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I Finally Got Back Into A Workout Routine After Becoming A Dad. Here’s The Plan I Used.

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I Finally Got Back Into A Workout Routine After Becoming A Dad. Here’s The Plan I Used.

IT WASN’T UNTIL my first child arrived in October 2024 that I realized time really is a commodity we fail to appreciate. Every day leading up to the big day, I navigated a schedule of writing, Brazilian jiu-jitsu, cooking, reading, vegetating, and walking with my very pregnant wife. I was able to commit to a rigorous 28-day workout program, by the end of which I got as lean as I’ve ever been (which you can read about here).

Then, overnight, I found myself couch-bound by a blobular being who sleep-drooled and farted on my chest as I binged the X-Men movies. Every. Single. Day. I ate whatever visitors stuffed into our fridge, slept in two-hour intervals, and lifted sporadically. Any attempt at me-time felt selfish and logistically impossible, but the lack of it took a toll on my physical and mental health.

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It wasn’t until months later, after my son was sleeping for more than two-hour stretches at night, that my head was above water. The time felt right to recommit to a new workout program. I chose Men’s Health’s Dad Bod Arm Shred plan because it looked time-efficient, and let’s be real: bigger arms are always a fun and easy target to chase in the gym.

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The workout showed me that I could get a lot of effective work done in a short amount of time. The programming was also fun, which made sticking to it easy. You can easily follow this plan for eight, 12, or even 16 weeks, and I’d advocate for anyone (not just dads), looking for a new challenge to give this one a go.

What Following Dad Bod Arm Shred Was Like

THIS FOUR-WEEK plan was written by Men’s Health contributor, certified strength coach, and fellow dad Andrew Heffernan, CSCS. Knowing a parent developed this plan eased my mind. I didn’t want to commit to a regimen that would force me to overreach, fall short, and retreat back into myself, and I felt confident that wouldn’t happen since Heffernan has been where I am. Here’s a quick breakdown of the four-week plan:

  • Four workouts per week lasting between 30 and 45 minutes each.
  • You’ll need an adjustable weight bench, a few pairs of dumbbells (or an adjustable pair of dumbbells), a resistance band, an air bike, a pull-up bar, and a kettlebell.
  • Two arm days, consisting of exercises for your biceps, triceps, and shoulders. One arm day focuses on strength; the other is all about muscle growth.
  • The two other workouts target your other major muscles.
  • The PDF includes a chart for tracking reps and weights. Heffernan programmed progressive overload, a method of adding either more reps or load to your workout each week, into each workout.
  • The PDF includes illustrations for every exercise. They’re a great reference point if you’ve never heard of a specific exercise or are unsure exactly how to dial in your form. For example, it wasn’t until I referenced the illustrations that I realized I could perform the bodyweight skullcrushers on a bench and not just with a barbell set in a power rack.
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Each Workout Took About 30 Minutes

Twice a week, I’d strap my son into his bouncer, hand him his dumbbell-shaped rattles, and he’d watch me train. For the other workouts, I’d hand him off to my wife as I headed to my local big box gym.

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My favorite aspects of this program were its accessibility and expeditiousness. If I hustled, I could get through each workout in about 30 minutes. Plus, I only needed a pair of adjustable dumbbells and an adjustable weight bench for three of the four workouts, so it was simple for me to do at home. (On day four, you’ll need an air bike, a kettlebell, and a pull-up bar.)

The gym has always been a social and emotional outlet, a place to interact with people and release some steam. Babies fill you with love, but the early newborn months were, for me, a constant spring of anxiety. I worried about every odd breath my son took (babies make many weird sounds). I worried about my wife, who woke every couple of hours in the night to feed the baby. I worried about neither of us having time to ourselves. And yet, leaving to do anything, even for an hour, felt like a betrayal of the people who needed me. The gym made me feel good, but now I was speeding through reps of curls and squats, worrying, worrying, worrying about how long I’d been away from home. Thankfully, this program accounted for my lack of time.

I Trained My Arms Harder Than Ever

This program challenged my perception of arm training and forced me to face an uncomfortable truth: I’ve never trained arms hard. Now, as a dad with only a few hours a week to spare for the gym, I was stimulating my arms more than I ever have while spending less time in the gym. Realizing that less sometimes is more (assuming you work hard) was worth the four-week commitment.

