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Is Delaware No. 1 for dating mind games? Where we rank, plus where to find chivalrous men
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Phish fans by the thousands run for fun in Mondegreen 5K
The morning after staying up for the opening sets at the Mondegreen festival, an early start for thousands of Phish fans meant a loop around the Monster Mile and through parts of the Dover campground. A festival tradition brought out both fast runners and creative costumes.
Dating has always been a source of drama and anxiety, both in real life and online. From reality TV shows with contestants dating multiple suitors to social media platforms where potential matches pop red balloons to show disinterest, the media often portrays dating as a game.
While these may be sensationalized versions of what takes place in the real world, dating remains challenging, particularly in the online realm. Dating apps have expanded the pool of potential partners but also have made forming genuine connections more difficult.
With the ability to conceal one’s identity or present an idealized version of oneself, mind games have become increasingly common, especially in the digital dating landscape. These manipulative tactics range from minor behaviors, like deliberately delaying responses to messages, to more serious actions such as ‘ghosting’ – abruptly cutting off all communication – or cyberstalking.
To gain a deeper insight into who is engaging in these behaviors, DatingNews.com polled over 2,000 Americans, exploring their experiences with mind games in romantic relationships.
Some of their key findings include:
- About 1 in every 5 respondents have created or used a fake social media account to cyber stalk someone they’re romantically interested in
- 56% of those surveyed have suddenly cut off communication or “ghosted” someone
- 30% of of those surveyed have canceled or moved plans to make the other person think they were busy when they, in fact, were not
- On average, 40% of survey participants have given a romantic partner an ultimatum
- 1 in every 3 Americans surveyed has intentionally sent a “wrong” message to someone to spark conversation
The survey also aimed to determine which states have the highest concentration of master manipulators.
According to the survey, The First State ranks first in the nation for having the biggest players.
Survey says Delaware residents are masters of romantic maneuvers
In the high-stakes game of love, it seems Delaware residents have emerged as the reigning champions of romantic gaslighters. According to survey responses, online daters in the First State were more frequently found to use mind games, such as canceling plans to appear busy, posting on social media for a specific person to see, and using the silent treatment in relationships.
The survey found these are the Top 10 states for online dating mind games:
- Delaware
- Alabama
- Mississippi
- Oklahoma
- Nevada
- Hawaii
- Illinois
- Maryland
- Georgia
- Texas
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This Delaware city has the most chivalrous men
While Delaware tops the ranking for online dating mind games, it’s worth exploring how this translates to real-life interactions. Interestingly, a separate DatingNews.com survey focused on the charm and chivalry of men in various cities.
In the poll, 3,000 single women were asked where the most charming men could be found. It turns out, Delaware’s most charming and chivalrous men reside in Wilmington, the state’s largest city.
The survey asked women to identify traits that best represent a ‘mannered man,’ based on behaviors like opening doors, planning thoughtful dates, and engaging in respectful conversations.
The findings showed single women looked for:
- Patience and understanding: 32%
- Politeness and respect: 31%
- Thoughtfulness and consideration: 19%
- Good communication skills: 14%
- Humility and modesty: 4%
The importance of chivalry remains significant, with 56% of respondents considering it “very important,” 41% deeming it “moderately important,” and only 2% attaching little importance to it.
The poll also unveiled a glimpse into the expectations of modern women in the dating world, noting the most appreciated behaviors on a date include:
- Engaging in respectful conversations (43%)
- Planning thoughtful and creative dates (18%)
- Offering genuine compliments (14%)
- Opening doors (12%)
- Being punctual and considerate of time (12%)
These findings illustrate that while the dating landscape has evolved, traditional values still play a crucial role in face-to-face interactions where the right mix of attentiveness, creativity and respect can prove irresistible.
You can contact Anitra Johnson at ajohnson@delawareonline.com.
