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‘The highs are extremely high – but the lows are extremely low’: when working out becomes an addiction
At the peak of his adventuring career, Luke Tyburski was a man of extremes. The former pro-footballer, then in his early 30s, had dedicated himself to intense endurance challenges, of the sort that make a marathon look like a fun run. Beginning with the Marathon de Sables (a notorious multistage ultramarathon in the Sahara desert), he then ran the world’s highest ultramarathon at Mount Everest base camp, battled dehydration during a 100km run on a tropical island, and took on the vividly named Double Brutal Extreme Triathlon in north Wales. The endgame in all of this was a self-designed challenge, which saw him swimming from Africa to Europe, cycling through Spain and running to Monaco – 2,000km in total, in just 12 days.
Tyburski was a professional adventurer, financing his pursuits via magazine articles and speaking gigs, and even making a documentary about his quest. His whole raison d’etre was to push past his limitations, showing what a person is capable of when their mindset is strong enough. Yet, privately, he was dealing with depression, related to a loss of identity after the end of his footballing career, which took in Australia, the US and Belgium before he tried out for clubs in the UK. “Training and racing creates an escape, and the highs are extremely high,” says Tyburski. “But when I returned home from an adventure, the lows were extremely low, because I hadn’t addressed what I was running away from.”
He began to spend even more time training. If he was planning on doing a four-hour bike ride on a Saturday morning with friends, and a two-hour run on the Sunday morning – normal enough for a triathlete – he might fit in a secret training session on the Saturday afternoon. He developed crippling insomnia, which he used as a pretext to run what he called “midnight marathons”, and would binge eat between training sessions to prolong the high.
It is possible to take on big endurance challenges without spinning out of control. Indeed, performing at your best requires a balanced approach to rest and fuelling. But in Tyburski’s case, they enabled a self-destructive tendency. All the hallmarks of an addiction were taking root: the secrecy, the persistence through negative consequences, the need for more, the sense of having something to escape. “But nobody suspected anything, because my weight didn’t change, my performance didn’t change, my demeanour didn’t change. I was a very good actor,” he says.
Exercise addiction isn’t officially recognised as a psychiatric disorder. In common with most behavioural addictions, it doesn’t feature in either of the key psychiatric manuals, the DSM-5 or the ICD-10. As a result, there are no standardised criteria for diagnosing it. You’ll often hear people describing themselves as “exercise addicts” – an affliction on a par with “chocoholic” – when rhapsodising about how much they love the gym.
That said, for a subset of regular exercisers, there is clearly something more damaging going on. Studies have suggested that around 0.3-0.5% of the general population may be dependent on exercise, rising to 3-9% of regular exercisers and athletes. Many researchers believe the framework of addiction is fit for purpose here. There is even a growing body of evidence to suggest that behavioural addictions function like substance addictions neurologically, through dysregulating the motivational pathways in the brain. Indeed, the phenomenon of cross-addiction – when a person replaces one damaging substance or behaviour with another – is well documented when it comes to exercise.
“The brain doesn’t necessarily care so much where it gets the spike of dopamine or serotonin from,” says Kanny Sanchez, an addictions therapist supporting patients within the Priory’s Flourish addiction treatment programme. “In all cases, there is the same need for an external source to come inside and regulate the internal turmoil.”
Exercise addictions, he says, generally take the form of an obsession. Rather than being just another part of your day, exercise becomes the centrepiece, often to the detriment of everything else. You may keep training through injuries, and even experience a form of withdrawal when unable to work out. “Exercise in itself is a really good way of handling stress,” says Sanchez. “But if it’s the only tool you have in your arsenal, that’s when it becomes an addiction.”
