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Recess for grown-ups: Join these L.A. groups for double Dutch, dodgeball and more
As a Black woman who grew up in New York City in the late ’90s and early aughts, double Dutch has always been near and dear to my heart.
In the summertime, the balmy Bronx streets would be filled with kids hanging out on their blocks with time to kill and limited means. We’d fashion an XL double Dutch rope out of landline cords and spend hours taking turns, inviting in anyone who passed by — usually neighborhood aunties, including my auntie Thelma, who would join us for a turn or two on her way home from work.
Now I am the auntie, and I’ve been feeling called to jump again.
A lot of people like me have been returning to their beloved childhood activities as a way to reconnect with their inner child — and perhaps to cope with the fact that adulthood looks nothing like what we had imagined.
Around L.A., there are groups you can join to play the games you loved as a kid and connect with like-minded people (and perhaps awaken some physical skills that have been dormant since high school gym class). Here are six organizations to join for “adult recess”-style activities.
Relive your high school glory days with WeHo Dodgeball
What calls to mind phys ed and school gymnasiums more palpably than dodgeball? The game is nightmare fodder for countless nerds across the country. In case you’ve blocked it out of your memory, the game is as it sounds: a mad rush to dodge a rubber ball being hurled at you by a member of the opposing team. If you get hit, you’re out, and the game continues until there’s one person left standing.
WeHo Dodgeball players celebrate.
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For adults with a taste for nostalgia, WeHo Dodgeball offers league games on Tuesday and Thursday evenings at the West Hollywood Aquatic and Recreation Center, followed by a celebration at the nearby Gym Bar WeHo. The league uses soft rubber “no sting” balls and welcomes everyone “from prom queens to drag queens” who might be looking for something different in the WeHo social scene.
The co-ed league has begun accepting new people into its rotating membership base. Registration is $80 for a 12-week series.
Master the rhythm of two ropes with 40 Plus Double Dutch Club in Inglewood
40 Plus Double Dutch Club is a national organization created for women of a certain age who love jumping rope. The group, whose oldest member is 90, takes its age restriction seriously. “You have to be 40 [plus],” said Pamela Brown, 63. “We tell [younger people] to come on back when they’re 40.”
The Inglewood branch (or “subclub” as they call it) gathers for 90 minutes on Saturdays, beginning at 9 a.m., at Rogers Park, followed by after-parties. Since the first meet-up, when just a handful showed up, weekly attendance has swelled to more than 50. “It’s been fun,” said Brown, who described it as “a sisterhood, a fellowship.” “I may have on some knee braces but I’m here.”
The group has been known to break out into hopscotch, Hula-Hoop, line dancing, jump rope and patty-cake, among other games. Melinda Jackson, 50, serves as the group’s unofficial choreographer for line dances.
“It started off as women coming together because of the [shared] passion and pastime of double Dutching,” she said. “But once we got together, we found out that we have so much more in common than just that. And it has provided us a place of socialization where we can support one another through our ups and downs of life. We are mothers, grandmothers but we get to see each other as individuals when we’re here.”
Find your next crush on the kickball field with Zog Sports
A near-death experience led Robert Herzog to start ZogSports, a social sports community that serves thousands of players annually in the U.S.
On Sept. 11, 2001, Herzog got an uncharacteristically late start to his day, which led him to be five minutes late to his job at Marsh & McLennan, on the 96th floor of the World Trade Center in New York City. He stepped off the subway just in time to see the first tower get hit in a terrorist attack.
Three months later, while reflecting on his life and trying to chart a course forward, he resolved to create a well-organized sports league that could help people forge connections outside the office, to “create community and help people heal,” said ZogSports’ chief of staff, Jody Zellman. “Today, we help thousands of athletes across the country create community and connections through the sports they love.”
Today, more than 1,000 teams play every year across six regions of the U.S., and there are 37 programs in L.A. Co-ed kickball games are on the schedule for late October, with games being held in Hollywood, West Hollywood and Venice. Among the other offerings are volleyball, basketball, soccer, softball, bowling, flag football and pickleball, which has been having a resurgence lately.
Herzog, who met his wife at a co-ed softball game before founding his company, credits the organization for “sooo many off-the-field romances,” according to the website. Prices for eight regular season games plus playoffs range from $95 for an individual to $625 for a team of up to seven.
Become a team player with Club Waka
Soccer in Glendale. Bowling in Torrance. Volleyball in Santa Monica. Kickball in Venice, Hollywood, Pasadena and Long Beach. These are some of the offerings and areas served by Club Waka, a national organization that offers social sports for players of all skill levels.
Players meet weekly for eight weeks to play games that run 45 minutes to an hour. Newcomers can join individually, in a small group to be placed in a larger group or as a fully formed team. Postgame, there’s an after-party at a local bar.