The trio of relatively small muscles that make up your arms—the biceps, triceps, and deltoids—are onerous to grow. That’s been my experience, at least. But after the first workout, my biceps felt exceptionally sore, which rarely happens, and then sore after each subsequent workout. I’m not a personal trainer or strength coach, but I imagine this newfound soreness is due to two factors: volume and intensity.

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It’s not a concrete rule, but more volume typically means more growth (assuming you’re not accumulating a ton of “junk” sets). Throughout the program, I accumulated 50 direct sets for my biceps and 52 for my triceps, not including the ancillary volume that comes from chin-ups, rows, pushups, and presses. I was able to squeeze in this much volume thanks to supersets—a common intensity technique where you perform two exercises back to back with no rest between sets. If you’re a dad who can’t afford to spend over an hour in the gym, supersets are a terrific way to pack more volume into a shorter workout, and you can apply them to any muscle.

I’ve trained long enough to know when I’m pushing my sets hard or not. Typically, I leave three or four reps in the tank for my arms, focusing on establishing a mind-muscle connection. This time, I adopted a new training style: heavy weights for every set. If a set of incline curls called for 15 reps, I’d use a pair of dumbbells that I can curl for 10 reps. Once I hit failure, I’d rest for about 10 seconds and finish the set. I was tackling my arm sets with the same ferocity that I’d apply to heavy rows or deadlifts, and I plan on bringing this intensity into all of my future arm workouts.

I Still Kept My Strength

If I was skeptical of anything, it’s that I’d keep my strength (or what was left of it) on only four, half-hour-long workouts, two of which target the arms. I was happy to be wrong.

For the Full-Body Big Lifts day, you perform two supersets—one consisting of the rear-foot-elevated split squat and dumbbell row and the other of the dumbbell bench press and dumbbell Romanian deadlift. The price to pay for such efficiency was grueling sets, lifting as much weight as my body could handle for every set of each movement. I rowed a 100-pound dumbbell, performed RDLs with 105-pounders, pressed 65 pounds on the incline bench, and held a 60-pound dumbbell in each hand for split squats. Because the program is arm-focused, you’re not expected to hit your chest, back, and legs with appreciable volume. You do, however, have to train these muscles hard. I rarely looked forward to this DOMs-inducing amalgamation, but it reminded me that effective workouts don’t have to be long and complicated.

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If there was a workout I wanted to skip—and seriously considered skipping in week four—it was the Full-Body Muscle Circuit. After a full day of daddy daycare and a week of workouts, I begrudgingly plowed through an enervating circuit of compound exercises such as chinups, walking lunges, and hand-elevated pushups. Like during the other full-body day, I kept my reps and weight as high and heavy as possible, holding 50-pound dumbbells for walking lunges and cranking through 15 dead hang chinups on my first set.

What I Gained

YOU CAN LOSE a substantial amount of weight in four weeks. Gaining muscle mass, however, is a long-haul effort that takes at least eight to 12 weeks before you notice significant results. Still, I ended up with what looked like fuller shoulders while maintaining my weight and waistline (177 lbs and 31.5”). I also feel more energized now that I’m back into a consistent exercise routine. But I don’t measure the success of this routine in inches or pounds.

The newborn stage was tough. When people find out you’re expecting, they say you’ll feel an indescribable love for your child when he arrives. It’s hard to connect with when you hear it, but that feeling is real and, at times, all-consuming. When my son first smiled at me, my body pulsed with raw emotion that is, at least in my experience, rarer to come by as we age. As you get older, you become desensitized to your surroundings. You don’t experience many “firsts”. With my son, each day is full of them—his first roll; his first laugh, his first head bump (sorry, buddy). If there’s a magic quality about kids, it’s that, through them, you get to experience the mundane anew through fresh eyes.

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However, what these parents don’t mention are the trade-offs of caring for a newborn. You are stripped of your autonomy, and your wants no longer come first. The baby sleeps on you for hours at a time. They eat every two hours. They vomit on every shirt you dare to wear around them. If you want to sit down with a pizza and watch your favorite show at the end of your week, expect to check in on them every 10 minutes while your food goes cold and your patience runs thin. Then prepare to feel like a terrible parent for getting frustrated that your food got cold and your patience ran thin. You and your partner will be around each other 24 hours a day, but will hardly interact as one sleeps and the other watches the baby. You are two ships passing in the night.

So, yeah, forget my arms. Completing 16 workouts in a month was my success, and this program helped me achieve this consistency with manageable and fun workouts. What did I gain, if not pounds of new muscle tissue? The confidence to return to the gym and a new set of tools to help me balance fitness and fatherhood.

