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Happy Friday, and welcome to Inside Voices, a weekly newsletter that features a collection of ideas, perspectives and solutions from across Utah — without any of the vitriol or yelling that’s become all too common on other platforms. Subscribe here.

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We so often hear Utah referred to as a “family-friendly” state, but data can be revealing and The Tribune has shared a lot recently on some not-so-friendly trends.

For example: Child care is becoming more expensive, housing is unaffordable for people earning the median income, women face a major wage gap and parental penalties are still prevalent for many working Utahns.

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I’ve been curious about how Utah parents feel, so I asked. Here’s what you shared:

  • “Although I graduated at the top of my pre-law class, I postponed my continuing education to have children,” said Denee in Orem. “When I returned, I chose a much lower paying profession because it was more ‘child-rearing friendly’ and allowed me summers off. I have lost retirement opportunities because of it.”

  • “My wife let her guard down and married me when she was 20 years old. At the time, she worked full-time at the University of Utah. It’s now 40 years later and she continues to work full-time at the U,” said Steven in Holladay. “We have two daughters. She was forced to return to work after six weeks with each child. We couldn’t afford child care, so she felt like she had no choice but to return to work. The thing is, I have learned since, she feels like it was the most painful thing in her life that she couldn’t have more time with each child and be a full-time mother … As a male in management and executive positions, I was told to offer women less for positions because ‘they will just get pregnant and leave, and we will have to absorb the cost of recruiting and training a replacement.’ I was told to limit my recruiting efforts to women who were past child bearing years or were unmarried. We *never* held a position for a woman who took maternity leave — if we even offered it. I am ashamed that I participated in such activities.”

  • “I was an Army wife and stay-at-home mom for 22 years,” said Gina in Taylorsville. “My experience moving back to Utah, where I grew up, has been painful and difficult. Not only am I treated like I’ve never worked as I’ve entered the workforce, I question whether my age is a factor in being able to find anything that pays a living wage. I went to school for two years to get a paralegal degree and have worked as a legal assistant, one step down from a paralegal position, barely making enough.”

  • “I have a bachelor’s degree, and I would love to use it, but all jobs aren’t flexible with kids,” said Heather in Lehi. “I would love just to have 20 to 30 hours in my field, but I take low-paying, entry-level jobs because they have different hour shifts so I can take kids to and from school around their schedule. My husband doesn’t have flexibility either, so he’s not able to take part of the burden.”

  • “I knew I wanted to have a kid and started looking into my former company’s policies a year in advance,” said Rachel in South Jordan. “It’s a global company, so I was extremely disappointed to find that our locations in Europe received almost a year of time off whereas I was only offered six weeks (partial pay as it was short term disability) with an additional six weeks covered by FMLA at no pay. I fought for and championed a parental leave policy at that company (non-child-bearing partners had no allowed paid leave) and saw an incremental improvement of four weeks fully paid added to the policy — so 10 weeks of some kind of pay for a child bearing mother. I was ecstatic! Until I read the fine print and realized I wouldn’t be eligible. My baby was due in September and the policy didn’t kick in until December with no retroactive payment offered. I missed an entire month more of sanity and bonding with my child because of some inane date. I ended up going back to work after just six weeks because I am the sole provider for my family (my husband is in medical school).”

I asked the same respondents what family-friendly policy looks like to them.

  • Denee: “Parental leave with a guaranteed job when you return, an equal pay law and child care subsidies where needed.”

  • Steven: “On-site 10-hour child care or equivalent paid 100% . One-year parental leave (male and female) with guaranteed position upon return, six months paid for one parent. Universal Healthcare (for everyone) but starting with kids until 18.”

  • Gina: “Equal pay laws, maternity leave for both parents, everything people younger than me need to thrive. I also believe this state needs to do more for women my age who find themselves at the bottom after working for a lifetime to build a family. I see too many women at every age suffering in Utah.”

  • Heather: “Encouraging work from home! Flexible hours, with the ability to take an hour here or there if you make it up at other times.”

  • Rachel: “Affordable daycare, maybe based on income? Workplaces that accommodate kid schedules, drop offs, pick ups, soccer practices, etc. Company culture that doesn’t look down on a woman for leaving her career or staying and putting her kid in daycare … and parental leave/maternity leave that makes sense. The two are very different, too. Maternity leave should be considered separate from taking care of a young child because honestly you’re just trying to recover mentally and physically from a major trauma. Then you have a newborn and sleepless nights to top it all off. I honestly think the time for a childbearing mother should be a minimum of six months (sleep training doesn’t even happen until 4 months old!).”

