Connect with us

Fitness

New mums are being ‘strongly encouraged’ to take regular exercise and get more sleep. Don’t make me laugh | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

Published

on

New mums are being ‘strongly encouraged’ to take regular exercise and get more sleep. Don’t make me laugh | Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett

One of the many things you don’t realise until you have a newborn is just how much people congratulate you simply for leaving the house. “Well done for getting out and about,” they say, with the cheerful camaraderie of People Who Know. Going outside may sound like a low benchmark, but during those early weeks summoning the energy to put on clothes, pack a bag, and then using that narrow window between sleeping, feeding, pooing and screaming to cross the threshold into the world can feel like the grand sum total of all human endeavour. Screw the frescoes of the Scrovegni chapel: Mama made it to Budgens.

Which explains my reaction when I read that new guidelines published in the British Journal of Sports Medicine say that new mothers should be strongly encouraged to do at least two hours of moderate to vigorous exercise a week, in addition to “daily pelvic floor muscle training”, and further that they should develop a “healthy sleep hygiene routine”, avoid screen time and “maintain a dark, cool, quiet environment before bed”.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Where to start with this? Maybe with the phrase “strongly encouraged”, as though new mothers don’t get enough of that. In the absence of proper, structural support, strong encouragement is all society has. Take an anonymous call I received a few days after we were discharged from the hospital, still reeling from a complicated birth (when people ask what kind it was, I say: “I think maybe … all of them?”) I picked up the phone. “Hello?” I said, tentatively. I was in the bathroom at the time, observing the carnage of my life and body with the sort of stoned detachment that comes with zero sleep and opioid withdrawal. “HELLO. ARE YOU EXERCISING YOUR PELVIC FLOOR?” a woman bellowed down the line. “Who is this?” I said. “I AM CALLING FROM THE WHITTINGTON HOSPITAL. YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE DOING YOUR KEGELS. OK, BYE.”

In France, pelvic floor rehabilitation is a cornerstone of postnatal care, with the government providing physio sessions. Here, a midwife with a list of numbers and a robust phone manner yells at you about your ruined vagina. I still think fondly of her. But I think if she had also told me to do two hours of exercise and develop a healthy sleep routine as well, I’d have “strongly encouraged” her to do something else with her phone.

Advertisement

Look, I am not saying the advice isn’t important. As the professionals who have written this paper say, the postpartum period puts women at risk of all kinds of health problems, and is “a unique and critical window of opportunity to identify people at high risk for future chronic disease and to implement early interventions to improve lifelong health”. Of course it’s beneficial to become mobile as soon as possible after the birth, and to get as much sleep as you are physically able. New mothers know this. But they also know that achieving basic tasks, often in the absence of much support, can feel nigh-on impossible. Had I tried to develop their description of a healthy bedtime routine, I’d have basically been consigned to a dark room while my son did cluster feeding (and cluster pooing) for five hours. Is it any wonder I opted for binge-eating flapjacks in front of back-to-back Stanley Tucci: Searching for Italy?

When postpartum, in order to carve out time for exercise and sleep, you need a support system around you. You need visits from health professionals, an engaged partner who doesn’t go back to work after a mere two weeks, and your family around you (the paper acknowledges this, too). I was lucky enough to have this, and I still found it hard to find a moment for myself, so I can only imagine how hard it must be if you’re less supported. I expect these guidelines will just become another thing that many new mothers feel they are failing at, and the NCT agrees, saying that parents may find the pressure “overwhelming”.

I’ve just been reading Becky Barnicoat’s brilliant and hilarious Cry When the Baby Cries, a graphic memoir which vividly evokes those feverish, feral, fluid-soaked months after giving birth (she is an advocate, by the way, of achieving absolutely nothing as a survival tactic). There’s a part in the book where she goes for her postpartum doctor visit, six weeks after an emergency C-section, and he shames her for not doing exercise: “Most women like to get their bodies back as quickly as possible.” The following image, of her pushing the pram home with tears streaming down her face, viscerally captures the impact that a few unkind words can have on you at this time of deep vulnerability.

Too many of us have had moments like these, when someone could have been kind, but wasn’t. When it comes to guidelines for new mums, far less thought seems to be put into the manner of delivery. Sometimes “advice” is delivered so cruelly that it stays with you for years afterwards. There are many things I wish for postpartum women: better healthcare, better support (like in the Netherlands), better paternity leave, often, sadly, better husbands. But most of all, I wish people were a bit nicer to them.

