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Jay-Z Questions Why Beyoncé Holds Most Grammys But Hasn't Won AOTY
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Jay-Z kept it real at the Grammys — during his acceptance speech, he defended Beyoncé … suggesting she oughta have more wins herself, including the long-elusive top prize.
The Roc Nation honcho was given an honorary statuette Sunday night dubbed the Dr. Dre Global Impact Award — and Hov went up there to accept with his daughter, Blue Ivy, by his side … and with Bey looking on from the audience.
Jay-Z went on to address his history with the Grammys — including feelings he’s experienced over the years where he thought it’d be worth boycotting, for one reason or another.
That led him to basically get to the point that he and his contemporaries just want the Grammys to get it right … even if it’s not perfect, the Recording Academy can at least strive toward being better — and he suggested the award show had gotten better in recent years.
Then came some tension … Jay singled out Beyonce and said some things the Grammy voters do doesn’t make sense — including giving her the most Grammy awards ever (Bey holds the record at 32 total) … but not giving her the crème de la crème, Album of the Year.
Jay harped on this point a little longer … saying one thing doesn’t track with the other.
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It was a little awkward, no doubt — because he basically articulated a gripe Beyoncé fans have long aired out about her continuously being snubbed at the Grammys … including as recently as last year, when Harry Styles took ATOY over ‘Renaissance.’
Her loyal base has been outraged before, but now … it’s obvious that it bothers Jay — and, presumably, Bey herself as well. Jigga wasn’t done airing his grievances just yet though.
Jay went on to say that some people there in the building will go home feelin robbed — and in some cases, he said they may be right … but in others, not so much. In fact, Jay said some of the artists that were nominated didn’t even deserve to be in the category.
That spurred a chorus of oohs/ahhhs, but he didn’t name any names. It was spicy, though.
Anyway, Jay spoke his piece and made it known — he thinks Bey should be more celebrated than she already is … and his advice to her (and others) was to just to keep showing up.
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We’ll see if Bey can snag that coveted Album of the Year award one of these days — or if Jay’s words here just go ignored. Like he said, all this stuff is subject … no guarantees. 🤷🏽♂️
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‘Harry Potter’ soars under the Cosm spell with fantastical, theme-park-like effects
A pivotal moment early in “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” arrives when Harry’s suburban house is swarmed and flooded with letters of acceptance for the Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. Harry’s aunt and uncle have been preventing such dispatches from reaching the young wizard-to-be, but the boarding school’s messenger owls are having none of it.
Letters flood in from the fireplace, windows and nearly seem to cause the house to burst. And while watching the film recently at Inglewood’s Cosm, home to an all-encompassing high-definition spherical screen, I half expected a letter to fall upon my lap. Cosm specializes in sports, but has released three collaborations with Warner Bros. for what it deems “experiential film.” A framed screen displaying the original 2001 work from director Chris Columbus is untouched, but surrounding it are newly added digital animations designed to envelop guests.
And in this early “Sorcerer’s Stone” scene, letters were a-flying any which way I looked. Up, down, left and right — mail missives were rocketing toward the center screen. As the world closed in on Daniel Radcliffe’s Potter and family, it did so, too, at Cosm. I’ve seen Cosm’s take on “The Matrix” and “Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory,” so I knew a letter wouldn’t come zapping my way, but one could be forgiven for protecting their cocktail — themed, of course — from being knocked over.
The famed “sorting hat” scene at Cosm’s interpretation of “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone.”
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Such is the power of Cosm’s curved screen, which brings a sense of dimension, and even at times movement, to the film. Think of Cosm, perhaps, as a mini version of Las Vegas’ Sphere, but smaller doesn’t mean any less sweeping. No, “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” in Cosm’s hands is often quite grand, as the first glimpse of Hogwarts Castle inspired cheers from the opening night audience, its cliffside towers, a romanticized spin on medieval architecture, towering above us in such a way that we will crane our necks. Only in Universal’s theme parks does the palace seem more real and welcoming.
“Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” arrives at Cosm during what is a big year for the franchise. It’s the 25th anniversary, of course, of the first film in the series, and later this year on Christmas Day a new television series based on author J.K. Rowling’s popular book series is set to premiere on HBO Max. This summer, Harry Potter: A Hogwarts Express Adventure will open at the Southern California Railway Museum for guests to experience the Wizarding World rite of passage aboard a real moving train in the Inland Empire.