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Andrew Gutman, NASM-CPT is a journalist with a decade of experience covering fitness and nutrition. His work has been published in Men’s Health, Men’s Journal, Muscle & Fitness, and Gear Patrol. Outside of writing, Andrew trains in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, helps coach his gym’s kickboxing team, and enjoys reading and cooking. 

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Six ways your smartwatch is lying to you, according to science

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Six ways your smartwatch is lying to you, according to science

You check your smartwatch after a run. Your fitness score has dropped. You’ve burnt hardly any calories. Your recovery score is really low. It’s telling you to take the next 72 hours off exercise.

The worst bit? The whole run felt amazing.

So why is your watch telling you the opposite?

Ultimately, it’s because smartwatches and other fitness trackers aren’t always accurate.

Smartwatches can shape how you exercise

Using wearable fitness technology, such as smartwatches, has been one of the top fitness trends for close to a decade. Millions of people around the world use them daily.

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These devices shape how people think about health and exercise. For example, they provide data about how many calories you’ve burnt, how fit you are, how recovered you are after exercise, and whether you’re ready to exercise again.

But your smartwatch doesn’t measure most of these metrics directly. Instead, many common metrics are estimates. In other words, they’re not as accurate as you might think.

1. Calories burned

Calorie tracking is one of the most popular features on smartwatches. However, the accuracy leaves a lot to be desired.

Wearable devices can under- or overestimate energy expenditure (often expressed as calories burned) by more than 20 per cent. These errors also vary between activities. For example, strength training, cycling and high-intensity interval training can lead to even larger errors.

This matters because people often use these numbers to guide how much they eat.

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For example, if your watch overestimates calories burned, you might think you need to eat more food than you really need, which could result in weight gain. Conversely, if your watch underestimates calories burned, it could lead you to under-eat, negatively impacting your exercise performance.

2. Step counts

Step counts are a great way to measure general physical activity, but wearables don’t capture them perfectly.

Smartwatches can under-count steps by about 10 per cent under normal exercise conditions. Activities such as pushing a pram, carrying weights, or walking with limited arm swing likely make step counts less accurate, as smartwatches rely on arm movement to register steps.

For most people, this isn’t a major problem, and step counts are still useful for tracking general activity levels. But view them as a guide, rather than a precise measure.

3. Heart rate

Smartwatches estimate your heart rate using sensors that measure changes in blood flow through the veins in your wrist.

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This method is accurate at rest or low intensities, but gets less accurate as you increase exercise intensity.

Arm movement, sweat, skin tone and how tightly you wear the watch can also impact the heart rate measure it spits out. This means the accuracy can vary between people.

This can be problematic for people who use heart rate zones to guide their training, as small errors can lead to training at the wrong intensity.

4. Sleep tracking

Almost every smartwatch on the market gives you a “sleep score” and breaks your night into stages of light, deep and REM sleep.

The gold standard for measuring sleep is polysomnography. This is a lab-based test that records brain activity. But smartwatches estimate sleep using movement and heart rate.

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This means they can detect when you’re asleep or awake reasonably well. But they are much less accurate at identifying sleep stages.

So even if your watch says you had “poor deep sleep”, this may not be the case.

5. Recovery scores

Most smartwatches track heart rate variability and use this, with your sleep score, to create a “readiness” or “recovery” score.

Heart rate variability reflects how your body responds to stress. In the lab it is measured using an electrocardiogram. But smartwatches estimate it using wrist-based sensors, which are much more prone to measurement errors.

This means most recovery metrics are based on two inaccurate measures (heart rate variability and sleep quality). This results in a metric that may not meaningfully reflect your recovery.

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As a result, if your watch says you’re not recovered, you might skip training — even if you feel good (and are actually good to go).

6. VO₂max

Most devices estimate your VO₂max — which indicates your maximal fitness. It’s the maximum amount of oxygen your body can use during exercise.

The best way to measure VO₂max involves wearing a mask to analyse the amount of oxygen you breathe in and out, to determine how much oxygen you’re using to create energy.

But your watch cannot measure oxygen use. It estimates it based on your heart rate and movement.

But smartwatches tend to overestimate VO₂max in less active people and underestimate VO₂max in fitter ones.

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This means the number on your watch may not reflect your true fitness.

What should you do?

While the data from your smartwatch is prone to errors, that doesn’t mean it is completely worthless. 

These devices still offer a way to help you track general trends over time, but you should not pay attention to daily fluctuations or specific numbers.

