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Mom praises viral parenting tactic as she allows her kids to play by themselves: 'Whole new world'
A Mississippi mom who has raised her two boys with the help of a popular parenting concept is speaking out about how it’s shaped her family’s lives.
Laynah Rose Crawley, who calls herself “The Fun Homeschool Mom” on Instagram, said she first heard the term “sittervising” from Seattle-based mom Susie Allison, who had written about it on her blog, “The Busy Toddler.”
“As soon as I heard her say it, it gave me permission to be hands-off with my kids,” Crawley told Fox News Digital.
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“And it was like, ‘Oh, [this is] opening a whole new world for me.’”
“Sittervising” is a combination of the words “sitting” and “supervising.” A blog post by Allison entitled “Why you’ll find me sittervising,” has attracted attention among parents online ever since it was posted in 2022.
Two children play together without parental hovering or interference. A Mississippi mother has become a huge advocate of the parenting trend known as sittervising after she heard about it from a blogger. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
Crawley described the method as “allowing children to play independently in the same room as you without [the parents] getting involved in their play.”
The way Crawley has incorporated sittervising in her life over the years has developed, she said, as her two boys have grown.
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Crawley became a mom of two in 2018 when she adopted a toddler just months after giving birth to a son.
One of her Crawley’s young sons, Bryan, is pictured here. The mom describes sittervising as allowing “children to play independently in the same room as you without [the parents] getting involved in their play.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“I didn’t know what to do with a toddler, and I didn’t know what to do with a newborn, so it was kind of like double newness for me,” Crawley said.
“They were so demanding for a good reason. There are so many activities that we have to be so hands-on with. And then when I realized that play was something I could be hands-off with — that was a breakthrough moment.”
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When her boys were around the ages of three and two, Crawley began sittervising to teach them independence.
It also gave her a chance to rest for a period of time.
She would play with them for five or 10 minutes to establish a form of connection — an “emotional need” that Crawley highlights among her parenting methods.
Crawley lets her boys play on their own without any adult interjection, and she will take the opportunity to accomplish tasks around the house. Crawley’s son Benjamin is pictured here playing with a toy cash register. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
After playing with them for some time, Crawley takes a step back as the boys continue playing by themselves.
She also noted that the environment will change over time as the kids grow.
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“There’s a quote that I love that says, ‘Control the environment, release a child.’ You can sittervise anywhere at any age as long as there are safety measures in place [or] a contained space.”
With independence comes freedom, said Crawley — and sittervising allows kids to play in fun, creative ways outside the boundaries that adults may construct.
“There’s a quote that I love that says, ‘Control the environment, release a child.’ You can sittervise anywhere at any age as long as there are safety measures in place [or] a contained space.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“They’re making up their own rules and societies, and they’re just learning so much about play when an adult doesn’t get involved.”
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Allowing her kids to experience some freedom and independence has paid off, said Crawley, as she’s noticed more confidence and creativity in them along with an improvement in speech and social skills.
Sittervising promotes confidence in both children and parents, said one mom. Kids get comfortable as parents begin to trust their young ones’ decisions. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
When her kids were younger, she found herself “getting burned out” regularly, which is partly why she began using sittervising techniques.
Crawley said she feels like a “big kid mom” now that her boys, Bryan, 6, and Benjamin, 5, have gotten a little older.
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“There’s more distance, and they get more space,” she said. “They can even go to the neighbor’s house and I can see them in the front yard out the window.”
“So I guess sittervising kind of graduated into more and more space as they build their confidence and I build my confidence in them — knowing that they’re not getting into trouble.”
Crawley, pictured with her husband, Matthew, and their kids at the beach, said she’s loved seeing the children grow in confidence over time. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
Don Grant, PhD, a psychologist, researcher and national adviser for Healthy Device Management of Newport Healthcare in Los Angeles, California, told Fox News Digital that he feels sittervising could be useful to parents who need a break once in a while.
Parents should also be mindful of the importance of attachment theory, he said.
“They can even go to the neighbor’s house and I can see them in the front yard out the window,” said Crawley of how she “sittervises” on a daily basis. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
“This is just allowing your child to be able to see that you’re there,” he said. “This is very important, especially in those early years of building attachment.”
“It’s important that your child can check in.”
“They’re thriving academically. They’re thriving physically and emotionally. And sittervising is just another way for them to thrive.”
Grant said sittervising should comprise more than just a parent sitting near their child but without an awareness of what they’re doing; the parent needs to be observant and ready to hop into a situation if necessary.
When children look up, “all they need is reassurance,” he said. “This builds a very strong, secure attachment.”
He added, “And if the child looks up even just to check to make sure you’re still there, you make eye contact and smile.”
Grant agreed that sittervising can promote independence as parents let children be creative and imaginative on their own.
Crawley, shown with her family, calls herself “The Fun Homeschool Mom” on Instagram. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
Crawley said she has enjoyed seeing her boys grow in independent play.
“I just love watching them thrive in every way,” she said.
