Fitness
Why exercise can make you feel like yourself again – no mum guilt allowed
As a new mum – or a parent of any age – it’s hard to find time to exercise. You’re likely spinning lots of plates on little sleep, and there’s a tiny person who needs you.
It’s a plight HELLO!’s homes editor Rachel Avery knows all too well. Her little one is seven weeks old and she shared that during her 20-minute workout this morning, she needed to pause twice to tend to her baby.
It’s not just newborns that are a barrier when it comes to mums working out, though. “As a parent you are responsible for the logistics of more people, and with this comes scheduling constraints,” says personal trainer Nicole Chapman. “You may have limited childcare available and lack of support or understanding of the mental and physical load of motherhood.”
Exercise and mum guilt
Nicole explains that ‘mum guilt’ can enter the equation too. “It’s a very natural feeling. You may feel guilty for going to work, so when you aren’t working you think all the time should be spent with your children, or you may feel judged if you take time away from the kids.”
Our changing bodies
Nicole explains that not being used to your new body can act as a barrier to postnatal exercise. “As a new mum, what is often not considered is that it is normal to feel a disconnection to your body postpartum.
“Combine this with feeling sleep-deprived and overwhelmed and you might feel less attractive and even a sense of loss of identity. Stretch marks, weakness in your pelvic floor, leaking nipples and a body that still looks pregnant once you have given birth. You have a right to not feel sexy!” Nicole laments.
“Take each day at a time, understand that these feelings are ok and might even stem from unrealistically high beauty standards we’ve had to navigate through our whole lives, and that impact on our mindset.
“Knowing that this is normal can in itself power you up to change that mindset to have a new respect for your body and admiration for all it has done for you and your baby.”
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If you are looking to get back into exercise, Nicole has some stellar advice.
1. Focus on new goals
“Focus on non-aesthetic goals when it comes to working out,” Nicole suggests. “Find something you enjoy and celebrate the wins along the way as you get fitter and stronger.”
Of her own goals, Nicole says: “I no longer chase a figure on a scale – I chase personal bests. I set myself goals and challenge myself and everything else falls into place. It can be very easy to forget yourself through motherhood, so please remember that you are important too.
2. Keep it consistent
Consistency is key and if you can establish an achievable weekly routine, with balanced healthy eating, you will hit your weight loss and fitness goals, advises Nicole. “Patience will be your best friend.”
Routine is important if you are struggling to find time to exercise, says Nicole. “Put it in your diary as a meeting. Establish healthy habits and goals that fit into your lifestyle – do not change your life to fit them if it doesn’t make you truly happy.”
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If a lack of time is keeping you from working out, remember that even just 10 minutes of movement a day can be a total game changer for energy, mood and fitness.
Nicole explains that studies show that the intensity of the workout doesn’t dictate the benefits it has on your mood, so with this in mind, you can choose the physical activity based on your energy levels, time and present mood to support you best mentally as opposed to assuming HIIT being the answer, when indeed a walk in fresh air may be just what the doctor ordered.
“By adapting to what best serves you, you are more likely to build regular activity into your week in a way that is maintainable,” she adds.
3. Remember exercise is self-care
Self-care doesn’t have to mean soaking in the bath, it can equate to prioritising yourself, in whichever way you need that day.
“Recognise this and put yourself back on the priority list. You cannot pour from an empty cup!” implores Nicole.
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“Finding the time for yourself, feeling the independence and knowing you’re exercising for you, your body and your mind will see your family reap the benefits also. You’ll be a mum with renewed energy and a boost of confidence that exercise brings.”
Nicole adds that you’ll likely feel like a better parent if you make time for yourself to work out, explaining: “Through fitness you can build a body you fall in love with, grow your confidence and increase your energy so you’re fit enough to meet the demands of motherhood, be it playing with the kids, jumping on a trampoline or completing a physical challenge you thought was unattainable.
“Exercise can give a sense of fulfilment away from motherhood or career achievements. Transforming your physical and mental health so you can bring the best of you into each and every day – which is rather empowering.”
4. Ask for help
“Ask for help when you need it and communicate with your partner or support network,” advises Nicole. “We often feel the need to juggle it all without asking for help. But by having support and getting that time for yourself, your family will benefit from a happier, heathier mum.”
Nicole Chapman is the creator of the 6-week online workout programme, Power of Mum, designed to empower women to be fitter and stronger in body and mind, through strength training and metabolic conditioning. Her next programme starts 19 February 2024.
