Washington, D.C
I lived in rural Pennsylvania for 23 years before moving to a big city. The culture shock was real.
- I moved to Washington, DC, after living in rural Pennsylvania for 23 years.
- Learning how to commute was difficult at first, but it opened up so many options for me.
- The work culture was a bit intense, but I loved how much there was to do after work and on weekends.
I grew up in rural Pennsylvania, tucked away in a stretch of the Appalachian Mountains known as the Endless Mountains. It was beautiful and quiet there, and I spent many of my days reading in sunny patches of grass.
But right after college, I moved to the Columbia Heights neighborhood in Washington, DC, for work and traded mountains for monuments.
Transitioning from Amish country to hill-staffer-tech-bro culture led to immense culture shock. But in DC, I learned how to navigate city life and experienced a lot of firsts.
Here are the three biggest surprises I encountered when I moved.
Learning how to commute was difficult at first
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The fast-paced nature of the city surprised me. I grew up in a one-stoplight town, and the transition to DC traffic was jarring.
In the part of Pennsylvania where I grew up, driving was my only mode of transportation. In fact, I could anticipate a nearly hourlong drive to access the nearest chain stores.
However, learning about the different ways to use public transportation in the city was exciting. On my first day of work, I figured out how to ride the bus and use the metro system. I also started riding a bike consistently for the first time since I was 12 and walked more than I ever had before.
I also discovered new challenges, like surrendering to the mercy of public transit delays and struggling to carry my groceries home. However, I gained something I didn’t previously have access to — options.
The work culture in DC was intense
My first full-time job was in the Capitol Hill neighborhood, so right out of college, I felt like I was thrown into the most competitive work culture. For better or worse, every moment felt like a networking event.
One of the most “DC experiences” I had was joining a community pickleball group and discovering that the group was made up of people who worked for ESPN, the ACLU, and the Peace Corps.
Although I loved discovering what people do for a living, work culture is often prioritized over everything else. This was a part of life in DC that I had a hard time reckoning with.
I’m still trying to ditch the habit of asking, “So what do you do?” when I meet a stranger.
I had so many more opportunities for after-work activities
Olivia Bardo
After work, I rode my bike to the library and picked out brightly colored books. At night, I danced to live music at the 9:30 Club.
On Saturday mornings, I wove my way through places like the Hirshhorn Museum and Renwick Gallery, then wandered around to find a new coffee shop. Food was everywhere, and it was delicious. I indulged in tahini lattes, ube waffles, and bowls of spicy ramen.
Being in a big city also meant I could discover more of my interests, which had been patiently waiting to be found.
Although my time living in DC has concluded, I’m grateful for the many ways it has shaped me and directed my next steps.
Washington, D.C
Who will lead DC police? Search for new chief begins – WTOP News
The D.C. police department is once again searching for a new chief who will lead the department following Pamela Smith’s departure.
About two years after Pamela Smith was approved to lead officers on a permanent basis, the D.C. police department is once again searching for a new chief.
Smith said Monday that she will step away from her position at the end of the year, calling it a personal decision she talked over with family.
D.C. Mayor Muriel Bowser spoke about Smith’s resignation during a news conference Monday.
“I’ve been around long enough to know and to have lived through transitions,” Bowser said. “There are ways to approach this period of time and do it in a way that’s going to be most beneficial to D.C. residents. I’m going to marinate on it a little bit, and I’ll appoint the right, perfect person.”
Bowser will nominate the department’s next chief. The next permanent police chief will also need to earn the approval of the D.C. Council.
Smith’s resignation isn’t the only shake-up in D.C.’s leadership.
The mayor recently announced that she won’t seek reelection for a fourth term. With about a year left on the job, a reporter asked Bowser about the “challenges” associated with searching for a new chief as she prepares to exit office.
“I don’t call it a challenge,” Bowser said. “Because of the very deep bench we have and because of the great reputation of our department.”
Bowser said she will look internally for a new chief but would be open to nominating an external candidate.
“I’m obviously going to start first with the best police department in the nation,” Bowser said.
At the time Smith took over as chief in 2023, D.C. was at the peak of a crime wave.
