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Silent Book Club gains traction in the Pittsburgh region

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The rules of Silent Book Club are simple: No assigned reading, no homework and no small talk required. Members are expected to show up at a designated meeting place with whatever title they’re enjoying, sit and read. They can share thoughts if they want, but they don’t have to.

The concept has revitalized the idea of joining a book club.

It’s paradise for introverted readers and book vigilantes who don’t like the rules of traditional book clubs.

Teresa Torlone, 33, of Charleroi falls in the latter group. She discovered Silent Book Club, a global organization, while scrolling through TikTok late one night. She immediately sent the video to her best friend, Amanda Palombo.

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“I called Amanda and asked if she wanted to do it with me,” Torlone said. “Within half an hour, we had an Instagram account made, emailed the founders, and we were off to the races.”

The best friends officially began the chapter in Lawrenceville in May 2023 and hosted their first meeting in June. Their group meets on the second Tuesday of each month.

Not only does the group feed the pair’s love of reading, but it serves as a
perfect solution to their semi-long distance friendship. Palombo and Torlone met while working together. Once they both ended up changing jobs, they tried to see each other as much as possible, but Torlone lives in Charleroi and Palombo in Butler.

“Pittsburgh is halfway between us,” Palombo, 32, said. “We’ll drive to each other for a good thing, but meeting in the middle is perfect for us. There’re so many good spots where (the group) could meet in the city.”

Silent Book Club began in the United Kingdom and spread to 59 other countries with 500 chapters worldwide. There are four in the Pittsburgh area — Lawrenceville, Robinson, South Hills and Ben Avon.

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Palombo and Torlone began recruiting members through social media. When starting the club, they found that Pittsburgh’s original chapter had disbanded during covid, and began following previous members on Instagram. They were getting between 20 and 30 readers each meeting until a video of the club went viral on TikTok.

“We had a lot of growth come from that video,” Palombo said. “We went from meetups with 20 or so people to 60 people regularly showing up.”

With the level of growth the group experienced, Torlone and Palombo had to find a new meeting place that could fit everyone. They started meeting in Friendship Park in Bloomfield during the summer, but that location didn’t last once the weather turned.

“Finding a space that didn’t charge for us to be there was a huge challenge,” Palombo said.

Aslin Beer Company in the Strip District ended up donating their upstairs section to the chapter and has become their regular meeting place, making it easier for new members to find the reading community.

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“We were super fortunate that (the club) blew up,” Torlone said. “It became a little community that we both love and exist in together.”

Carolyn Ingham, 23, of Lawrenceville, and Alyssa Meisl, 24, of West Mifflin, attended their first meeting together in February. Like most other members, Meisl discovered the club online and immediately sent it to Ingham, her friend from nursing school.

“I just like that you get to come and read your book and actually read while you’re here because that’s what I like to do,” Meisl said.

Ingham said that she always liked the idea of joining a book club. She said that during her day-to-day life if she sees someone reading a book that she likes, she’ll strike up a conversation about it.

“Like if I see someone reading Sara J. Mass, I’ll stop and say ‘Oh my gosh, that book is so good,’” Ingham said. “I just like talking about it with people and it’s a good way to get to know people and get friendly. When I looked it up, it seemed like a safe, welcoming, friendly environment.”

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Anya Taffe, 26, of the North Shore and Jessica Frichtel, 29, of Irwin, had a similar experience finding the club. Taffe began attending Silent Book Club in the summer of 2023. Frichtel joined her a few months later after Taffe quit their Pittsburgh Sports League bowling team.

“I like that it’s a mix of talking for a half hour and then reading for an hour, and it’s not all the same book,” Taffe said. “I wasn’t really interested in a book club where there’s homework. This is a great mix of extrovertism and introvertism.”

Frichtel said that she’s been in book clubs with assigned reading before and wasn’t a fan. She said that if there was a book that she wasn’t crazy about, or that she didn’t have time to get through, she would have to skip that month and wait until the next book was announced.

“When (Taffe) mentioned this and said that we could read anything, I thought it was great,” Frichtel said.

Frichtel works at the Pittsburgh International Airport, and each meeting night she drives directly to Aslin Beer Company from work. She said that the club reminds her to set aside some time to relax and read a little bit more.

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Cat Briggs, 34, of Bloomfield, said that her algorithm changed when she moved to Pittsburgh a year ago. In an attempt to make friends and get to know the city, she began researching different clubs around town when the Silent Book Club popped up on her feed. She was excited to build a community with other readers. Her fourth meeting was in February.

“It’s been a little slow going because you see people once a month but then you skip a couple of months, but for me, it’s knowing that this (group) exists, which is really great,” Briggs said.

Jed Sorokin-Altmann, 41, of Highland Park, attended his second Silent Book Club meeting in February after moving to Pittsburgh in July. He said that he works remotely with others who don’t live in Pennsylvania. Sorokin-Altmann saw the club as a way to find a community and make friends with the common interest of reading.