What’s working
My son has been enjoying the new trampoline his dad gave him for his third birthday, especially to a soundtrack of disco music. It confirms my belief that, when parenting feels tricky, a “vibe shift” can work wonders. I was feeling emotional and exhausted yesterday, but watching him bounce, grinning, to Le Freak, somehow made everything feel OK again.

Advertisement

What’s not
Several good friends are dealing with toddlers who run off, sometimes towards traffic. Reins are largely frowned upon by this generation of parents (one friend even received judgmental comments for using them in the vicinity of actual lions while at a safari park), but it got me thinking how they did perform quite an important safety function. Is it time to rehabilitate them, or at least be a bit more understanding of one another?

Continue Reading
Click to comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

Fitness

Fitness Class Volume Tied to Exercise Intensity Perception

Published

on

Fitness Class Volume Tied to Exercise Intensity Perception

About The Study: In this comparative effectiveness study, reducing music volume in group fitness classes did not lead to meaningful reductions in perceived exertion and may reduce the risk of noise-induced hearing loss. These findings support implementing safer sound practices in fitness environments and underscore the need for increased awareness and education on hearing protection.

/Public Release. This material from the originating organization/author(s) might be of the point-in-time nature, and edited for clarity, style and length. Mirage.News does not take institutional positions or sides, and all views, positions, and conclusions expressed herein are solely those of the author(s).View in full here.

Continue Reading

Fitness

Reward yourself by exercising regularly at One to One Fitness | CWRU Newsroom | Case Western Reserve University

Published

on

Reward yourself by exercising regularly at One to One Fitness | CWRU Newsroom | Case Western Reserve University

Now is the time to recommit to your health in time to feel your best for all your summer activities! One to One Fitness Center offers several ways to save in March.

Members of the Case Western Reserve University community can take advantage of sign-up specials designed to reward themselves for creating healthy habits.

Individuals can get 50% off the initiation fee (regularly $50 plus tax) and earn back what they do pay by exercising eight or more days in both April and May. Learn more online about this deal on initiation fees.

Students also can get additional savings:

  • Graduate students who are enrolled for the spring semester receive summer membership free.
  • With Spartan Shape Up memberships, affiliate students pay just $40 per month for membership from now through May, and no initiation fee or security deposit is required.
  • Students also can pay $44 plus tax per month with a month-to-month, ongoing plan. No initiation fee or security deposit required.

One to One Fitness Center, owned and operated by CWRU, is known for offering personal, professional, friendly and clean services. Memberships include full access to the 28,000-square-foot fitness center, group exercise classes, validated parking in Lot 53, towel and locker service, and member discounts on programs and services.

Members also can add their spouse or partner to their account for $30 plus tax per month. The center also offers personal training, Pilates Reformer, massage therapy and sound bath therapy, swim lessons, and more.

Advertisement

Visit the One to One Fitness Center website, email onetoone@case.edu or call 216.368.1121 for more information.

Continue Reading

Fitness

A 3-Step Plan to Give Your Diet, Fitness Routine and Mindset a Reset for Spring

Published

on

A 3-Step Plan to Give Your Diet, Fitness Routine and Mindset a Reset for Spring

To help you do this, we’ve tapped our Start TODAY experts for simple tips to lighten up meals, move in ways that boost metabolism and and refocus our mindset to get motivated to keep working toward your goals. Apply their strategies and finish the month feeling lighter, more energized and motivated to move forward. Here’s the plan to make it happen:

>>Download the 31-day calendar here

31-Day HIIT & Walking Challenge

This month’s workout plan is focused on short workouts that pack a punch. “HIIT workouts give you a bigger bang for your workout buck! They provide a more efficient workout because you’re alternating the pace and intensity rather than sticking to a steady, moderate pace,” says Mansour. “Changing things up with HIIT prevents boredom and keeps your muscles guessing. This is how we can get the body to change — whether that change is speeding up your metabolism, burning more calories, building muscle, losing weight, or just improving overall health — keeping your body guessing is the magic ticket to seeing results!”

Active recovery days include stretching to improve flexibility and walking for a cardiovascular workout that aids muscle recovery. When weather permits, Mansour encourages people to get outside on walking days. “Walking outdoors isn’t just a workout, it’s a chance to breathe in fresh air and get out of the house to change your environment,” she says. “Each time you go outside on a walk, even if you go on the same path, you’ll see or feel something different. Maybe it’s a change in weather, plants or flowers, people or things. Prioritizing taking your walk outside can hugely benefit your mental health. Getting out of your regular environment and into nature can be a form of meditation, too.”

