniversary of the horrific attack on Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, in which 49 people were killed and 53 wounded.
As we head into Pride Month with all its festive and fabulous events, now is a good time to brush up on safety procedures and precautions. A good place to start is Castro Community on Patrol’s website, which features many safety resources. Please be prepared, and enjoy Pride Month—and every day—safely: https://www.castropatrol.org/
Joanie Juster is a long-time community volunteer, activist, and ally.
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Published on May 23, 2024
San Francisco, CA
Eastbound I-80 closure in San Francisco snarls traffic, slows business
One of San Francisco’s busiest freeways remained shut down Saturday, creating major traffic delays and dampening business for some local restaurants and shops.
All eastbound lanes of Interstate 80 just before the Bay Bridge are closed as crews work around the clock to rehabilitate the roadway. The 55-hour shutdown, which began on Friday night, is scheduled to last until Monday morning in time for the commute.
The closure has forced drivers onto detour routes, leading to heavy congestion for those trying to reach the East Bay, including Oakland and Berkeley.
The impact is being felt beyond the roadways.
At MoMo’s, a restaurant across from Oracle Park, staff found business noticeably slower.
“A little bit more mellow than usual. We usually see a little bit more foot traffic, a little bit more people on Saturdays,” said Daniel Bermudez, executive chef at MoMo’s.
Bermudez believes the freeway closure may be discouraging visitors from coming into the city this weekend, despite favorable weather.
“The weather is beautiful today. It’s nice and sunny. So we have plenty of tables outside,” he said.
With the San Francisco Giants playing an away game, the restaurant had hoped fans would still gather to watch, but turnout during game time remained light.
“This is kind of like our off-season Saturday. A lot slower than our baseball weekend,” said Casandra Alarcon, general manager at MoMo’s.
Other small businesses in the Mission Bay and South of Market neighborhoods reported similar trends, saying most of their customers are regulars who live nearby rather than visitors.
“A little bit slower for sure. Before, we had tourists come and walk to the baseball park,” said Ajaree Safron, manager at Brickhouse Cafe & Bar.
Caltrans has shut down eastbound lanes between 17th and 4th streets to repave the 71-year-old roadway. The goal is to extend the life of the Bayshore Freeway by another decade.
City and transportation officials said the timing of the closure was intentional, noting fewer major events scheduled in San Francisco this weekend, aside from the Cherry Blossom Festival.
Westbound lanes remain open, and officials said traffic heading into San Francisco from the East Bay has not been significantly affected.
“Getting into the city, it wasn’t too bad. Regular [traffic], what we expect on a Saturday morning,” said visitor Andrea Inouye.
While the closure has posed challenges for businesses, some workers said they are taking it in stride.
“Hopefully, it’s not for too long and we get past it, and get back to our normal routine,” Bermudez said.
Despite early concerns about widespread gridlock, transportation officials said the region has avoided the worst-case scenario. Traffic remains heavy in areas near detours, but the anticipated “carmageddon” has not materialized, in part because many drivers chose to avoid the area or take public transit.
San Francisco, CA
Trio of Bay Area High School baseball games at San Francisco Giants’ Oracle Park
Bay Area High School baseball fans are treated to a rare opportunity Saturday (April 18) with three games at Oracle Park, home of the San Francisco Giants, including the famed Bruce-Mahoney clash between West Catholic Athletic League rivals St. Ignatius and Sacred Heart Cathedral.
The first pitch of the 20th annual Dante Benedetti Baseball Classic starts at 11 a.m. and pits two more San Francisco private schools as University (9-7), winners of four straight, taking on Riordan (5-11).
That will be followed by the Bruce-Mahoney game at 2:30 between St. Ignatius (12-5, 4-2 WCAL) and the Irish (7-10, 1-5) and finished off with a North Coast Section clash between North Bay’s Marin Catholic (9-7) against Acalanes (7-6-1).
The Benedetti Classic, founded by Dante’s Boys Foundation board member Tom Lounibos and Giants president Larry Baer, benefits the DBF which honors the spirit of Benedetti who for nearly 40 years owned San Francisco’s Mr. Baseball nickname for his kindness and generosity to baseball-playing youth in the area.
Among their philanthropic efforts are glove and baseball equipment drives, field renovations and contributions to scholarships and sponsorships.
After starting the season 0-4 — three of those losses were by one run — University, under head coach Andrew Suvunnachuen, has found its way, winning the last four, all in Bay Counties League play, by a combined 51-6 count over Lick-Wilmerding (16-1 and 11-3) and San Domenico (13-2 and 11-0).
Senior catcher and pitcher Jett Messenger leads the way with a .447 average, while getting on base at a .638 rate. He also leads the team with 20 stolen bases. Junior third baseman Tate Gebhart is hitting .419, while Leo Felder and Behbart share the RBI lead with 15 each.
Junior Matthew Foley is 3-2 on the mound with a 2.38 ERA and 25 strikeouts in 17.2 innings.