Fitness
Personal Trainer Reveals the No. 1 Exercise to Do Daily for a Strong Deep Core
There’s more to your core than you might realize. There are the muscles that make up the visible topmost layer of abs — the ones responsible for the chiseled six-pack — and then there are the deep core muscles.
Among these deep core muscles is the transversus abdominis, the deepest layer of the abdominals. Think of them like a corset that wraps around your entire midsection, explains personal trainer, TODAY.com health editor and Start TODAY producer Brianna Steinhilber.
The muscles of the transversus abdominis control your posture and the way you move, TODAY.com previously reported. They act as the foundation for the rest of your abdominal muscles, supporting mobility and functional strength across the entire body. For that reason, they deserve as much attention as the superficial ab muscles that tend to get all the glory.
“Working these deep core muscles is really what’s going to help you lose inches off your waist, build core strength and stability, and even reduce lower back pain,” says Steinhilber. Improve your strength and stability with the one deep core move that stands out above the rest.
Fitness Tip of the Day: Perfect Your Pelvic Tilt for a Strong Deep Core
While there are many exercises that target the transversus abdominis, the “pelvic tilt is definitely the most important thing to master before doing any other ab exercise or, arguably, any exercise,” says Steinhilber.
Why It Matters
On its own, the pelvic tilt strengthens the innermost ab muscles, but it also acts as the foundation for every other workout you do.
“It’s a position that should become second nature,” says Steinhilber, because it stabilizes and braces your core whether you’re doing an abs circuit, Pilates or strength training.
By activating and engaging your deep core muscle with a pelvic tilt, you’ll be recruiting these innermost ab muscles to protect your back, prevent injury and support your posture with every move you do, TODAY.com previously reported.
How To Get Started
Start by lying on your back with your knees bent and your feet hip-width apart, TODAY.com previously reported. Place your arms at your side and point them toward your heels. Inhale, then, as you exhale, “think about pulling your belly button to your spine and tucking the tailbone under,” says Steinhilber.
It can help initially to exaggerate the movement by rounding your lower back so that it touches the ground as your tailbone remains in place. Then, tilt your pelvis toward your ribs. Repeat these pelvic tilts forward and back 10 times.
When performing other exercises, whether or not they require you to lie on your back, maintain the pelvic tilt position to ward off injury and make the workout more effective, TODAY.com previously reported.
TODAY’s Expert Tip of the Day series is all about simple strategies to make life a little easier. Every Monday through Friday, different qualified experts share their best advice on diet, fitness, heart health, mental wellness and more.
Fitness
Huge 30-Year Study Finds Exercise Variety Can Help You Live Longer – Here’s the Ideal Mix
Everyone knows the importance of staying active as you age, with those who exercise more likely to improve their longevity by staying fitter and healthier. But new research suggests exercise variety counts for a lot, too.
It might be time to add a bit more spice to your activity mix.
The Study
The study, published in BMJ Medicine, tracked the weekly exercise habits of 110,000 people – 70,000 men and 40,000 women – over the course of 30 years. Researchers wanted to determine whether there was an association between variation in physical activity and risk of death.
Participants reported how much time per week they spent doing activities such as walking, running, cycling, swimming, rowing, strength training, playing sports, lower-intensity exercises like yoga, outdoor work such as gardening or chopping wood, and even climbing the stairs. Researchers then scored participants according to the variety of physical activity they undertook, which was only measured if it was something they engaged in consistently – playing badminton just once a year doesn’t quite count here.
The Results
Those who engaged in the greatest variety of exercise had a 19% lower risk of all-cause mortality than those who engaged in the least variety. The relationship also held true at every level of physical activity – for example, someone who took part in four different activities had a lower mortality risk than someone who completed only three.
Researchers also highlighted that people who resistance trained for 120 minutes or more per week saw their mortality risk plateau, regardless of exercise variety.
What Does This Mean for You?
It’s all about variety. The research suggests taking part in a wide range of activities is better for you than doing the same amount of exercise in just one discipline, so start mixing things up and reap the benefits. Rather than being extremely regimented week to week and sticking to the same one or two activities, this approach gives you greater freedom to try new things, safe in the knowledge that doing so may be better for your overall health. But don’t go all guns blazing just yet.
‘For people who are less active, the key message is that small amounts can still matter,’ the researchers say. ‘Building a routine gradually may be more important than trying to do a lot at once.’
It’s also fair to assume that combining strength training with cardiovascular exercise, such as running or hiking, will help optimise those benefits even further. Both are associated with greater longevity, so pairing them together is likely to help keep you fitter and healthier for longer.
