Finance
My Mother-in-Law Got One Look at Our City Apartment and Lost Her Mind
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Dear Pay Dirt,
My wife and I live in a studio apartment in a high-cost city. We are lucky it is rent-controlled otherwise we would be priced out of the area.
It does have a closet, which is a rarity. We are expecting a baby this summer and decided to invite my mother-in-law to help DIY the nursery (which is the closet). My mother-in-law is a sweet lady, but she has never left her home state until now.
She was appalled at how little our living space was and insisted that we “needed” every bit of random baby crap available—and has since started sending it via Amazon. My wife and I have been returning them and it has sparked a rift with my in-laws. Both my sisters-in-law have been berating my wife for hurting their mother’s feelings. Both of them have kids with playrooms bigger than our apartment and are drowning in plastic junk. We usually agree to let each other handle our own families, but my wife has been reduced to tears over this mess. I am honestly ready to play bad dad and just ban my in-laws from anything to do with our baby until they back off. Any advice?
—Drowning in Junk
Dear Drowning in Junk,
I hear you, no one wants to be drowning in junk, especially in a small space. I called in Courtney Morgan, licensed clinical professional counselor and founder of Counseling Unconditionally, to help.
Morgan suggests you allow yourself time to process what’s going on before you cut them off on anything baby-related. They’re excited and it sounds like they have good intentions, they just need to be redirected in a more productive direction. “I recommend validating their desire to help and support you and your wife, AND sharing ways that they may offer that support in a way that is conducive to your space,” Morgan said. I’d consult your wife before having q conversation with your mother-in-law as she might be the better person to relay this message to her family. But during that talk, you both should make it clear what will happen if they continue to send unneeded baby items.
Morgan suggests the following as a script: “Hi mother-in-law! We received your most recent Amazon gift. Unfortunately, we made the decision to return the item due to a lack of space in our apartment. We really appreciate your efforts in supporting us. Rather than sending physical gifts, we ask that you provide support when our baby arrives by helping us when we’re home from the hospital. Our space is not conducive to storing the gifts we’ve received. We will be returning gifts that we receive in the future. We sincerely appreciate your excitement for our baby!” Good luck.
—Athena
Classic Prudie
Overall I would consider myself a very easygoing person for someone who is soon to be married, especially given the uncertainty of planning through a pandemic. But today, one of my sisters decided to dye her hair orange. And by orange, I mean badly done, fake, and garish orange.
Finance
By the Numbers: Financial report reveals scale of financial costs, growth
Following a year marked by financial turbulence, Northwestern’s financial report for fiscal year 2025 revealed the University’s struggles and growth as they navigated a tumultuous landscape in higher education.
The latest report detailed fiscal year 2025, which began Sept. 1, 2024 and ended Aug. 31, 2025. It did not include the University’s stipulated $75 million payment to the federal government, which was part of the agreement struck in November 2025.
According to the University’s 2025 financial report, net assets sit at $16.2 billion, up from 2024’s $15.6 billion. However, the University spent almost $148 million more than it brought in during fiscal year 2025.
In the last five fiscal years, the University has increased steadily in operating costs for assets without donor restrictions.
Year-to-year increases in operating costs hovered around 10% in the past five fiscal years. Simultaneously, revenue growth has decreased year to year, from 12.8% between 2021 to 2022 to only 3.9% between 2024 to 2025.
Amanda Distel, NU’s chief financial officer, identified “rising benefits expenses, litigation, new labor contracts, and rapidly unfolding federal actions” as key challenges in fiscal year 2025 in the report.
Before the deal, NU invested between $30 to $40 million each month to sustain research impacted by the federal freeze, interim President Henry Bienen confirmed in an Oct. 24 interview with The Daily.
In an attempt to reduce costs, the University announced a switch in July to UnitedHealthcare from Blue Cross Blue Shield as the University’s employee health care administrator, effective Jan. 1. However, faculty and staff have reported increased out-of-pocket costs for certain services like mental health care.
Financial aid increased from $618.3 million in fiscal 2024 to $638.3 million in fiscal year 2025. Among undergraduate students in the 2024-25 school year, 15% are first-generation college students and 22% receive federal Pell Grants. According to the report, most families earning less than $70,000 per year attend at no cost, and most families earning less than $150,000 per year attend tuition-free.
Tuition is the second largest source of revenue behind grants and contracts. By the end of the fiscal year, the University held $778 million in outstanding conditional awards, an increase from fiscal 2024’s $713.5 million, according to the report.
Distel wrote that the number of gift commitments above $100,000 reached its highest in University history, calling it a “strong year of philanthropic support.”
Donor funds are categorized by whether or not restrictions were imposed on the time, use or nature of the donation. In fiscal 2025, University net assets without donor restrictions totaled $9.59 billion, or 59.1%, while net assets with donor restrictions totaled $6.65 billion, or 40.9%, of total net assets.
The University’s investment in construction efforts saw an immense uptick from $275.2 million in fiscal 2024 to $750.5 million in fiscal 2025.
This cost is spread across multiple projects, such as Ryan Field, which started construction in 2024 and is slated to open October 2026. The project operates with a $862 million budget, including a $480 million contribution from the Ryan family.
The Ann McIlrath Drake Executive Center, Cohen Lawn and Jacobs Center renovations also continued during the fiscal year.
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When should kids start learning about money? Advice from local financial advisor
REDMOND, Wash. — When should kids start learning about money, and preparing for adult expenses like rent, car payments, and insurance?
It’s a question asked recently by an ARC Seattle viewer.
We took the question to Adam Powell, Financial Advisor at Private Advisory Group in Redmond. Powell talked with ARC Seattle co-anchor Steve McCarron to share insights on the right age to form money habits, common financial mistakes parents unknowingly pass down to their children, and practical tips to set kids up for long-term financial success.
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Soft-saving era? Gen-Z embraces new financial trend that puts experiences over long-term planning
LOS ANGELES (KABC) — Many Gen-Zers are adopting a financial approach that prioritizes quality of life in the present, a trend that’s being called “soft saving.”
Bob Wheeler, a CPA, described the mindset as a shift in how young adults balance their current lifestyle with longterm planning.
“It’s really a financial approach of ‘I want to make sure I have a good quality of life, and I’m thinking about the future,’ but not as much as the present,” Wheeler said.
For many Gen Z consumers, that can mean spending more on experiences – like vacations or concerts – rather than saving for major purchases like a car or home.
Wheeler said the approach can offer emotional benefits.
“I think there are definitely benefits, I mean, less anxiety, feeling like life is what you want it to be, fulfillment, versus saving for later on,” he said.
Still, financial experts caution against ignoring longterm stability. Wheeler encouraged young workers to take advantage of employer-sponsored retirement plans.
“They’re not going to do the max. They’re going to do enough to make sure they’re getting the match from your employer, so maybe they’re doing 3% or 5%. Maybe they’re not maxing out their IRAs. Maybe they’re doing $2,500,” he said.
He also stressed the importance of building an emergency fund, typically enough to cover six months of expenses.
“I want people to enjoy their life now because tomorrow is not promised,” Wheeler said. “I also just really reiterate to them ‘and you need to have some money set aside because we don’t know.’”
But saving for a home may not be practical for everyone. In some places, renting can be cheaper, and tenants avoid maintenance costs.
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