With school fast approaching, I’d love to hear from Utah teachers about how they’re feeling. Are you an educator? Tell me whether you’ve considered leaving the profession — and why or why not.

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(Bethany Baker | The Salt Lake Tribune) Smoke rises up behind homes near the Sandhurst Fire in Salt Lake City on July 20, 2024.

  • “Thinning trees and brush can leave unsightly marks on the landscape. Prescribed burns, one of the most effective means of reducing fuel loads, can temporarily increase air pollution. Thinning projects may require heavy equipment to spend several days parked on an otherwise pristine hillside,” writes Jamie Barnes, the Utah State Forester and Director of the Utah Division of Forestry, Fire and State Lands. “These short-term impacts are necessary to reduce Utah’s wildfire risks. While a thinning project may alter the view of the mountains from your backyard, the payoff will be worth it if it reduces the damage of future wildfires.” Read more.

  • “I recently completed a driving trip to the Navajo Nation and transited Salt Lake City via the freeways,” writes Steve Wheeler, a visitor from Oregon. “I count myself lucky to have survived the experience. Salt Lake is the only city I’ve ever driven in that has so many drivers going at least 80 MPH in the city limits. And if you’re not doing 80, you’re forcing other drivers to swerve around you like they’re driving the Indy 500.” Read more.

  • “As policymakers consider ways to address concerns around privacy protections of personal data and market concentration of the large tech platforms, there is a critical need to muster up some human intelligence to craft a more nuanced, smart policy on digital advertising,” writes small business owner Lauren Spatafore. “Policymakers will best serve the public interest by avoiding the penchant for overregulating and increasing the cost of doing business for me and fellow entrepreneurs.” Read more.

  • “Utah should deregulate liquor sales,” Parker McCumber told Tribune reporter Kolbie Peterson. “Allowing private businesses to compete would drive competition and better prices. It’s time to trust adults and embrace liberty by ending state control over liquor sales.” Read more.

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(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) An empty classroom at Bonneville Elementary School, on Friday, Dec. 11, 2020.

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Are you a Utah educator? Tell me whether you’ve considered leaving the profession — and why or why not.

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Iranians in Utah, Middle East eye future after U.S. military action in Iran – KSLTV.com

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SALT LAKE CITY — Iranians in Utah said Sunday they were celebrating and grateful for U.S. military action against Iran after nearly 47 years of the Islamic Republic regime.

They expressed hope for a future that might bring greater freedom to the people of that country.

“Thank you, Mr. Trump, for helping us,” said Kathy Vazirnejad as she sat inside Persian restaurant Zaferan Café. “The 21st of March is our New Year. For our New Year’s, we do exchange presents and I think President Trump gave us the best gift as any for this year in attacking this government and killing all of those people.”

Vazirnejad moved from Iran to Utah in 1984, graduated from the University of Utah, and obtained U.S. citizenship.

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She said the regime was oppressive and “vicious.”

“They’re just a devil,” she said. “I mean, it’s a government that kills its own people.”

Though she has continued to return to Iran to visit family, she said those visits had become increasingly tense and uncertain, even though most Iranians opposed their own government.

“I have a dual citizenship, Persian passport and an American passport,” Vazirnejad explained. “It’s hard. Each time I go there to the airport, I’m showing them my Persian passport and I’m like, ‘Oh my gosh, if they see I’m very active in my social media against the government?’”

Numerous other Iranians shared similar stories of their departure from their homeland, including Ramin Arani, who once served for two years in the Iranian army at the age of 18.

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“It was right after the Iran and Iraq war and I was part of the team that was cleaning the war zone basically in terms of unexploded shells and land mines and all that,” Arani explained. “I put my life on the line for the sake of my country, although I was not treated as a first-hand citizen.”

Arani said when he left Iran, he migrated to the U.S. and graduated from the University of Utah with an engineering degree.

“Every day, I appreciate the opportunity that was provided to me,” Arani said.

He said for decades, Iranians didn’t believe the day would come when much of the Islamic Republic’s leadership would be taken out in military strikes.

“I believe we are watching history unfolding,” Arani said. “Potentially, the course of history is about to change.”