Micheál Costello, 30, is a PR account manager, writer and triathlete. He was diagnosed with depression and atypical anorexia at the peak of the pandemic. Before Covid, he had been working out a lot and practising intermittent fasting, a combination that provided a focal point for his anxieties but didn’t ring too many alarm bells. As the world went into lockdown, and Costello moved back in with his parents, his behaviours spiralled. “If exercise addiction could be formally diagnosed, I would have been diagnosed with it, is what my psychiatrist said at the time,” he says.
Atypical anorexia is a form of the condition where patients restrict their food intake but are not medically classed as underweight. In common with other eating disorders, it is often accompanied by excessive exercise. One study found that up to 48% of people with eating disorders show symptoms of exercise addiction. This may stem from body dissatisfaction, or compensatory behaviours around food, but there can be an emotional element too. “A lot of the clients I work with use exercise to get rid of unwanted and uncomfortable feelings,” says Stacey Fensome, a sports and exercise psychologist who works with the eating disorder treatment clinic Orri. “Exercise can be a tool to override the nervous system and generate a kind of numbness, as well as produce a release of endorphins.”
In Costello’s case, underfuelling and overtraining went hand in hand. He bought an exercise bike for the house and spent most of the day on it. “I would wake up, go for a walk, have something small to eat, get on the bike for two hours, do half an hour of bodyweight exercises, and an hour and a half of constant skipping,” he recounts. “That would bring me to evening time. I’d go for a 20-minute walk with my mum, and then I’d get back on the bike for up to three hours. It was a relentless existence, but I was also terrified to step out of it.”
It was only after some suicidal thoughts that he admitted to himself he needed help. While that help was not easy to come by – his GP dismissed his concerns as those of a “fine, healthy young lad” – he eventually received some talking therapy and a course of antidepressants. Further down the line, he discovered triathlon, a sport he credits as resetting his relationship with exercise.
“I wanted to do something with all the fitness I had built while I was in the midst of the eating disorder, and to shift my perspective,” he recalls. “I completed my first Ironman in 2023 and was hooked. I’m now training for my fourth one, and have qualified for the Irish triathlon team. I can’t abuse my body in the way that I used to if I want to be able to do those races.”
When you’re talking about these kinds of extremes – Tyburski’s midnight marathons, or Costello’s stints on the exercise bike – it’s obvious that there is something awry. But for many endurance athletes and gymgoers, it can be difficult to know where discipline shades into compulsion, and compulsion into full-blown addiction. For instance, the Exercise Dependence Scale, one of the main screening tools used by clinicians, asks participants how much they agree with the statement: “I continually increase my exercise intensity to achieve the desired effects/benefits.” This reads a lot like the principle of progressive overload – a key prong of any respectable training programme.
Similarly, some compulsive behaviours around exercise look innocuous enough from the outside. Fensome says they can include struggling to rest and have days off; prioritising exercise over other activities; being unable to sit still; choosing to walk everywhere; even using a standing desk. As red flags go, these are subtle ones. “Wanting to take care of our health is wonderful, but what is the intention behind it?” she says. “Is it because being still causes a lot of distress and fear, or is it because we actually want to be physically active?”
A further complication is that exercise is socially validated, in a way that, say, a gambling addiction is not. Your “no rest days” approach may win you plaudits on social media; your body type may fulfil a societal ideal. Very few of the people around you, except those closest, are likely to express concerns. “I worked with one client who was doing extra training sessions and showing up early, and they were put on a pedestal for that,” says Fensome. “But what was actually happening was they couldn’t stop, and if they stopped there was a loss of control over who they were.”
Margo Steines, an Arizona-based author, has dealt with a litany of addictions and eating disorders in her life, but in some ways found recovery from exercise addiction to be the hardest. At the peak of her addiction, during grad school, she was spending seven to nine hours a day in various gyms. “I had a secret trainer who I would see before CrossFit, and then I’d go to CrossFit, and then I’d run, and then go to hot yoga and then martial arts,” she says. “I was neglecting everything else and getting the cascade of athletic injuries. But people would stop me in the store and ask what I did for my workouts. It’s easy to hide dysfunction because you’re not visibly underweight – you’re jacked and juicy and look great.”
