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Why exercise can make you feel like yourself again – no mum guilt allowed

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Why exercise can make you feel like yourself again – no mum guilt allowed

As a new mum – or a parent of any age – it’s hard to find time to exercise. You’re likely spinning lots of plates on little sleep, and there’s a tiny person who needs you.

It’s a plight HELLO!’s homes editor Rachel Avery knows all too well. Her little one is seven weeks old and she shared that during her 20-minute workout this morning, she needed to pause twice to tend to her baby.

It’s not just newborns that are a barrier when it comes to mums working out, though. “As a parent you are responsible for the logistics of more people, and with this comes scheduling constraints,” says personal trainer Nicole Chapman. “You may have limited childcare available and lack of support or understanding of the mental and physical load of motherhood.”

Nicole Chapman specialises in helping mums get back into fitness

Exercise and mum guilt

Nicole explains that ‘mum guilt’ can enter the equation too. “It’s a very natural feeling. You may feel guilty for going to work, so when you aren’t working you think all the time should be spent with your children, or you may feel judged if you take time away from the kids.”

Our changing bodies

Nicole explains that not being used to your new body can act as a barrier to postnatal exercise. “As a new mum, what is often not considered is that it is normal to feel a disconnection to your body postpartum.

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“Combine this with feeling sleep-deprived and overwhelmed and you might feel less attractive and even a sense of loss of identity. Stretch marks, weakness in your pelvic floor, leaking nipples and a body that still looks pregnant once you have given birth. You have a right to not feel sexy!” Nicole laments.

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There are barriers for new mums when it comes to working out

“Take each day at a time, understand that these feelings are ok and might even stem from unrealistically high beauty standards we’ve had to navigate through our whole lives, and that impact on our mindset.

“Knowing that this is normal can in itself power you up to change that mindset to have a new respect for your body and admiration for all it has done for you and your baby.”

DISCOVER: I’m a personal trainer and here’s how to reset your approach to exercise 

If you are looking to get back into exercise, Nicole has some stellar advice.

 1. Focus on new goals

“Focus on non-aesthetic goals when it comes to working out,” Nicole suggests. “Find something you enjoy and celebrate the wins along the way as you get fitter and stronger.”

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Finding time to work out is tricky!

Of her own goals, Nicole says: “I no longer chase a figure on a scale – I chase personal bests. I set myself goals and challenge myself and everything else falls into place. It can be very easy to forget yourself through motherhood, so please remember that you are important too.

2. Keep it consistent

Consistency is key and if you can establish an achievable weekly routine, with balanced healthy eating, you will hit your weight loss and fitness goals, advises Nicole. “Patience will be your best friend.”

Routine is important if you are struggling to find time to exercise, says Nicole. “Put it in your diary as a meeting. Establish healthy habits and goals that fit into your lifestyle – do not change your life to fit them if it doesn’t make you truly happy.”

 READ: Brain fog? Try this super simple way to clear it 

If a lack of time is keeping you from working out, remember that even just 10 minutes of movement a day can be a total game changer for energy, mood and fitness.

Nicole explains that studies show that the intensity of the workout doesn’t dictate the benefits it has on your mood, so with this in mind, you can choose the physical activity based on your energy levels, time and present mood to support you best mentally as opposed to assuming HIIT being the answer, when indeed a walk in fresh air may be just what the doctor ordered.

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Finding time to work out can be a challenge

“By adapting to what best serves you, you are more likely to build regular activity into your week in a way that is maintainable,” she adds.

3. Remember exercise is self-care

Self-care doesn’t have to mean soaking in the bath, it can equate to prioritising yourself, in whichever way you need that day.

“Recognise this and put yourself back on the priority list. You cannot pour from an empty cup!” implores Nicole.

 DISCOVER: I went for a walk every day – here’s what it did to my stress levels 

“Finding the time for yourself, feeling the independence and knowing you’re exercising for you, your body and your mind will see your family reap the benefits also. You’ll be a mum with renewed energy and a boost of confidence that exercise brings.”

Nicole adds that you’ll likely feel like a better parent if you make time for yourself to work out, explaining: “Through fitness you can build a body you fall in love with, grow your confidence and increase your energy so you’re fit enough to meet the demands of motherhood, be it playing with the kids, jumping on a trampoline or completing a physical challenge you thought was unattainable.

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“Exercise can give a sense of fulfilment away from motherhood or career achievements. Transforming your physical and mental health so you can bring the best of you into each and every day – which is rather empowering.”

4. Ask for help

“Ask for help when you need it and communicate with your partner or support network,” advises Nicole. “We often feel the need to juggle it all without asking for help. But by having support and getting that time for yourself, your family will benefit from a happier, heathier mum.”

Nicole Chapman is the creator of the 6-week online workout programme, Power of Mum, designed to empower women to be fitter and stronger in body and mind, through strength training and metabolic conditioning. Her next programme starts 19 February 2024.

