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Mom praises viral parenting tactic as she allows her kids to play by themselves: 'Whole new world'
A Mississippi mom who has raised her two boys with the help of a popular parenting concept is speaking out about how it’s shaped her family’s lives.
Laynah Rose Crawley, who calls herself “The Fun Homeschool Mom” on Instagram, said she first heard the term “sittervising” from Seattle-based mom Susie Allison, who had written about it on her blog, “The Busy Toddler.”
“As soon as I heard her say it, it gave me permission to be hands-off with my kids,” Crawley told Fox News Digital.
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“And it was like, ‘Oh, [this is] opening a whole new world for me.’”
“Sittervising” is a combination of the words “sitting” and “supervising.” A blog post by Allison entitled “Why you’ll find me sittervising,” has attracted attention among parents online ever since it was posted in 2022.
Two children play together without parental hovering or interference. A Mississippi mother has become a huge advocate of the parenting trend known as sittervising after she heard about it from a blogger. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
Crawley described the method as “allowing children to play independently in the same room as you without [the parents] getting involved in their play.”
The way Crawley has incorporated sittervising in her life over the years has developed, she said, as her two boys have grown.
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Crawley became a mom of two in 2018 when she adopted a toddler just months after giving birth to a son.
One of her Crawley’s young sons, Bryan, is pictured here. The mom describes sittervising as allowing “children to play independently in the same room as you without [the parents] getting involved in their play.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“I didn’t know what to do with a toddler, and I didn’t know what to do with a newborn, so it was kind of like double newness for me,” Crawley said.
“They were so demanding for a good reason. There are so many activities that we have to be so hands-on with. And then when I realized that play was something I could be hands-off with — that was a breakthrough moment.”
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When her boys were around the ages of three and two, Crawley began sittervising to teach them independence.
It also gave her a chance to rest for a period of time.
She would play with them for five or 10 minutes to establish a form of connection — an “emotional need” that Crawley highlights among her parenting methods.
Crawley lets her boys play on their own without any adult interjection, and she will take the opportunity to accomplish tasks around the house. Crawley’s son Benjamin is pictured here playing with a toy cash register. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
After playing with them for some time, Crawley takes a step back as the boys continue playing by themselves.
She also noted that the environment will change over time as the kids grow.
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“There’s a quote that I love that says, ‘Control the environment, release a child.’ You can sittervise anywhere at any age as long as there are safety measures in place [or] a contained space.”
With independence comes freedom, said Crawley — and sittervising allows kids to play in fun, creative ways outside the boundaries that adults may construct.
“There’s a quote that I love that says, ‘Control the environment, release a child.’ You can sittervise anywhere at any age as long as there are safety measures in place [or] a contained space.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“They’re making up their own rules and societies, and they’re just learning so much about play when an adult doesn’t get involved.”
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Allowing her kids to experience some freedom and independence has paid off, said Crawley, as she’s noticed more confidence and creativity in them along with an improvement in speech and social skills.
Sittervising promotes confidence in both children and parents, said one mom. Kids get comfortable as parents begin to trust their young ones’ decisions. (Laynah Rose Crawley)
When her kids were younger, she found herself “getting burned out” regularly, which is partly why she began using sittervising techniques.
Crawley said she feels like a “big kid mom” now that her boys, Bryan, 6, and Benjamin, 5, have gotten a little older.
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“There’s more distance, and they get more space,” she said. “They can even go to the neighbor’s house and I can see them in the front yard out the window.”
“So I guess sittervising kind of graduated into more and more space as they build their confidence and I build my confidence in them — knowing that they’re not getting into trouble.”
Crawley, pictured with her husband, Matthew, and their kids at the beach, said she’s loved seeing the children grow in confidence over time. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
Don Grant, PhD, a psychologist, researcher and national adviser for Healthy Device Management of Newport Healthcare in Los Angeles, California, told Fox News Digital that he feels sittervising could be useful to parents who need a break once in a while.
Parents should also be mindful of the importance of attachment theory, he said.
“They can even go to the neighbor’s house and I can see them in the front yard out the window,” said Crawley of how she “sittervises” on a daily basis. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
“This is just allowing your child to be able to see that you’re there,” he said. “This is very important, especially in those early years of building attachment.”
“It’s important that your child can check in.”
“They’re thriving academically. They’re thriving physically and emotionally. And sittervising is just another way for them to thrive.”
Grant said sittervising should comprise more than just a parent sitting near their child but without an awareness of what they’re doing; the parent needs to be observant and ready to hop into a situation if necessary.
When children look up, “all they need is reassurance,” he said. “This builds a very strong, secure attachment.”
He added, “And if the child looks up even just to check to make sure you’re still there, you make eye contact and smile.”
Grant agreed that sittervising can promote independence as parents let children be creative and imaginative on their own.
Crawley, shown with her family, calls herself “The Fun Homeschool Mom” on Instagram. (Annie Cooper Photography/@anniecooper.photography)
Crawley said she has enjoyed seeing her boys grow in independent play.
“I just love watching them thrive in every way,” she said.