As she frames it, there were several layers to her addiction. Most obvious was the cultural layer, about wanting a very specific, idealised body type. There was a personal layer, about the fallout from a traumatic relationship. “Exercise allowed me to not feel how messed up I was from it,” she notes. Then there was the positive reinforcement from those around her, including doctors and therapists, who tended to toe the line that “movement is good”.
Only her partner, a strength and conditioning coach, recognised her issues for what they were. “I got very lucky, because he was my coach at the time,” she says. “He could see the red flags, but also knew how to approach me delicately, like a bunny in the woods.”
Exercise addiction can be just as damaging as other types of addiction; if you are underfuelling at the same time, you may develop overtraining syndrome, a condition characterised by a host of unpleasant mental and physical symptoms. “You can suffer with chronic injuries. You’re probably looking at hormonal disruption, burnout, low energy and low mood. There might be an element of withdrawing socially, like the social battery doesn’t even exist,” says Aaron McCulloch, co-owner and director at Your Personal Training.
Sanchez says there can be psychological, social and even spiritual ramifications too. “The mental toll that it takes, it’s just like a prison in your head,” he says. “The person will have a very external locus of identity, meaning their self-worth will be entirely dictated by how much they’re exercising. Missing the workout causes so much guilt and shame.”
Since the birth of her daughter in 2020, Steines has been living with myalgic encephalomyelitis, formerly known as chronic fatigue syndrome, a condition that leaves her bedbound during flareups and naturally tempers her drive to over-exercise. While she can’t say for sure what caused it, she does believe it’s related to her exercise addiction. “I go in and out between being relatively sedentary and then working out like an average person,” she says. “On the outside, it looks like I’ve recovered. While I would say I’m two-thirds recovered on the mental side, I didn’t do the work to recover. It’s more like the exercise addiction got taken away from me.”
Tyburski, meanwhile, is “unofficially retired” from adventuring after the buildup of injuries and consequent surgeries. “In 2026, I’m paying for the detrimental behaviours of 2013 and 2014,” he says. “It’s taken me a while to accept, but I now have gratitude for the smaller things in life, to be able just to be active and healthy. Will you see me swimming between continents again? No, but when my body is ready to do it, I would love to go into the ocean for half an hour.” These days, he works as a keynote speaker and leadership coach, and says he’s in a good place.
Recovery from exercise addiction can be complex, not least because eliminating exercise altogether – as you would for drug and alcohol addictions – isn’t usually a desirable end goal. Yet however fraught a person’s relationship with movement, there are options available: entering a rehab facility, working with an understanding therapist or even leaning on peer support. Ideally, these could make it easier to spot the signs before the problem has spiralled out of control.
Costello likes to use the analogy of physical injury. “If you were experiencing a niggle in your ankle and you were concerned that it was tipping into something more damaging, you’d talk about it,” he says. “You’d mention it to a friend, and if it got worse you’d see a physio. I feel like we need to do the same with psychological niggles, to just be like, ‘Do you feel you’re getting a bit too anxious if you miss a session?’ You’d be surprised how helpful just talking out loud can be.”
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’90s Workout Catchphrases That Sound Even More Ridiculous Today – Health Digest
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Coming on the heels of the exercise-crazed 1980s, with its ubiquitous leg warmers and tights, were the 1990s. During the decade, cardio-packed martial arts workout videos and stationary bike spinning classes came into vogue, as well as some new gym lingo. And, while the decade did get some things right when it came to health and fitness — like the Health At Every Size Movement and the culmination of the U.S. government’s push to promote its Healthy People guidelines — it also got some things very wrong, especially when it came to its fitness jargon. We just can’t forget the fact that these popular ’90s catchphrases sounded quite ridiculous, not just today, but even back then. With that said, here are some of the classic cringeworthy slogans of the era, which you might recognize if you’re a Millennial, Gen Xer, or Boomer.