“I heard about this through an Instagram Reel,” Sorokin-Altmann said. “It was one of those ‘Things to do in Pittsburgh’ that popped up. Through that, I found some of my other book clubs.”

He is a member of three book clubs, two of which assign him books to read each month. He said that the different formats of clubs help him maintain variety in his reading.

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Stevie Hosler, 40, of Bethel Park, serves as the leader of the South Hills chapter of Silent Book Club.

She started out as a member of the Lawrenceville chapter and found that Tuesday meetings didn’t work for her schedule. After talking with Palombo and Torlone, she emailed the founders and got the go-ahead to start her own chapter.

“It was appealing because I haven’t really joined a book club because I don’t like having to read a book that’s assigned to me,” Hosler said. “I’m very much a mood-based reader. I read based on how I’m feeling, and don’t like having a time frame for when I finish a book.”

She took a page from Palombo’s book and decided to begin recruiting members via social media, and held her first meeting in November. She said that around 20 people usually come to each meeting. Hosler said that the biggest struggle thus far has been finding a space big enough to house everyone interested in attending. At one point, interest was so high that Hosler had to close registration because there were more people interested than what she had space for.

“We were meeting at the Panera Bread in South Park, but now we’re meeting at the Panera in the Galleria Mall because their space is a bit bigger,” Hosler said.

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She said that making friends as an adult with a child, husband and career can be extremely difficult.

“It’s been great,” Hosler said. “I have personal friends that I was already friends with that attend my club, and I’ve also started making friends. Now I feel like I have a community of people who are alike in interests. People that I can share things with. It’s been really enriching.”

Heather Weleski, 37, of Avalon, is another chapter leader who had the club come to her. Being an original member of the Pittsburgh chapter that disbanded during covid, she was able to start her chapter in 2022.

“I attended a few meetings and then bam, a global pandemic shut us down,” Weleski said. “After things started opening up again, I contacted the previous organizers who let me know that they were no longer in the area. I contacted Silent Book Club and let them know that we wanted to reestablish one in Pittsburgh and that I would be organizing it.”

Now, Weleski’s chapter meets at Anchor and Anvil in Ben Avon on the first Sunday of each month. They usually chat for a little at the beginning, grab a drink and then start reading. Like other chapters, everyone reads their own thing, and then toward the end of the meeting, they gather back up to talk again.

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“I wanted to bring the group back because I love the concept,” Weleski said. “I struggle meeting new people as someone who doesn’t love the bar scene or clubs, so it is great to get to meet people in a no-pressure social setting.”

She said that her experience as a chapter leader has been great. As the Avalon Library director, Weleski is no stranger to taking charge and organizing.

“This has been such a positive experience,” she said. “I’ve truly made an amazing group of friends by leading this chapter. We are actually planning a book reading retreat in April with each other.”

Haley Daugherty is a TribLive reporter covering local politics, feature stories and Allegheny County news. A native of Pittsburgh, she lived in Alabama for six years. She joined the Trib in 2022 after graduating from Chatham University. She can be reached at hdaugherty@triblive.com.

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2 young girls found dead in suitcases in Cleveland, police say

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The bodies of two young girls were found inside suitcases in Cleveland, Ohio, police said on Tuesday. 

In a press conference, Cleveland Police Chief Dorothy Todd said on Tuesday that the bodies of the two girls were found in suitcases buried in shallow graves on Monday evening. One of the girls was believed to be between the ages of 8 and 13 years old, while the other was believed to be 10 to 14 years old. Neither girl was identified as of Tuesday night. 

“This is a priority,” Todd said during Tuesday’s press conference. “This is a traumatic event for our officers, for the community, and this is just such a tragic incident, but we are trying to develop any leads we can.”

Police said there are no active missing persons reports in Cleveland that match the two victims. 

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Officials said someone walking their dog near East 162nd Street and Midland Avenue found what appeared to be a body inside a suitcase around 6 p.m. on Monday. When officers responded to the scene near Ginn Academy, they found one of the bodies stuffed in a suitcase in a shallow grave. The second shallow grave with the body stuffed in a suitcase was found after officers searched the area.

“This is a field close to the school over there,” Todd said. “This is just a residential neighborhood that I’m sure a lot of people do frequent.”

The Cuyahoga County Medical Examiner’s Office has custody of the bodies and will identify the girls. Todd said there is no clear indication of possible causes of death for the girls or how long the girls were there.

“It was some time, so it’s not something that was recent,” Todd said. 

There is no suspect, Todd added. Anyone with information can contact the Cleveland police at 216-623-5464.

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“Usually in residential areas, you know what’s happening in your neighborhood, something just seems a little bit off,” Todd said. “That’s why we’re asking that anyone who has anything that they believe to be information directly related to or suspicious, that they give us a call.” 



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Judge calls Pittsburgh crash death ‘textbook example’ of why DUI is illegal

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No one showed up in court for either side.

Not for the victim, a 33-year-old immigrant killed in Pittsburgh last year by a drunken driver.