All of this activity is happening as Rowling has become the center of heated debate for her controversial views on trans women. None of it, however, has seemed to curtail fan interest in the series. The 2023 video game “Hogwarts Legacy” became a massive hit despite calls for a boycott, and Universal Studios last year opened in Florida a brand new theme park land based upon the franchise at its Epic Universe park, with its centerpiece ride, Harry Potter and the Battle at the Ministry, often commanding some of the longest waits at the park.
At the film’s early May premiere at Cosm, Rowling was mentioned little, and wasn’t among the massive list of names being thanked by studio and Cosm execs. “Harry Potter” in 2026 is perhaps best viewed as a franchise that has outgrown its creator to take on a life of its own, and Cosm’s approach is that of a love letter to its many fans, recognizing that this is a magical, enchanting world that generations have long wished to find themselves immersed in.
A climatic scene in “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” is outfitted with additional effects at Cosm.
(Stefan Silvers / Cosm)
To that end, I’d rank “Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone” as the most successful of Cosm’s three cinematic interpretations. Certainly the subject matter plays a role, and while Cosm has been successful in matching the high-energy of “The Matrix” or the trippiness of “Willy Wonka,” here Cosm and its partners — experiential firm Little Cinema and effects house MakeMake — can simply luxuriate in atmosphere. The train to Hogwarts, for instance, is especially well done, seemingly stretched to infinity. The famed “sorting hat” scene, too, as Cosm’s wizards contrast the internal anxiety of being assigned a role with the external one of doing so in front of an audience, bringing to exaggerated life the cavernous Hogwarts assembly hall.
‘Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone’
Cosm works best when it’s able to use its venue to create the illusion of no longer being a spectator, when the space itself starts to feel like a living theater. Feel this, for instance, when Harry and pals traverse the moving staircase. The frame of the screen may move, creating a slight sense of disorientation as the stairs themselves shift. The portraits on the wall, whose characters occasionally come alive, start to envelop us. Cosm used some restraint here, keeping us guessing as to which framed pictures may seek to speak or nod our way.
If there’s any qualm in Cosm’s work it’s that at times there could be a tinge more self-control in order to let the film do its work. Stepping into the hidden magic nook of London’s Diagon Alley is a showcase moment in Columbus’ film, and at times it is in Cosm’s interpretation as well. Out on the street, the shops circle around us, further conveying the cramped nature of the neighborhood. It feels, more than ever, like a real-life space. Inside an intimate pub, however, filling out the scene with empty tables could distract from the hurried, nervous nature of the filmmaker’s original intent.
But we live in an immersive age. Art, increasingly, is maximized to encompass us, and Cosm understands this moment well. Once again, the venue has made the argument that cinema can feel like communal, live entertainment.
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As a Sober Person, How Should I Serve Alcohol to Friends at Dinner Parties?
I have been sober for one year after many decades of heavy drinking. By now, I am somewhat comfortable being around others when they drink. I also enjoy entertaining friends in my apartment, but I no longer maintain a well-stocked bar, nor do I wish to. So, what should I do about dinner parties? I want to be a gracious host, but I don’t want to offer a full range of alcoholic beverages to my guests. Should I ask them in advance what they want to drink and stock it? (That seems a bit intense.) Should I buy a bottle each of red and white wine and hope that suffices? (That seems stingy.) Or should I tell my guests that dinner is a “bring your own bottle” occasion? (That seems ungenerous.) Help!
SOBER
First, let me commend you on your sobriety. Making meaningful and positive change after decades of habitual behavior is a big achievement. Well done! So, making note of your phrase (you write that you are “somewhat comfortable” being around drinking), and keeping the relative stakes in mind — protecting your sobriety versus giving a dinner party — I suggest that you hold off serving booze for now. Your sobriety is still relatively new, and it is more important to safeguard it than it is to serve alcohol to friends.
You don’t mention whether you attend a support group for people in recovery. But dropping into a meeting to speak with others who have lived through experiences similar to yours would probably be helpful. They can’t make this decision for you, but hearing their suggestions may help you make a better decision for yourself. I have watched friends in recovery struggle with alcohol that is left over at the end of the evening — as well as with the temptation to join guests in drinking during dinner.