Under her leadership, rates of crime have fallen. According to data provided by D.C. police, overall crime dropped 18% in 2025. Homicides are down 30% this year.
What should Bowser be looking for? Groups weigh in
The D.C. Police Union called on Bowser to collaborate with its members in the search for a new permanent chief.
“The ideal candidate must demonstrate proven leadership qualities that prioritize respect for the rank-and-file officers, foster trust within our communities, and commit to reforming broken policies lingering from the misguided ‘defund the police’ era, which resulted in laws and regulations that have undermined effective policing and officer morale,” the union wrote in a news release Monday morning.
Congressman Oye Owolewa, who represents the District in the U.S. House, said there’s an opportunity presented by the change in leadership. He also will not be seeking reelection as D.C.’s shadow representative in 2026.
“As we look ahead, it is my hope that this transition presents an opportunity to continue strengthening trust between law enforcement and the communities they serve, while advancing policies rooted in accountability, transparency, and true public safety for all,” Owolewa wrote in a statement.
Looking ahead, Bethany Young, policy director with D.C. Justice Lab, believes the next chief has a chance to make D.C. a national model.
“It feels like it’s in the air, like there’s something really that we’re on the precipice of,” said Young, whose organization pushes for police reform in the District.
Young said she hopes they will listen to residents and be open to reforms, such as limiting traffic stops for minor violations and supporting alternatives to policing for behavioral health crises.
“They want to see more accountability,” Young told WTOP. “They want to see more oversight. They want to have more information about how policing is operating in D.C.”
She also believes the next chief should rely on data, not politics, and be bold enough to speak out when policing practices don’t align with community needs.
“There are certain things that a police chief … cannot control,” Young said. “However, you always have a voice.”
She said the organization didn’t see eye to eye with the chief when it came to what she called an increase in unnecessary police interactions, collaboration with federal agencies and a lack of transparency and accountability.
‘What I’d like to do is give them encouragement’
Smith’s departure comes at a time when D.C. police officers have worked alongside federal partners, such as patrols with National Guard members.
City leaders have insisted police do not work directly alongside U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement officers; but some D.C. residents have reported instances where immigrants are arrested for minor infractions and arrested by ICE agents moments later.
Smith was asked about advice for the next chief and what guidance she has given to police officers in navigating law enforcement responsibilities alongside federal partners.
“They know probably better than I do what’s happening in community from day to day with our federal partners, because a lot of them are very intimately involved, especially our commanders,” Smith said. “At this point, I don’t need to give them any advice. I think what I’d like to do is give them encouragement.”
Smith, who has served in law enforcement for 28 years, said she will be available to support the department’s next leader.
“I will be available to the incoming or interim to provide him or her support with respect to the direction that the police department will continue,” Smith said.
For the next chief, Smith said three things are critical: communication, collaboration with partners and being involved with the community.
“My phone rings all time of day, all time of night, and you have to answer the call, you have to answer the phone, you have to show up,” Smith said.
A passion for D.C. residents is essential, she said.
“You may have to sit in somebody’s basement to have a conversation about something,” Smith said. “You have to dress down sometimes. Sometimes I’m in the community, and people don’t know I’m there. It’s just to protect the anonymity of the folks who really trust the Metropolitan Police Department, but sometimes are afraid to share the information that’s necessary.”
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List: What to do in the DC area this week and weekend, through Dec. 14
We share the best things to do every weekend in The Weekend Scene newsletter – it’s completely free to subscribe!
Wreaths Across America returns this weekend, inviting people across the country to decorate service members’ graves with festive greenery.
Volunteers and organizers will work to place more than a quarter-million wreaths just at Arlington National Cemetery, and many more at over 5,400 locations nationwide. Anyone can donate or sign up to volunteer for this holiday tradition.
Here’s what else to do this week in the Washington, D.C. area.
What to do in Washington, D.C.