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Prepare for Ski Season With These Workouts

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Prepare for Ski Season With These Workouts

Skiing can be a whole lot of fun when the snow starts flying. But your body can take a beating on the slopes if it’s not properly prepared.

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Sports medicine specialist Molly McDermott, DO, shares how to get ready for ski season with some workouts and strategies.

Ski training routine

Some elite skiers start training at the tail end of spring — about six months before they ever hit the slopes. Others may need less time. In general, Dr. McDermott recommends training at least six to eight weeks before your first outdoor adventure.

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As part of your routine, you’ll want to focus on ski workouts that build:

  • Strength
  • Endurance
  • Flexibility
  • Neuromuscular control (also known as muscular coordination)

Trying to jump into a sport when you haven’t intentionally trained is difficult and challenging, says Dr. McDermott. That’s especially true given the physical demands that come with skiing.

“You want to train your brain, nerves and muscles to really build stability and balance so you can have more control over how you jump and land,” she notes.

Ski exercises

Ski-focused training puts a strong emphasis on lower-body exercises, targeting everything from your glutes to your ankles. But you’ll want to take a full-body approach to ski exercises, which means working on your core and upper body as well.

“You’re going to have to make real-time decisions when you’re out on the slopes,” stresses Dr. McDermott. “You’ll need to strengthen your whole body to be able to do things like pivot or change direction, keep your balance, propel yourself forward and withstand the impact of skiing.”

Dr. McDermott recommends starting with just bodyweight exercises if this is your first go at it. More experienced athletes can focus on higher weights or machines. In general, she recommends doing three sets of 10 to 15 reps each. Then, as you work through your training, you can progressively load your weight, sets, reps or how long you exercise to continue building strength and endurance.

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Here are some workouts that lend themselves to skiing.

Dynamic warm-up

Warming up before any workout is key, especially right before you hit the slopes. The International Ski and Snowboard Federation agrees. Dynamic warm-ups and cool-downs are highly effective for preventing injury and improving performance.

Consider starting and ending your ski workout with five to 10 minutes of:

  • Jogging
  • Using an elliptical
  • Walking on a treadmill

“You’re warming up your muscles and then stretching them, as opposed to static, cold stretching,” explains Dr. McDermott.

Squats

“Squat maneuvers help make sure you have the coordination of your nerves and your muscles working together so your muscles are strong and keep your body aligned — in particular, keeping your knees from turning in,” says Dr. McDermott. “As squats become easier, you can progress to squat jumps.”

  1. Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart with your toes pointed slightly outward.
  2. Hinge at your hips, bend your knees and slowly lower your body (as if sinking into a chair).
  3. Lower until your thighs are parallel to the ground, keeping your knees in line with your toes and your weight on your heels.
  4. Hold the position for three to five seconds.
  5. Shoot up quickly to your starting position by pushing through your heels.
  6. Repeat this process for 10 to 15 reps.

Side-lying hip abductors

Hip abductor exercises help with skiing because they focus on balance, control and building strength in your hips, glutes and thighs.

  1. Lie down on your side with your legs extended straight. Your right leg should be on top of the other and you should rest your head on your left arm.
  2. Keeping your hips steady, lift your right leg so your knees are no longer touching. You should feel a stretch in your upper thigh and hip.
  3. Slowly lower your right leg.
  4. Repeat for 10 to 15 reps, then switch sides and continue.

Calf raises

Calf raises help improve ankle mobility and calf strength — all needed for those quick turns while skiing.

  1. Stand with your feet hip-width apart, with your arms hanging at your sides.
  2. Slowly lift the back of your heels until you’re standing on the balls of your feet.
  3. Hold this position for one to two seconds before lowering back down.
  4. Repeat for 10 to 15 reps.

Skater hops

“Skater hops are single-leg hops from side-to-side,” describes Dr. McDermott. “These are really going to help you in certain ski maneuvers.”

  1. Stand with your feet hip-width apart and your hips and knees bent at a 45-degree angle.
  2. Push off the floor with your left leg so that you jump to the side, landing on your right leg.
  3. Keep your knees bent and your left leg crossed behind your right (as if you’re skating).
  4. Then, jump back to the opposite side, crossing your right leg behind your left.
  5. Repeat this process in quick succession for 10 to 15 reps, jumping as fast and far as you’re able.
  6. To maintain momentum, it helps to swing your left arm forward as you’re pushing off with your left leg and vice versa.

Shoulder shrugs

“Shoulder shrugs are a good ski exercise because they help build the upper trapezius muscles that connect with your neck,” says Dr. McDermott. “They really work on your posture.”

  1. Start by standing tall, feet hip-width apart.
  2. While looking straight ahead, lift both of your shoulders and slowly roll them backward in a circle for 10 seconds.
  3. Repeat the process by circling your shoulders in the opposite direction for 10 seconds.

