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Is the culture around family estrangement changing?

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Is the culture around family estrangement changing?

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It’s the holiday season. The time of year when many of us go back home to see our families. But this year, a lot of people aren’t going home, and maybe haven’t been back in a long time. 27% of Americans are estranged from at least one family member, and the term “no contact” is increasingly being used to describe estrangement between adult children and their parents. But is estrangement happening more often, or are we just more open to talking about it? And is our culture around family shifting? Host Brittany Luse sits down with culture journalist Kui Mwai and Whitney Goodman, licensed marriage and family therapist and the host of the Calling Home podcast, to find out.

This episode was produced by Liam McBain, with additional support from Barton Girdwood. This episode was edited by Jasmine Romero. Engineering support came from Patrick Murray. Our Executive Producer is Jasmine Romero. Our VP of Programming is Yolanda Sangweni.

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Police in Colorado search for electrocuted man after charred clothing, cut wire discovered during power outage

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Police search for electrocuted man after charred clothing, cut wire found after power outage

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Police in Commerce City are searching for a man who has been electrocuted after charred clothing and a cut wire were discovered during a power outage. Investigators said that about 5 p.m. Friday, United Power had an outage. 

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Police are searching for a person who was electrocuted after a cut wire and charred clothing were found during a power outage. 

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When crews went to inspect the transformer in the area where the outage occurred, they found a hacksaw and a cut wire near 10500 Havana Street. 

When officers arrived, they discovered an abandoned bicycle and the charred remains of clothing. 

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Commerce City police are searching for a man who has been electrocuted after charred clothing and a cut wire were discovered during a power outage.

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Investigators said they assumed they were looking for a body given the amount of electricity the power company believes went through the person who cut the wire. Instead, they were shocked to find surveillance video that showed two explosions and then a person walking away from the scene. 

Police hope someone may recognize the bicycle and help identify the suspect who most likely needs medical attention. 

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Charred clothing was found near a cut wire that likely caused a power outage on Friday evening in Commerce City. 

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Anyone with information about the suspect is urged to call the Commerce City Police Department Tip Line: 303.289.3626.

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Life Kit's most-read stories of 2024: Sleep myths, tipping etiquette, home design tricks

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How much should I spend on a wedding gift? What’s a “sleepy girl mocktail”? How do I know if I’m in a codependent relationship? In 2024, our experts debunked common misconceptions, investigated buzzy trends and weighed in on tricky social etiquette on a wide range of health and lifestyle topics.

Out of the more than 150 episodes we published in 2024, there were a handful that really took off with our audience. You loved our comics on food safety and feng shui; our myth-busting stories on infidelity and sleep; and the right (and wrong) things to say to a friend whose loved one has died.

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Here are our top 10 episodes, ranked by page views on NPR.org.

10. Popular myths about sleep, debunked

Is it OK to exercise before you hit the hay? Sleep for less than 5 hours a night? Sleep scientist Rebecca Robbins sets the record straight to help you get better sleep.

9. Once a cheater, always a cheater? Busting 3 common myths about infidelity

Clinical psychologist Talal Alsaleem has helped hundreds of couples work through romantic affairs. He shares common misconceptions about cheating — and how to cope.

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8. Is it OK to keep reheating leftovers? Honest questions about food safety, illustrated

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How real is the five-second rule? Am I going to get explosive diarrhea if I keep reheating the same leftovers? A refresher course on food safety ahead of the holiday season.

7. Design tricks to transform your home, according to a feng shui expert

Fall in love with your home again with these feng shui-inspired decorating tips from architect Cliff Tan. They focus on creating an environment that feels happy, harmonious and full of good energy.

6. COMIC: Can I just wash the stinky bits? And other honest questions about bathing

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Washing your body seems like a no-brainer. But once you get into the details, things get complicated. Dermatologists offer surprising advice on how often to shower, when to toss your loofah and more.

5. Stuck in a rut? How to appreciate your life again, according to science

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After a while, even the most exciting relationships, jobs and environments lose their spark. But cognitive neuroscientist Tali Sharot says it’s possible to fall back in love with life’s small joys.

4. COMIC: Science-backed mood boosters to (almost instantly) snap you out of a funk

Six techniques to energize you when you feel sluggish and relax you when you feel stressed. Feel the transformation in 15 minutes or less.

3. The right (and wrong) things to say to a grieving friend

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It can be hard to find the right words to say to a friend whose loved one has died. Experts share the dos and don’ts of expressing condolences.

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Financial missteps can cost you money. Make better-informed decisions about budgeting, investing and borrowing money.

1. What is the new etiquette for tipping?

Tipping requests are on the rise. Businesses that never seemed to ask for a tip, like fast food joints, are now asking for one. Here’s how to deal with unexpected requests and more.

The digital story was edited by Meghan Keane. The visual editor is Beck Harlan. We’d love to hear from you. Leave us a voicemail at 202-216-9823, or email us at LifeKit@npr.org.

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