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Suni Lee snags bronze on bars for third medal of Paris Olympics

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Suni Lee snags bronze on bars for third medal of Paris Olympics

PARIS  — When her confidence waned and her body only began to tickle the fringes of normalcy, Sunisa Lee turned to her comfort zones. Though an exceptional all-around gymnast, she is especially gifted on the uneven bars.

As she slowly made her way back from two debilitating kidney diseases, it was the bars that helped restore Lee. She felt at home there, so comfortable that she started to tinker with a new release move, hoping to have it named after her. Her coach, Jess Graba, supported the plan, encouraged her to do anything that would “get her out of bed in the morning,’’ after the side effects of her kidney ailments left her physically weak and mentally broken.

He did not push her; didn’t even set goals. Graba didn’t know what was reasonable. Besides, he knew the athlete he’s trained since she was four years old, would do that herself. Slowly the fog lifted, and the good news trickled in — a clear to work out and finally in January, an OK to compete. Still, Graba cautioned.  She didn’t have to do this, do any of it, he told her. With an Olympic all-around gold medal already around her neck, she had nothing to prove. The cynics that dogged her, the ones that liked to remind her she won the gold when Simone Biles withdrew, wouldn’t be silenced anyway. In fact, if she was anything less than she had been, they probably would pounce harder.

But Lee wanted what she wanted — another shot. And so Lee plugged forward, through the lead up meets to the Olympics, adding a bit more at each stop. Bars and balance beam only at the Winter Cup in February; mixing in floor exercise at the Core Hydration Classic in May; and finally all in at Olympic trials. Even as she expanded her repertoire, the bars remained her mainstay. A place where her success fortified her, built that confidence back up.

Naturally the better she felt, the better she performed; the better performed, the more she wanted. It is human nature. But even as her eyes opened to possibility, to allowing herself to imagine medals and places, Lee reminded herself that being here was enough.

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And so when Lee stepped up last in the uneven bar final in Paris, she swung to win because you always want to win; but mostly she swung because if felt good.

When the 14.800 score flashed, slotting Lee into the bronze medal, she covered her mouth in surprise, surprise that she won a medal, but more surprise at what she’s done.  “The last couple of days, I saw my scores and I saw that if I just hit my routine, I could medal,’’ she said. “But really I just wanted to prove it to myself that I can do it.’’


Sunisa Lee covers her face in shock after seeing her score during the uneven bars final at the 2024 Olympics. (Photo: Jamie Squire / Getty Images)

Lee now has a stash of three Olympic medals from Paris — a gold from the team final, an all-around bronze and a bars bronze. She has a shot for a fourth tomorrow, on the beam. All this from a woman who in January wondered if she should even target the Olympics as a goal.

But if the time since her diagnosis has taught her anything, it is that she is even stronger than she thought she was. The gift of perspective has been almost liberating, allowing Lee to give herself grace and find the sweet spot between pushing for something and being simply happy you can push.

She wound up not doing the would-be signature move; she wanted to, but Graba told her the risk wasn’t worth it.  He crunched the numbers. They didn’t add up. Kaylia Nemour, a 17-year-old Frenchwoman by birth who, because of a protracted disagreement with her federation competes for Algeria, was essentially untouchable. She is to bars what Simone Biles is to vault, unbeatable unless she royally screws up.  Qiu Qiyuan, the reigning bars world champion from China, would be equally hard to beat because of her difficulty score.

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He didn’t want to tell her she couldn’t do something, but he also knew realistically she wasn’t likely going to win a silver or gold. So aim, he told her, for what was achievable, and find the joy in achieving it. Her routine as it was constructed was good enough to land Lee on the podium; if she did the new skill and fell, it would negate any chance of making it.

At one point in her career Lee might have pushed back. Because of their long time together, Lee has no problem challenging Graba and in the past, he usually followed her lead.

The last 18 months, though, have changed their dynamic. Graba is extraordinarily protective of Lee. He saw her at her lowest, depressed and unable to even come to the gym. Asked how he’s felt, he didn’t hesitate. “Stressed,’’ he said. It was, he believed, his job to keep her goals at reach, to temper her expectations without ruining her drive.