Crawley’s two boys are pictured when they were a bit younger. “There are so many activities that we have to be so hands-on with,” she said of parenting. “And then when I realized that play was something I could be hands-off with — that was a breakthrough moment.” (Laynah Rose Crawley)
“They’re thriving academically. They’re thriving physically and emotionally,” she said.
“And sittervising is just another way for them to thrive.”
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Family member of American killed by Cuban forces in boat shootout says he was on ‘diabolical’ mission
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The brother of an American citizen killed in a brazen boat clash with Cuban forces says his sibling was consumed by an “obsessive and diabolical” push to free the island and that “no one knew” what he was planning.
American citizen Michel Ortega Casanova, who worked as a truck driver, was one of 10 passengers on a Florida-registered boat that allegedly opened fire on Cuban soldiers in an attempt to infiltrate the island.
A Monroe County Sheriff’s Office incident report obtained by Fox News noted the boat’s owner reported it stolen Wednesday after hearing about the Cuba shootout on the news.
The owner, who did not speak English, told deputies his 24-foot vessel went missing, and he suspected an employee named Hector — who had two young daughters in Cuba — may have taken it.
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Ortega Casanova, who lived in the U.S. for more than two decades, was one of four killed in the attempt. He is survived by his wife, mother, brother, two sisters, daughter and unborn grandchild.
Six other passengers, all Cubans living in the U.S., were injured. It is unclear if Hector was on board.
Ortega Casanova’s brother, Misael, told The Associated Press Wednesday that his brother had an “obsessive and diabolical” pursuit for Cuba’s freedom.
“Only us Cubans who have lived over there understand [the great suffering],” Misael said.
He said “no one knew” about his brother’s plans to infiltrate the island, noting their mother is “devastated.”
“They became so obsessed that they didn’t think about the consequences nor their own lives,” Misael said.
While Ortega Casanova’s family did not recognize any of the other passengers, Misael said, “maybe [the attempt] will justify that some day Cuba will be free.”
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Cuban Coast Guard forces reported an exchange of gunfire with a U.S.-registered speedboat Wednesday. (Yamil Lage/AFP via Getty Images)
He refrained from labeling the group heroes, describing the idea as “ignorance.”
Cuban officials said many of the boat passengers, who were intercepted roughly a mile northeast of Cayo Falcones, off Cuba’s north coast, had a known history of criminal and violent activity.
Passengers Amijail Sánchez González and Leordan Enrique Cruz Gómez were wanted by Cuban authorities for their involvement in the “promotion, planning, organization, financing, support or commission of actions carried out in the national territory or in other countries, in connection with acts of terrorism,” according to the government.
Cuban politician Bruno Rodriguez Parrilla posted to X after the incident, claiming a “rigorous investigation” is being conducted to clarify the facts.
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“Cuba has had to face numerous terrorist and aggressive infiltrations originating from #EEUU since 1959, at a high cost in lives, injuries, and material damage,” Rodriguez Parrilla wrote in a post. “The defense of Cuba’s coasts, of the national territory, and of national security is an ineludible duty.”
Secretary of State Marco Rubio said the U.S. is working to determine whether the passengers were American citizens or permanent residents.
U.S. officials said at least two of the people on the bat were U.S. citizens, and another was on a U.S. K-1 visa — which is granted to fiancées of U.S. citizens for 90 days.
“We have various different elements of the U.S. government that are trying to identify elements of the story that may not be provided to us now,” Rubio told reporters in Basseterre, St. Kitts.
“Suffice it to say, it is highly unusual to see shootouts in open sea like that. It’s not something that happens every day. It’s something, frankly, that hasn’t happened with Cuba in a very long time.”
Cuban officials said the vessel’s passengers were intercepted off the country’s northern coast. (Nicolas Economou/NurPhoto)
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Rubio said the U.S. will verify the facts independently, and the U.S. Department of Homeland Security and U.S. Coast Guard are investigating.
Vice President JD Vance said he was briefed on the incident, and the White House is monitoring the situation.
“Hopefully it’s not as bad as we fear it could be,” Vance said.
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Florida’s Attorney General James Uthmeier said prosecutors will work with federal, state and law enforcement partners to start an investigation.
“The Cuban government cannot be trusted, and we will do everything in our power to hold these communists accountable,” Uthmeier wrote in a social media post.
The Associated Press contributed to this report.
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A North Carolina woman whose disappearance in 2001 triggered a 24-year search is now facing criminal charges from the year she vanished.
Michele Hundley Smith, now 63, was located Feb. 20 at an undisclosed location within North Carolina after detectives received new information about her case, the Rockingham County Sheriff’s Office said.
Smith was 38 when her husband reported that she left their Eden home Dec. 9, 2001, to go Christmas shopping in Martinsville, Virginia, and never returned. Her vehicle was never found.
An extensive investigation followed, and, despite years of investigative work, her whereabouts remained unknown until last week.
The 63-year-old woman posted $2,000 bond on a failure to appear charge related to a DWI from the month before she vanished for 24 years. (Robeson County Sheriff’s Office)
Authorities said Smith told investigators she left on her own accord and referenced “domestic issues.”
