Alaska
Wayne and Wanda: The rental market is tough, but this roommate situation may be tougher
Dear Wayne and Wanda,
Last spring, an old friend from the Lower 48 moved to Alaska. “Dave” and I go way back, to our high school days. We went to college together, and we’ve kept in close touch since I moved here. When Dave moved here, I offered to let him stay with me until he found a place. When I moved here, it took me a few weeks to get to know Anchorage and commit to an apartment. It helped, at the time, that I had a family friend to stay with while I searched and settled. I figured I was paying it forward by doing the same for Dave.
Since those days, I bought a small home, and I felt lucky to have the space to offer to my friend. The problem is, he’s still here in my house and quite comfortable in my spare room. While I never ask for money, he will leave a couple hundred bucks on the counter every now and then. He buys groceries, sometimes makes dinner or orders us takeout, and does other small things to show his gratitude.
Dave’s a good guy, but I feel too old for a roommate. I have a demanding day job and keep regimented bedtime hours, but he works for a restaurant and keeps all kinds of crazy hours. I have asked him several times how the house-hunting is going and he says stuff like, “Why would I want to leave you?” And he has also talked at length about how hard it is to find a good place and how expensive everything is.
What he says isn’t wrong. I know the market is tight. I’d hate to see him end up in a crummy apartment but I also need my space. Am I a bad friend for wanting him to move out?
Wanda says:
I appreciate Dave’s thoughtful gestures; no doubt he senses he’s imposing. He’s also probably hoping it will prolong what is surely a comforting and lower-stress situation than striking out on his own. And he’s accurate: it’s tough to find affordable and nice living space here.
That said, this one’s on you. You invited Dave to stay with no clear boundaries or expectations for the duration of that invitation. And still, you haven’t made a direct request for Dave’s departure. No wonder he’s leaving cash lying around and whipping up dinner. I’m sure he’s hoping this lasts forever — or at least for a lot while longer, as you’re no doubt saving him the time, money, and energy it takes to look for and commit to a place to live.
Safe to say, Dave won’t leave until you tell him he needs to go. You can do this kindly. Explain that you both know this situation was never meant to be permanent and while you’ve been glad to help, you want to shift your energy to helping him find a new place to live. It’s perfectly OK as a grown adult to want your own home and own space. You have worked toward this place of independence, and that vision didn’t include your childhood buddy hanging on the periphery.
Wayne says:
Come on now — we can’t assume that Dave’s a forever freeloading friend. But we can safely assume that Dave did not do his homework before moving to Anchorage. Everything is expensive. Housing availability is bleak. Crime is crazy. Our state and local leaders can’t agree on anything significant. Schools and grocery stores are closing, and the iconic Fourth Avenue Theatre is now a massive hole in the ground. Oh yeah, and people are leaving Alaska in droves, not moving here. Welcome to town, Dave — at least we still have some sweet mountains and trails to get some distance from it all!
But you, letter writer, are a homeowner and longtime resident. You should have known better — this wasn’t going to be “a couple of weeks to find a great apartment” situation. That just isn’t reality. Think you could afford or beat the highest bidder with a bag of cash for your little house in today’s market?
At least Dave lined up a job, and he’s hooking you up with cash and grub. He can surely stack up a deposit, first and last month’s rent, and find a new place, even if it’s a ridiculously pricey, crummy apartment with a back-of-house buddy/roommate. Because if he arrived this spring and snow is now once again blanketing the Chugach peaks, you’ve offered him above-and-beyond support, a sweet get-your-feet-on-the-ground grace period, and, yes, excellent friendship. It’s time for him to reciprocate and start his own Anchorage adventure. And as Wanda wisely noted, he likely needs to hear it from you, not in a nudge, but in an adult conversation that balances understanding and urgency.
[My home office co-worker is my roommate. Send help.]
[Wayne and Wanda: My girlfriend dropped a financial bombshell on me]
[Miss Manners: My friend’s cat litter boxes are gross. Is there a nice way to address the situation?]
Alaska
Alaska’s voter roll transfer: Republicans bash hearing questioning if lieutenant governor broke the law
JUNEAU, Alaska (KTUU) – A legislative hearing into the legality of Alaska’s voter roll transfer to the federal government ended in partisan accusations Monday, with one Republican calling it a “set-up” and others saying it was unnecessary, while Democrats defended it as needed oversight.
“Andrew (Gray) and the committee has a bias. I mean, that much is obvious from watching it,” Rep. Kevin McCabe, R-Big Lake, told Alaska’s News Source walking out of the hearing before it gaveled out. “Most of the testimony was slanted against the state and against the federal government.”
The House State Affairs and Judiciary committees met jointly Monday to hear testimony about whether Dahlstrom violated the law when she transferred the entirety of Alaska’s voter rolls to the federal government.
Rep. Steve St. Clair, R-Wasilla, agreed with his Big Lake counterpart that the hearing was unnecessary.
“I think we’re speculating on what the intent of the DOJ is and I believe we need to wait and see,” he said.
Rep. Andrew Gray, D-Anchorage and chair of the House Judiciary Committee, pushed back when told of his Republican colleagues’ reaction.
“I think that I went above and beyond to try to include everybody,” Gray said as he left the meeting. “If people are saying that if the Obama administration had asked for the unredacted voter rolls from Alaska, that all these Republicans around here would have just been like, ‘oh, take it all. Take all of our information.’
“That is not true. That is absolutely not true,” Gray added.
Rep. Ted Eischeid, D-Anchorage, backed his House majority colleague, questioning whether Republicans would have preferred if the topic not be addressed at all.