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Del. 1st lady launches literacy tour with new children's book, ‘Books for Blue’
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“Meet baby blue hen nicknamed just Blue… the youngest one here and the smallest one, too…”
With these playful words, Delaware’s future leaders gathered around as first lady Tracey Quillen Carney turned a recent story time into an unforgettable adventure at the Wilmington Public Library. Quillen Carney read excerpts from her new children’s book, “Books for Blue” as she made the first stop on her statewide book tour. In the story, a small but determined chicken named Blue embarks on a quest for a new book, learning that every library visit offers a chance to discover something new with an open mind.
“We got an author in the house,” said Delaware Governor John Carney as he praised his wife’s dedication to children of the First State.
“The tour gives us an opportunity to show off a little bit with the incredible investment that we’ve made using mostly federal money and state funding for new libraries and to enhance existing libraries,” he said. “After serving as your governor for seven and a half years, it really gives me an opportunity to thank Tracy for sticking with me for all these years. For her service as first lady, for the tremendous work that she’s done and her part of our efforts to bring literacy to our state.”
The release of her first book is a cornerstone of the First Chance Delaware initiative, designed to provide every Delaware child with the opportunity to thrive. This effort focuses on enhancing learning readiness through literacy, health and robust parent-child engagement programs.
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9 Prettiest Towns to Visit in Delaware
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The oldest state in America, Delaware harbors a rich tapestry of national history woven among its scenic landscapes and shores along the Delaware River and Bay. From its founding in colonial times through the era that shaped our nation’s core values, Delaware’s small towns tell an enlightening story. Spread across the diverse landscapes of the First State; these pretty hamlets have all the hallmarks of a satisfying getaway. From riverfront ports offering a window to bygone trade missions to quaint villages enjoying rebirths as art communities, they reward travelers with captivating history, iconic landmarks, and vistas around each bend.
If you are planning a tour of the East Coast, these exciting towns to visit in Delaware promise an unforgettable vacation, whether a history enthusiast, culinary connoisseur, culture vulture, or outdoor thrill seeker.
Rehoboth Beach
Sunrise on the boardwalk in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. Editorial credit: Michelangelo DeSantis / Shutterstock.com
Rehoboth Beach’s tiny population of about 1,200 permanent residents grows over tenfold in the summer as a barrage of beach-loving tourists descend upon the adorable town. Set on the scenic Atlantic Coast, it enjoys stunning beach scenery that complements its cozy, sunny weather. The mile-long Rehoboth Beach Boardwalk presents a popular visitor hub where the young and old converge to explore a blend of family-friendly attractions, from amusement parks and restaurants to beach stores and souvenir shops. The town has ample opportunities for good-natured social interactions, especially at the weekly Rehoboth Beach Farmers Market.
Year-round events and festivals help keep Rehoboth Beach on many travelers’ itineraries, and the Rehoboth Beach Bandstand serves as the town’s primary entertainment center during summer. This open-air venue hosts a string of concerts featuring enthralling live performances.
New Castle
![Row homes adorned with American flags in the historic New Castle, Delaware.](https://www.worldatlas.com/r/w768/upload/c4/82/c2/shutterstock-2497631503.jpg)
Sidewalk in New Castle, Delaware. Editorial credit: Khairil Azhar Junos / Shutterstock.com
Situated less than 15 minutes from Wilmington, this historic community on the Delaware River offers a relaxed escape from the big city. Thanks to a rich heritage spanning over three centuries, it is the perfect destination for historically inclined travelers. This manifests through the numerous historical sites across the town, housed in rustic buildings with conspicuous red-brick construction. The Amstel House Museum is an excellent example, a well-preserved colonial mansion from the 1730s. Touring the Read House & Gardens delivers a glimpse into the late 18th century inside a Federal-style mansion.
Meanwhile, the Dutch House Museum is one of the town’s oldest structures, dating back to the 1600s. Inside the venue, guests can explore a library of historical information and artifacts documenting Dutch heritage in the area. Beyond this rich past, New Castle welcomes tourists to shop for farm produce, handicrafts, and collectibles at the bustling New Castle Farmers Market.