That said, total exercise volume is still king when it comes to longevity – five hours of strength training beats four hours split between swimming, running and cycling, for example. The NHS recommends that adults over 65 do at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity, or 75 minutes of vigorous-intensity activity, each week to improve health and reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke.
The main message? Lift some weights, get outside as much as you can, and keep your heart pumping with a bit of intensity each week – it’ll help you stay in rude health.
If there’s one thing Kori Sampson knows, it’s how to optimise your body composition for performance. To tap into his knowledge as an elite athlete and coach, we asked him to create a 4-week plan to help you move faster, recover quicker and keep pushing when the fatigue sets in – all while improving your muscle-to-fat ratio.
Ready to build muscle, burn fat and come out the other side looking, feeling and performing better? Click here to get 14 days of free access to the plan via the Men’s Health app.
Ryan is a Senior Writer at Men’s Health UK with a passion for storytelling, health and fitness. Having graduated from Cardiff University in 2020, and later obtaining his NCTJ qualification, Ryan started his career as a Trainee News Writer for sports titles Golf Monthly, Cycling Weekly and Rugby World before progressing to Staff Writer and subsequently Senior Writer with football magazine FourFourTwo.
During his two-and-a-half years there he wrote news stories for the website and features for the magazine, while he also interviewed names such as Les Ferdinand, Ally McCoist, Jamie Redknapp and Antonio Rudiger, among many others. His standout memory, though, came when getting the opportunity to speak to then-Plymouth Argyle manager Steven Schumacher as the club won League One in 2023.
Having grown up a keen footballer and playing for his boyhood side until the age of 16, Ryan got the opportunity to represent Northern Ireland national futsal team eight times, scoring three goals against England, Scotland and Gibraltar. Now past his peak, Ryan prefers to mix weightlifting with running – he achieved a marathon PB of 3:31:49 at Manchester in April 2025, but credits the heat for failing to get below the coveted 3:30 mark…
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Fitness
Fitness Experts Reveal Walking Exercises That May Help You Build Muscle
No matter your age, walking is one of the best exercises you can do for your body. Still, the same-old stroll every day can start to feel boring. By incorporating some creative walking exercises to build muscle into your session, you can bust boredom as well as maximize the benefits of your walk.
“Any repetitive motion in one plane of motion, such as walking forward, will activate the same muscles each time,” said Amy West, M.D., a sports medicine physician at Northwell Health in New York. While the muscles you use to walk forward (like the quads, hamstrings, glutes, and calves) are certainly smart to strengthen, there are other muscles in the lower body and core that are important to keep strong as you age. “Our muscles support our joints, so by improving muscle strength you can help reduce impact on your joints,” Dr. West said. “When you use different walking methods, different muscles are activated each time, which promotes balanced muscle development and postural alignment—and could potentially prevent future aches and pains.”
Meet the experts: Amy West, M.D., a sports medicine physician at Northwell Health in New York; Lindsey Benoit O’Connell, C.S.C.S., a certified trainer, a meditation teacher, and the founder of The LAB Wellness; Janet S. Dufek, Ph.D., a professor in the department of kinesiology and nutrition sciences at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas; Samantha Pinkston, P.T., D.P.T., a senior physical therapist at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City; Latreal Mitchell, a personal trainer and health coach.
Lindsey Benoit O’Connell, C.S.C.S., a certified trainer, a meditation teacher, and the founder of The LAB Wellness, agreed: “Different walking styles can help improve balance, coordination, and agility,” she said. Aside from building strength throughout your body, using different walking styles “challenges your brain to work harder to coordinate the steps,” O’Connell added. Then, once you can confidently do all of these, you can add high-intensity intervals or extra resistance. “Mix up your walks during the week by doing different styles on different days,” O’Connell suggested. “Over time, you’ll see big payoffs!”
Read on for fitness experts’ favorite walking variations, plus how each can help you get stronger and improve mobility and balance as you age.
How to walk to build muscle
Backward Walking
Physical therapists often incorporate backward walking (also called “retro walking”) into treatment plans for various leg injuries and stroke rehabilitation because it helps improve balance, coordination, and range of motion in the hips, leading to better mobility and stability, said backward-walking researcher Janet S. Dufek, Ph.D., a professor in the department of kinesiology and nutrition sciences at the University of Nevada, Las Vegas. Walking backward may also help you maintain a healthy weight (varying the exercises you do helps prevent you from plateauing) and reduce your levels of C-reactive protein, a marker of chronic inflammation, based on a study in which overweight individuals walked backward on a treadmill four times a week.