Registration fees vary and include weekly games (plus playoffs), a team shirt and specials at the sponsor bar.
You don’t have to be a member of the LGBTQ+ community to join a team at OutLoud Sports, an organization dedicated to creating inclusive spaces for members and allies of the queer community.
“Our players are extremely diverse with a focus on the queer+ community but inclusive of everyone, including our straight allies,” said founder Will Hackner. “Our policy since Day 1 has been that everyone is welcome.”
Founded in 2007 (originally under the name Varsity Gay League) with a game of capture the flag at Pan Pacific Park, OutLoud is now the largest LGBTQ+ recreational sports organization in the nation with more than 70,000 registered players. There are leagues in L.A. and Long Beach.
Each eight-week season offers regular season games as well as playoff games for such sports as beach and indoor volleyball, bowling, dodgeball, flag football, kickball, tennis, pickleball and soccer. Prices range from $20 for bowling to $72 for beach volleyball.
“We want to everyone to understand that whatever age, size, sex, shape or skill you carry should not be a detriment to participating in a sport,” said Hackner. “So many adults, both queer and straight, harbor fears and anxieties that come from toxic locker room culture. This is not that space. This is about playing, being silly and trying something new, successful or not. This space is for everyone to have fun.”
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How having zero points in tennis — or ‘love’ — came to sound so sweet
The scoreboard shows the results of the women’s singles final match between Iga Swiatek of Poland and Amanda Anisimova of the U.S. at the Wimbledon Tennis Championships in London, Saturday, July 12, 2025.
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Fifteen points in tennis? Nice. Thirty, 40 — even better. Advantage — that sounds good. “Love” — that also must be great, right? Well, not quite.
As the French Open rolls on and Serena Williams has announced her return to the sport, maybe you’ve been paying a little more attention to tennis. The sport’s scoring system is notably distinct, and can sometimes be hard to grasp for newcomers. But even tennis aficionados might not know why, or how, “love” became the unmistakable callout for zero points. For this installment of NPR’s Word of the Week, we’re exploring how a word that signifies trailing behind got such a sweet name.
“Love” comes from the heart — or an egg?
It’s hard to pinpoint when the first tennis ball went over the net. Tennis is a derivative of lots of other sports, such as “jeu de paume,” a handball game played in France, said JT Buzanga, the collections manager at the International Tennis Hall of Fame museum.

But tennis became a patented, official sport in 1874, said Steve Flink, a journalist whose tennis coverage got him inducted into the International Tennis Hall of Fame. It has retained its unique, mysterious scoring system ever since.
“By and large, the original system has held up almost entirely,” Flink said.
The use of “love” goes back to the late 18th century, said Jesse Sheidlower, a lexicographer. But it was used earlier than that in card games such as whist and bridge. Before the term made its way to tennis, the sport favored plain old “nothing,” or “nil,” he said.
Why love in the first place, though? Historians don’t really know for sure, but there are a few theories.
The French could have something to do with it. Some historians believe “love” derives from “l’oeuf,” which means “the egg” in French. Because eggs are shaped like zeros, terms such as “goose egg” and “duck’s egg” have been used in other contexts to mean zero, Sheidlower said.
It’s also possible English speakers mispronounced l’oeuf as “love.” But Sheidlower isn’t convinced that’s the answer.
“It’s the French equivalent of an English expression. But since that expression doesn’t appear in French, the French word wouldn’t have been used,” he said.
To be sure, France has had a lot of influence on tennis culture, Buzanga said. For example, “deuce” or a game tied at 40 points, comes from the French word for “two”: “deux.” But he prefers another prominent theory: that “love” comes from the idiom “for the love of the game.” Even if a player hasn’t scored, it doesn’t matter, because their heart is in it. It’s the theory Sheidlower said is the most plausible, because the idiom was used by the English before tennis was popularized.

Another variation of the “love of the game” theory is that the word could have come from the Dutch “lof,” or “honor” — or the Latin “amare,” meaning “to love,” Flink said.
But if tennis’ “love” doesn’t come from a French word, the theory at least has a French sensibility.
“I think the ‘for the love of the game’ is kind of romantic,” Buzanga said.
“Love” probably isn’t going anywhere
Tennis used to be a sport of leisure. The style of play has changed a lot over the years; players are more athletic and competitive, for instance, Flink said. But the rules of the sport are more steadfast, he said.
“There’s this incredible, enduring respect for tradition in tennis,” he said. “Changes are not made easily.”
There has been one major change in modern history: the tie-break. Matches can go on and on because players have to score two consecutive points to break a deuce, or by two games to break a tied set. But the onset of television meant matches would have to get shorter if the sport wanted to capture a larger audience, Flink said.

Change even came for “love.” An alternative sprouted up in the 1970s, and is still used today: “bagel,” named for its zero shape, Sheidlower said. Novices may say “zero,” and insiders will understand what they mean, but they “will needle them about it,” Flink said.