Lewes
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2nd Street in downtown Lewes, Delaware. By Tim Kiser, CC BY-SA 2.5, Wikimedia Commons
Rich history meets scenic outdoors in this coastal community on Delaware Bay. Lewes was the state’s first European settlement, settled by the Dutch in 1631. Its long and colorful past is preserved at the Lewes Historical Historical Society through old photographs, archives, and artifacts. Visitors can delve deeper into local history at the Zwaanendael Museum, which commemorates Delaware’s first European settlement and is modeled after the former city hall in Hoorn, Netherlands. Touring the facility reveals a selection of artifacts chronicling the region’s social, military, and maritime heritage.
The Historic Lewes Farmers Market supplies residents and visitors with fresh produce straight from the farm, from vegetables and fruits to meats. It also offers an opportunity to mingle with townsfolk and experience local culture. Finally, Pirates of Lewes are among the different outfitters that take visitors on themed boat tours for a unique experience.
Milton
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The Pride Fest near the Milton Theatre in Milton, Delaware. Editorial credit: Khairil Azhar Junos / Shutterstock.com
This quaint village in Sussex County lies along the banks of the Broadkill River, which flows into the Delaware Bay. Its origin traces back to 1672 when English colonists settled in the area, later becoming a vital shipbuilding hub. This rich history comes alive in the Milton Historic District, which houses over 150 historical structures from the 1700s to the early 1900s. The Milton Historical Society lures those curious to uncover the town’s past with enlightening exhibits. Milton is also known for its thriving cultural scene, which newcomers can sample by catching entertaining live shows at the Milton Theatre.
Milton Memorial Park assures guests of readily available outdoor opportunities. This riverside reserve offers a chill atmosphere for those who enjoy rich natural settings. It has a nice walking path and picnic spaces, and the Broadkill River is accessible if you fancy a laid-back kayaking or canoeing excursion.
Bethany Beach
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Bethany Beach, Delaware. By PointsofNoReturn, CC BY-SA 4.0, Wikimedia Commons
First-timers easily fall for the small-town charm and beautiful vistas synonymous with this coastal community. Walking down the Bethany Beach Boardwalk hints at why Bethany Beach is considered among the most charming towns to visit in Delaware. The area boasts a festive atmosphere with a mix of shopping spots, dining outlets, and souvenir shops to explore while taking in the fresh Atlantic breeze. Further inland, the Bethany Beach Nature Center exposes you to gorgeous greenery spread across an approximately 26-acre park with tidal wetlands and forested upland habitats.
Bethany Beach has the ideal vibe for a remarkable family getaway, a credit to attractions like the Shore Fun Family Fun Center. The fabulous facility guarantees wholesome fun for all ages with various entertaining activities, such as pinball machines, arcade games, and air hockey.
Georgetown
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Georgetown Hundred in Sussex County, Delaware. By Harrison Keely, CC BY 4.0, Wikimedia Commons
Tourists visiting Georgetown keep returning for the immersive historical journey it delivers. The seat of Sussex County has a rich legacy stretching back to the 18th century and harbors numerous landmarks and sites preserving its past. Prominent among these is the Marvel Carriage Museum, which exhibits a collection of restored buildings and antique carriages depicting life in the formative eras. Meanwhile, the Georgetown Train Station documents the town’s railroad heritage inside a 19th-century facility.
With multiple antique shops spread across downtown, guests can leave with a piece of the town to remind them of the experience by shopping at the Georgetown Antiques Market. Art lovers will, however, prefer to get cultured by watching a delightful live performance at Possum Point Players.