Crawley’s two boys are pictured when they were a bit younger. “There are so many activities that we have to be so hands-on with,” she said of parenting. “And then when I realized that play was something I could be hands-off with — that was a breakthrough moment.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“They’re thriving academically. They’re thriving physically and emotionally,” she said.
“And sittervising is just another way for them to thrive.”
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Virginia Dems send Spanberger bill that could let some repeat offenders out without secured bond, expert warns
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A top national figure in the bail industry warned of the dangers behind a Virginia bill heading to Gov. Abigail Spanberger’s desk that would remove bond requirements for previously convicted felons.
Virginia state Del. Katrina Callsen, D-Charlottesville, drafted HB 357, which critics say makes it easier for criminals to get out of jail on an unsecured bond. The bill passed both chambers in Richmond along party lines.
In comments to Fox News Digital on Monday, National Association of Bail Agents President Michelle Esquenazi said she was familiar with the Virginia legislation and that it will only serve to erode public safety.
“We believe any time recidivist offenders are released due to unsecured bail policies, it puts communities in direct danger,” Esquenazi said. “Many are unaware of how secured bonds insulate public safety throughout the United States of America.”
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Virginia Democratic gubernatorial candidate and former Rep. Abigail Spanberger arrives at a canvass launch event in Lake Ridge, Virginia, on Nov. 2, 2025. The image also shows an empty jail cell in a composite photo. (Win McNamee/Getty Images; Michael Matthey/picture alliance via Getty Images)
“This bill is in direct contrast to the needs of all communities in Virginia, whether they are Republican, Democrat, or Independent.”
Esquenazi said criminals don’t choose victims based on political ideology and that policymakers have failed to understand that bringing criminals to justice should be nonpartisan.
While Callsen did not respond to requests for comment, similar legislation in recent years has often come about as a wish for offenders to receive “second chances” — a dynamic Fox News Digital asked Esquenazi about.
“The secured bail industry is an industry of second chances,” she said.
“However, if you’re going to continue to commit crime, policymakers have to understand and take into account that committing crime is not a mandate. It’s a career choice.”
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The Virginia Capitol in Richmond, Va., is shown on March 4, 2010. Virginia lawmakers handled hundreds of bills on Feb. 13, 2024, as a key legislative deadline neared. (Steve Helber/AP)
Policies like HB 357 serve to give recidivists more than just second but third and subsequent chances because a second chance is “only a title,” which the policies themselves far exceed, she said.
Justice Forward Virginia, a progressive criminal justice reform group focused on advancing related legislation, listed the bill in its section of 2026 priorities. The group did not respond to a request for comment.
Callsen’s bill removes language from Code of Virginia § 19.2-123 governing “Release of accused on unsecured bail or promise to appear” that currently states any person arrested for a felony or who is on bond for an unrelated arrest or on parole may only be released upon securing a secured bond.
Instead, it retains only language providing preestablished conditions of release for that offender.
Other critics took to X, including Club For Growth’s Andrew Follett, who posted a passage from Soviet dissident Alexander Solzhenitsyn about a civilian being punished more for being caught with a concealed knife than a felon for whom it would be “mere misbehavior; tradition” — and commented that “Democrats have a crush on criminals — it isn’t more complicated than that.”
“Under leftist ideology, society is responsible for crime, not individuals,” Follett said.
“Or, [Virginia House] Speaker Don Scott is preparing for his next arrest,” quipped another X user.
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Scott, D-Portsmouth, served more than 7 years of a 10-year 1994 sentence for federal crack cocaine-related charges — and was one of thousands of convicts who had their rights to vote and serve in office restored by GOP Gov. Robert F. McDonnell in 2013.
After former President Biden pardoned him in 2025, Scott said that his “journey from being arrested as a law student to standing here today as the first Black Speaker of the House of Delegates in Virginia’s 405-year history is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and transformative power of second chances,” according to Hampton Roads’ ABC affiliate.
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‘90 Day Fiancé’ alum’s boyfriend on trial for attempted murder over wild ‘Boca Bash’ accusations
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The boyfriend of a reality TV star who appeared on “90 Day Fiancé” faces trial this week on charges he tried to murder her while they were boating in South Florida.
Cole Goldberg was initially charged with domestic battery by strangulation. The charge was upgraded more than a year after the incident to attempted second-degree murder, according to the Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office.
Investigators said Goldberg and Caroline Schwitzky, 32, got into a heated argument while the two were attending the annual boat party event, “Boca Bash” on April 24, 2022. At the time, the couple had been dating for about a year.
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Cole Goldberg, the boyfriend of “90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?” star, Caroline Schwitzky, is accused of trying to strangle and drown her in Florida. (Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office)
When Schwitzky attempted to escape the vessel, Cole “was grabbing her very aggressively” to keep her on the boat, according to a police report obtained by Law&Crime.
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Caroline Schwitzky, 32, was attacked by her boyfriend while on a boat in Florida, authorities said. She was also arrested for a warrant from another county, according to jail records. (Palm Beach County Sheriff’s Office)
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Schwitzky, the CEO of Miami talent agency Urge and a mom of three, allegedly punched Goldberg’s arms to free herself during the struggle, which lasted roughly 20 minutes. She jumped into the water to swim to a nearby boat, a witness told authorities.