Muscles Worked:
Try It: Simply take steps backward instead of forward. Because you won’t be able to see where you’re going, it’s smart to do this in a safe, controlled environment—ideally on a treadmill at a slow speed so you can use the rails for balance if necessary. If you don’t have access to a treadmill, then your driveway, a flat and even area of sidewalk, or your local track should work. If you’re not walking on a treadmill, Dufek suggested recruiting a partner—they can be your eyes, and you can hold hands with them for additional support while you master this skill. Start with short bouts so your muscles can get used to the new way of moving (and don’t be surprised if they feel fatigued faster than with regular walking): “Begin with 30-second intervals and gradually extend them as you gain confidence and endurance,” O’Connell advised.
Criss-Cross Walking
Ever watch a clip of supermodels strutting along the runway? They lift one foot, cross it in front of the other to take a step, and continue that pattern. This is essentially how you walk criss-cross style. Walking in this manner strengthens muscles that can help you maintain good coordination, hip mobility, and balance, leading to better overall mobility and less risk of injury, said Samantha Pinkston, P.T., D.P.T., a senior physical therapist at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City.
Muscles Worked:
- Hip adductors (in your inner thigh region)
- Hip abductors (in your buttocks)
- Quads
- Calves
Try It: Start by standing with your feet hip-width apart. Lift your right foot and cross it diagonally in front of your left before lowering it to the ground. Then lift your left foot, kick out your knee, and cross it diagonally in front of your right foot in the same way. Think of it as if you’re making an “X” as you stride. Tighten your buttock muscles and breathe to engage your core. “Practice on flat surfaces and avoid overexaggerating your steps to maintain your balance,” suggested O’Connell.
Nanba Walking
You may not have heard of Nanba walking, but you’ve probably seen it in movies featuring samurai warriors who walk by moving the same arm and leg in sync—a more stilted, less fluid stride than traditional walking. Old research from Singapore has found that this style of walking, which originated in Japan, is more stable and energy-efficient than traditional walking, partly because it involves less twisting of the body and promotes greater integration between the upper body and the lower body. It can also promote mindfulness because it causes you to really focus on your movements, said Latreal Mitchell, a personal trainer and health coach.
Muscles Worked:
Try It: Stand with your feet hip-width apart and your arms hanging loosely by your sides. Bend your knees slightly, as if you were holding a mini squat. Try to stay in this position as you move, as “it’s key for engaging the glutes and keeping the focus there so you don’t end up relying on bigger muscles in your legs to do all the work,” said O’Connell. Step forward with your right leg, moving your right arm forward with it; then step forward with your left leg and bring your left arm forward. Focus on your posture, engaging your core and maintaining an open chest, Mitchell advised. “It’s going to feel awkward at first,” O’Connell said, so practice slowly, and then ramp up. This is a great movement to incorporate into a warm-up before or a cooldown following your usual walking workout.
Side-Stepping
Also known as lateral walking, it’s when you walk sideways with relatively small steps, similarly to how a crab scuttles across the sand. You can boost the effort by placing a resistance band around your calves or thighs once you’ve gotten the form down. Side-stepping improves balance, flexibility, and pelvic stability, which can help prevent falls and injuries that could interrupt your lifestyle and walking routine.
Muscles Worked:
- Hips
- Inner thigh muscles
- Lower leg muscles
- Core
- Glutes
Try It: Stand up straight with your feet nearly touching, knees slightly bent, and your chest lifted. Keeping your feet facing forward, step to the side with your right foot and quickly bring the left one to meet it. Continue this pattern, taking 10 steps to the right and pausing, then taking 10 steps to the left. “Keep the steps small to maintain control,” O’Connell suggested. When you’re ready to add a resistance band, position it around your ankles or right above your knees and then perform the steps above. Having the band around your ankles works your lower leg muscles more, whereas placing it above your knees makes your glutes and hips work harder.
Skipping
Conjure your inner child and spend some time skipping. “It provides cardiovascular benefits and is good for bone density,” Mitchell said. “It’s like a gentler form of running.” In fact, East Carolina University researchers found that skipping was lower-impact and reduced the load on the joints compared with running. “Skipping also involves coordination and balance—very important as we age,” Dr. West noted.
Muscles Worked:
- Quads
- Glutes
- Core—plus, cardio!
Try It: Start by standing with your feet hip-width apart. Step forward and hop on your right foot as you lift your left foot off the ground, then step forward and hop on your left foot as you lift your right foot. Continue the pattern from there. During a regular forward walk, you can try incorporating 15-second bursts of skipping every block or two, O’Connell said. As you get stronger and more comfortable, you can lengthen your skipping stride to increase the challenge—and the benefits.
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