It’s also important you pay attention to how you feel, how you perform and how you recover. This is likely to give you even more insight than what your smartwatch says.

Hunter Bennett is a lecturer in exercise science at Adelaide University. This piece first appeared on The Conversation.

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How the 3-3-3 Rule Helped Me Stick to an Exercise Routine

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If you’ve ever started a new workout routine with the best intentions only to find yourself skipping sessions by week two, you’re not alone. I’m the type to get trapped in the same cycle of burnout, where I go hard for a couple of weeks, feel exhausted, feel guilty, and repeat. For me, what finally broke that cycle wasn’t a new gym membership or a fancy fitness app, but a simple scheduling hack: the “3-3-3 rule.” I’d seen this rule applied it to general productivity, and all the same principles can apply to your fitness habits, too. Here’s how you can use the 3-3-3 rules to structure your workouts and create a habit that sticks.

What is the 3-3-3 rule?

The 3-3-3 “rule” (or “method,” or “gentle suggestion”) is essentially a weekly workout framework built around three types of movement, each done three times per week:

  • Three strength training sessions. This includes lifting weights, bodyweight circuits, resistance bands, whatever builds muscle and challenges your body.

  • Three cardio sessions. This includes running, cycling, swimming, jump rope, a dance class—what counts as “cardio” is up for debate, but here, I think of it as anything that gets your heart pumping.

  • Three active recovery days. This includes light walking, yoga, stretching, foam rolling, and so on.

And yes, I realize this math adds up to nine intentional days of movement across a seven-day week. Here’s the thing: You do double duty some days, or skip workouts here and there, or adjust to a nine-day cycle, because the point isn’t rigid scheduling. The point is rhythm over a strict structure. For me, the 3-3-3 rule provides a sense of momentum that’s flexible enough to fit into real life, but consistent enough to actually stick to.

Why the 3-3-3 rule works for me

Before I get into how the 3-3-3 rule helped me specifically, let’s talk about why so many workout plans fall apart in the first place. I believe most of them make two classic mistakes. The first is doing too much, too soon. You go from zero to six days a week at the gym, you get burnt out, and the whole thing unravels. The second mistake is having no real structure at all—just vague intentions, like “I’ll work out when I can,” which never materializes into anything real for a lot of people.

For me, the 3-3-3 rule solves both of those problems. It gives me enough structure to build habit and momentum, but not so much intensity that my body and brain feel overwhelmed. I personally adore running, but I struggle to motivate myself to lift weights; the 3-3-3 rhythm here helped me find a middle ground between those two workouts. When I know I have three strength sessions to hit in a week (or nine-ish day cycle), I can look at my calendar and find three slots without too much drama or dread.

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There’s also plenty of breathing room built into the plan, which was the biggest game changer for me. I used to have the (toxic) thought that my rest days were wasted days, which is a mentality that led to either overtraining or complete inactivity with pretty much no middle ground.

Plus, there’s something psychologically satisfying about the number three. I know and love the rule of threes in photography, comedy, survival tips, and all over the place.

How to make a 3-3-3 workout schedule work for you

The 3-3-3 rule has a ton of wiggle room for customization. Here are some ideas for how you can approach it:


What do you think so far?

For strength days, pick a format you actually enjoy. That might be a full-body circuit, a push/pull/legs split, or a class at your gym. (Boxing, anyone?) Your focus on these days should be a progressive challenge—push yourself, yes, but don’t obliterate yourself.

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For cardio days, variety helps. Mix a longer, easier effort with a shorter, more intense session (like a 20-minute interval run). I know I’m biased, but cardio really shouldn’t feel like punishment.

For recovery days, resist the urge to “make them count” by sneaking in extra work. The whole point is to let your body consolidate the gains from your harder days. Walk, stretch, breathe, and trust the process.

Another practical tip: Pick a night to map out your 3-3-3 week ahead of time. You’ll probably find that the week arranges itself pretty naturally once you’re looking for those nine windows.

The bottom line

As always, consistency should always be your priority in fitness. If you’ve been struggling to find a rhythm, if your past workout plans have always fizzled out around week three, give the 3-3-3 rule an honest four-week try. Maybe start with a 1-1-1 month! After all, the 3-3-3 rule isn’t a hack to totally transform your physique, but I do think it can provide something way more valuable. Finding a routine that works for you—like the 3-3-3 rule works for me—is the first step to make exercise a reliable, sustainable part of your life.

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