But “love” still prevails.
“People kind of like it,” Flink said. “It’s different. Why say zero when you can say love?”
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With Highway 1 open, Big Sur braces for its busiest summer in years
On a 75-mile cliff-hugging stretch of highway in California, traffic is way up, despite soaring gas prices. And locals expect the busiest summer in years.
The road is Highway 1 in Big Sur, which reopened in January after three years of repair and reconstruction following a pair of landslides. Drivers can once again embark on the state’s most famous road trip, covering the 100 miles between Cambria to the south and Carmel to the north without leaving the two-lane coastal highway. And they’re heading out in big numbers.
Caltrans estimates that as of May, Big Sur restaurant and retailer guest counts are up 40% from last year, and that northbound traffic at Ragged Point, the southern gateway to Big Sur, has risen 900% year-over-year.
People pose for photos near Bixby Bridge. Monterey County’s Board of Supervisors voted to explore a 12-month ban on parking around the bridge.
Safety cones prevent parking along Coast Road near the Bixby Bridge.
“Take your time,” said Kirk Gafill, co-owner of the popular Nepenthe restaurant and president of the Big Sur Chamber of Commerce, offering advice to travelers. “You’re going to be sharing the road with a number of people.”
As travelers rediscover the road, the cost of driving has been shooting skyward. California’s average gas price ($6.11 per gallon as of May 26) is up 26% from the year before. In early April, rates hit $9.99 at the isolated gas station in the Big Sur community of Gorda.
For spring and summer travelers, these numbers would seem to pose a stark question: Stay home and save money, or head for the coast because the road is finally open and it’s still cheaper than flying?
So far, the latter answer is winning big.
Fog lingers off the coast of Highway 1.
“We are definitely seeing a huge uptick in our reservations,” said Megan Handy, assistant general manager at the upscale Treebones resort. She estimated that bookings are 30% or more ahead of last year, and rates are unchanged since then. But “it’s still not feeling super crowded, which is nice. Everything still feels kind of calm.”
But added traffic has raised some anxiety. On May 19, Monterey County’s Board of Supervisors voted to explore a 12-month ban on parking at Bixby Bridge, one of the region’s top photo spots.
Over the years, the number of cars parking near the bridge — often illegally, sometimes impeding emergency vehicles — has risen. The proposed parking moratorium won’t take effect until the supervisors discuss it further.
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Busy as things are, several business owners pointed out that many international travelers have not yet returned — perhaps because most make their plans more than six months ahead, perhaps because of global politics, perhaps a little of each.
The biggest challenge for businesses during this resurgence? “Restaffing and retaining,” said Handy at Treetops.
At Nepenthe, Gafill said his business has seen a 45% boost in guest volume since the road’s reopening. Gafill said he would have expected a 35% pickup, “simply by virtue of reopening the highway.” The additional 10%, he said, might be “all that pent-up demand,” aided by “a very beautiful and very dry winter,” followed by a mild spring.
A lunch crowd dines at popular restaurant Nepenthe.
Another possible factor: Nobody can be sure how long the road will remain open.
To cope with the influx of people, Gafill said, “everybody is trying to recruit and retain their existing staff.”
At the Ragged Point Inn, where rates dropped as low as $149 nightly last fall, rates are back over $200 and staffers are suggesting that customers book at least six months ahead. The inn has reopened its snack bar for the first time since early 2023, and management is investing in capital upgrades and staging live music on weekends throughout the summer.
Business “is up over 100%,” said Diane Ramey, whose family owns the inn. “I know not all of our neighbors are having the same lift, but everybody is doing better.”
Traffic approaching Bixby Bridge.
A visitor poses in an oversized chair at Big Sur River Inn.
Even at the New Camaldoli Hermitage, a Benedictine monastery above Lucia, the road’s reopening and coming summer season have made a difference. Bookings are up an estimated 30% at the hermitage, which rent rooms and cottages (for two nights or more) to visitors who agree to its requirement of silence.
Big Sur business owners advise visitors to travel on weekdays for less traffic and the best hotel rates, and to get on the road as early as possible.
Since its opening in 1937, the highway has been vulnerable to landslides and shifting ground, operating on a longstanding cycle of landslide, closure, repair, reopening and then another landslide, or sometimes a fire. The U.S. Geological Survey has identified the Big Sur coastline as one of the most landslide-prone areas in the western United States. The 2023-2026 closure was the longest in the highway’s history.
Over time, road crews have used increasingly sophisticated strategies. In the most recent efforts, Caltrans said, it used drones to help survey the slopes and remotely operated bulldozers and excavators to reduce risks to workers.
During the closure, no traffic was allowed on 6.8-mile span from just north of Lucia until about a mile south of the Esalen Institute. Drivers detoured inland by way of U.S. 101.
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