Riordan, under second-year head coach Craig Sargent, was 5-5 in nonleague games but lost six straight in the rugged WCAL, losing two tough games this week to Mitty (3-2 and 7-4). Junior third baseman and pitcher Santiono Williams leads the team in batting average (.371), on-base percentage (.488) and stolen bases (nine). He’s also been the team’s top pitcher at 4-2 with a 2.84 ERA.
The teams have split two previous games in their history, with Riordan winning 2-0 in 2023 and University prevailing 5-0 in 2021.
St. Ignatius, led by ninth-year head coach Brian Pollzzie, has already secured the Bruce-Mahoney trophy with four straight wins — one each in football, girls volleyball, boys basketball and girls basketball — but this rivalry is always spirited.
The Wildcats, who are ranked fourth in the Bay Area by the San Francisco Chronicle, are coming off a tough 3-0 home loss to No. 2 St. Francis on Friday after beating the host Lancers 10-6 on Tuesday.
The team is led by Stanford-bound Archer Horn, who is hitting .486 with four home runs and a .604 on-base percentage. The shortstop and pitcher also has not allowed an earned run in three pitching appearances while registering one save.
Pitching is a team’s strength with a 2.59 ERA, led by a brigade of strong arms including Leo Rhein (2-0, 2.38), Tycco Giometti (2-1, 2.62), Charlie Stecher 1-1, 0.72) and Chase Gordon (1-0, 2.80). The team is missing standout Finn Demuth, out of the season after undergoing Tommy John surgery.
Sacred Heart Cathedral, led by fourth-year head coach Gregg Franceschi, has scored 60 runs on the season and given up 61. The Irish are coming off two losses to eighth-ranked Valley Christian (5-2 and 10-1).
They are led offensively by junior outfielder Brody O’Sullivan (.381) and senior infielder Jacob Vines (.378). Johnny Nepomuceno and Max Nylander are other run-producers. Zach Stallworth (37 strikeouts, 29.2 innings) and Cooper Rogers Lewis (0.25 ERA) have been the team’s top pitchers.
The series has been remarkably close since 2005 with Sacred Heart Cathedral holding a 27-20 edge, though St. Ignatius won both games last season (5-0 and 6-3) after the Irish won 9-7 and 1-0 in 2024.
Marin Catholic hopes to get back to winning after starting the season 9-1, but have since lost six straight, four in Marin County Athletic League play, including 4-2 to Novato on Thursday. Senior outfield Luke Martin is the team’s leading hitter at .478 while senior infielder and pitcher Cooper Mitchell is at .455. Senior infielder Walker Untermann leads the team with 15 RBIs.
Acalanes is at the other end of the spectrum, winners of five of six after a 2-5-1 start. Junior infielder Tyler Winkles, also a highly recruited quarterback in football, leads the team with a .383 average and nine stolen bases. Riley Gates (2-3, 2.49 ERA, 30 strikeouts) is the team’s top pitcher.
The teams have played three times, all since 2022, with Marin Catholic owning a 2-1 lead. Acalanes won last year’s game 8-7.
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Fatal Chinatown crash leads to arrest of elderly driver
Chinatown fatal crash victim ID’d, safety measures proposed
The victim killed in Friday’s Chinatown crash was identified Monday by the medical examiner as Cutberto Zamora-Martinez, 49, of San Joaquin County. At a meeting on Monday, city officials said the cause of the crash is still under investigation.
SAN FRANCISCO – A 76-year-old man has been arrested on suspicion of vehicular manslaughter and speeding following a crash in San Francisco’s Chinatown that killed a man working in the area.
Zhuo Ming Lu, 76, is accused in the March 27 crash that left 49-year-old Cutberto Zamora-Martinez, of San Joaquin County, dead.
Suspect was trying to park
What we know:
Authorities said Lu was attempting to park near Grant Avenue and Jackson Street when his vehicle jumped the sidewalk and crashed into the landmark New Lung Ting Café, also known as the Pork Chop House. The vehicle also struck two pedestrians, including Zamora-Martinez.
Zamora-Martinez died from his injuries.
He had been working in the area, according to a GoFundMe page. A San Francisco Police Department source close to the investigation told KTVU the victims were carpet installers arriving for work.
The fundraising page described Zamora-Martinez as a husband and father who was the sole provider for his family and “a humble man who wanted the best for his family.”
Before his arrest, Lu had been cooperating with investigators. Authorities have not confirmed what caused the crash.
Some residents questioned whether the driver’s age or a possible confusion between the brake and gas pedals may have been factors.
“Maybe if people hit a certain age, you got to get retested for your driver’s license is something I was thinking about,” said Keith Hong, who works next door to the crash site.
Another case involving an elderly driver
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In an unrelated case, Mary Fong Lau, 80, was sentenced to probation after killing a family of four, two parents and their young children. in March 2024. Authorities said Lau struck the victims as they waited at a Muni stop on their way to the zoo.
Lau pleaded no contest to four felony counts of vehicular manslaughter, and a judge accepted the plea. A Superior Court judge cited her age, remorse and lack of criminal history in the sentencing decision.
She was placed on probation for two years, banned from driving for three years and ordered to complete 200 hours of community service.
The Source: San Francisco Police Department, prior reporting
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