I also suggest that you rethink what makes a good host. For many decades, that probably entailed serving alcohol to your guests. But really, the act of welcoming friends into your home for a meal — and perhaps a nonalcoholic beer or cocktail — is more than enough. No one needs to drink at every meal, and your friends don’t need you to serve them alcohol to feel valued by you.
One Scheduling Conflict and Knocked Off the Altar
My best friend of 25 years removed me from her bridal party because I cannot attend the rehearsal dinner the evening before the wedding. I have an important hearing in court on Friday afternoon that cannot be moved in the absence of a true emergency. It will prevent me from making it to the rehearsal dinner. What hurts me most is that there was no conversation or attempt to problem solve. My friend simply informed me that because I would miss the dinner, I was no longer a bridesmaid. I was shocked! Should I let this go? It’s her wedding. Should I even go to the wedding? I feel disrespected.
EX-BRIDESMAID
I agree that your friend’s decision seems harsh, and I certainly understand your hurt feelings. But many of us — myself included — are sometimes unable to meet moments of stress with grace and reason. This seems to be the case with your friend, who is overreacting to a situation beyond your control.
Still, I hope you know that you have done nothing wrong here and that your friend is probably hurting herself more than anyone else by removing her best friend of 25 years from her wedding party. Try to let this go — for now. Go to the wedding and celebrate your friend. Life is long: You will have plenty of time to circle back to her to discuss her decision later, when she is better able to be reasonable.
The Inalienable Right Not to Smile
I have a toddler son. He is a happy boy, but he has a distinctly serious facial expression when he is in new settings or around new people. Strangers often feel the need to approach me to comment on it: “Why so serious?” or “That’s quite a face!” I’ve let it go up to now, but I don’t want these comments to affect my son’s idea of himself. Is there a cute response that might encourage people to back off?
MOM
Unless you believe that making a snappy comment to one person will somehow reduce the likelihood of another person commenting — which I don’t — I would focus on what your son hears. Say: “He’s an amazing boy! Playful when he’s comfortable and thoughtful when he’s encountering something new. Thanks for noticing!” Then move along. These people probably don’t mean to upset you, and there’s little upside for you or your son in critiquing their comments.
Must a Page-Turner Have Pages?
If you listen to an audiobook, can you say that you read the book? Or should you be more accurate and say that you listened to it?
READER
For traditionalists, reading is a purely visual activity — not an auditory one. And in the early days of Books on Tape, I confess that I thought of listening to books as cheating. But recent studies show that listeners engage with written material just as rigorously as those who read it on the page, and their comprehension is just as high. So, I don’t believe the distinction matters. Do you?
For help with your awkward situation, send a question to SocialQ@nytimes.com, Philip Galanes on Facebook or @SocialQPhilip on X.
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Taste New Mexico at two colorful stops along Albuquerque’s Route 66
Monte Carlo Liquors & Steak House is a lone brick island in a large asphalt lot that sits just over 100 feet from the Central Avenue Bridge that stretches over the Rio Grande in Albuquerque.
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The business’ name says everything: The front of the building lodges a liquor store selling the basic brands of spirits and beer. Around back, an arrow, painted garnet against an otherwise beige facade, points toward a red door sheltered by a small, domed awning. The words “steakhouse entrance” have been stenciled above in letters big enough to be seen two blocks away.
The 56-year-old throwback is often my first stop after landing in New Mexico. I have been traveling to the state regularly since the summer of 1999, when I attended my first of many writing retreats led by Natalie Goldberg, author of “Writing Down the Bones” and many other books. Its northern topography — the enormous sense of space, the way the light moves and colors shift against the mountains and desertscapes — keep me returning.
The 56-year-old throwback Monte Carlo Liquors & Steak House is often my first stop after landing in New Mexico.
Albuquerque, home to the state’s largest airport, is a gateway. It’s also the city with the longest continuous urban stretch of Route 66, named Central Avenue and running nearly 18 miles through its core. Two of my very favorite restaurants in New Mexico reside along this zagging sweep, both quirky and atmospheric and also grounding in their sense of place.
I return to Monte Carlo for two reasons: the honky-tonk atmosphere and the green chile cheeseburger.