Tae Bo Nation (and Work It)
By the late 1990s, fitness guru Billy Blanks seemed to be touting his Tae Bo kickboxing-meets-martial-arts videos on every screen. Thus, his calls to form a “Tae Bo nation” and to “Work it!” became commonplace.
Interestingly, Blanks refused to follow a script for his Tae Bo videos (via Men’s Health). Consequently, his enthusiasm was totally legitimate (and smile-inducing) for everyone involved. As Blanks told The New York Times in 2026, “Even though we were working out hard, we were having so much fun with doing it.”
Unlike many fitness trends that completely disappeared, Tae Bo has demonstrated some staying power, with today’s generation rediscovering the classic workout, albeit without the “Work it!” catchphrase or the tight neon outfits.
Abs of steel
The 1980s saw the birth of “Buns of Steel” workout videos, featuring glute-burning exercises. The slogan took on a new form in the 1990s and became “Abs of Steel,” a branded workout featuring toned fitness instructor Tamilee Web that eventually took off as a catchphrase as well.
Even nowadays, it’s used as a figure of expression (or even ironically in memes) because of how everyone associates well-developed abs with toughness. Obviously, though, everyone knows that toned abs aren’t literally as hard as steel. (Check out these ab exercises that should be in your workout routine.)
Boo-yah!
In the ’90s, it wasn’t that uncommon to hear someone utter, “Boo-yah!” after any great accomplishment, like winning at sports or completing a particularly intense workout. In fact, the strange term became a one-word catchphrase after ESPN reporter Stuart Scott kept saying it during the early part of the decade.
According to Scott’s college friend Fred Tindal (via The Ringer), “boo-yah” was a misspelling of how someone used to describe the sound of a thunderstorm to them (“crack crack crack crack crack boo-yaw”). Interestingly, while Scott popularized the phrase, he didn’t invent it; experts traced its roots to West Coast hip-hop (per Slate).
Stop the insanity!
Fitness star Susan Powter gained popularity in the 1990s for her passionate cry to “Stop the insanity,” a rallying call for people to move beyond restrictive dieting and fad fitness trends toward true holistic health. Though it earned Powter positive attention (and a guest spot on “The Tonight Show”), her catchphrase also became the subject of jokes and spoofs on various TV shows of the era.
Ultimately, Powter’s following faded. But while her catchphrase is no longer popular, its message remains significant, as evidenced by the growing movement towards fitness at any size.
Squeeze your way to shapely hips and thighs
Longtime actress and model Suzanne Somers shook up the 1990s when she starred in ThighMaster exercise product infomercials, where she claimed it was possible to “squeeze your way to shapely hips and thighs.”
Consumers seemed to buy into the silly slogan: On the “Hollywood Raw” podcast, Somers claimed that they “stopped counting” when they reached 10 million copies sold (via Yahoo!).
But does Somers’ ThighMaster actually work, as the catchphrase suggests? “[With the ThighMaster], you’ll build muscle, but it’s not going to be functional in any way,” fitness expert Justin Price told the Los Angeles Times, reinforcing what we know about spot reduction being fiction.
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Devon fitness community helps women rethink exercise during menopause
More women are stepping away from strict “eat less, move more” fitness routines as demand grows for training programmes designed around the hormonal changes linked to menopause.
Devon-founded wellbeing community Holsm has opened registrations for its latest eight-week programme, which focuses on strength training, recovery and sustainable exercise habits for women during perimenopause and beyond.
The programme was founded by coach and former care management specialist Holly Fivian, who said many women were beginning to question whether traditional fitness advice still worked for them during midlife.
With around 13 million women in the UK estimated to be peri- or post-menopausal, the programme aims to help women adapt exercise routines to changes in energy levels, recovery and overall wellbeing.
Holsm’s approach centres on strength training, alongside mobility, posture, nutrition, hydration, sleep and stress management.