“The minority folks on the committee had a chance to ask questions,” he said. “I think this is a meeting we needed to have. Alaskans have asked for it. I think there’s still a lot of unanswered questions. So shedding light on the state’s actions, that’s bias?”
Dahlstrom did not attend the hearing. Gray said she was invited multiple times but cited scheduling conflicts. The lieutenant governor oversees the Alaska Division of Elections under state law.
In her most recent public statement — published Feb. 25 on her gubernatorial campaign website, not through her official office — Dahlstrom defended the voter roll transfer, saying the agreement with the DOJ was “lawful, limited” and that Alaska retains full authority over its voter rolls.
“The DOJ cannot remove a single voter from our rolls,” she wrote. “Its role is limited to identifying potential issues, such as duplicate registrations or individuals who may have moved or passed away.”
Representatives from the state’s Department of Law and Division of Elections both testified in defense of Dahlstrom’s decision. Rachel Witty, the Department of Law’s director of legal services, told the committee the state viewed the DOJ’s purview.
“The DOJ’s enforcement authority is quite broad,” Witty said. “And so, we interpreted their request as being used to evaluate and enforce HAVA compliance.”
HAVA — the Help America Vote Act — is a federal law that sets election administration standards for states.
Lawmakers also heard from an assortment of outside witnesses who largely questioned the legality of Dahlstrom’s actions, including former Lt. Gov. Loren Leman, who served under Republican Gov. Frank Murkowski, and former Attorney General Bruce Botelho, who served under Democratic Gov. Tony Knowles.
The Documents: A Months-Long Timeline
As part of the hearing, the committee released months’ worth of documents between the Department of Justice — led by Attorney General Pam Bondi — and Dahlstrom’s office, detailing the effort to transfer Alaska’s voter rolls over to Washington.
The DOJ first asked Dahlstrom to release the voter rolls in July of last year, citing the 1993 National Voter Registration Act, which requires states to allow federal inspection of “official lists of eligible voters.”
Dahlstrom agreed to release the records in August, providing a list of voters designated as “inactive” and “non-citizens,” along with their voting records and the statewide voter registration list — but it did not include what the DOJ wanted.
“As the Attorney General requested, the electronic copy of the statewide [voter registration list] must contain all fields,” reads an email sent 10 days after Dahlstrom agreed to release the data, “including the registrant’s full name, date of birth, residential address, his or her state driver’s license number or the last four digits of the registrant’s social security number.”
Dahlstrom agreed to provide the full details months later, in December, citing a state statute that permits sharing confidential information with a federal agency if it uses “the information only for governmental purposes authorized under law.” Those purposes, she wrote in the email, are to “test, analyze and assess the State’s compliance with federal laws.”
“I attach some significance to the fact that it took the State … nearly four months to respond to the Department of Justice’s demand,” former AG Botelho told the committee.
That same day, Dahlstrom, Alaska Division of Elections Director Carol Beecher and DOJ Assistant Attorney General Harmeet Dhillon signed a memorandum of understanding governing how the data could be accessed, used, and protected.
Dahlstrom’s office publicly announced the transfer nine days after the MOU was signed — nearly six months after the DOJ first made its request.
“Alaska is committed to the integrity of our elections and to complying with applicable law,” Dahlstrom said in the December statement. “Upon receiving the DOJ’s request, the Division of Elections, in consultation with the Department of Law, provided the voter registration list in accordance with federal requirements and state authority, while ensuring appropriate safeguards for sensitive information.”
A 10-page legal analysis from legislative counsel Andrew Dunmire, requested by House Majority Whip Rep. Zack Fields, D-Anchorage, concluded that the DOJ’s demand defied legal bounds.
“The DOJ’s request for state voter data is unprecedented,” Dunmire’s analysis states, adding that the legal justification the DOJ used to demand access to the data has never been applied this way before.
“Multiple states refused DOJ’s request, which has resulted in litigation that is now working its way through federal courts across the country,” he adds.
The Senate holds an identical hearing Wednesday, when its State Affairs and Judiciary committees take up the same questions.
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Alaska
Alaska Air National Guard rescues injured snowmachiner near Cooper Landing
JOINT BASE ELMENDORF-RICHARDSON, Alaska – Alaska Air National Guard personnel conducted a rescue mission Saturday, Feb. 21, after receiving a request for assistance from the Alaska State Troopers through the Alaska Rescue Coordination Center.
The mission was initiated to recover an injured snowmachiner in the Cooper Landing area, approximately 60 air miles south of Joint Base Elmendorf-Richardson. The Alaska Air National Guard accepted the mission, located the individual, and transported them to Providence Alaska Medical Center in Anchorage for further medical care.
The mission marked the first search and rescue operation conducted by the 210th Rescue Squadron using the HH-60W Jolly Green II, the Air Force’s newest combat rescue helicopter, which is replacing the older HH-60G Pave Hawk. Guardian Angels assigned to the 212th Rescue Squadron were also aboard the aircraft and assisted in the recovery of the injured individual.
Good Samaritans, who were on the ground at the accident site, deployed a signal flare, that helped the helicopter crew visually locate the injured individual in the heavily wooded area.
Due to the mountainous terrain, dense tree cover, and deep snow in the area, the helicopter was unable to land near the patient. The aircrew conducted a hoist insertion and extraction of the Guardian Angels and the injured snowmachiner. The patient was extracted using a rescue strop and hoisted into the aircraft.
The Alaska Air National Guard routinely conducts search and rescue operations across the state in support of civil authorities, providing life-saving assistance in some of the most remote and challenging environments in the world.
Alaska
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