Beyond the red door lies the platonic ideal of a Midcentury dive. The windowless dining room remains perpetually dim. Crimson pleather booths line the walls, which are covered with vintage beer signs and framed portraits of Elvis Presley and Marilyn Monroe … and Guy Fieri, who visited in 2008. A collection of model cars sits behind glass in one corner. It is easy to imagine a near past when cigarette smoke hovered like low cloud cover.
I cannot report on the fried appetizers or char-broiled steaks that comprise much of the menu. Occasionally I order a Greek appetizer — a nod to the heritage of Michael Katsaros, whose family still runs the place — which includes a block of feta sprinkled with oregano, olives, a single rolled grape leaf, slices of tomato and cucumber and, uniquely, thick blocks of salami.
Here’s why I return to Monte Carlo: the honky-tonk atmosphere and the green chile cheeseburger.
Chasing green chile cheeseburgers through New Mexico is sport for food obsessives. Cheryl Jamison, a longtime food writer who lives in Santa Fe, steered me to Monte Carlo years ago.
The staff grounds the beef sirloin daily, a crucial step. Seeds are visible among the chopped roasted chiles, smoky and vegetal and bringing some heat, overlaid with a single square of American cheese melted into place. The sting of a dry gin martini is exactly right between bites.
Is this the best green chile cheeseburger in Albuquerque? Impossible for me to say, but it is an excellent gauge from which to begin a survey.
The dining room is perpetually dim, and crimson pleather booths line the walls, covered with vintage beer signs and framed portraits.
The chile cheeseburger at Monte Carlo.
Wherever you’re headed from Monte Carlo, it’s worth a quick stop to admire the twin Route 66 Rio Grande markers that stand on either side of the nearby bridge. Their adobe color blends so seamlessly into the landscape that you could speed by them without much notice. They were installed in the early 2000s as part of the city’s public art programs. Their tiered form nods to the cloud terrace motif that appears repeatedly in New Mexico’s indigenous Pueblo art and architecture. It’s easiest at night to spy their subtle Route 66 logos lit up in red and green neon.
Red and green are the unofficial state colors of New Mexico, as you’ll see again and again on plates delivered by servers at Duran Central Pharmacy, the finest destination along Central Avenue for immersion into regional cooking.
Indigenous ingredients (corn, beans, squash, game meats, berries and piñon among them) and heavy Spanish colonial influences (chiles were said to have been brought to the area as early as the late 1500s) help define New Mexican cuisine.
Modern restaurant menus, with the familiar enchiladas and tamales and hard-shell tacos, can resemble Tex-Mex, but never say that to a New Mexican local. The chiles delineate culinary borders. “Red or green?” customers will be asked repeatedly. Meaning: Do you want your dish smothered in sauce made from roasted green chiles, or a simmered counterpart fashioned from dried red chile pods?
The combination plate, Christmas style, at Duran’s.
If you want both, as many of us do, the answer is “Christmas.”
At “Duran’s,” as locals call it, see and taste the distinctions on Duran’s combination plate, which includes one beef or chicken taco, one pork tamale and one rolled cheese enchilada with a side of pinto beans. Green has a toothier texture and fresher flavor; red is saucier with dusky, earthen undertones. Try the duo over a hefty knife-and-fork breakfast burrito filled with chorizo, chilaquiles, a bowl of chili or, a special on Wednesdays and Fridays, sopaipillas (pillows of fried dough) blanketed in cheese.
Founded in 1942, Duran originally had a soda fountain that converted to a sit-down restaurant in the 1960s. Touches of Midcentury Modern kitsch, especially a starburst clock on the restaurant’s roadside sign, marks its place along Route 66.
Touches of Midcentury Modern kitsch include a starburst clock on the restaurant’s roadside sign, marking its place along Route 66.
And yes, this building also pulls double duty as a thriving pharmacy. On return visits when I’m feeling too excited about jumping back into New Mexican foodways, I start at Monte Carlo for a cheeseburger and martinis before a second lunch of sopaipillas, “Christmas-style,” at Duran, knowing I can pick up ibuprofen and calcium carbonate for dessert.
Monte Carlo Liquors & Steak House is located at 3916 Central Ave. SW, Albuquerque, (505) 836-9886, monte-carlo-liquors.hub.biz
Duran Central Pharmacy: 1815 Central Ave. NW, Albuquerque, (505) 247-4141, duransrx.com
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