Dover
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West Loockerman Street in downtown Dover, Delaware. By Tim Kiser, CC BY-SA 2.5, Wikimedia Commons
Despite being Delaware’s capital, Dover has a quintessential small-town feel with a population under 40,000 and lovely natural spaces. Most travelers praise the community for its impressive blend of attractions, which caters to all visitor preferences. History enthusiasts are spoilt for choice and can find a treasure trove of sites to explore, including the First State Heritage Park and the Johnson Victrola Museum. Elsewhere, art enthusiasts can look forward to visual and performance art experiences at the Biggs Museum of American Art and the Schwartz Center for the Arts, respectively.
Finally, ardent outdoor enthusiasts will love exploring Silver Lake Park to enjoy its recreational opportunities. This urban oasis features an easygoing and welcoming atmosphere that draws adventurers to stroll along its wooded trails, picnic on its grassy grounds, and fish for striped bass, catfish, and bluegill in Silver Lake.
Middletown
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Downtown Middletown, Delaware, in the historic district. By Acroterion, CC BY-SA 4.0, Wikimedia Commons
This lovely community of about 25,000 is home to the Delaware Technical Community College. Its welcoming atmosphere and friendly locals allow first-timers to feel at home. This is evident at the Dutch Country Farmers Market, where you can interact with down-to-earth local vendors while combing through diverse Amish delicacies, including fresh baked goods, dairy products, and artisanal candles. The Charles E. Price Memorial Park provides a lovely escape to the great outdoors with its quiet walking trails, peaceful picnic pavilions, and an idyllic fishing pond.
Art lovers and movie enthusiasts can converge at the Everett in downtown Middletown for a compelling cultural experience. This iconic venue hosts varying events to entertain the audience, from local art exhibitions and live stage productions to cinematic films. It was immortalized in the 1989 flick “Dead Poets Society.”
Fenwick Island
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Crowds enjoying the surf fishing beach at Fenwick Island, Delaware. Editorial credit: Khairil Azhar Junos / Shutterstock.com
Fenwick Island is the perfect Delaware getaway for those seeking an escape from the crowds to unwind and forget all their troubles. With less than 400 people calling it home, tourists can comfortably explore miles of pristine, sandy shores without competition. This is best embodied by the 344 acres of Fenwick Island State Park, which promises a mix of secluded beaches, charming picnic areas, and designated surfing spots. The area’s maritime past comes alive at the DiscoverSea Shipwreck Museum, which displays a collection of treasures salvaged from numerous shipwrecks off the Atlantic Coast.
Guests can also witness and learn about one of the state’s oldest lighthouses by touring the nearby Fenwick Island Lighthouse, a rustic landmark dating back to 1858. Before leaving the island, remember to buy a precious souvenir at the Seaside Country Store to keep the fun memories.
Delaware’s Must-Visit Small Towns
The First State is an inviting destination that lets travelers delve into the landmark years that made America what it is today. However, it also harbors unmatched natural beauty and cultural heritage, which become evident when you explore the most exciting towns to visit in Delaware. From walking along picturesque riverfronts to strolling through well-preserved downtown streets, visitors gain vivid lessons in local history and character. Planning your travel itinerary around any of the above offers the perfect introduction to this enduring home of American tradition.
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Flood watch in effect for northern Delaware beginning 2 a.m. Sunday
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Flooding was reported in areas following a storm that drenched most of Delaware. 1/10/24
Northern parts of Delaware will be under a flood watch overnight throughout late Sunday night as heavy rainfall passes through the area.
The National Weather Service has issued a flood watch for New Castle County effective 2 a.m. Sunday through late-Sunday night.
The county joins parts of New Jersey and Pennsylvania that are also under a flood watch.
The weather service warns heavy rains and thunderstorms associated with a pending cold front will produce as much as 1-3 inches of rainfall, with potentially higher amounts of 4 inches or more in some areas.
Flooding may cause poor drainage in urban areas and runoff from area rivers, creeks and streams could result in flooding in low-lying areas, the weather service advised.
HURRICANE IMPACT: Ernesto sends big swell and rip currents to Delaware
The storms are unrelated to offshore Hurricane Ernesto, which is also impacting Delaware with potential coastal flooding and rip current advisories.
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