Get the full 31-day workout plan with unique workouts sent to you daily — plus, walking podcasts, healthy spring recipes and mindfulness tools — in the Start TODAY app!

Advertisement
Start TODAY Spring Asparagus Pasta recipe
Lighten up comfort food favorites by adding seasonal ingredients, like in this Spring Asparagus Pasta.

3 Simple Spring Diet Tips

In addition to mixing up your workout routine, use spring as an opportunity to start lightening up your meals by packing them with seasonal ingredients. Start TODAY dietitian Natalie Rizzo shares her top tips:

  1. Incorporate more seasonal foods. After a long winter of eating the same foods, your palate is ready for a change! Aim to add at least one spring fruit or vegetable to your meals each day, like asparagus, peas, spinach, radishes, citrus or strawberries. This Spring Asparagus Pasta is a simple weeknight dinner that feels both light and comforting. Seasonal produce is fresher, more flavorful, and an easy way to naturally boost vitamins and fiber. Plus, seasonal produce is more affordable than other items in the produce section.
  2. Use fresh herbs to brighten up your dishes. Fresh herbs like basil, cilantro, parsley, mint, or dill can instantly upgrade simple meals without extra salt or heavy sauces. Sprinkle them on salads, roasted veggies, eggs, soups, or grain bowls for a burst of spring flavor. Cilantro is the perfect finish to this Mexican Stuffed Sweet Potato, while herbs are blended into cottage cheese in this Herby Cottage Cheese Toast with Tomato recipe for a pop of fresh flavor.
  3. Shift from heavy comfort meals to balanced plates. As the weather warms up, it’s time to move away from heavy comfort foods and embrace lightened up spring dishes. Build plates with a mix of lean protein, whole grains or starchy veggies, and plenty of colorful produce. Think roasted veggie grain bowls, hearty salads like this BBQ Chicken Quinoa Salad, or simple stir-fries instead of creamy casseroles or heavy stews.
Start TODAY Mexican Stuffed Sweet Potato
A sprinkle of fresh cilantro is the perfect finish to this Mexican Stuffed Sweet Potato.

Spring Clean Your Mindset with This Mental Health Exercise

Yes, we are working to propel ourselves forward toward our health goals, but an important part of that process is slowing down and reflecting.

Getting permission not to rush in a world that feels like it’s moving faster than we can keep up is a reminder that most of us need.

Yasmine Cheyenne, start TODAY mindfulness expert

“Getting permission not to rush in a world that feels like it’s moving faster than we can keep up is a reminder that most of us need, but how often would we admit that?” says Cheyenne. “ When the to-do list feels long, and we’re trying to get everything done, we often say the opposite, disregarding how we feel, and push ourselves. Yes, we all have deadlines and things that need to be done. But we also need the reminder to take care while handling our responsibilities.”

This can be easier said than done. So Cheyenne offers up a simple exercise to help: Write down the words you need to hear each day to make yourself a priority and work toward your goals. Put them somewhere you see often, like your fridge or bathroom mirror, and recite them out loud daily.

“This is a perfect example of a reminder that seems small, but can come at the perfect time and help us care for ourselves,” she explains. “One of my favorite examples is: Take it slow and don’t rush, your nervous system deserves peace.”

Advertisement

“When you tell yourself the thing you’ve been needing to hear, it allows you to admit the quiet rumbling within you and take the steps you need. It might be admitting ‘I’m tired and will give myself an early night this week.’ Or you’re saying ‘I’m so proud of the way I’ve committed to moving my body everyday.’ Whether you’re cheering yourself on or reminding yourself of what you need, we don’t always slow down enough to hear what we need from ourselves, and this practice is a great way to start.”

Talking out loud to yourself may feel strange at first, but Cheyenne says over time it will help shift your mindset and translate those words into action. “When we hear ourselves recite these words, it’s like we’re planting positive seeds within us. The more we say what we need, the more we remember it, and we’re more likely to follow through and care for ourselves,” she says. “Our actions really start with the words we say to ourselves. Reading them out loud helps us rewire the way we talk to ourselves and that inner shift is exactly what opens the door to transformation.”

Join our live “Spring Reset Workshop” on March 22 to get one-on-one coaching from Yasmine Cheyenne and connect with other Start TODAY members. Sign up here!

Continue Reading
Advertisement

Trending