Sheriff Sam Page told Fox News Digital the sheriff’s office had no prior record of domestic incidents at the home. No criminal charges are expected in her disappearance. However, following her identification, investigators discovered an outstanding order for arrest dating back to 2001.
A missing persons flyer circulated at the time of Michele Hundely Smith’s disappearance in December 2001. (Bring Michele Hundely Smith Home/Facebook)
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In a statement, the Rockingham County Sheriff’s Office said that, after consultation with the District Attorney’s Office and further investigation, authorities identified an outstanding order for arrest for Smith for failure to appear.
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The order stemmed from a DWI charge issued by the Eden Police Department Nov. 11, 2001. Smith failed to appear in court Dec. 27, 2001, for that charge, the statement said.
On Feb. 25, 2026, Smith was taken into custody by the Robeson County Sheriff’s Office at the request of Rockingham County authorities. She later posted a $2,000 bond and is scheduled to appear in Rockingham County District Court March 26, 2026.
A missing mom found alive after 23 years reveals she left due to domestic issues. (Bring Michele Hundely Smith Home/Facebook)
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On Thursday, the New York Post reported it had located Smith in a trailer in a rural community near the South Carolina state line. Smith told the outlet she is trying to make amends with her daughter and the family she walked out on decades ago.
“My daughter is forgiving me. We are in contact, so leave me alone,” she told the outlet.
Smith’s neighbors said she had “been here for years and years” and mostly keeps to herself.
“We asked why she didn’t come out of the house much, and she said her husband passed. He passed last year. … She was really sad about it. She said she was depressed and stayed inside,” the neighbor said.
Michele Hundely Smith disappeared after leaving her home in North Carolina to go Christmas shopping in Virginia in December 2001. (Bring Michele Hundely Smith Home/Facebook)
In a 2018 interview on “The Vanished Podcast,” her daughter, Amanda Hundley, said her mother’s marriage was unraveling under the weight of alcohol abuse, infidelity and escalating marital arguments.
Smith had recently lost her job at a veterinary practice after being fired for drinking on the job, Hundley said.
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“My dad didn’t like the fact that my mom hid her drinking. I knew about it, and I was the only one. And I felt, you know, I was young, and I felt obligated not to say anything to betray my mom,” Hundley said on the podcast.
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According to Hundley, her father suspected the drinking but did not fully understand the extent of it until after Smith vanished.
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“He said, ‘Do you know where she kept the bottles at?’ And I showed them we had a little red building outside, and it was full of rum bottles, the empties, the ones that she had already drunk,” recalled Hundley, who was 14 at the time.
The couple’s relationship had also deteriorated. Hundley said both her parents had affairs during the marriage. She described frequent arguments that “got physical a few times.”
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Atlanta-area police blast parents over vodka martini packed in school lunch: ‘That is NOT apple juice’
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An Atlanta-area police department issued a blunt notice to parents after officers claimed a child brought a vodka-based beverage to school — tucked beside Doritos in a packed lunch.
The City of South Fulton Police Department sounded off about the incident in a now-viral Facebook post, warning parents to “CHECK. THE. LUNCHBOX.”
“Say Twin… Before you send them babies off to school… CHECK. THE. LUNCHBOX. Because why are we getting reports of juice boxes sitting next to… Cutwater margaritas??” the department wrote.
Officials also shared a photo of the alleged lunchbox, containing what appears to be a child’s lunch, Doritos and a Cutwater Lemon Drop Martini.
The police department shared a photo of a Cutwater canned cocktail in a lunchbox. (City of South Fulton Police Department via Facebook)
“That is NOT Capri Sun. That is NOT Apple Juice. That is a whole ‘Parent had a long night’ starter pack,” the department wrote. “Now little Johnny done pulled up to 3rd period talking about: ‘Who want fruit snacks?’ knowing good and well he got a Lemon Drop Martini in the zipper pocket.”
Cutwater Lemon Drop Martinis, as found in the lunchbox, are 11% ABV ready-to-drink cocktails made with vodka, triple sec, lemon juice and natural flavors.
They come in 12-ounce cans, similar in appearance to a soda can.
The City of South Fulton Police Department issued a statement after the apparent mishap. (City of South Fulton Police Department via Facebook)
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The department said it understands mornings can be hectic, but issued a stern notice to parents to “TIGHTEN UP.”
“Your child shouldn’t be the only one in the cafeteria with a beverage that requires an ID,” authorities wrote. “If it says 12% ABV… it does NOT belong next to a PB&J.”
Officials also provided a “quick parent checklist,” with items including: “Homework,” “Lunch packed,” and “Alcoholic beverages.”
Boxes of Cutwater Tiki Rum Mai Tai and Strawberry Margarita canned cocktails. (Gado/Getty Images)
“Check the lunchbox before the Fulton County Schools Police resource officers gotta do inventory at recess,” the department added.
It is unclear if any parents or students were disciplined in relation to the mix-up.
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Fulton County Schools did not immediately respond to Fox News Digital’s request for comment.
The City of South Fulton, Georgia, is a rapidly growing municipality located about 20 minutes from Atlanta and Hartsfield-Jackson International Airport.
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