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What that change looks like exactly remains largely uncertain, though there has been much discussion about potential regime change or the Iranian people taking matters into their own hands.

“Regime change is, you know, a be-careful-what-you-wish-for,” said Amos Guiora, a University of Utah law professor and Middle East analyst with family in Israel. “I say, ‘regime change,’ I get the phrase, but how it comes about, time will tell.”

Guiora questioned how long the U.S. intended to stay involved and what the endgame truly is.

“There’s an expression in Hebrew, if I may—zbang ve’ga’mar’no—which means ‘it ends just like that’—that’s not how these things end and obviously there are political calculations,” Guiora said.

He said he feared for the potential loss of life if boots-on-the-ground are ultimately required.

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“(If) any of these things turn into a war of attrition, that would be horrible,” Guiora said.

Guiora, however, said he saw the obvious benefit of different leadership in Iran.

“You know, a shah-like Iran that would not be focused on the support of terrorist organizations and committing acts of terrorism—I think that would be a win-win for the world,” Guiora said.

Arani said if regime change does happen in Iran, he would like to see a constitutional monarchy take root like those in Great Britain and elsewhere in Europe.

“Sweden, Norway, these are all systems that are democratic, or I call them semi-democratic and they still have a monarch, which is a continuation of their culture,” Arani said.

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Arani talked of the rich and proud long history of Iran, dating back thousands of years, and he believed there is much of that to share with the world today.

“The culture of Iran that is hidden underneath the layers of history I’m talking about, it’s all about light,” Arani said. “Iranian culture, the real one I’m talking about, is all about appreciating life, not ‘death to this,’ ‘death to that.’”

Vazirnejad believed as many as “85 percent” of Iranians supported the return of the shah’s family to Iran to lead, and she predicted a future where Iran is a partner with the U.S. and Israel.

She suspected that maybe one in five Iranians who left Iran because of the regime might consider returning permanently to the country under new leadership.

“It’s going to be very good,” she said. “Hopefully, we are celebrating the New Year with (the Islamic Republic) gone and hopefully by next year, the New Year’s 21st of March, we all go back to Iran, at least to visit.”

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Utah Jazz starter Keyonte George is back but wants to be ‘cautious’ as he returns from injury

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Utah Jazz starter Keyonte George is back but wants to be ‘cautious’ as he returns from injury


George returned from a right ankle sprain that kept him out six straight games.

(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) The crowd reacts as Utah Jazz guard Keyonte George (3) hits a 3-point shot at the Delta Center this season.

Utah Jazz coach Will Hardy didn’t need to see much from his young point guard in his return.

“Making shots, missing shots, it’s not anything that’s in question for me,” Hardy said about Keyonte George. “I just want to see him exert himself physically and competitively.”

In that case, mission accomplished.

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After missing nine games in the last month with two different ankle sprains, George returned against the Pelicans on Saturday.

The Jazz lost 115-105.

George’s numbers were fine, scoring 17 points on 4-of-11 shooting in 23 minutes. But Hardy saw enough mobility from George to make him comfortable moving forward.

(Rick Egan | The Salt Lake Tribune) Utah Jazz Center Mo Bamba sits next to Keyonte George and Jazz forward Jaren Jackson Jr. on the bench in NBA action between the Utah Jazz and the New Orleans Pelicans at the Delta Center on Thursday, Feb. 26, 2026.

“I thought he made some athletic plays in small spaces. I was more concerned with his willingness to slam on the brakes,” Hardy said. “And I thought he had a couple possessions where he did, where he really pushed it athletically.

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“He’s like any player, he’s frustrated. He feels like he should have made a few more shots,” he continued. “But that’s not what I was watching.”

George was on a restriction of 20-24 minutes and he wants to be cautious in the days ahead. Utah plays Denver on Monday before heading on the road.

“Feet are the most precious thing for any athlete. So I want to make sure I feel good, not feeling off balance or nothing like that,” George said. “Just want to be cautious with the ankle injuries and stuff like that.”

But for his return, it was good enough.

“I feel like my pop was there. I didn’t want to force anything,” he finished. “I just wanted to play the game. I feel like I did a decent job tonight.”

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Reading changed these authors’ lives, now they want the same for Utah’s youth

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SALT LAKE CITY — “If you don’t think you’re a reader yet, it’s because you haven’t found the right book.”

Utah author Sara B. Larson believes there is a book out there for everyone that can make someone love reading. She and dozens of other authors gathered at StoryCon this weekend to teach and inspire young kids to love reading and writing.