Home Alone in concert with the National Symphony Orchestra: Tues., The Anthem, $102
Light Yards Express: Weds., The Yards Park, free
Tingey Plaza Holiday Market: Fri. to Sun., The Yards, free
Gay Men’s Chorus of Washington – The Holiday Show: Sat., Sun. and Dec. 20, Lincoln Theatre, $68.40
National Kiss Under the National Mistletoe: Sat., 3-6 p.m., Anthem Row, free
WWE Saturday Night’s Main Event – John Cena’s Final Match: Sat., 7:30 p.m., Capital One Arena, $303+ (there’s also a free fan event)
National Menorah Lighting: Sun., The Ellipse, free
What to do in Maryland
Holiday Trains and Planes: Fri., 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., College Park Aviation Museum, $5 adults; $4 seniors; $2 students and free for children under 2
Takoma Park Gift Market: Fri., Ethan Allen and Carroll Aves., free
Skate With Santa: Sat., 2-4 p.m., Tucker Road Ice Rink in Fort Washington, $6-$9 and $4 for skate rental
BlackRock Center for the Arts Celebrates The Season market and music: Sat., noon to 4 p.m., Germantown, free
Concert – Earth, Wind & Fire: Fri. and Sat., The Theater at MGM National Harbor, $140+
Indoor Holiday Market at rio: Sat. and Sun., Gaithersburg, free
What to do in Virginia
Capital Art & Craft Festival: Fri. to Sun., Dulles Expo Center, $10 in advance or $12 at the door (free for kids 12 and under)
Wreaths Across America at Arlington National Cemetery: Sat., 8 a.m., Arlington, free
Old Town Alexandria Christmas Market and Holiday Craft Show: Sat., 11 a.m. to 4 p.m., John Carlyle Square, free
Kwanzaa Celebration: Sat., noon to 2 p.m., Alexandria Black History Museum, $15
Holidays in Purcellville – parade, market and more: Sat., various locations, free
Hillsboro Holiday Homes Tour: Sat., Hillsboro, $18-$28
Ice & Lights – The Winter Village at Cameron Run: Through Feb., Alexandria, $14.82
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Family of man killed by off-duty FBI agent in Metro Center files $15M lawsuit
Three years after his death during an altercation with an off-duty FBI agent inside Metro Center station, Troy Bullock’s family continues to seek justice — now in a $15 million lawsuit.
The U.S. Attorney’s Office for the District of Columbia previously said there was insufficient evidence to pursue federal civil rights charges or D.C. criminal charges against the FBI agent.
The lawsuit’s court documents obtained by News4 describe the incident as a “violation of civil rights, use of excessive force, an assault and battery, and an unreasonable search and seizure of Troy Bullock that resulted in his death at the hands of a federal law enforcement agent.”
It also goes into details about the incident, stating that it was the unidentified agent who initially approached Bullock regarding his conduct while he was waiting for an oncoming train.
After the incident, prosecutors said that the agent, whose identity was not released, said he saw Bullock start a fight with someone else.
The United State Attorney’s Office later said when the agent stepped in and told Bullock he should leave the person alone, Bullock became aggressive and pushed the agent, which allegedly caused the two to fall.
However, the lawsuit says, “Without provocation or legal justification, FBI Agent John Doe initiated a physical altercation by pushing or shoving Mr. Bullock.”
Surveillance video obtained by News4 at the time shows the struggle between the two men as they fell over a barrier about 8 feet to the ground below. Seconds later, shots were fired, and people started running.
As the struggle continued, the off-duty agent drew his service weapon and shot Bullock, who died at the station, authorities said.
Police later said Bullock had a gun on him during the incident.
The lawsuit calls his death the “[…] direct and proximate result of the actions of FBI Agent John Doe,” and that his actions were quote “objectively unreasonable, unwarranted, and undertaken with a reckless disregard for Mr. Bullock’s life and constitutional rights.”
The paperwork also claims that the agent failed to de-escalate the situation or utilize less-lethal alternatives, contrary to established law enforcement protocols.
This lawsuit seeks 15 million dollars for losses suffered by Bullock and his family and punitive damages against the agent, in an amount to be determined at trial.
News4 reached out to the FBI, and it said its standard practice is to decline comment on any pending litigation.
News4 also reached out to both Bullock’s family members, who have publicly spoken before, and the attorney that filed the lawsuit, but have not received a response.
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