Goldberg went after her and allegedly tried to drown her. A bystander named Matt Paris jumped in and intervened.
Boca Bash on Lake Boca Raton on April 27, 2025, in Boca Raton, Florida. Hundreds of party-goers floated on the lakes in boats, kayaks and paddle boards. (Greg Lovett/Imagn)
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Schwitzky appeared on “90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?” in 2016 as talent agent to Paola Mayfield.
According to CourtTV, prosecutors offered Goldberg a plea agreement that would have required him to serve six months in jail and three years of probation, as well as write a 500-word letter of apology. He turned down the offer, saying he would not accept a plea to a felony.
Fox News’ Louis Casiano contributed to this report.
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A former Louisiana mayor is on trial after prosecutors allege her teenage son caught her having sex with one of his 16-year-old friends at a booze-filled pool party.
Misty Roberts, 43, the former mayor of DeRidder, is facing charges of carnal knowledge of a juvenile and indecent behavior with a juvenile, according to KPLC. She has pleaded not guilty.
Roberts’ second trial is underway after the first case resulted in a mistrial due to judicial issues in nearby Beauregard Parish, the outlet reported.
The charges stem from a 2024 late-night gathering at Roberts’ home.
Misty Roberts, 43, the former mayor of DeRidder, is facing charges of carnal knowledge of a juvenile and indecent behavior with a juvenile, according to KPLC. (Louisiana Highway Patrol)
Last week, Roberts’ children and her ex-husband took the stand in her trial, along with a DoorDash driver, family friend and multiple teenagers who were present at the party, according to KPLC.
Jurors were shown a video interview of Roberts’ son, taken last year, in which the teenager reportedly told authorities he witnessed his mother having sex with his friend through a crack in a window during the party.
However, upon taking the stand last week, the teenager reportedly told jurors he was not certain of what he actually saw that evening.
Roberts’ defense attorneys have disputed the recording, telling jurors that part of the interview could have been improperly transcribed.
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Prosecutors allege Misty Roberts had sex with her son’s 16-year-old friend at a booze-filled house party in 2024. (Misty Roberts/Facebook)
Text messages between the mother and son were also shown to the jury, with the pair discussing what type of alcohol the teenagers wanted for the party.
In another exchange, Roberts’ son warned her of the victim’s age, texting her, “He is seventeen,” according to the outlet. The victim was 16 years old at the time of the alleged incident.
Additional text messages from the night of the party show Roberts’ son calling the situation “crazy” and telling her that his younger sister was emotional.
Upon taking the stand, Roberts’ daughter told the court that she witnessed her mother and the victim “on top of each other” the night of the party,” KPLC reported.
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Following the alleged encounter, prosecutors reportedly said the victim’s mother texted Roberts to confirm she was not pregnant.
Roberts replied that she was on birth control, and later screenshotted the messages and sent them in a separate group chat while suggesting she would take an emergency contraceptive known as “Plan B.”
Jurors also heard from a DoorDash driver who testified that he fulfilled an order from “Misty C” to purchase the emergency contraceptive and leave it at the front door of the home, the outlet reported.
The driver added that he later heard rumors about the alleged incident and believed his delivery was connected.
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Roberts’ nephew also testified that he attempted to see what was happening in the room during the party by using his phone’s camera, but was unsure if he recorded any footage and did not send anything to anyone following the alleged encounter, according to the outlet.
The nephew also admitted to deleting his Snapchat memories before investigators took custody of his phone because he did not want to get in trouble over photos of underage drinking, adding he did not intend to delete evidence.
Another member of the victim’s friend group also told jurors that he witnessed Roberts flirting with the victim on the night of the party, while revealing the boy appeared to be drunk and vomited later that night, KPLC reported.
On Saturday, Roberts’ ex-husband, Duncan Clanton, reportedly testified that Roberts confessed to having sex with the teenage boy and that the couple’s children had caught them in the act.
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Misty Roberts is currently on trial in Beauregard Parish for allegedly having sex with her son’s 16-year-old friend at a house party in 2024. (Google Maps)
Jurors were also shown text messages between the married couple, in which Clanton told Roberts, “I would deny what happened if you’re approached by anyone at the meeting,” on the day of a city council meeting.
In another exchange, Clanton reportedly testified Roberts texted him, “I need you to deny it, please.”
Clanton added that while he refused to deny the allegations, he avoided talking about the incident.
“I can’t keep hurting others, friends and family. Lord knows I’ve done enough,” Roberts reportedly texted Clanton, according to KPLC.
On cross-examination, when Roberts’ defense attorney asked Clanton if he felt as though Roberts was a good mom, the father reportedly answered, “No.”
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Roberts resigned from her position as mayor just days before her arrest in 2024. She was initially prohibited from making contact with her children without permission from Clanton and the court revoked child support.
Roberts’ defense attorney did not immediately respond to Fox News Digital’s request for comment.
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