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“You’re just worried all year,’’ he said. “She put a lot out to get here, and I just wanted it to pay off.’’

The pay off came when Lee nailed her routine and completed the circle. The one event that restored her at her lowest rewarded her at her peak.

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(Photo: Dan Mullan / Getty Images)

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Why Is Everyone Obsessed With Bogs?

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Why Is Everyone Obsessed With Bogs?

In prehistoric northern Europe, peatlands — areas of waterlogged soil rich with decaying plant matter — were considered spiritual sites. Since then, swords, jewelry and even human bodies have been found fossilized in their sludgy depths. More recently, however, many of these bogs have been depleted by overharvesting, neglect and development. But as awareness of their important role in removing carbon dioxide from the atmosphere grows, more wetlands are being restored, while also serving as unlikely creative inspiration. Here’s how bogs are showing up in the culture.

At fall 2026 Paris Fashion Week, several houses — including Louis Vuitton (above left) and Hermès — staged shows amid mossy sets featuring spongy green structures and mounds of vegetation. And the Danish fashion brand Solitude Studios is distressing its eerie, grungy looks (above right) by submerging them in a local peat bog.

For her exhibition at California’s San José Museum of Art, on view through October, the Chalon Nation artist Christine Howard Sandoval is presenting sculptures, drawings and plant-dyed works (above) exploring how the state’s wetlands were once sites of Indigenous resistance and community. This month, at Storm King Art Center in New York’s Hudson Valley, the conceptual artist Anicka Yi will unveil an outdoor installation featuring six-foot-tall transparent columns holding algae-rich ecosystems cultivated from nearby pond water and soil.

The Bog Bothy (above), a mobile design project by the Dublin-based architecture practice 12th Field in collaboration with the Irish Architecture Foundation, was inspired by the makeshift huts once used by peat cutters who harvested the material for fuel. After debuting in the Irish Midlands last year, it’ll tour the region again this summer. In Edinburgh, the designer Oisín Gallagher is making doorstops from subfossilized bog-oak scraps carbon-dated to 3300 B.C.

At La Grenouillère on France’s north coast, the chef Alexandre Gauthier reflects the restaurant’s reedy, frog-filled river valley landscape with dishes like a “marsh bubble” of herbs encased in hardened sugar. This spring, Aponiente — the chef Ángel León’s restaurant inside a 19th-century tidal mill on Spain’s Bay of Cádiz — added an outdoor dining area on a pier above the neighboring marshland, serving local sea grasses and salt marsh flowers alongside seafood (above) from the estuary.

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The Irish British writer Maggie O’Farrell’s forthcoming novel, “Land,” about an Irish cartographer and his son surveying the island in 1865 after the Great Famine, depicts haunting encounters with the verdant landscape, including its plentiful oozing bogs.

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Book Review: ‘Selling Opportunity,’ by Mary Lisa Gavenas

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SELLING OPPORTUNITY: The Story of Mary Kay, by Mary Lisa Gavenas


Mary Kay, the cosmetics company whose multilevel marketing included sales parties and whose biggest earners were awarded pink Cadillacs, was really in the business of selling second chances. Or, at least, that’s what Mary Lisa Gavenas argues in “Selling Opportunity,” a dual biography of the brand and the woman behind it.

Mary Kathlyn Wagner, who would become Mary Kay Ash, “the most famous saleswoman in the world” and “maybe the most famous ever,” in Gavenas’s extravagant words, was born in 1918 to a poor family and raised mostly in Houston. Although a good student, she eloped at 16 with a slightly older boy. The young couple had two babies in quick succession.

Mary Kay’s creation was a combination of timing and good luck. Door-to-door sales was a thriving industry — but, traditionally, a man’s world: Lugging heavy samples was not considered feminine, and entering the homes of strangers, unsafe. But things began to change during the Great Depression, Gavenas suggests, thanks to a convergence of factors — financial pressures and the rise of the aspirational prosperity gospel espoused by Dale Carnegie’s self-help manuals.

At the same time, female-run beauty lines like Annie Turnbo Malone’s Poro and Madam C.J. Walker’s were finding great success in Black communities. And, coincidentally or otherwise, the California Perfume Company changed its name to Avon Products in 1939.