And not for the defendant, a 22-year-old woman who created a good life for herself and her twin sons despite a string of difficult life circumstances, including an incarcerated father and a mother with mental illness.

Maria Davis, of Uniontown, pleaded guilty on Tuesday to homicide by vehicle, aggravated assault and driving under the influence after police say she crossed the center line on Beechwood Boulevard last year, crashing head-on into Abdulaziz Sharibbaev and killing him.

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Sharibbaev lived in Pittsburgh’s Westwood section at the time of his death. Law enforcement could not confirm where he emigrated from and were unable to reach any relatives for the court proceedings.

As part of a plea agreement, Davis will serve 16 to 32 months in custody to be followed by two years probation. Her attorney asked the court to allow his client to enter an alternative housing program, which the judge said she will consider after Davis has served at least 12 months.

She must also pay $3,500 in mandatory fines.

Davis was driving a black Hyundai sedan north on Beechwood Boulevard toward Squirrel Hill around 12:30 a.m. on March 11 when she crossed the center line and struck a silver Toyota Prius head-on, according to a criminal complaint.

Sharibbaev, who was driving the Prius, had to be extricated by medics.

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He died from his injuries five days later.

Both Davis and a passenger in her car were taken to local hospitals. The passenger sustained facial injuries and fractures from being thrown into the windshield.

A blood test showed Davis had a blood alcohol concentration of 0.163% — more than twice the legal limit for driving of 0.08%.

She also had marijuana in her blood, police said.

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Defense attorney Adam Bishop told Allegheny County Common Pleas Judge Simquita R. Bridges that his client had been raised primarily by her great-grandmother after her father was incarcerated and her mother could not care for her.

After her great-grandmother became ill, Davis had to return to live with her mother at age 14, Bishop continued. Three years later, she moved out.

Davis had no prior criminal history and worked as a certified nursing assistant at a facility in Uniontown, Bishop said.

The night of the crash, she and friends were going out to celebrate her birthday.

Davis had gotten a babysitter, drove to Pittsburgh and attended a baby shower that day before checking in to a hotel room.

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At the shower, Davis had a shot of tequila and shared a glass of wine, Bishop said. Then, when Davis returned to the hotel to get ready for her night out, she had a couple more shots.

Davis and her friend arrived at a bar called Eon in Homestead and were waiting outside in line for more than 90 minutes when a fight broke out, Bishop said.

One of the men involved made threats, Bishop told the judge, and fearing he would return with a gun, Davis and her friends left.

Although she had not planned to drive any more that night, Davis got in her car to follow another friend to a bar in Greenfield, the attorney said.

The two vehicles got separated in traffic, Bishop said, and the friend texted Davis the address for the bar.

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She was trying to type the address into the GPS on her phone when she crossed the center line and crashed, according to Bishop.

“It was that act of distracted driving, in conjunction with her intoxication,” Bishop said, that caused the crash.

Bishop described Davis as extremely remorseful and said she accepts full responsibility for her actions.

“She got dealt some bad cards in life,” Bishop said, but still managed to make a good life for her sons, who will turn 2 next month.

“One night can change everything,” he said.

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A ‘poor decision’

No one was in court to describe the impact of Sharibbaev’s death.

Davis told the judge she is sincerely sorry.

“I would never purposely hurt somebody,” she said. “I ask that his family accept my apology. For as long as I live, I hope they can forgive me at some point.”

Davis told the court she is trying to learn from what happened.

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“I tried all my life to be a good person and stay on the right path,” she said. “This night, I just made a poor decision.”

But Assistant District Attorney Jameson Rohrer said it wasn’t just one bad choice.

“This was a series of decisions that (ended) a man’s life and permanently changed the lives of the defendant and her children,” he said.

Bridges agreed.

“You are a textbook example of why drinking and driving is illegal,” the judge said. “Good people sometimes make bad choices. That doesn’t make you a bad person.

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“Your life isn’t over because of this. You can pick yourself up and move on.”



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Man’s body found underneath trailer behind former Shop ‘n Save in Carrick

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Pittsburgh Police detectives are investigating after a man’s body was found underneath a trailer behind the former Shop ‘n Save store in the city’s Carrick neighborhood.

Pittsburgh Public Safety said late Monday night that detectives from the Violent Crime division responded to the area of Amanda Street and Wynoka Street in Carrick after a man’s body was found around 8:30 p.m.

Public Safety said the man’s body was found underneath a trailer and that he was pronounced dead by medics at the scene.

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Pittsburgh Police detectives are investigating after a man’s body was found underneath a trailer in the city’s Carrick neighborhood on Monday night.

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A photo provided by Pittsburgh Public Safety shows officers surrounding a taped off area and what appears to be a refrigerated trailer parked at the loading dock along Amanda Street behind the former Brownsville Shop n’ Save, which closed its doors last month

No details surrounding the circumstances of the man’s death were provided by Public Safety, who said that the cause and the manner of the man’s death will be determined by the Allegheny County Medical Examiner’s Office.

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The man’s identity has not been released.

Public Safety said the investigation into the man’s death is “ongoing.”



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