Chin tucks

Chin tucks involve a gentle range of motion to improve posture and strengthen neck muscles.

  1. While sitting or standing in a relaxed position, look straight ahead and lightly touch the bottom of your chin with your index finger.
  2. Gently pull your head and neck back so your chin moves away from your finger.
  3. Hold this tucked-chin position for up to 10 seconds before slowly extending your head and neck forward to the starting chin position.
  4. Repeat this process for 10 to 15 reps.

Push-ups

“Push-ups are good for strengthening your shoulders, chest and core, which helps with balance and stability when you’re skiing,” says Dr. McDermott.

  1. Kneel on all fours with your palms flat on the floor in front of you and your fingers facing forward. Hands should be shoulder-width apart and directly below your shoulders.
  2. Lift your knees off the floor and straighten your legs.
  3. Bend your elbows and tuck them to your sides as you slowly lower your chest and chin to the floor.
  4. Push through your palms until your arms are fully extended. Don’t let your hips or back dip to the ground — your head, spine and butt should all be aligned.
  5. Repeat this process for 10 to 15 reps.

Planks

This exercise targets your wrists, forearms, core and upper body — all areas that promote stability and strength while skiing.

  1. Get into a push-up position, with your legs extended and your elbows directly beneath your shoulders.
  2. Hold this upright push-up position for 10 to 15 seconds, with your abs engaged and butt and back aligned.
  3. For a modified challenge, you can lower your knees to the floor while holding this position.
  4. For a deeper stretch, you can rock your hips back and forth, or lower down to your elbows for a low plank.

Bridges

Bridges help strengthen your glutes, which help guide and direct your skis.

  1. Lie on your back with your knees bent, feet on the floor and arms at your sides.
  2. Squeezing your butt and abdominal muscles, push through your heels to slowly lift your hips toward the ceiling.
  3. Keep your back straight and your arms pressed into the floor at your sides.
  4. Hold this position for a few seconds, before slowly lowering your hips to the floor.
  5. Repeat this process for 10 to 15 reps.

Oblique twists

Also known as a Russian twist, this exercise focuses on your abdominal muscles and core strength. It helps with skiing because it supports your ability to rotate, turn and move quickly.

  1. Sit on the floor with your knees bent and your feet flat.
  2. Lean back at a 45-degree angle and squeeze your abdominal muscles.
  3. Extend your arms out straight in front of you and clasp your hands together.
  4. Engage your core as you twist slowly to the right as far as you feel comfortable, moving your arms in the direction you’re turning.
  5. Return back to center, pause and then twist to the left side.
  6. Repeat this process for 10 to 15 reps.

Cardio exercises

Skiers can also benefit from cardio exercises that get their blood flowing and build aerobic endurance, like:

  • Cycling
  • Running
  • Swimming
  • Rowing

“Build cardiovascular and low-impact activities into your training routine to help improve your performance and increase your endurance,” advises Dr. McDermott. “Some days you can break it up into sets or you can do 30 minutes straight.”

A note before hitting the slopes

A big part of ski training is getting your body acclimated to cold-weather exercises. For athletes who live in areas where winter runs strong, it helps to train early and get that outdoor exposure as temperatures begin to drop during the fall.

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Others who live in warmer climates might benefit from taking cold showers, ice baths or lowering indoor temperatures weeks before heading out on a ski trip.

Once ski season begins, make sure you warm up before heading outdoors, stay hydrated and keep moving to keep your body warm.

“When you’re skiing, a lot of unexpected things happen,” cautions Dr. McDermott. “The weather changes and things happen really fast. So, you want to be physically and mentally prepared before you hit the slopes, making sure you’ve got the right equipment, the right clothing and you’re prepared in case of injury.”

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Forget the gym — you just need 20 minutes and 2 dumbbells to strengthen your whole body with this workout

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One of the harder parts of committing to a training routine is knowing where to start, and that’s true of those who have never trained regularly before as well as more experienced people coming back after a break.

This 20-minute workout from fitness trainer Lindsey Bomgren, founder of Nourish Move Love on YouTube, is perfect for easing your way into a training routine, especially if you’re coming back from a break because of illness or any other reason.

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Ditch sit-ups and crunches — this 5-move standing abs workout will help you build a stronger and more sculpted core

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Ditch sit-ups and crunches — this 5-move standing abs workout will help you build a stronger and more sculpted core

The beauty of a standing abs workout is that you do not need a mat, much space, or to get down on the ground for any of the exercises. That makes it easy to fit into a busy day, whether you are working out at home, short on space, or prefer to stay off the floor altogether.

None of that means it is easier or delivers fewer results. Pilates instructor and Balance Body Educator Portia Page built this five-move, all-standing core workout to show that you can still challenge your abs effectively without a mat or traditional floor exercises.

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