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Ash began by selling books door to door, moving on to Stanley Home Products in the 1940s. She was talented, but direct sales was a rough gig. Every party to show off wares was supposed to beget two more bookings; these led to sales that resulted in new recruits. But there was no real security or stability: no salary, no medical benefits, no vacations. “Stop selling and you would end up right back where you started. Or worse,” the author writes.

Gavenas, a onetime beauty editor who wrote “Color Stories,” takes her time unspooling Mary Kay’s tale, with a great deal of evident research. We learn about direct sales, women’s rights and Texas history.

But, be warned: Readers must really enjoy both this woman and this world to take pleasure in “Selling Opportunity.” Mary Kay the person keeps marrying, getting divorced or widowed and working her way through various sales jobs (it’s hard to keep track of the myriad companies and last names). Gavenas seems to leave no detail out. Thus, the 1963 founding of the eponymous beauty company doesn’t come until almost 200 pages in.

Beauty by Mary Kay included a Cleansing Cream, a Magic Masque and a Nite Cream (which containined ammoniated mercury, later banned by the F.D.A.). The full line of products — which was how Mary Kay strongly encouraged customers to buy them — ran to a steep $175 in today’s money. (To fail to acquire the whole set, Ash said, was “like giving you my recipe for chocolate cake but leaving out an important ingredient.”)

Potential clients attended gatherings at acquaintances’ homes — no undignified doorbell-ringing here — where they received a mini facial, then an application of cosmetics like foundation, lip color and cream rouge — and a wig. The company made $198,514 in sales its first year.

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Although Ash may have seemed a pioneer, in many ways Mary Kay was a traditionalist company, whose philosophy was “God first, family second, career third.” Saleswomen, official literature dictated, were working to provide themselves with treats rather than necessities so as not to threaten their breadwinner husbands.

And yet, they were also encouraged to sell sell sell. Golden Goblet pendants were awarded for major orders. After the company started using custom pink Peterbilt trucks for shipping, it began commissioning those Cadillacs for top consultants. (Mary Kay preferred gifts to cash bonuses, lest women save the money to spend on practical things rather than the licensed frivolities.) The Cadillacs, always driven on company leases, would become industry legend and part of American pop culture lore. “Never to be run-down, repainted or resold, the cars would double as shining pink advertisements for her selling opportunity,” Gavenas writes.

The woman herself was iconic, too. While Ash was a product of the Depression, she was also undeniably over-the-top. She wore white suits with leopard trim, lived in a custom Frank L. Meier house and brought her poodle to the office.

Mary Kay went public in 1968, making her the first woman to chair a company on the New York Stock Exchange. By the 1990s, the Mary Kay headquarters near Dallas was almost 600,000 square feet. They commissioned a hagiographic company biopic; there was a Mary Kay consultant Barbie; they were making $1 billion in wholesale. When she died, in 2001, Ash was worth $98 million.

And yet, Gavenas cites that at the company’s height, in 1992, sales reps made on average just $2,400 per year.

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Instead of so much time in the pink fantasia of Mary Kay, it would have been nice for a few detours showing how infrequently the opportunities the company sold were truly realized.

SELLING OPPORTUNITY: The Story of Mary Kay | By Mary Lisa Gavenas | Viking | 435 pp. | $35

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Historical Fiction Books That Illustrate the Bonds Between Mother and Child

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Historical Fiction Books That Illustrate the Bonds Between Mother and Child

We often think of the past as if it were another world — and in some ways, it is. The politics, religion and social customs of other eras can be vastly different from our own. But one thing historians and historical fiction writers alike often notice is the constancy of human emotion. The righteous anger of a customer complaining about a Mesopotamian copper merchant in 1750 B.C. feels familiar. Tributes to beloved household pets from ancient Romans and Egyptians make us smile. And we are captivated by stories of love, betrayal and sacrifice from Homer to Shakespeare and beyond.

In literature, letters, tablets and even on coins, we find overwhelming evidence that people in the past felt the same emotions we do. Love, hate, fear, grief, joy: These feelings were as much a part of their lives as they are of our own. And they resonate especially acutely in the bond between mother and child. Here are eight historical novels that explore the meaning of motherhood across the centuries.

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