Holly Fivian said: “Hormone-friendly fitness isn’t about doing less. It’s about training smarter.
“It’s about understanding when to lift, when to recover, and how to support your body through change rather than pushing against it.”
Members taking part in the Holsm programme (Image: Holsm)
The programme includes short strength workouts lasting between 12 and 15 minutes, with optional longer sessions of up to 30 minutes.
The eight-week Fundamentals First programme begins on Monday, June 22, with another intake planned for Monday, September 21. Places are priced at £259.
Holsm also runs retreats combining strength training, yoga, breathwork and coaching. Its next retreat is due to take place from Thursday, November 20 until Sunday, November 23 at Gitcombe Estate in Devon, with prices ranging from £750 to £950.
Ali, 71, who takes part in the programme, said: “I’ve developed a real belief that small, everyday exercise makes a difference over time.
“At first the changes were subtle, but after a few months I realised I felt stronger and more capable, even lifting my eight-year-old grandchildren or gardening with ease.”
More information about the programme is available at Holsm.
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The ancient exercise that transformed one man’s fitness
I have a story that a lot of people might be able to relate to,” 47-year-old David Keohan tells me. Given the Irishman’s favourite pastime is ripping 150kg-plus boulders from the ground, I’m doubtful. But he continues.
“In my twenties I was into art and music and drinking and smoking. I was obese and unhealthy, mentally and physically. Then you get to your thirties and your body says, ‘Hold on a second, we need to start doing something about this, kid’.”
At 32, hungover, he went into a sports shop and bought a pair of trainers. “I remember the young fella working there laughing and going, ‘Are you sure, man?’” says Keohan, laughing.
Within six months, he had run a marathon. In the next few years, he became a world champion in kettlebell sport. Then, when Covid lockdowns struck, he started lifting stones. Heavy, heavy stones.
“I got bitten by the bug of feeling good,” Keohan continues. “Before, I never knew what feeling good felt like. But once you start to feel good, it’s amazing, and you realise how bad you felt for the last 10 years.”
Reviving the ancient culture of Irish stone lifting
When Covid lockdowns hit in 2020 and gyms were closed, most people used burpees in their bedroom to stay in shape. But Keohan, a father-of-three, had other ideas.
“I met my wife in art college and she carved stones,” Keohan says. “The stone I started lifting in the backyard was one of hers that weighed 60kg. I use strength training to keep me on an even keel anyway, so I think this helped keep me mentally sane throughout those years.”
A friend, who was building a wall at the time, saw what Keohan was doing and duly dropped 70kg and 90kg stones at his house. He has been without a gym membership ever since, instead performing lifts such as squats, rows and presses with gigantic stones – often with kettlebells balanced precariously on top of them.
Come along to one of these stones. If you can get the wind under it, great, but it doesn’t matter. The most important part is that you get to be a part of the continuation of its story and culture
This approach isn’t for everyone, sure. But it goes to show how fitness plans are far from one-size-fits-all.
“I sometimes go to the beach, name stones and lift them,” Keohan says. “It’s a free gym, you’re there by yourself, you get to hear the seabirds – why wouldn’t you?
“Then I found out there was a whole culture attached to stone lifting – it was more than just ‘man picks up rock’, so I started researching it.”
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Scotland has strong ties to lifting stones, with the Dinnie stones in Aberdeenshire being the best-known example. Other areas in Iceland and the Basque region also have a rich history in the practice.
“They were like a job interview in some cases,” Keohan says. “You couldn’t be a stonemason or a fisherman unless you could lift a certain stone. Or they were used as a rite of passage as you progressed from child to adult to warrior.”
Ireland has a strong culture of stone lifting, too. But this was wiped away centuries ago, largely through British colonisation and the famine, leaving little trace.