“It’s hard to see the drop in literacy that has happened, but it’s also encouraging to see so many people banding together to try and combat it and help our youth,” Larson said.

StoryCon is a literature conference that brings together authors, educators, teens, tweens and everyone in between to focus on the power of literacy. Around 3,500 people flocked to the Salt Palace Convention Center for workshops on writing concepts, shopping for book merchandise, author signings, and even panels about Brandon Sanderson’s famed fantastical universe known as the Cosmere.

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Sanderson, one of the most well-known fantasy authors to come out of Utah, said writing can feel isolating because it is such a solitary activity. He attended a conference similar to StoryCon in Nebraska when he was 18, and the opportunity to connect and meet with real authors was “so invigorating.”

“It was so powerful to just have a community. So I’ve always tried to do what I can to support communities, particularly for young people,” he said.

Aspiring writers don’t need to stress about writing the perfect book immediately, Sanderson advises. While some authors get lucky, like Christopher Paolini, who wrote “Eragon” at just 14 years old, most of the time writing is about exploring genres and just improving your skills over time, he said.

Brandon Sanderson speaks to thousands of people who attended the 2026 StoryCon literacy convention at the Salt Palace Convention Center in Salt Lake City, Saturday. (Photo: Cassidy Wixom, KSL)

Sanderson himself didn’t love reading at first until between his eighth and ninth grade years.

“I went from being a C student to an A student because of books. This was partially because I found myself in the books; I had a reason to care, but your reading comprehension going up helps in all aspects of life,” he said. “Having a fluency with reading, reading for the love of it, which will just build those muscles in your brain, is extremely important.”

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Brandon Mull, author of the “Fablehaven” series, said he also didn’t like reading as a kid until he read “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe,” which made a “light go on.” He now feels he owes C.S. Lewis the credit for how his life turned out.

“When I learned to read for fun as a kid, it changed the trajectory of my life,” Mull said. “I’m a practical example of how big a difference learning to love reading can make for someone.”

Authors Sara B. Larson and Brandon Sanderson speak to StoryCon CEO Jennifer Jenkins at a meet and greet during the 2026 StoryCon literacy convention in Salt Lake City, Saturday. (Photo: Cassidy Wixom, KSL)

Mull focuses on children’s literature and said he tries to write stories that children and families can enjoy. Reading fiction helps children develop “a rich inner life,” learn how to be empathetic and develop their minds to be a place ideas can be explored.

The Utah author will soon be celebrating the 20th anniversary of his book “Fablehaven,” which will include a special illustrated edition of the beloved children’s book, a dramatized full-cast audiobook, and the premiere next year of a film based on the novel. He also will be releasing a new series this year called “Guardians” that he believes is some of his best work.

With so many things competing for kids’ attention every day, it’s crucial to teach them to read, Mull said.

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“If we don’t get kids to learn how to read a book and turn it into a story in their head, they are missing an aspect of education that makes them good consumers of information and good consumers of stories,” he said.

Larson agreed with that sentiment, saying people’s brains are being “hijacked” and getting stuck in a loop of only having a 3-second attention span because of social media. Larson has written more than eight fantasy books, including the popular “Defy” trilogy.

“This phenomenon that is happening to our kids, they are losing the ability to focus, losing the ability to even think with any sort of deep analytical process. It’s so vital to get to these kids and help them realize you have got to put down the phone and pick up a book and train yourself to focus,” she said.

There is wealth, knowledge, joy, happiness, peace and calm to be found when you put social media away and instead dive into a book, she said. Reading helps children grow up to be successful adults who can pursue goals, constantly learn and successfully contribute to society.

StoryCon CEO Jennifer Jenkins said it has been overwhelming to see the success of the event. StoryCon was created by the nonprofit Operation Literacy last year and has become the biggest literacy-focused event in Utah.

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Growing up, she felt there wasn’t a place for writers compared to athletes or dancers who always had camps and conventions, so she helped found Teen Author Boot Camp, which evolved into StoryCon.

“Kids need to know they are being taken seriously. They need to be validated and know they are being encouraged,” she said. “That’s the why behind all of this. We really want to put them before anything else. These kids are the heart of everything we do.”

The Key Takeaways for this article were generated with the assistance of large language models and reviewed by our editorial team. The article, itself, is solely human-written.



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