Learning of the Fianna stone in Scotland – named after bands of medieval Irish warriors – gave Keohan the hint he needed that lifting stones existed in Ireland. He then made it his mission to unearth any stones that remained west of the Irish sea.
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The stone of Inishmore – the first of many
He found his first on the Atlantic island of Inishmore in 2023. The breadcrumb trail that led him there included a mention in a short story called The Stone by Irish author Liam O’Flaherty, a tip-off from a Reddit post by O’Flaherty’s ancestor, and a collection of folktales from locals.
“Me and my friends went off in a camper van, headed over on the ferry then cycled to get to the right area,” Keohan says. “But once you get to Inishmore, you realise it’s just an island made of stone, covered in stones. And the stone we were looking for was located in a field of boulders.”

Fortunately, it stood out immediately – a rounded 171.2kg rump of granite with a uniquely pinkish hue, sitting in the middle of a small clearing. This isn’t 171.2kg of weight plates loaded on a knurled, ergonomic barbell either. It’s wet, it’s unwieldy, and it won’t be picked up without a fight.
Keohan went away and dedicated his free time to becoming strong enough to lift the stone: lifting progressively heavier stones in his training, eating more and packing on 20kg of body weight.
Months later, he returned to Inishmore and prised the stone from the floor. He lifted it to his lap, then lips, before planting three kisses on its cold surface – just as the protagonist in O’Flaherty’s short story had done. And with that, the culture of Irish lifting stones was continued.
From this point on, Keohan doubled down on his goal of tracking down more stones through myths, stories and word of mouth. Continuing the hunt at weekends, around his job at a construction depot in Waterford, he has since found more than 50.
“It’s given me a whole new purpose and a lease of life in my forties,” he says. “Finding this culture and sharing it with people has been amazing. It’s bringing back strength and pride, and there’s a whole national identity attached to it, too. ”
People now travel from all over the world to lift stones that Keohan has rediscovered. His Instagram account, Indiana Stones, has a loyal five-figure following. He recently released a book about his discoveries called The Wind Beneath the Stone. Irish stone lifting is back.
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Keep rolling: the life of a lifting stone
Historically, lifting stones served many purposes. Some started life as jostle stones outside pubs, stopping horse-drawn carts from cutting corners and damaging the pub’s walls. Some were placed at crossroads or along mass paths as entertainment. “People have always wanted to pick stuff up,” Keohan explains.
Other stones were used as a tangible measure of strength to decide if you were well-suited to a certain job. In Iceland, a set of four called the Dritvík stones were used to determine how much of that day’s fishing haul each sailor took home, Keohan tells me. They weighed 23kg, 54kg, 100kg and 154kg – the stone you lifted onto a natural plinth dictated your role in the boat and what share of the catch you kept.
“They had the same thing in the west of Ireland, I’ve found,” he adds. “They were all in the same boat, quite literally, and whoever could lift the stone the highest on their body would get the share of the catch they wanted. It was a cut-and-dry way of thinking, which I really enjoy.”
This, he says, is “the opposite of toxic masculinity” – a buzzword describing an antiquated environment of hierarchical masculinity, often based on subjective measures.
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The stones, by contrast, are inarguably objective – you either lift them or you don’t. Whoever you are, whatever your background, you can try. Pass or fail, you’re part of something bigger.
“It’s supportive and healthy,” Keohan says. “Come along to one of these stones. If you can get the wind under it, great, but it doesn’t matter. The most important part is that you get to be a part of the continuation of its story and culture. The strength aspect is secondary to me.”
To take part, there are just two overarching rules: “Respect the stones and respect the culture.”
“These stones aren’t pieces of gym equipment; they’re historical items,” says Keohan. “If the stone is broken, the story is dead and you broke the chain.
“If you’re strong enough to pick it up, you’re strong enough to put it down again without dropping it from your chest or shoulder. If you do that, you’ll have me and every other person who loves the lifting stones chasing after you.”
And that is a brawny group you do not want to fall foul of.
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